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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Toluwalope Obamuyiwa, born on November 2, 1981, and passed on to glory on June 17, 2021. We will remember her forever.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
It's with a heavy heart that I am writing this aunty Tolu you suppose to be the one saying goodnight to me not the other way round, but our loss but heaven's gain, heaven gained another Angel the day you were called to glory, you will forever be missed, I cannot forget the days when I was a new mother and you will always come to show your love and helping hand, my dear Iya oko,rest on till we meet again to part no more. May God grant you eternal rest. I will forever love and cherish your memories.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
I have to write it now because holding would not change things. Tolulope,it's so unreal and totally unacceptable that you're really gone! But the Lord knows best always. You were always happy and you wanted everyonearound you to be happy. Your bright smile was the jewellery in your dressing. You had such a big and kind heart. Our loss is indeed heaven's reward. Rest on in the Lord dear sister. You are unforgettable
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Toluwalope I never thought this is going to be the end , I thought I'll see you soon only to be told you're gone . You were so selfless and always ready to help in your capacity , you are such an intelligent and success driven person. I was going to come back to thank you in person for being there during my trying time but now confined to saying that here . I am pained deeply for your demise but God understands much more than we do and one thing that I am sure of is all these things we will understand it better by and by . Rest on Toluwalope Feyikemi Obamuyiwa , sleep on till the resurrection morning .
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Such a painful exit! We will miss her adorable heart, pleasant demeanor and that infectious smiles and laughter. Easy going, full of courtesy and so friendly. Her disposition to life is inspiring. You wonder how I got these impressions even though we have never worked together. Trust an encounter with her will reveal this much. And if you have it more than once for those of us in the marketing field, you will have a book to write...Trust her colleagues will be short of space to write a deserving compendium on this amiable personality, Tolu Obamuyiwa.

May God grant the family the fortitude to bear this painful loss as she rests on till resurrection.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
Olumide Adelaja(Stanbic Bank) writes...

Such a painful exit! We will miss her adorable heart, pleasant demeanor and that infectious smiles and laughter. Easy going, full of courtesy and so friendly. Her disposition to life is inspiring. You wonder how I got these impressions even though we have never worked together. Trust an encounter with her will reveal this much. And if you have it more than once for those of us in the marketing field, you will have a book to write...Trust her colleagues will be short of space to write a deserving compendium on this amiable personality, Tolu Obamuyiwa.

May God grant the family the fortitude to bear this painful loss as she rests on till resurrection.
June 23, 2021
June 23, 2021
The news of your passing came to me as a rude shock. I'm still in shock! You are such a dedicated and humble soul. We worked together and I can testify to your high sense of commitment to duty. You gave it your all. Your very all. I recall how you looked out for my unit while on the field. Sometimes, you called to give me updates on CDL cheques. Your unit(PSG), led by Mrs Babalola was an immense blessing to my unit in the bank. Tolu, you went far and beyond. I am pained you are gone. We cannot question God who had called you at this time. Hope to see you on the resurrection morning. Rest on dear!
June 23, 2021
It was a great shock that moment I heard you were no more, my wife (Oluwafunmilayo Kinoshi) and I were driving towards home when she received the call of you passing on, I had to ask her which Tolu she was talking about, because i din't believe it could be you. You were humble, respectful and easy going. I take solace in the fact that you have seen Christ before seeing death, I believe God has a purpose to have taken you at this time and on resurrection morning, you will rise with the saints. Good night Madam Tolu.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Iyawo mi, as I fondly call you, you were a rare gem, more expensive than rubies, you were all in all Toluwalope, you were the most dedicated staff of FCMB I have ever met, you had the interest of both your employer and the customers at heart, how you were able to balance this still baffles me, this is a question I would have loved you to give an answer to, each time I send mails that concerns you, Olatoluwafikemi, your memories lingers in my heart, I remembered how hardworking and committed you were, I still remembered clearly your last words to me, you said, " Funmi, just keep smiling, put your worries behind you". You were a caring sister who wished everyone well. Your demise taught me to be nice as much as I can, so help me God. Sis, Oluwatamilore and I will really miss you, Sleep on till we meet to part no more, Rest on God's Soldier. Adieu Toluwalope!!! Earthly loss, Heaven's gain.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Iya wa o. As I use to call you. It's hard for me to believe that you are gone and am yet to recover from the shock. Looking at your picture keeps reminding me of the last discussion you had with us the children, telling us to stay connected. You are such a blessing to us. Your memory will forever be in our hearts . Sleep on our beloved Aunty Tolu.
June 22, 2021
My Mom like I fondly called you and which you were until your sudden demise.
I still cannot comprehend the news of your death.
I remembered your last conversation with me. You said "So sorry I have been off. Been trying to cope with myself. Take care, stay blessed and stay safe"
Little did I know, that would be your last words to me.
You tutored and shielded me like a mother would do to her son, Disciplined me when I erred, but was always there whenever I called on you.
My chapter in FCMB Abk cannot be concluded without mentioning the role and impact you played in my life and career.
Sweet is the memory of the righteous
Mom, I miss you and I love you but I know that you are in a better place, away from pain and struggles of life
May the Good Lord Grant you eternal rest.
Till we meet to part no more.
Adieu Mom
Adieu Toluwalope Olatiolufikemi Obamuyiwa
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Words cannot express your characters while on earth. You are such an amiable, humble and easy going person. You have touched lives while on earth and finished the race. The stories came as a shock to me and I said not again . Good night our darling Sister. May the Lord grant you an eternal rest
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Mummy I still can't believe you are gone. Your demise is a great shock to me. This is so sudden and untimely but who am I to question the UNQUESTIONABLE. I love you but God loves you more. Rest on mum
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
TolU baby mi, saw you and slept in your Abeokuta Home some years back and last in lagos when you came for my father in law's burial. Little did I know it was the time I will be meeting you.

