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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Timothy Hoecherl who was born on February 1, 1971 and passed away on September 4, 2000 as a result of a car accident.


We will remember him forever
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February 1, 2015
February 1, 2015
Happy Birthday Son! Slowly getting moved next door to Pat.Going to have to go through your stuff you left behind, know it will bring back many memories.We LOVE you & miss you everyday!!
February 1, 2015
February 1, 2015
I've been thinking a lot about you lately as friends' lives are touched by the death of a loved one. I feel for them because I still feel the pain of your death. It's not the searing, ripping pain anymore, but my soul is definitely bruised. Sometimes somebody's life bumps into mine and hits that spot, and the tears well up. I miss you and always will.
November 11, 2014
November 11, 2014
❤️I finally decided to light our wedding candle that we were saving for our first house that we owned. It's been burning now for hours, filling the whole house with LOVE! Thank you for gifting me with your love! It still remains the best part of who I am. ❤️
October 4, 2014
October 4, 2014
Today would have been our 16th anniversary. Take this flower and wait for me. I don't know how long I'll be but I'll keep loving you. <3
September 6, 2014
September 6, 2014
Another year has come & gone. It seems like you have been gone more than 14 years, & yet that morning we got the news, is always just a breath away! We miss you & will see you again one day. Love Dad & Mom
September 4, 2014
September 4, 2014
I was out at the beach last night, just like we were 14 years ago. That was our last night in each others arms. We didn't make it home to sleep in our bed on this day. A part of me is still right there in that car with you. Always will be but the strength your love gives me still gets me through the tough parts of life. Love you now and forever! Your wife <3
July 26, 2014
July 26, 2014
Wish I had you to talk to right now. Life just threw me another huge obstacle and there just isn't anyone who gives me strength the way you did. Missing you...and loving you still.
June 14, 2014
June 14, 2014
Chad called me tonight! I cried and shook and could barely talk at first. I've been trying to track him down for years but he found me first! I'm so happy we are in touch again. Somehow hearing each other's voice makes us feel closer to you. I don't think you had any idea what huge voids you would leave in us all. You were a gift from God to us all. I love you!
February 1, 2014
February 1, 2014
Happy Birthday Husband! 43 today...Sure wish I was in your arms right now making everything alright. Everything felt safer when I was with you. This year is harder for some reason. I love you now, still, forever.
February 1, 2014
February 1, 2014
Was out to the cemetery this morning, and left some tulips & daffodils to brighten up the gloomy day. Happy 14th birthday in Heaven. We miss you still & love you. Love, Mom & Dad
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
Today marks 13 years. This year is harder than others for some reason. I still love you so much and will forever. We are so lucky to have had a true, real love while you were here. It's a rare gift and most never get to experience it for even a day. You were a gift to me then and are still a gift to me now. I'm crying now...again. I miss you. Love forever, your wife, Heather. <3
September 5, 2013
September 5, 2013
I just noticed the post shows as the 5th already...must be on Texas time. :) It's still the 4th here on the coast.
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
Waking to another day, that reminds us of the length of time since you left us. A lot has happened since that day,13 years ago. Beautiful babies have been born, & are growing up too fast. Weddings also, & more loved ones have left this earth....time waits for no one. We miss you, love you still & will one day see you again! Mom & Dad XXOOXX
September 4, 2013
September 4, 2013
Was just remembering riding with you in your "cool" green maverick. Going over the roller coaster hills on Goforth Rd. Take the kids there sometimes on the ride over to Grandma's house. Wonder what they'd think of their Great Uncle. Miss you!
February 1, 2013
February 1, 2013
It's almost your birthday again. It was always frustrating that we never got to spend our birthdays together. You were always gone during those months but we made up for it and celebrated when you got home. I look forward to seeing you again in heaven so you better start planning the party now. We've got a lot of birthdays to catch up on! I love you! Happy Birthday husband!
February 1, 2013
February 1, 2013
