Tolu, there’s not a day that goes by without me thinking about you. I miss you so much. Keeping resting in the Lord. Until we meet at the foot of Jesus Christ.

Still feels like I will pick up my phone and hear your voice on the other side of the call. I am missing you dearly, I miss our plans for a better Nigeria. I miss your love for my family and I miss sharing my writings with you for your editorial perspectives. Guess what, Tolu, your dearest friend-your wife is still searching for answers to your whereabouts. I know your God shall be with her and the children. Sleep well, till we meet again.

Tolu, it’s been a VERY long weekend of thinking about you and what you stood for. I thought about your love for worshiping God and how you would share worship songs with me. Even though I miss you so much, I know that you’re enjoying the bosom of the Lord. I found hope in seeing you again someday in heaven. Love you and miss you ALWAYS!

Dr Tolu. Continue to rest in perfect peace.

Rest In Peace uncle. The lord knows best.

Missing you buddy. Till we meet again. It is well

Egin Tolu you will forever be in my heart. In fact to say I miss you is an understatement. You were like a blood brother to. Continue to take your peaceful rest in the bosom of your creator.

Brother it is exactly one year that I received that phone call that you have been called to Glory. It was very painful and still painful. I will forever remember your unique qualities. I pray the Almighty God continue to rest your soul in heaven. I pray the protection of the Almighty God upon your family and that God himself will be a father to your children and a husband to your wife. I pray that the Almighty God will continually meet them at the point of their needs and strengthen them always in Jesus Mighty name Amen Rest on brother Tolu

One year Remembrance of Dr Toluwaloju Ademodi;With tears in my eyes&Heavy Heart will for ever miss U!!! Dr Tolu was a Caring Loving Brother,Father,Husband, Compassionate,Diverse,Easily Forgiving,who helped &Impacted many lives.Was a Sunday School teacher,Owner-Caregiver for Disabled in his Adult Daycare Center. You already united with your late Parents,2 late Brothers,2 late Sisters and your Son.Continue to Rest in Perfect Peace since God Loves You Best!!! May the Almighty God the Greatest Comforter be with your Wife,Children and the entire Ademodi's. God is his Infinite Mercy will erase death,diseases,tragedies from the Ademodi families AMEN AMEN.

