Let the memory of Todd M. be with us forever
  • 55 years old
  • Born on April 9, 1955 in Phoenix, Arizona, United States.
  • Passed away on June 4, 2010 in Cathedral City, California, United States.
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Todd M. Sand 55 years old , born on April 9, 1955 and passed away on June 4, 2010. We will remember him forever.
Posted by Thomas Van Etten on 9th April 2018
Happy Birthday dearest Todd!
Posted by Thomas Van Etten on 5th June 2017
I still miss you Todd and think of you often especially on the 7th Anniversary of your passing. Love and hugs and give same to Robert for me too.
Posted by Marina JONES on 5th June 2017
Todd, I still think of you so often. I know you are in a better place. The World is a crazy place now. So much violence. I know you and I would have many talks about it. Many sites I pass remind me of you and can still hear your voice welcoming me when I would come for our lunch dates. Love you and always will.
Posted by Irene Wingfield on 4th June 2017
Sweet Todd, I can still see your gorgeous smile and hear your beautiful voice. How I wish we could have one more happy hour in Hawaii together. Love you and miss you always....
Posted by Donald Trisdale on 10th April 2017
Without you there has never been a birthday since you left us. I love and miss u you like yesterday as you know the way I miss Barry. How two of you fade from my life at the same time I can't , nor ever accept or u derstand. However I can accept as I share with you in the darkest of your days, how many of us loved you for who you were and what you gave to us. U fought me all the way with our love. Now you know. I will always love you as so many did and still do. FOREVER Donald
Posted by Leigh Beck on 9th April 2017
Happy Birthday Todd, it's been 7 years and I still miss our funny, interesting and heartfelt talks as we rode up the 5 freeway (always in the carpool lane) on our way to and from work... I knew it was going to be a good day at the office whenever I saw your name on the crew orders. Keep the angels entertained... Your earth bound friends miss you...
Posted by Charlie Ciali on 9th April 2017
Its hard to believe you have been gone for seven years. Think of you often. Miss your friendship.
Posted by Lisa Kennedy on 9th April 2017
hallafappy birllafirthday my dear brother! I miss you
Posted by Thomas Van Etten on 9th April 2017
Happy Birthday dearest Todd. I think of you often and miss you always,. Please give Robert a kiss and hug for me. Happy Birthday!
Posted by Judy Duncan on 8th June 2016
Dearest Todd...Miss your smiling face each and every day. Was always happy to see you and especially happy to fly with you!! You are so missed. But will never be forgotten. Miss you my dear friend. May you rest in peace. Love, Judy
Posted by Vicki Coles on 5th June 2016
Dear Todd, You are truly one of my most admired colleagues at NWA. When I saw your face at check-in, I knew it was going to be a wonderful trip and your SLIC knowledge was unmatched (except maybe by Donald's). You are treasured. I hope you are at peace.
Posted by Irene Wingfield on 5th June 2016
What I wouldn't give for one more sunset cocktail with you in HNL, Todd. Always a gentlemen with a twinkle in your eye, ready to cause some mischief. You can see from these memories we all have of you, that you are stil missed---that you will ALWAYS be missed. Aloha, my darling friend...❤️❤️❤️
Posted by Thomas Van Etten on 5th June 2016
My dear Todd, it's been 6 six years since you left us. I think of you often and miss your spirit very much. You and my Robert are now together and I know that you look down at us and protect us with the other Angels.
Posted by Kevin Feagans on 4th June 2016
Hey Todd, I trust you are enjoying eternal peace and happiness. I lost my partner of 15yrs, Jim, you enjoyed his humor. Track him down and enjoy a good laugh. We miss you both...... big hug Todd.
Posted by Charlie Ciali on 4th June 2016
You are so missed. In this wold of chaos you always seemed to bring hope. Think of you often Todd and miss your friendship.
