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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Timothy LaRoy Westmoreland, he was 56, born on September 27, 1955 and passed away on February 15, 2012. We will remember him forever.

December 10, 2013
December 10, 2013
I just found this memorial site for Tim. He was such a wonderful man. Sweet and kind He has been missed so much. I know his wife and daughter they are good people and they miss him so much. It is sad that Tim's family doesn't know them, they would make a wonderful addition to the Westmoreland family. Rest in Pease my dear friend.
March 18, 2013
March 18, 2013
We had some good times in college. Tim was sort of an anomaly in this world, just a stranger passing through; he wasn’t like everyone else. Very smart, compassionate and passionate, a faithful friend, and I miss him a lot.
February 15, 2013
February 15, 2013
well, timmy...i miss u like crazy...not so much because i spent time with u as adults, but because we spent time together trying to wind our way through the hypocrisy of the church we attended...i found out more than i ever wanted to know from you, the preacher's kid and it stood me in good stead when i grew up and entered the arena for myself as a preacher's wife....u were soooo smart:)
January 22, 2013
January 22, 2013
Tim left us to soon. He was a sweetheart and I will love him forever. I was lucky enough to spend the last 4 months of his life with him, just Tim and I together, no one else, just the two of us no other family members. He left behind a life that will not be filled completely because he is in heaven and not here with me. I loved being his wife and the mother of his daughter.

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December 10, 2013
December 10, 2013
I just found this memorial site for Tim. He was such a wonderful man. Sweet and kind He has been missed so much. I know his wife and daughter they are good people and they miss him so much. It is sad that Tim's family doesn't know them, they would make a wonderful addition to the Westmoreland family. Rest in Pease my dear friend.
March 18, 2013
March 18, 2013
We had some good times in college. Tim was sort of an anomaly in this world, just a stranger passing through; he wasn’t like everyone else. Very smart, compassionate and passionate, a faithful friend, and I miss him a lot.
February 15, 2013
February 15, 2013
well, timmy...i miss u like crazy...not so much because i spent time with u as adults, but because we spent time together trying to wind our way through the hypocrisy of the church we attended...i found out more than i ever wanted to know from you, the preacher's kid and it stood me in good stead when i grew up and entered the arena for myself as a preacher's wife....u were soooo smart:)
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September 27, 2014

Well today is your birthday, you would be 59 years old. I wish you were here so we could talk and more than likely also cry about turning 60 years next year lol. I miss you so much. I love you so much.

Making Plans and Losing Family

February 17, 2013

Even though both Tim and I knew he was dieing we still made plans for the future.  We were already making plans to move back to Texas but we had problems because Tim was getting his cemo in LA, he was on a test drug and the test was being run in La and not TX but we were working with my Oncologist in Austin to see if he could give Tim the drug and we had finally got the OK for him to get the drug in Temple TX a town north of Austin.  We also were planning on going to Maryland because they had a different way of treating small cell lung cancer that Tim really wanted to look into but time was against us we ran out of it.  Before Tim found out the cancer was back,  for several months Tim really believed he had beat the cancer and he was going to be OK.  We had made so many plans for our future, where we would live and we were so happy about becoming grandparents.  Tim was going to home school his grandchildren, I could write a book on just the plans that Tim had made for his future with his grandkids and then write another book on the plans he had for just the two of us. In his plans we were going to live a long and very busy life together.  He would lay in bed at night talking to me about all these plans I couldn't even get a word in but I enjoyed just hearing him talk but about a week before I had to put him in the hospital he just stopped talking about the future and started talking about the past and things he wanted me to tell people or things he wanted me to do for him.  The day we found out his cancer was back was horrible, the worse day I believe I've ever had to go through and there was no one to turn to and ask for help.  Tim didn't tell his family everything about his health or everything about me being back in his life.  He didn't even tell them he had a daughter until right before Christmas of 2012 he knew the things he had to tell them wouldn't make them happy and that they wouldn't understand.  As he told me he would just be an enbrassment to them once again.  All he wanted to do was protect his daughter from his family, he knew I could handle whatever his family might dish out on me which I have but its been hard. Tim didn't want to die without his family knowing that he had his own family that he was proud of. Everything Tim told me that would happen with his family has come true.  He knew his family really well.  Its sad to lose a whole family and a family I found out I never really had at all.

the front stoop of church....

February 15, 2013

i have many hours in my head of sitting after church on the front steps talking with timmy about everything from soup to nuts...he was so intelligent that his questions and answers went way over my head...he used to laugh and tell me i was smart in a better way....common sense. i loved him so much and i never saw his temper either...maybe he only showed it to those he disliked? he was a lazy friend. i always had to make the calls, but they were always good talks. he outed his family to me and the way the church operated and at first i thot he was joking with me, but i found out to my dismay that he was right and wasn't even exaggerating. the things i learned years later always brought back what he told me. he had no repsect for the people in his life that lived two ways. he hated hypocrites and he separated himself from them. i've always hoped that the hypocrites in his early years and later didn't keep him from knowing the Lord. i, selfishly, want to see him again. rest easy, my friend...you were a darling man...love sue

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