RIP daddy I love and miss you so much. If I only knew how hard life would be without you I would’ve cherished you more. I’m the emptiness I’ve ever been without you, I never thought that I’d miss you this much. I will remember you until the day I die, I will speak about you so that generations upon generations will know about you long after I am no longer. I will not allow your remembrance to fade. I’ll never forget the deep raspiness in your voice, the strong Nigerian accent even after 40 years of being in America. Your pride in being Nigerian only made me excited to tell people my given first name, you named me Toluwanimi meaning “I belong to God”, I’m so grateful for that name, but that hasn’t always been then case considering it is 10 letters long, and may be difficult for some to pronounce. Today, I’m proud of it, it’s what makes me unique so I will be forever grateful for the name. I will never forget the way you walked or might say waddled because of your knee problems, the way you walked almost reminded me of how a baby walks when they take their first steps. Your dedication and drive for your children… Out of this world, not a lot of kids are blessed with parents that would push them beyond their limits and encourage them to get out their box. You pushed each and every single one of your children to be involved in some type of activity growing up, you made sure we were constantly active in music and the sports. Although I have no athletic bone in my body, Thank you for pretending I did so that I’d feel more encouraged in doing my best on the soccer field, your love for soccer rang through me, I wanted to make you proud so I dedicated to showing off my soccer skills every game on Saturday’s. Thank you for getting me in Piano, I’ve always had a love for music so it prompted you to make me follow after my late brother T.J. Who was like Mozart’s on the keys… A God given gift, a one in a million talent that you didn’t come across often, a very loved kid and known to be remarkably intelligent in the academics and highly skilled in sports. May God rest his beautiful soul. My dad searched day and night looking for a piano instructor for me until we finally found one, an Asian lady was my first piano teacher, in one of our sessions she stormed out of the room and told my dad she couldn’t teach me because she didn’t have the patience for my inattentiveness, but that didn’t stop my dad from searching. We eventually found one and even though you couldn’t really afford the sessions you would sit and talk to my instructor bargaining the price so that my sessions could be cheaper, it’s funny thinking about it because you would always negotiate prices and most of the the time you were successful. Thank you for making me a germaphobe, because of you I wash my hands constantly and this is not because of COVID, that is just how you raised me, to be super aware of germs and how nasty some people can be. Because of you I will not go to a library without the reassurance there will be Clorox wipes so I could wipe down the computer station before I’d use it. Thank you for doing my school work for me, the days I’d feel too depressed to open my laptop you took the time out of your day to work on the assignments for me, I wish I was more appreciative of that. Thank you for praying for me, daddy prayed for me and the rest of my siblings every single morning, I will miss being awoken by your hand covered in anointing oil laid on my forehead and your prayer beginning with “Father God Almighty”. I will miss hearing you sing worship songs so loud that everyone in the apartment complex could hear you, I was told by one of your neighbors that she would hear my dad singing gospel songs and she’d just listen and enjoy. Because of you I have gratitude, I’m thankful and blessed for the little things even if it’s not much, I will be thankful for it and most importantly I will thank God for it. Because of you, I have a drive, I have a drive to make you proud. Because of you I now I have purpose, my purpose is to take care of your wife “my wife” is what you’d call her, my mother. Your life on earth was like a collection of songs featuring pain, joy, sadness, redemption, love, passion, laughter, hope, struggle, regret, resentment, kindness, forgiveness and devotion all balled up into a beautiful, normal life. You were not perfect, but no one is, everyone has their own personal triumphs and tribulations, that’s what makes each and every single one of us human, because of you I’ve accepted the fact that I am human and I will never be perfect, we make mistakes and fall down, we learn and we get right back up. I wish I showed more grace and forgiveness towards you, I wish I recognized the fact that you were a human being, and human beings were never meant to be put on this earth to be perfect. Our purpose on this planet is to get the full human experience, that’s it. Since you’ve perished from this world I am committed into being the good kid you said I was the morning of your transition.That’s it, that’s all I want to be for you, is to be a good kid. When I lost my brother T.J. It traumatized me, it was the most devastating moment in my life. I was still so young and didn’t truly understand why God had to take him so soon. As years went on the days were beginning to get easier, as time passed it made me forget how I felt when T.J. died. Now that I’ve lost my father the pain of grief has now renewed, this emotional pain feels unbearable, so much so that it exemplifies physically, I feel a heaviness in my chest, my heart pauses for a few seconds when you cross my mind, my body grows numb and my stomach aches. Your spirit lives through me now… You walk with me, you speak through me, you breathe through me, on days I feel like I can not survive this devastating grief your warmth flows through me and suddenly I’m at ease. Dad, I love you more than you could ever even imagine, ‘I love you’ is said too often, it’s no where enough to describe my deep connection and spiritual bond towards you. Thank you for giving me a life full of endless adventures and teachings. Most importantly thank you for giving me my mother, Thank you for giving me the privilege to experience T.j., Timi, Tosin, Praise and Zechariah…
Your physical human body is gone, but God gave you wings and there is no other place better than in God’s arms, you’re at rest for eternity. For that I am blessed and at peace knowing you are in a better place. I know you’ll be sending me blessings from heaven. Eshe O, I am forever grateful for your existence, Toluwaloju Oluwagbenga Ademodi, until we meet again, rest.

-Toluwanimi Faith Ademodi

We are really grieving about Tolu. Tolu was really part of us in Lagos, from his secondary school days to the time he worked with Union bank and travelled to the US. While we were all in the boarding school, Tolu was a day student at Igbobi college, and ends up after school at iso pako, to meet our father, and stays with him, jist, and eat together and closes to come home with him, both of them always talk heart to heart. Tolu is the one that will update us about what goes on while we were in school. He is so special to us. I have not come to term with his death at all, I dont think I can. To live in the heart of those who love us, is not die. While one mind tells me he is dead, another tells me he is not. My mind flashes to his image on a daily bases .We eat from same mama's pot . While he calls me Laru Laru!!, he was my Toolu! Toolu!!

