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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Toluwalope Obamuyiwa, born on November 2, 1981, and passed on to glory on June 17, 2021. We will remember her forever.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Madam Tolu as you were fondly called,you were a loving sister,boss and colleague,you cared for everybody so deeply.you will go the extra mile to ensure the people got what you felt they needed to have.you were a rare gem.I have learnt massively from you through your words and actions how you go about getting things rightly sorted out.The assistances you rendered during your lifetime to me can’t be easily forgotten.I cherish the little memories we had.May all your families,friends & loved ones have the fortitude to bear this irreparable loss.Rest on Aunty Tolu
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunt Tolu as you were fondly called, you were a very loving friend and sister, you cared for us so deeply. You will go the long mile to ensure the people got what you felt they needed to have. You were a rare gem. May God grant us the strength to cope with not having you around. May your soul continue to rest in peace. Sleep on my dear sister till we meet to part no more.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu , Little did I know that I won’t be able to get connected with you anymore as you said to me’’Pls keep in touch” when I left the country. You were smart, intelligent, active , disciplined , courageous and God fairing.Through my stay working at the bank I learnt from you through your words and actions how you go about getting things rightly sorted out.The assistances you rendered during your lifetime to me can’t be easily forgotten.I cherish the little memories we had.
May your gentle soul Rest In Peace. Amen 
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
The first time we met, you stopped, jumped out of your car and gave me the biggest hug
A ground lifting hug, filled with so much warmth
Your beautiful heart shining through
I was stunned, almost immobile
That level of joy was simply remarkable
If I knew your stay on earth would be this short
I would have set up a hug box outside your house
To daily experience your gentle hugs and soft words
To see you smile again.
Rest with the Angels Aunty Tolu mi
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Tolu Obamuyiwa.... Calm, nice, humble and a very friendly colleague you were. We worked together in Finbank for few years till 2012 and also bumping into one another even till early this year. Always calling me Oga mi even till the last time we saw and always with smiling faces. Death why? Continue to rest from all the worries and troubles of this world. Rest in peace dear
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
It all started like yesterday journey when we both started the journey of fcmb together.. it was smooth and nice , we all laugh, play , gist, celebrate parties together. I can't believe you will leave us So soon like that. What a painful exit . I know by now u will be resting and playing with the beautiful Angeles in heaven. Singing hallelujah, Hosanna, to the most high Lord. We all love you but God loves you more.
Adieu. Toluwalope.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Aunty T, It’s hard to put into words how I feel, Of course the natural emotions of loss and nostalgia are all over me, but there’s something else. A strange sense of frustration as I try to bring to mind her facial expressions the last time I saw her , her voice when we all spoke to her on the phone and most of all her personality, you were so down to earth and open minded, your smile was as bright as the sun. but I thank God for the life you lived and what a blessing and privilege it was to have had you as a part of our family,

If only we could have you here longer , but God knows best and I know you are resting in his bosom. You are in my heart and you will forever remain special till the end.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Hmmmmmmm Aunty Tolu, I was shocked when I got the sad news of your demises, its really a sad news, but what can we do?if we have the power to wake you up we would have done it. You were a beautiful soul, very up and doing, so generous and kind. Honestly I'm short of words, you are irreplaceable,you have left a vacuum that no one can fill. I love you Aunty Tolu, but God love you more. May God rest your soul and console us. Rest in peace ma.
June 21, 2021
The news of your death came as a shock to me but who are we to question God...

Tolu, you were such a calm, diligent, hard-working, kind and God fearing soul. Your death is so painful but we have the consolation that you are in a better place.