" Emi ni Tolu baby Brother Femi o oo" my little Pet sister

What can i say but to accept the will of the almighty God the maker of all things to who we will return without any notice or warning.

SLEEP ON AND REST IN PEACE IN THE BOSSOM OF OUR LORD, HE KNOWS BEST.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Still in shock about this news. Sis Tolu was such an amazing soul tending to overly care about others. Quite engaging and wants you to be fine. Having known her since 2002 thereabout and still seeing that the comments still depicts her as being same shows she has deep routed value for people. She will be greatly missed though greatly gained by heaven. Till we meet again at the feet of Christ. Goodnight soldier
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
You will forever be missed Toluwalope. We take solace in the fact that you loved and served the Lord and you have now left us to be with him. Continue to rest in peace my sister & friend Tolu. We pray God’s comfort & strength for the family.
- TJ
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021



Tolulope my 2 in 1 (iya oko/iyawo mi), I have no words to describe the pain and shock I felt when I received the news of your sudden call to glory. I met you over two decades ago and I can still picture the way you curled next to me smiling whilst trying to make me comfortable. Your smile lights up a room, and you are kind hearted, full of wisdom and always willing to give your love/help others with no limits. Heaven has gained a soldier but I have lost a sister! Rest and sleep on darling…see you on resurrection morning where we will part no more. I will miss you dearly.

June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Sister Tolu as fondly called, you would be greatly missed by all that ever met you. You would be missed for your cheerfulness, you would be missed for your straightforwardness, and you would be missed for your kindness.

Adieu Sis Tolu.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Tolu, I am still in shock and kept hoping that it wasn't true...but as believers I anchor my hope that you have gone before us all to cheer us on and we will someday meet again. Rest well beloved daughter of Zion.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
She was my sister from another mother...a woman with a heart of gold...godly, cheerful and caring...we came very close...our families knew us to be besties...and when I was so impressed to call you to catch up just last week, I forgot to make the call...not knowing the next thing I will hear is that you have gone ahead of us to join the saints triumphant...your memory is blessed
..you will always be remembered!!!
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
It is hard for me to believe this...... Such a gentle and amiable easy going sister had gone to be with the lord. I am short of word but we know you are resting in the lord.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
I'm still finding it difficult to put my thoughts of you into writing. COVID-19 lockdown gave me the opportunity to meet this lovely woman. Aunty Tolu was so loving, cheerful and had good virtues I always wanted in myself. I usually quietly stare at her with so much admiration when she come visiting padre. Her strength, leadership trait, career achievements and cheerful vibe i so much loved.

I still don't understand how this tragedy came to be but I'm learning to accept it. I'm learning to meet people and having to lose them at some point.