Tolu was my daughter’s soccer coach. His enthusiasm was contagious. He made practice and games so much fun for the kids. We will always be grateful to him for his kindness and his time. Our condolences to Faith and the rest of his family.

Tolu and I became friends as we worked together at Rainbow. He had recently sent me a link to watch of his brother Home Going/Celebration and told me that 2 of his brothers had crossed over within 6 months. This was March 5, 2021 and we had talked several times during his break while he sat outside in his car or on a bench. I hadn't seen him in several weeks and when I heard the news I was in shock.  As Tolu would say we are from the same Motherland after he seen my DNA results.  We had our ups and down, but seen beyond that to resolve what took place.  My condolences goes out to his family and friends. Rest in Peace my friend!

Hey Tolu,
Never imagined it will be this soon. I am still trying to process it. You were quietly larger than life and I expected many more years of you. God knows best. He works His sovereign will. He is His own interpreter and only He can make it plain. Rest in perfect peace at the bosom of Jesus.

I have not been able to admit to myself that you are no longer with us. I wish this is a dream and not real. Over these past days, I have sought solace in remembering your gentle spirit, kind words, and sincere heart. I remember your encouragement to us all to love and stepping up to lead our family. I miss your absence and will miss it for many years. I know you are having fun in heaven with the Lord. For that, I'm not hopeless. Rest in peace, brother.

UNTIL WE ME AGAIN...

God only takes the best,
Every thing happen for a reason
Even if we do not agree.
The thought of never seeing you or be able to talk to you again brings tears to my eyes.
This was such a surprise, but we should never question what God has planned,
Sometime it's not meant for us to understand.
As we morn the loss of a dear and beloved friend,
We have to keep telling ourselves that we will meet again.
Ore, until we we meet again in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ.

Rest in peace.
Niyi A. Oyelola

It is with a heavy heart that I am writing this piece on the death of Dr. Tolu Ademodi. I know we can all agree that we wanted more time with him and this loss is very painful. I have known Tolu for over 50 years as my friend's brother. We all grew up together in Ondo. He was a complete gentleman, quiet but jovial. Always cracking jokes and reminding me of our childhood memories. Tolu you will be missed. We love you but God loves you more. Rest in Perfect Peace.

A Tribute To My Brother-in Law
My dearest brother Dr. Toluwaloju, writing this tribute is difficult and unbelievable. Your sudden departure created a hole in our hearts. You followed your two eldest brothers (Trailblazers) to rest in the Bosom of the Lord Jesus Christ, within 5 months apart. God have mercy and save us. Psalm 6:9 "The Lord heard our supplication; the Lord will receive our prayers." Dr.Tolu was a very kind and compassionate man. When first arrived in America, he lived with us in Highland Park for some time. Elder Tolu was a caring big uncle to my girls, who love and adore him. He was a motivator, encourager, and accommodative to friends and families. He officiated in my late husband's funeral, read his biography. He was a dedicated church worker and a Sunday school teacher. He was a devoted father and a loving husband to his virtuous wife. Rest in Perfect Peace. May God uphold the entire family-Revelation 21:3-4.
-Mrs. Tale Ademodi

Ore. The news of your departure from this earth was a ride shock to me. We cannot blame God after all He is our maker.
Rest in the bossom of the almighty.

Death, where is thy sting? You have caused too much sorrows. I didn’t believe Dr.Tolu Ademodi’s death until his wife replied to my condolence message asking if I can attend his funeral because of limited space. Let us borrow words from Daddy G.O Adeboye when his son died that God gave and God took him. Who are we to question God? May God protect his wife, children and his families. May his soul rest in perfect peace. Amen

Brother Tolu I can't stop thinking of you with tears in my eyes, it is hard to believe that you are no more. Life goes on day by day but something within our family is out of place. You were such a blessing so thoughtful. You will be missed so dearly brother. Your memories will continue to blossom in our hearts it will never fade. It has been the hardest thing to lose you at this time. I pray the Almighty God will grant you eternal rest, protect your wife and children and the entire Ademodi family. I take solace in the fact that you knew Jesus Christ as your Lord and personal saviour and served him during your sojourn here. Rest on Brother.