Posted by Gary Haven on 4th June 2016
Thinking of you Todd. I miss seeing your smiling face around the desert when I would see you somewhere as I did this exact day 6 years ago. I feel fortunate that I saw you that day. Just know that you touched many peoples lives including mine.
Posted by Donald Trisdale on 4th June 2016
A chill in this morning air brings loving thoughts of my lovely and dearest friend. This day is remembered because we had to say words that we never want to hear, "goodbye". Always in my heart and thoughts, and rembered this day as the day I truly lost my best friend. Love, Donald
Posted by Donald Trisdale on 11th April 2016
A day does not go by without a beautiful thought of you. Your birthday was another special day in ever lasting memories. Missing you as much as on the first day. Love you, Donald
Posted by Jean Boak on 11th April 2016
Oh my gosh my Door Todd, I still think of you so often. Each time I see Van Johnson my heart smiles. He always reminds me of you, and when I go to the dermatologist and get all the "too much sun cut out" I think.... Door Todd does not have to do this crummy stuff. But I miss you and wish I could have known you longer. I had so much fun each time we were together and we were always laughing even about CCC class. So many people miss you, and you brightened all of our hearts.
Posted by Jeannie Holmes on 11th April 2016
Dear Todd, another year and another birthday! The time goes by so quickly. I hope you know what a lasting impression you had on so many. May many blessings be bestowed on you today.
Posted by Stan Daugherty on 10th April 2016
~ Happy Birthday Blessings To You My Friend , May Gods Blessings and Peace Be with you on your special day ~
Posted by Thomas Van Etten on 10th April 2016
Happy birthday dear Todd! I know you are with my Robert so I ask that you give him a hug for me and ask him to hug you from me. I hope you are celebrating your Birthday with the Angels! I will always miss you!
Posted by Marina JONES on 10th April 2016
I miss you each day. Sometimes I wish we could just talk about life and being in our 60';s. But I know you are at peace. Miss you sweet Todd
Posted by Phyllis Moorey on 9th April 2016
Happy birthday, my darling son. Yes, you are forever missed!, so many people loved you dearly and you will never be forgotten. I wish I could hold that little red haired babe again. Love you forever and always. Your Mom.
Posted by Irene Wingfield on 6th June 2015
Happy Birthday, darling Todd. You have left a huge hole in so many hearts. I hope you know how much you are loved and missed....XOXO
Posted by Thomas Van Etten on 6th June 2015
Todd, I thought of you all day on June 4 along with my dear Robert. I know you are both in Heaven as Angels watching over Ralph and me. I miss you both and the pain of loss is still there but the love continues in my heart. Rest in peace dear Todd.
Posted by Donald Trisdale on 5th June 2015
I Try not to think in years anymore. Miss you everyday like all who loves you. I know you and Barry are near especially when the hummingbirds are near in my hot treeless desert and no wind whatsoever and the U.S. FLAG is waving while trees are still. The chimes let me know and how I love knowing. My week visit last year with a medium in upstate NY has really spirited my thoughts that you two walk with me a lot. Love you, Donald
Posted by Jean Boak on 4th June 2015
Hi My Wonderful Door-Todd, this is just as sad for me as it was 5 years ago. It does not get any easier. I know you are at peace, but we all miss you so much, and I still think of us talking about ANTS. What a crazy coo coo time that was. xxxoo lucy-jean
Posted by Phyllis Moorey on 4th June 2015
It's been five years since you left us. The ache just doesn't go away. I love you so much now and forever. Your mother.
Posted by Marina JONES on 4th June 2015
Hey sweetie, Miss you and think of you often. Peace to you always,
Posted by Jeannie Holmes on 4th June 2015
Dear Todd, just remembering your sweet smile always puts one on my face. Miss you today, as always.
Posted by Stan Daugherty on 4th June 2015
Dear Todd ~ Sending Love , Blessings and Peace To You Dear Friend ~
Posted by Richard Baldizon on 12th April 2015
Today I find myself in Narita, where I would often run into you. And we would talk about some funny Romanian words and we would laugh about them. I misses you today the most.