You will definitely be missed but I'm sure where you are now is more beautiful than here. May your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. AMEN
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Words rarely fail me.The news of your sudden and untimely death is one of those rare moments that I was short of words.
Aunty Tolu my office mummy as I fondly called her, you were such a caring big sister that had the interest of others at heart. You supported me while I was still with FCMB, even when I left you still care and attended family functions with me. You took me like your own sister. You left without saying goodbye. Sweet is the memory of the Rightous. I’ll forever cherish the bond we had. Rest on Aunty Tolu
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
The memories of your great achievement,loving, caring, encouraging and proactive approach to issues will continue to linger on. You are a pleasant unique person to ever imagine to have gone this soon. Rest on sister and may you enjoy heavenly rewards of all your good deeds. Rest on ! Rest in peace !!
June 22, 2021
My beloved daughter and confidant Funso, you were a treasure God gave me and a beautiful soul. All we shared, planned and looked forward to.....before the angels took you to your Creator. May God be praised now and always. I thank the Almighty God for the privilege of you and giving you to me as a daughter. Everyone is touched by your presence and grace, your humility and smile, your kindness and generosity and many more of your great virtues. You lived as a real christian and live on as a saint. Daddy will keep your memory alive and take care of your Jumoke who is now my Adufe. You remain present in all I see and touch and so shall it be my dearest and blessed Funso, my daughter. Look down always from heaven to see your memory grow from a mustard seed to a giant tree where many will continue to find all you stood for - love, joy, peace, kindness, generosity, humility and fear of the Lord. Daddy will NEVER forget you Funso mi my daughter.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
What a wonderful, caring, supportive, dedicated,
humble hard-working and amazing colleague she was, I can't just believe it that a valuable asset left this sinful world so soon as the BM said Mike God took her away so that she won't miss it at the end Tolulope your death came as a surprise to me but God knows the best, you are lover of the less privileged speaks for those that needs to be elevated in life what a wonderful sis and friend you are. I pray that may the good Lord be with the family you left behind and give them to heart to bear this irreplaceable lost.
June 22, 2021
June 22, 2021
Hmmm! Still like a dream, really shocked when i received a call that you are gone,then still don't believe until I kept calling some,whyyyy the good one's die,no one to question God.. AuntyTolu we love you but God loves you most Rest on ma
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu! As you are fondly called by everyone. Still in the shock of your demise you were such a lovely sister who was always passionate about people around her
You make sure we get whatsoever we wanted during any occasion, could vividly remember your support toward my wedding...you were always ready to listen and do the needful as possible as you can..what a lovable sister you are
Padre60/35 will surely miss
Honestly words failed me
Till we meet to part no more dear sis
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
“AUNTIE TOLU” as you were fondly called, your life was full of joyous moments, very hardworking, full of energy and ideas, anytime you speak there was always wisdom. I still remember your kind of leadership attitude after assigning duties you still assist in making sure it is done perfectly.
You shall continue to live in our memories.
May God grant you eternal rest… Amen.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
My Sister in Christ at Methodist Church Nigeria ,Asero ,Abeokuta. Your departure from this world is so ,so painful, but God knows best . To the service of God , you did your best, continue to rest with your creator. Adieu Mrs Obamuyiwa
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Tolu baby!! Ever since I have known you, You are a nice and caring person. You came into this world and made your mark which is unforgettable in the life of everyone your path has crossed. Like twinkle star you came and left before we all knew it. God knows why , but we thank the almighty for your life .You will surely be missed. Rest In Peace. - From- Mrs Fem Owopetu
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
This is so so sad.I have known Tolu SINCE Finbank then FCMB,a great colleague,very hardworking..we used to share ideas and challenges.
MAY THE LORD COMFORT YOUR FAMILY

RIP DEAR GIRLFRIEND TOLU
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
I write this tribute with a heavy heart as I never thought í would have to write this even in the next 4 decades. The news of your demise came as a shock to me and I still haven't recovered. I have had to wake up in the middle of the night on several occasions to ask myself if you're dead for real! You were a loving mother, caring and protective person. I asked for a mentor and you became my mother who stood by me. This world doesn't deserve you but I didn't expect you would leave so soon. 25th June 2020 we were together inside Sacred Heart Hospital to celebrate the birth of my son whom I named after you not knowing you would not live to see him clock a year. I love you mummy but God loves you more. May Almighty God grant you eternal rest
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Indeed, it is hard to accept the death of a loved one. It is even harder to put into writing how I feel about your death Aunty Tolu. Though we have been apart for so long but you have always been on my mind and I regret not reaching out to you before death took you away.
You were such a very loving and caring soul whose infectious smile could light up a room. As a child, I remember how you use to take care of me like your little sister back in Shasha. I cannot forget in a hurry all those girlie talks and games being the only girls among several boys.I’m sorry it took your death to wake my mind up to the need to keep in touch with people we cherish. I pray your gentle soul Rest In Peace. Goodbye Aunty Tolu.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Hummmmmm.......I still find it difficult to believe u are gone, y is it that good trees doesn't still long in the bush, tears fill eyes, can't forget ur beautiful face, kind heart,gentleness, so humble, hardworking,, u left without saying goodbye, during our last discussion u promised to visit....but all I heard was ur departure, gone too soon.......we love u, MCN Asero loves u.....but our lord Jesus loves u most, rest on sis, till we meet at the bosom of our lord Jesus to depart no more.........a o pade lese Jesu ni bi ti ao oni yarawa ao rira wa............