May your soul rest in peace Amen


June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Tolu you were an amazing young woman. You saw the good in everyone without being judgemental. You were indeed a rear gem. My entire family will truly miss you. You were my daughters advocate and your role meant a lot to us all. We love you Tolu but God loves you more. Good night my dear. Rest in peace.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Tolu as you told me to call you by name that l am old enough to be your mother. It was a shock on me to hear about your sudden death from this sinful world. I visited you on your sick bed, we chatted together with Very Rev. Father Yemi Akinlotan not knowing that would be the last time l will ever see you. My daughter in the Lord you are a great loss to our group of Padre 60/35. No more active secretary to pass information to us on the platform and no more one to call me mummy how are we to go with any celebration of any member of our dear group. Surely you will forever be missed. What do l have to say. I pray God to forgive you your short comings and grant you eternal rest at the bossom of our father Abraham. Tolu Obamuyiwa may your gentle soul rest in perfect peace. Amen Adieu dear one.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Life indeed was cut short for especially those you've left behind.
Though I really do not personally interacted with you, but the little period I've known you, you are kind and generous.
Ordinarily, we would ask why now? But God who gave u life knows the best time to demand for it.
Your departure has created a vacuum that only God can fill.
Your generosity will forever be missed.
People like u should live till old age, but who are we to question one who gave u life.
Continue to rest with the Lord, and may eternal rest grant unto you, and his perpetual light shine on you. Amen
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
I am at loss.... Still short of words... Can't fathom what really happened... You were a rare gem... Well mannered... Easy going.. Full of love... Purity personified.. Why... Why...? Kabioosi Eledumare...! We loved you in our family... The short period of knowing you felt like eternity... Very humble.. Aunty tolu.. God knows the best... Our loss is heaven’s gain.... You're at peace with the Almighty God.. Free from this world of uncertainty..! Rest on beloved... Till the resurrection day... Rest in peace aunty tolu mi.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
It is a real harsh time for me, Miss you Amazing Mum
My mother was a wonderful lady, she is strong supportive mother, who took me out of slavery and made me a King. Mum's tragic death has brought sorrow to a lot lives whom she had touched, she use everything she had to give people happiness from ends to ends....
 No words are enough to describe how much you mean to me, sweet memories we shared together. The loss is unbearable missing my precious gold.
Glory to Almighty God because know you is not mistake. The memories are sweet because she was a gem of a person, she was a kind soul and her heart so pure, IYA MI always told me there's possible in Impossible actually she's funny..... There's no one like her,but in this moment of unforeseen grief. I will stay strong. Thank you for giving me Precious Father who called you AFUNSO. Don't worry I will continue from where you stopped, I void for you that I have and always love him.
My Precious Mum rest blissfully in the gardens of heaven... Much love for you Sweet Mother
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Sister Tolu I still remember you telling me “don’t worry,we will come celebrate with you when you get married”.
The life and joy in you was sufficient to light up the room. You in a better place now sister Tolu. We love you but God loves you more. Sun re
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Hmmmmm. Still finding it difficult to comprehend that my fondly called "Mama FCMB" is gone. No one to call that anymore. Never new the fund raising for the Parish house at Ibafo and that brief visit to us and grandpa were the last time we will see physically not until last May when you spoke with my entire family on what I will tag " the progressive plan". You were so passionate about it. I cried. My sister from another mother I really cried but nothing I can do for the creator knows better than us.
I and my family will definitely miss you. I am convinced that with the good heart you heard when you were on this earth, you are with your creator.
Continue to rest in peace in the hands of the Most high.
Adieu Aburo! Adieu "Mama FCMB!! Adieu Tolu.
Sun re oooooo
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Shocked to hear about the sudden transition of our dear Tolu. She was an amiable personality, gentle at heart and full of life. She was always smiling and smiling and not one given to complaints. My family and I would miss her dearly. May her gentle soul rest in perfect peace, amen.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Mummy... You've never been an aunt to me.
Whenever I saw you, you're always armed with warm smiles and tight loving hugs, I still can't believe that I won't be getting any of that again.
The last time I was on school break, I told you about my experiences... You laughed at some, you shared your school experiences too... I was looking forward to recreating that experience...Now all I can do is relive it but God knows best.
I keep thinking about our last trip.. with daddy and Jummy... And how i thought that it would be a first of many.... I never knew that it would be the last but again.. God knows best.
Celebrations would not be the same without you planning them and cooking.
Even going to Abeokuta would feel incomplete without seeing you....
I still cannot wrap my head around this... Neither do I understand it... But beyond all I was glad I got to meet you... For this I feel blessed and privileged...
You did not die Mummy, I believe heaven was in need of angels, so God sent for you because you have such a beautiful soul.
You live on..........
Rest in peace...
Jessica Ayobami Dada.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Ha!!! My Darling Office Mummy, You left me so early like so so soon. If I was told I will be writing good night so soon I would have argued, but God knows best. Thank you for all the memories. Thank you for been there at all times. Thank you for always been ready to help. I'm really sad and still can't believe this but I take solace as I know you're with God. Mum, who would i run to in the office? Who would sing my name? Who would say Maria you have started coming late again oo watch it? Who will fight for me when I'm bullied? Who will spoil me so Bad? You were so selfless, intelligent, proactive, courageous, and always incharge. All the times I spent with you in the hospital, you would say Maria please pray for me and I assured you I was always doing so. We joked about your return to the office as I said we would be hosting a party on your return with hot ofada from itoko then you called me Olounje.God you shouldn't have left so soon. Mum we had so many unfinished plans. I guess all I have to hold on to are the sweet cherished memories you gave me.
It is well!!!
May God grant you rest and let his perpetual light shine upon you! Aunty Tolu my own office Mummy I will forever miss and Love you even in death. Till we meet to part no more GOODNIGHT MUM.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
I don't know how many times I have said to myself: "Tolu for President; Up Tolu, Up Nigeria" since I heard about your passing.
I have recollected your cheerfulness and your sweet smile over and over again.