A song by Brad Paisley came on the radio the other night called Waitin on a Woman! It made me think of you. I just know you are up there waiting patiently for me, although I'm sure you're not on a park bench...no, you're probably firing up a gorgeous new motorcycle ready for a long ride! Happy Birthday my Timothy Paul! I love you!
January 31, 2013
January 31, 2013
Tomorrow you would be 42 here on earth. We still miss you, & want you to know we all have our special memories of times we spent with you. Love you always!
Mom & Dad
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
At the end of my workday. I remember how I used to come home after a stressful day and you could make it all better. I'm not sure if it was the arrival of this date been stressed a lot and decided to leave my job. Not sure what I will do next. Wish I could talk to you about it over a quiet dinner or walk on the beach. There will never be any one like you. I love you! See you in my dreams!
September 4, 2012
September 4, 2012
In roughly 4 hours, it will be 12 years since your soul left your body. I still feel you every single day because you still live on in me. You will always be such a huge part of who I am, who I've become. I'm honored to have been your wife and your friend. I haven't been to visit the grave site but what the stone says still holds true...Until we meet again! I love you! Your Wife, Heather
September 3, 2012
September 3, 2012
Its hard to believe its been 12 years, yet it seems like yesterday we recieved the news of your passing. I miss you, I love you, and I can't wait to see you again.
September 2, 2012
September 2, 2012
Today we put 6 white roses & 6 red roses on your grave, in memory of the 12 years since you left us on September 4th, 2000. Yes, you are still loved deeply, missed deeply, time doesn't change that. Nothing can bring you back, so we are thankful for the memories we have of you, to fill the void. Loving you always, Mom & Dad
May 25, 2012
May 25, 2012
Memorial Day week-end 2012, 
Don't need a Special day to remember you.. you are thought of by so many little things in everyday living. Love & miss you!  Mom
February 1, 2012
February 1, 2012
41 today. How would we be planning to celebrate? If you had your way, the Packers would have kept up their winning streak and made it to the Superbowl. We would have had tickets for the game, painted our faces green and wore cheeseheads for the weekend. But for tonight, just a family dinner with all your favorites, yes, including Mt. Dew. Happy Birthday to my husband, then, now, always!
February 1, 2012
February 1, 2012
Cannot wait to see that big, beautiful smile and deep, blue eyes again; hear that goofy laugh again; feel the warmth of your love around me again. I know you will be there waiting, just be patient as only you can be. I love you still...now and forever. Happy Birthday sweet husband!
February 1, 2012
February 1, 2012
Happy Birthday Timothy!! This is your 11th birthday in heaven...We miss you so much. Time doesn't change that. We'll love the memories of you, as we wait for the day we will see you again.
Much love, Mom & Dad
January 28, 2012
January 28, 2012
I was thinking about you today. Every time someone starts talking about not believing in true love I think about what you and Heather have. I was reading through the candles and I looked up the quote that Heather posted on here. I never knew that you liked that movie. Its one of my favorites too.
October 5, 2011
October 5, 2011
Listening to our wedding cd. Love all the songs you chose. I still feel every word from you....
October 4, 2011
October 4, 2011
Happy Anniversary! Would have been 13 years. That's just crazy! What would our life be like today if you were still here? How old would our kids be? I found a video you made...so surreal. I miss the life we should have. I miss you. Happy Anniversary. I love you!
September 5, 2011
September 5, 2011
I'm so glad I married your sister Barbara and into your family. It has been a lesson of life and very joyous. Wish you were here to share.
September 4, 2011
September 4, 2011
I woke up with you next to me for the last time on this day 11 years ago. My heart keeps breaking. Over and over again. No matter where the rest of my life leads, I look forward only to seeing you again. I will love you forever.
September 4, 2011
September 4, 2011
You are still the only good man I have ever known. God just doesn't make them like you anymore. Being your wife was the best part of my life and I'm honored you chose me. I love you! Heather
September 4, 2011
September 4, 2011
I'm so proud to have been your big sister (one of them) and to have had a part in your life. I still hear from those who knew you and say that you were an example to them of what to strive to become. You are dearly missed.
Barb
September 4, 2011
September 4, 2011
One of ur fave movies is on. Stopping everything to watch. I love it because it reminds me of you and the line just spoken, "Death cannot stop true love, all it can do is delay it a while." That, I believe.