June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Sis Tolu was a very lovely, caring and devoted child of God during her lifetime. She doesn't joke with 8am English service in our church, Methodist Church Nigeria Asero abk. Your sudden dismise in our midst us very painful but who are will to query god. Rest in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ. Bro Olajide Oguntomi
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
This is a rude shock!
Toluwalope, you were a joy and delight to be with. So sad you left too early....
But we won't render you a dirge, lamenting your demise. For triumphant saints such as you don't die;rather they depart their lowly mortal temples for the glorious immortal! Rest on dear sister and friend.....


Olawunmi & Olubunmi Olanrewaju
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
It's so hard to say goodbye, so sad to loose a gem like you. It's a sunset at dawn. Sis Tolu will be greatly missed by all of at Methodist Church Asero where she served and worship her creator. She's easy going, humble, dedicated and her impact and contribution to the growth of the church is second to none.
I believe the Angels are glad to welcome the saint triumphant back into her father's Glory.
Until we meet to part no more, adieu sister Tolu.
You came, you saw and you conquer.
May your gentle soul rest in peace.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
I got to know Tolu through her sister Bola. Her calmness and humility cannot be hidden . she loved her family and was very caring . Despite her busy work schedule she still had time for others as there is hardly any week in the office I will not hear bola talking with her on the phone. she rejoiced with me when she heard I had a baby after waiting on God for one despite her still waiting on God. Tolu you have gone to be with your maker. It is a painful one as we all prayed but in all of these I can only say IN CHRIST ALONE MY HOPE IS FOUND .
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Still can’t believe I am writing this Tolu! You were the Light, the Salt , the Sweet. You were wise, strong, sensitive to others and oh so Selfless!
Oh I wished I stayed a bit longer with you on my last visit, oh I wished! But you promised to visit Tolu!
Dance, dance, dance in the Father’s arms with Angels in attendance and Heaven standing in Ovation because you overcame by the blood of the lamb and by the word of your testimony.
Your memory is blessed and you live forever in my Heart.
Sun re o Toluwalope!!!
I can still hear your voice...
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu, you were such a sweet soul for the few years I got to know you. You touched lives while on earth. As such you showcased you were really God's instrument. I will really miss you Aunty Tolu, you are such an angel, a saint.
I will forever remember you.
May your gentle soul continue to rest with your Creator.
Adieu Saint Tolu!
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Our face to face contact was not up to 5 times, but during those contact time, I always saw the meekness and kindness in her, despite being a top notch banker, she never show-off with that; there was a time she complained about some plumbing fault in her apartment and I wasn't able to show up as promised, and after I showed up, she offered me cookies and soft drinks instead of getting mad at me, that was unlikely of an average of my clients behaviour. I pray that her soul rest in the bossom of our Lord Jesus Christ and HE will give the family the fortitude to bear the loss. Amen
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Dear Aunty Tolu,
Go well till we meet to part nomore.
God knows why it has to be now.
I cry not because your no more but because your at the verge of reaping your labours and death sticked.
will miss you.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu your death is still like a dream to us, your absent in our midst will forever be remembered, that such a super woman like u is rare, your kind hearted with full of smiles always. Your always show us that sisterly love each time we visit u, even if your not at work, U always call us Omo iyami. May your soul rest in perfect peace
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
I was so devastated when i heard about the sudden news of your demise Aunty Tolu. I cried like a baby knowing fully well that i won't see u again!!! I remembered all good times with u, who will call my baby Fasuan baby? Who will hit me on the body when i make my baby's hair and say why are u stressing this baby Jumoke? Hmmmmmm, Ile aye ile asan.... I know you are in a better place free from the pains and toilings of this world. My heart bleeds, i am pained and hurt that each time i look at your corner i wont see that cool smiles from you any more!!!! Who am i to question God!!!!!!! Journey well to the land of no return..... Till we meet again to part no more!!!!! Adieu Aunty Tolu.........
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Tolu, your death came as a shock to every member of my family. From my little encounter with you, you were so pleasant and always willing to assist others within your capabilities. My prayer is that God will grant the family you left behind the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.