It is hard writing a tribute to a departed loved one at all not to talk of writing one for one's 'aburo'. I am still in shock...

My prayer is that God rests your loving soul and comforts all that you left behind.

Good night coz.
(Folake Abiona Kolade)
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
You were such a precious jewel very expensive to buy. You did not just passed through but left a footprint tone seen by all. A problem solver per excellence.
You were loved for the care you showed, your gentle smile brought brightness to many faces. You have fought a good fight, you have finished the race, sleep on in the bosom of the Almighty God.
Goodnight.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
To us you are too young to die now but we can't query God He has His unique way of doing things. Your departure came as a rude shock "A sunset at Mid day" you are such a diligent, humble, hardworking and a selfless being. Your ever smiling face cannot be forgotten, I have never seen you frowning even when you are bored. It's painful to see you go but I knew heaven has received an angel in the flesh back home. My prayer is that you're in a better place of bliss, joy and peace. Farewell sister Tolu till we meet to part no more.
Mrs Adekunle
ONWARD OGS TRS CICU LTD
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Tolulope. AKA. T for Tolu. It is a very sad news when I heard that you have left this great world.However, what matters most is you seeing Jesus before the death came and took you away.We will continue to miss you.Rest in peace my dear.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Dear Tolu, I can't imagine that you're no more. Your death is a great blow that have left me devastated for days. My brief encounter with you kept revolving, what you stand for, your genuine love for mankind, respect and courteousness. Endless are the virtues that are associated with you.