Posted by Corinda Gamboa on 12th April 2015
Todd you are forever missed but always in our hearts.
Posted by Irene Wingfield on 10th April 2015
See how you are still missed, Todd? I know you are having a lovely Birthday party in Heaven, but we all wish you were still with us on this earth. Happy Birthday, dear Todd...with much Aloha always, Irene
Posted by Marina JONES on 9th April 2015
Still missing you. You would have been 60 years old today and I would have had the Best Party Ever for you. I love you and think of you often. Love you, Grace :)
Posted by Phyllis Moorey on 9th April 2015
Happy birthday, my dear son. Sixty years ago I held a darling red-haired baby boy. How I wish I could hug a red-haired man. I would love to hear "hey Mom". Miss you every day!
Posted by Lisa Kennedy on 2nd November 2014
no special holiday....or event....just a place that i can see you and remember you....i miss you so much.....so very much....lillafeces...your biggest fan....i miss you my big brother
Posted by Irene Wingfield on 5th June 2014
My Sweet Todd, We just got back from a Maui vacation, and you were on my mind so many times while there. We always shared a love of Hawaii and its history. Just cannot believe are gone, my darling friend. With much Aloha to you and your wonderful spirit. Mahalo for the joy you brought into so many lives...
Posted by Donald Trisdale on 5th June 2014
Losing Barry and you in the same year was too much. I miss you both so much, and think of you both daily. I pray you two are together enjoying a free and no pain spirit of after life. My heart so ever broken over all of these events in my journey. Loving you both.
Posted by Marina JONES on 4th June 2014
Hi Todd, I can not believe it has been 4 years, Right around this time you left us and went to a happier place. I love you and miss you. I will never have a BFF like you ever again.
Posted by Phyllis Moorey on 4th June 2014
Four years since you left us. The family will be together this week- end for the wedding of Jordan and Buck. It should be a great time together but there are just too many empty spaces. Love you forever and always Your mother
Posted by Lisa Kennedy on 4th June 2014
I miss you, Todd. I really really miss you......
Posted by Anne Toombs on 10th April 2014
Happy Birthday Todd. We all miss your bright smile and your laugh.
Posted by Jordan Kennedy on 10th April 2014
Happiest of birthdays to my dear uncle stalker! We love and miss you so much! Thinking of you very often- giggling thinking about that time in New York when you slammed in front of me on your bike and I fell over. So many fun memories! Xoxo
Posted by Lisa Kennedy on 9th April 2014
Hallafappy birllafirthdayllafay brother dear!!!!! I miss you so much....lillafececes
Posted by Phyllis Moorey on 9th April 2014
Happy birthday. Wish you could celebrate all of the weddings, births and engagements. We all miss you so much. I read this the other day "sometimes memories come out of my eyes and run down my cheeks". So many memories!, Love you so much. Your momma.
Posted by Jean Boak on 9th April 2014
Hi Dear Door Todd, Now it is almost Easter, and I wish you were at Door 2 again where I met you, and we were flying to NRT today. Think of my little “ANT” buddy often, and know you are at peace. xxoo jean
Posted by Marina JONES on 9th April 2014
Hey Will, I miss you still. I think of you often. I know you knew my Uncle and he just arrived in heaven. So give him welcome hug. I wish you could be here to we could do a birthday get together like we use to. But I know you are at peace and celebrating it with Cynthia and others. I love you . Love, Grace
Posted by Paul Behrends on 25th December 2013
Each day since learning about Todd's passing away less than two weeks ago, more things come to mind almost everyday. Yesterday, I remembered more of my trip to visit his home about 90 miles from where I grew up. He showed me his high school and then took me on to the campus of the university there to give me a tour. I saw the downtown area and his home and met his mom and I think his brother all back in the mid 1970's. I remembered well his encouragement and how much I valued his friendship. I miss you now over 25 years since last seeing you. (oops .... 35 years ago ....I am terrible at math!)

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