Dinners with Tim
May 25, 2021
Before our wedding, Tim hosted a lobster dinner for us and the parents at his place in Roxbury. We feasted! He had a giant lobster pot going outside the building and had set up a long table, complete with flowers, bruschetta, cheeses, and sparking water with fancy citrus wedges. Even though he was also preparing dessert three flights up, and we'd cooked many meals together, he wouldn't let us help on that afternoon. He watched the pot below and trekked up and down the 3 flights of stairs for all the chairs, silverwear, glasses, linens, and all the other stuff--timed, of course, so the lobsters were cooked just right. He then cleared the whole table when we were done. That was one of many meals we shared together. Most were not nearly as fancy or involved, but all were made with the same love and generous spirit. Many had much laughter, but also memorable are those when we ate together and cried over whatever what needed crying about. Tim was like that, always open to share, the good, the great, the bad, and the very bad. It's nice to think that when we eat something made with love, Tim will come to mind. I think he'd appreciate it.