September 3, 2011
September 3, 2011
9/11, the day everyone remembers. So many lives lost. So
many broken hearts. So many days of raw emotions. The grief never really ends. Our 9/11 happened 11 yrs ago,when you left us. We'll ALWAYS love & miss you. MOM & Dad
September 3, 2011
September 3, 2011
Time does go on but your memory lives forever. To your family may they find comfort with the memories you left behind. I know your family loved you alot. God bless
September 3, 2011
September 3, 2011
What a blessing to have had Tim as my brother. Although I left for the Air Force when he was 2, he followed me to England and we were able to spend time together after he joined. I so miss those times and the talks, and the friendship we shared.
February 1, 2011
February 1, 2011
Happy 40th Birthday to my Husband. I love you. I wish we would have had at least one birthday together...you were always overseas for our birthday's. The miles never really mattered though, you made me feel special and loved no matter where you were. Your love shone through everything, it still does. Happy Birthday...loved you then, love you now...love you forever. Your Wife, Heather
February 1, 2011
February 1, 2011
40 years ago today, at 10:30 a.m., you came into this world & our hearts.. You have left this world, as we know it, but you will ALWAYS remain in our hearts. We love & miss you.
Mom & Dad
September 5, 2010
September 5, 2010
To a light that shines so bright. I am forever grateful that you loved my best friend so deeply. You will always be missed and never forgotten.
Love, Wendy :)
September 4, 2010
September 4, 2010
It was nice to know you Tim on this temporal land.
September 4, 2010
September 4, 2010
The life I knew ended when your's did. I will never be the same. I still love and miss you more than ever. You will live on in my heart and memory forever...until we meet again. I love you. Your Wife then, your Wife for all time. Heather
September 4, 2010
September 4, 2010
Love you and Miss you Uncle Tim. The older I get the more I wonder how much we would have had in common. You are my Hero now and Forever.
March 28, 2010
March 28, 2010
i have never seen two people more in love in my entire life~oh how tim & heather loved one another! it brings peace to my heart when i think of their eternal love. prayers & love to you both, lorie
February 9, 2010
February 9, 2010
you made us proud, you helped us laugh, you made us think. 
thank you
February 7, 2010
February 7, 2010
I have and will miss you, my husband, for all the rest of my days. You are the brightest light ever to illuminate my world and continue to illuminate my heart. I love you now and forever. Your wife.
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February 1
February 1
Happy Birthday dude! I was happy to see your Packers get beat by the 49ers a couple of weeks ago. Don’t need those bums in the Super Bowl. Haha.
Hope you’re enjoying heaven. My dad and brother joined you last year. You seem to be getting more and more friends and family up there and we’re losing em down here. I guess we’ll all be together up there some day soon. But not me yet. I still got “things to see” and “people to do” down here. Love you man! Happy 29th birthday still.
February 1
Leaving you this Happy Birthday love note on what would have been your 53rd birthday. I miss the little notes you always left for me around the house and the surprise love notes via fax that you sent to me at work. I love and miss you more as the days go by. One year closer to seeing you again. Forever, Heather
October 31, 2023
October 31, 2023
The veil is thinnest tonight, my love and I was reminded once again today at my dr appt how you still continue to give me signs of your love and still are very much caring for me. I am forever grateful for the love you showed me. I love you. One day closer. Until we meet again. Love forever, Heather.
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February 3, 2021
Life is not fair not knowing you further, but I'm sure your family thinks even more so. I pray for them as they need it on this earth. Much love, jerry

Not for Long

September 4, 2019
Tim,
It wasn’t long enough bud, but love you brother. My first love Barb, says the best of you and she helped raise you. Got to love you for that. Miss you, and the contribution you could be making today. God bless...Jerry
February 2, 2019

This was just a very warm, beautiful Spring day at RAF Woodbridge in England (1992) - a few months after Tim and I arrived (across the pond) as they say.  It was a weekend and everybody had the day off so a group of us from work got together to throw the football around, play some volleyball, bbq, hangout and enjoy the weather. 

Miss you bud! Loved our competitiveness with each other - football, motorcycles, fooseball, you name it! You were a great friend. 

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