We love you but God loves you more than we do. With pains in our hearts, we say good night. Sleep on beloved, till we meet at the resurrection morning.
Anthony and Cecilia Akinlotan
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
    Toluoba as u were fondly called, I still can't believe we won't be 2geda in d next 30yrs! U were such a caring friend dat has d interest of others at heart. Very humble & pleasant 2 be with. Ore mi, ur demise is a very great shock cos I was wit u on Tuesday, if I had known, would ve spent more time wit u!
   Anyways, God knows best & He knows what we don't know. Rest on dear friend till we meet again.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
It was very devastating and heart breaking when i got the news 2days ago that you were no more.It is not only hard to believe but very shocking.I am still struggling to accept the reality of the sad news....Tolu you are such a gem...so calm and cool..always smiling.I have always admired your gentleness.
Your life has been punctuated with a series of successes and great achievement. It is true you had many more projects,Professional...social and family.
However,i am conforted by the fact that you left this world knowing and Acknowledging GOD as your personal Lord .It is hard to say goodbye Toluwalope..So i prefer to say so-long.You may be gone physically but in my heart and in our hearts,yuu are still alive.
May you rest in the hands of the Lord who gives and take.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu......very calm, loving, friendly & God fearing, you were a very loving aunty only God knows why he decided call you,I will forever miss you.Till we meet again may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
It was shocking and a sad moment when I heard that Tolu died on Friday 17, June 2021.
She was such a humble and pleasant lady to everyone around her in our compound.
Even though we will miss her, but God knows why He decided to call her back 'home'.
May her soul rest in peace.
May God comfort her parents and her loved ones during these dark hours IJN.
Mr. N. Osunmuyiwa
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Toluwalope Fikemi Obamuyiwa was born in Ibadan on the 2nd of November 1981 to the family of Mr Oluyomi and Mrs Modupe Kolade.
Toluwalope attended The Polytechnic Ibadan Staff School for her primary education and then proceeded to St. Louis Grammar School, Mokola for her secondary education. Immediately afterwards, she gained admission to the Federal University of Technology, Akure where she graduated in 2006 with a Bachelors Degree in Crop, Soil and Pest Management with Honors. 
Toluwalope started her career as a National Youth Service Corps member at the Ogun State Agricultural Development Program before joining First City Monument Bank (FCMB) in 2012 where she cultivated and maintained relationships with customers. Tolu was astute and dedicated to her duties and with her high level of expertise, she rose to the position of relationship manager. 
In her personal life, Toluwalope was a devout Christian who eschewed the principles of a Christ-like life. She was committed to helping people in all spheres of life. She was an "end-to-end" caregiver, affectionate and kindhearted. She had more than enough love to give to everyone around her. She was a true friend, colleague, aunt, sister, daughter and wife. 
On June 17 2021, Tolu answered the call back home after a brief illness. She had completed her journey on earth, ran a good race, finished the course and kept the faith.
She is survived by a loving family.
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May your soul continue to rest in peace and happy posthumous birthday.
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu, This came in as a shock to us but we cannot question our Creator. My wife worked with you for few years but the impact has been forever, the humility you exhibited, the love you showed are worth emulating. The relationship extended beyond work even after my wife left FCMB, you still kept in touch and we related. I can recollect the last chat we had very early morning few months back and wunmi cant forget your last check on her two weeks ago.

Finding it hard to get  the right words to describe your person as you touched all souls you met and we thank God for the brief and impactful life you lived.

You will always be remembered.

Olumide & Olawunmi Omoniyi
June 20, 2021
Tolulope mi, Your demise is a great shock to me, I couldn't believe it, even now you will wake up because how on earth will l be writing this about you. This is suddy, unexpected and devastating. However, l give glory to God for the Glorious life you lived. Though short, very short but who can query God He owns you and He has taken you away to be with Him. All your love, respect, pleasant heart and genuineness have gone. May your soul rest in perfect peace. I and Daddy love you dearly but Jesus loves you most.

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