Happy birthday, my darling son. Yes, you are forever missed!, so many people loved you dearly and you will never be forgotten. I wish I could hold that little red haired babe again. Love you forever and always. Your Mom.

Todd, I thought of you all day on June 4 along with my dear Robert. I know you are both in Heaven as Angels watching over Ralph and me. I miss you both and the pain of loss is still there but the love continues in my heart. Rest in peace dear Todd.

Happy Birthday, darling Todd. You have left a huge hole in so many hearts. I hope you know how much you are loved and missed....XOXO

I Try not to think in years anymore. Miss you everyday like all who loves you. I know you and Barry are near especially when the hummingbirds are near in my hot treeless desert and no wind whatsoever and the U.S. FLAG is waving while trees are still. The chimes let me know and how I love knowing. My week visit last year with a medium in upstate NY has really spirited my thoughts that you two walk with me a lot. Love you, Donald

Dear Todd ~ Sending Love , Blessings and Peace To You Dear Friend ~

Dear Todd, just remembering your sweet smile always puts one on my face. Miss you today, as always.

Hey sweetie, Miss you and think of you often. Peace to you always,

It's been five years since you left us. The ache just doesn't go away. I love you so much now and forever. Your mother.

Hi My Wonderful Door-Todd, this is just as sad for me as it was 5 years ago.  It does not get any easier.   I know you are at peace, but we all miss you so much, and I still think of us talking about ANTS.  What a crazy coo coo time that was.  xxxoo lucy-jean

Todd you are forever missed but always in our hearts.

Today I find myself in Narita, where I would often run into you. And we would talk about some funny Romanian words and we would laugh about them. I misses you today the most.

See how you are still missed, Todd? I know you are having a lovely Birthday party in Heaven, but we all wish you were still with us on this earth. Happy Birthday, dear Todd...with much Aloha always, Irene

Happy birthday, my dear son. Sixty years ago I held a darling red-haired baby boy. How I wish I could hug a red-haired man. I would love to hear "hey Mom". Miss you every day!

Still missing you. You would have been 60 years old today and I would have had the Best Party Ever for you. I love you and think of you often. Love you, Grace :)

no special holiday....or event....just a place that i can see you and remember you....i miss you so much.....so very much....lillafeces...your biggest fan....i miss you my big brother

Losing Barry and you in the same year was too much. I miss you both so much, and think of you both daily. I pray you two are together enjoying a free and no pain spirit of after life. My heart so ever broken over all of these events in my journey. Loving you both.

My Sweet Todd,

We just got back from a Maui vacation, and you were on my mind so many times while there. We always shared a love of Hawaii and its history. Just cannot believe are gone, my darling friend. With much Aloha to you and your wonderful spirit. Mahalo for the joy you brought into so many lives...

I miss you, Todd. I really really miss you......

Four years since you left us.
The family will be together this week- end for the wedding of Jordan and Buck. It should be a great time together but there are just too many empty spaces.
Love you forever and always    Your mother

Hi Todd, I can not believe it has been 4 years, Right around this time you left us and went to a happier place. I love you and miss you. I will never have a BFF like you ever again.

Happiest of birthdays to my dear uncle stalker! We love and miss you so much! Thinking of you very often- giggling thinking about that time in New York when you slammed in front of me on your bike and I fell over. So many fun memories!
Xoxo

Happy Birthday Todd. We all miss your bright smile and your laugh.

Hey Will, I miss you still. I think of you often. I know you knew my Uncle and he just arrived in heaven. So give him welcome hug. I wish you could be here to we could do a birthday get together like we use to. But I know you are at peace and celebrating it with Cynthia and others. I love you . Love, Grace

Hi Dear Door Todd, Now it is almost Easter, and I wish you were at Door 2 again where I met you, and we were flying to NRT today.  Think of my little “ANT” buddy often, and know you are at peace. xxoo jean

Happy birthday. Wish you could celebrate all of the weddings, births and engagements. We all miss you so much. I read this the other day "sometimes memories come out of my eyes and run down my cheeks". So many memories!, Love you so much. Your momma.

Hallafappy birllafirthdayllafay brother dear!!!!! I miss you so much....lillafececes

Each day since learning about Todd's passing away less than two weeks ago, more things come to mind almost everyday. Yesterday, I remembered more of my trip to visit his home about 90 miles from where I grew up. He showed me his high school and then took me on to the campus of the university there to give me a tour. I saw the downtown area and his home and met his mom and I think his brother all back in the mid 1970's. I remembered well his encouragement and how much I valued his friendship. I miss you now over 25 years since last seeing you. (oops .... 35 years ago ....I am terrible at math!)