You boarded the vehicle early, walk the work of christian faith lovingly and setting a pace for us to follow. Oh death where is thy sting, grave where's thy victory for our friend and sister memoirs will live forever.
June 21, 2021
June 21, 2021
Fikemi as I fondly call you, I still can't come to terms with the sad reality of your passing away. I think of you every second of the day, how could you have died? Is that how cheap death is, should it be you?. What a honest, dedicated, loyal, selfless individual you are. You're full of compassion, gentle as a dove, smart and respectful. Always quick to apologise, always grateful for every favour done for you. Your two kneels are always close to the ground to show appreciation. You're my friend, sister, confidant, financial adviser and colleague all roll into one. I was still with you 2 days before this unfortunate occurrence, I did not know I was holding your hands for the very last time, I still remember you asking me to be praying for you and I said I have prayed and still praying and God has answered. Tolu, what a generous soul you are, the love and cares of this world means nothing to you, nothing carries you away when it comes to material things. You're always contented with what you have I cannot start writing about your dedication to service, that is clear and obvious to everyone, your passion for service and dedication to duty is unparalleled, You're my right hand man, always ready to discharge any assigned duty without hesitating and always deliver error free always. Just a week before your passing, you narrated to me how God delivered you from passing away that week, I never knew that was a dress rehearsal for what was to come the following week. Still remember all the jokes we were cracking together in the hospital with your close family members. Haaa Fikemi, iku doro o. You'll forever be in my heart, I'll always cherish the beautiful times we spent together, I'll always remember your smiles. That I will miss you is an understatement, I will forever cherish your memory. Your last word was that you wanted to sleep. I say to you my friend, sleep on, rest on the Bossom of our Lord, we love you but He loves you more. Even though I still can't comprehend, I take solace in the fact that I'll see you on the resurrection morning. Journey thee well my beloved sister.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Toluwalope Fikemi Obamuyiwa, Mama T as I fondly call you. Why So Soon???

Your Demise was a rude shock to me and am yet to come to the realization that you are gone!

You were caring, brilliant, hardworking boss and always ready to help. We even had plan of visiting a customer together , I never knew you won’t go with me!

Your death has been a bitter pill for me and many others to swallow . It’s all like a dream.

The consolation is that you are resting in the bosom of the Lord.

Rest on sis, you will forever be missed and can’t be forgotten. Adieu!!!!!
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Sisto! As you're fondly called, your departure flight back home happened so fast. We enjoyed your company and we didn't want you to leave so soon but God knows best. Thank you for every minute you graced us with your presence, your love and your selfless personality. You were always there and because of you, the city you lived in, Abeokuta was one of our favorite holiday destinations. I'll miss you greatly but my consolation is that when Christ comes or calls us home, we will meet again in glory. Adieu for now, Sisto.