Hmnnn... I still can't come to terms with the news of your demise brother Tolu...It's so hard! I take solace in the fact that you are resting in the bosom of your Lord,Jesus Christ. Sleep on beloved brother till the morning. I miss you greatly!

It was a great shock when I heard about your passing. Then I remembered the word of God that says "“Write this: Blessed are the dead who die in the Lord from now on.” “Yes,” says the Spirit, “they will rest from their labor, for their deeds will follow them”" Revelations 14:13, and I was comforted. Brother Tolu was such a relatable person. He reflects his faith. Always cool, always calm, always loving. He is someone that never forgets his friends. It was a great pleasure knowing you and I believe we shall meet again at Jesus feet. May the Lord keep and strengthen the family you left behind. Rest well dear brother.

The entire members and wives of The Yoruba Club 21, Columbus, Ohio commiserate with the Ademodi family on the passing of Dr. Toluwaloju Ademodi.
You were a friend and foundation member of The Yoruba Club 21. When you left the State of Ohio and the club for better opportunities outside the State, you left an irreplaceable vacuum. Your organizational skills, cooperation and your calm approach to problem solving would be missed.

It is a painful loss to us collectively and individually. Our hopes were that you would rejoin us when you finally settled back in Columbus, that is now not the case. While our time together in the club was short, you impacted so many of us positively and you touched our lives in a special way.

How does one say a final goodbye to a noble friend? It is difficult but we are encouraged by God's promises; "And we know that all things work together for good to them who are called according to his purpose" Romans 8:28. Our prayer to the family you left behind is that God will give them the fortitude to bear the loss.
Rest In Peace.
Taiwo Osunsanya, President,
Yoruba Club 21, Columbus, Ohio

Happy heavenly birthday Toluwaloju. Rest in peace ❤️

Happy birthday today in heaven Tolu. I am still speechless, I am numb, I am heart broken. I cannot wrap my head around the fact that you’re gone..... I have to write another tribute later when I am composed. ❤️♥️❤️

Happy posthumous birthday Egin Tolu. You will forever be in my heart. Rest on.

It is really hard for me to refer to Bros Tolu in the past. The reality of his passing has not gotten deep down so its like a dream. It happened when I just started knowing and admiring you in my adulthood. Though short, the memory is strong. I thank God for your life especially that you were a man of God. Rest in peace at the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ, Bros Tolu.

My heart has been filled with grief since the sad news of your loss got to me a few days ago. Even though I continue to wonder what is happening,I realize that one cannot question God. May the Lord grant your immediate family as well as the larger family the fortitude to bear the loss. ADIEU,Rest in peace,Tolu.

Tolu. My brother, my friend. It is still very difficult for me to accept you're gone. I'm devastated. But who am I to question God. You were a kind guy since our days in Lagos, and in Detroit. You were kind to a fault. Can't forget our younger days when we used to eat together, laugh together, and share our thoughts together. You were always there for me. Can't forget how you cried when I lost my daughter Funmilayo recently. And that showed the love you had for me. Death has dealt a big blow. I know you are in a better place. You are already among the angels because you are a good man. I will miss you. I'm already missing you. Tolu, I will always miss you. May God grant you a place in Paradise. Rest in peace. It is well..

Egin Tolu was my brother's(Bukky Adefusi) bosom friend. He was such a humble, generous and compkete gentle man. I lost contact with him when he moved to America and in 2018 we connected on FB and since then we have stayed connected. Every Sunday he would call to check on me. He invited me and my husband to a zoom meeting that he organised on March 21, 2021. I never had the premonition that I would be seeing him for the last time. Egin Tolu your demise is a big blow to us but we take solace in God that one day we will meet in eternity. Sun un re o Egbon.