Christmas Eve December 24, 2013 and it has been 3 and one half years since you left us. I think of you often, the conversations we had together. Our friendship was precious and you helped me in many ways. I still miss you and I suspect I always will. Merry Christmas dear Todd.

Miss you so much--and especially at this season. Dreamed about you last night. It involved Ames and Bob Catus and how much you two looked alike. It was a fun dream. There so many visiting this site. Shows how much you were loved and missed.

I found this website about 10 days ago. It is with a sense of sadness that I learned of Todd's passing away. We were friends during the time I attended the same university 1974-76. I then went on to teach the next year but came back to visit friends at the university (including Todd) 2 or 3 times during that school year. One time I drove down and visited Todd at his home and met some of his family (including his mother). Another time I saw him at a family member's home north of Minneapolis sometime during those years. I last saw Todd when he visited me at my grad school in Chicago in April of 1978. He is a very special friend and I deeply miss him now that he is heaven. I never forgot him and thought of him often.

Remember many Christmases flying with you. I miss you. I know you are taking good care of Cynthia. We miss her too. You both left our lives way too early

My Door Todd.....It is almost Christmas Day, and you can see how many people STILL miss you so much.    No matter how many times I look at your pictures, I miss you more each time.    The pain does not get any easier at all with all the time that has gone by so far.   Will be thinking of you all during the holidays and forever.  lucy-jean

It's been three years since you left us. There is not a day that I don't think of you. I just had a wonderful opportunity to be with all of your siblings. You would be so delighted with the newest babies and they with you. I still hear your voice and your wonderful laugh. R.I.P., beloved son.

Thinking of you, my sweet Todd. I miss you today and always and forever and need you. .I wish you were here to help me. I need your love and support. I love you today and always.
Cynthanie

Miss you so much. Think of you each day. Love you....Grace

I miss you - a lot!!!! Rest in peace until we meet again.....lillafeces

Dearest Todd....I hold this date in my heart always. I think of you often and cherish the friendship that we had. Rest In Pace dear Angel!

I love you so much uncle Todd. It seems like just yesterday that you were making us laugh in New York where you got your nickname "uncle stalker." I miss you.

Happy Birthday up there Uncle Todd. We miss you everyday. I love you so much.

Happy Birthday, son of mine. How well I remember holding that little red headed bundle of joy. Little did we appreciate how much joy you would bring to so many people. You are not forgotten! God bless you every day

Happy Birthday, Miss you. Think of you all time. You would not believe how the Sand family is growing. You can look down and see the new little nieces and nephews arriving. You loved being an Uncle. You are in my heart especially today. Love, Grace aka Marina

I love you my dear brother!

Hi Todd, I know it is the day after Christmas, and sorry I did not write yesterday. But you know ,there is never a day that goes by that you re in my heart and thoughts. I sure miss you. In remember one Christmas day, we flew and in the upperdeck on the 747-400, we secretly exchanged gifts. Did not want to include anyone else in our special moment. I could use you here right now to vent.

Merry Christmas dear Todd. You are rejoicinig with the other Angels in Heaven today. My gift to you is my memory of you now and always. Hugs and Kisses, Thomas

Miss you my sweet brother!!!! Merry Christmas!

Another Christmas Eve without you. I am remembering so many when we were all together. Such tender memories. There have been almost five thousand visits to this site. I wonder who all of these people are. I wish they would contact me so that me might share memories of you..I am looking forward to the time when we will be together again. Your loving Mother

Todd, Just spent 3 days with your Mom "DaisyMom" I call her. Had a great time. She always welcomes Harrison,and he loves her too. We always talk about "you". You would love how much we bring up some of the silly things we both remember. I miss you, and never a day goes by I do not miss you. Love Marina. aka Grace

Dear Todd: I haven't seen you since high school, but think about you often. I remember laughing as hard as I've ever laughed in my life with you. Study hall--when we were separated (jr. high) because we couldn't stop egging each other on. You wouldn't turn around--when you did, you had notebook reinforcers all over your face and glasses. I love you dear Todd.

Seeing your picture still breaks my heart and puts tears in my eyes...I hope the you can f eel all the love we all hold in our hearts for you, our Angel, Todd...

Oh man Door Todd, I guess you can tell how much everyone misses you and how much you are loved by now.   We all want you back with us, but God knows what he is doing.  He loves you more than all of us I guess.  I look at your pictures filtering through, and want to jump in every picture with you and hug you.   You are the best, and no one better to fly with and feel safe with.