Mary Kolade
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
So sad that am writing this tribute to a Dear Sister/Boss/Colleague,Aunty Tolu, hmmmmm still hard to believe that you have gone, you were too good. She is a giver, Caring and brilliant,I remember what u did on my wedding day, you danced with me on Friday, while on, Saturday morning you rushed down to the hotel to be among the people that dressed for me, you also used your car to carry my friends to church and reception. You are not a party type, but with the little time, you spent, you do it with a good heart.
A o pade leti odo,
T’ ese angeli ti the
T’ o mo gara bi kristali,
Leba ite Olorun?
A o pade leti odo,
Odo didan, odo didan na,
Pel’ awon mimo leba odo,
T’ o nsan leba ite ni. We love but God loves you more than us.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
TOLULOPE OBAMUYIWA it will be really had for me to forget you. When I remember fcmb I remember you. It brings my memory to our first meeting, it was a fight dat brings us together. She is always on my neck for customers receipts. My boss always follow up on her work anytime she make request and all bcos she is very hardworking. Ogirs is really going to miss u especially reconciliation department. Rest on TOLU...
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Rest on my loveable sister we shall forever miss you still can't believe you have gone but God knows best. Rest in peace my dear sister
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Toluuuuuuuu, you were too good. I am yet to come to terms with the reality of your demise. I had that very strong feeling on Thursday morning to call you but procrastination delayed it. I possibly would have heard from someone that you had been sick and the news of your death that same night wouldn't have hit me so much.
Babe, you were always there to give a helping hand. FCMB account running was all about you. I will surely and sorely miss you. Even in death, Tolu, I love you.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
So many people complain of a small word we have got here but rather it small than do have it big and miss someone as special as you are Fikemi. I couldn't still believe it that you have gone but still believing and hoping you can still wake up Fikemi. We met for the first time at Lantoro hospital before your demise. You swept me away with your personality. Who are we to question God OBA alapadupe kabioosi.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Toluwalope Fikemi Omo Obamuyiwa, my boss , a friend , a colleague and my forever birthday mate....Never believed u would leave us so soon!!
You are ready to assist, u r the best on the job..Tolu, u will never be forgotten cos ur love n wonderful memories lingers on......
Adieu to a great woman!!!!
Matoosha cares n adore u forever n ever..
Peace ✌️ 
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
It's so sad and rude shock for me to hear your sudden departure from this sinful world toluwa as I fondly called you. The awesome 8years and half spent with you being your colleagues in FCMB was Great and alot of things were learnt from you. I have the solace that you knew God in your existence in life and presently with him rejoicing together. I pray to God Almighty to grant the entire family you left behind the fortitude to bear your irreplaceable death. Sleep and rest on my dearest friend till we meet on the resurrection day. Adieu!Adieu!!Adieu!!!.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Tolu, I don't believe you will leave us so soon.you have left a vaccum that will be difficult to fill by many. You will surely be missed.Adeiu omoluabi of our time. Rest in Peace.
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
Hmmmm. So sad that am writing this tribute to a dear sister. Your passage came as a rude shock. Our solace is that you found God and resting with Him now free from all life's woes and troubles. You were so full of life. Your laughter illuminates everyone, never a dull moment with you dear sister.
Continue to rest with your maker. May God comforts the family and all your loved ones.
Adieu dear sister.
June 19, 2021
June 19, 2021
My lovely sister oga o, just like that you flew away like a bird. Aye ma nika o. I will forever miss you. It was like a film show.Habaaa am sure it's not yet your time to leave whatever it is GOD is the Highest Magistrate. So we shall meet at the feet of JESUS CHRIST. Good night Tolu
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June 21, 2021
Toluwalope Fikemi Obamuyiwa was born in Ibadan on the 2nd of November 1981 to the family of Mr Oluyomi and Mrs Modupe Kolade.
Toluwalope attended The Polytechnic Ibadan Staff School for her primary education and then proceeded to St. Louis Grammar School, Mokola for her secondary education. Immediately afterwards, she gained admission to the Federal University of Technology, Akure where she graduated in 2006 with a Bachelors Degree in Crop, Soil and Pest Management with Honors. 
Toluwalope started her career as a National Youth Service Corps member at the Ogun State Agricultural Development Program before joining First City Monument Bank (FCMB) in 2012 where she cultivated and maintained relationships with customers. Tolu was astute and dedicated to her duties and with her high level of expertise, she rose to the position of relationship manager. 
In her personal life, Toluwalope was a devout Christian who eschewed the principles of a Christ-like life. She was committed to helping people in all spheres of life. She was an "end-to-end" caregiver, affectionate and kindhearted. She had more than enough love to give to everyone around her. She was a true friend, colleague, aunt, sister, daughter and wife. 
On June 17 2021, Tolu answered the call back home after a brief illness. She had completed her journey on earth, ran a good race, finished the course and kept the faith.
She is survived by a loving family.
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November 2, 2022
May your soul continue to rest in peace and happy posthumous birthday.
June 21, 2021
Aunty Tolu, This came in as a shock to us but we cannot question our Creator. My wife worked with you for few years but the impact has been forever, the humility you exhibited, the love you showed are worth emulating. The relationship extended beyond work even after my wife left FCMB, you still kept in touch and we related. I can recollect the last chat we had very early morning few months back and wunmi cant forget your last check on her two weeks ago.

Finding it hard to get  the right words to describe your person as you touched all souls you met and we thank God for the brief and impactful life you lived.

You will always be remembered.

Olumide & Olawunmi Omoniyi
June 20, 2021
Tolulope mi, Your demise is a great shock to me, I couldn't believe it, even now you will wake up because how on earth will l be writing this about you. This is suddy, unexpected and devastating. However, l give glory to God for the Glorious life you lived. Though short, very short but who can query God He owns you and He has taken you away to be with Him. All your love, respect, pleasant heart and genuineness have gone. May your soul rest in perfect peace. I and Daddy love you dearly but Jesus loves you most.

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