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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Thomas Hehir. We will remember him forever.
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
I wouldn’t be the teacher or leader I am today if I hadn’t stumbled into Tom’s class at the Ed School 21 years ago. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to learn, but his passion for disability rights and inclusion moved me and his expansive and engaging story telling hooked me immediately! Thank you Tom for reaching me and believing in me and making such a difference in so many lives. You will be missed.
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
Tom was the reason I came to teach at Harvard almost 25 years ago. That's because he trusted students. A mentee of mine, also a HGSE student, suggested to Tom that I come teach about building democratic schools. Tom called and convinced me I could both run a school and teach. (And then he included my school in his book!) I've been at HGSE ever since. (Although not still running schools). Tom would be so proud of the many students that have gone on to found their democratic schools. I loved the enthusiasm that he always showed for the work. When my daughter went to HGSE, I told her to be sure she took Tom's class. He was and is one of kind! Thank you Tom for all you gave to so many generations of students.
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
Tom had a far greater impact on my life than I could possibly have known when I studied under him. What he taught me has shaped my entire career, and I am a far better advocate for his influence. Perhaps even more important than the knowledge he imparted, he showed me the importance of doing this work with an earnest kindness that is far too uncommon in today's world. Thank you, Tom. We'll keep doing the work.
June 27, 2022
June 27, 2022
I have not seen anyone else post the story of Tom's introduction to the world of disability during his college years. Tom went to Holy Cross College in his home town of Worcester, MA. As many of you know, he volunteered to assist young people with intellectual disabilities -- part of what he did was drive the van taking them home from their daily activities. At one house the mother of the family came out to greet her son with a huge happy smile on her face. But when she embraced her son and her face was hidden from him the sadness she felt was very clearly visible to Tom. Tom spent his life helping persons with disabilities to achieve their dreams so that the tears shed for them would be tears of joy, not fear and sorrow. I love you so, Tom. Thanks for making my tears the tears of joy through all you have done for our family and for my son Joe Ford.
June 27, 2022
June 27, 2022
Tom was first my professor, my teacher. Then, Tom became my colleague as I joined the HGSE staff. And he became my office neighbor and someone I saw and spoke to daily in Gutman for years. He was such a great champion for improving the lives of people with disabilities as has been stated in these tributes, but as I reflect on it, I think Tom really improved my life and perspective through these fortunate connections I had with him. He is deeply loved and missed by all of us in the HGSE community who had the good fortune to know him.
June 26, 2022
June 26, 2022
So deeply sad that we and the we and the world lost the incomparable Tom Hehir. Tom was the reason I applied to and attended HGSE. He was a brilliant educator and policymaker who changed the education system for kids with disabilities and defined “inclusion” - what it meant and how it looked - in our country and, by proxy, around the world. The changes we’ve seen over the past 20+ years, from special ed classrooms being siloed down the hall to know having inclusive, integrated classrooms where students with and without disabilities learn alongside each other is in great thanks due to Tom and his efforts to pass the IDEA during the Clinton Administration.

Tom was humble and treated me with such respect. He didn’t care that I was a young 20-something but rather appreciated that I understood the DC ed policy world and loved talking shop (mostly about ED). People in my cohort joked that I was the ‘president of the Tom Hehir fan club’ since I took every class he offered. I considered it a badge of honor, as I tried to soak up every bit of knowledge in too short a period of time. He became one of my most trusted mentors and supported my decision to go to law school for the sole purpose of understanding disability laws for myself. (He also heard a fair amount of my complaints when I questioned whether it was the right decision.) He was such a thoughtful sounding board as I navigated my path in special ed policy, talking me through where and how to make the most impact. I think of his advice often and know it will continue guiding me in the future. 

Tom talked the talk and walked the walk. I still talk about how Tom incorporated inclusive technology into his class on creating inclusive classrooms. He presented slides at the front of the room, sent those slides out in advance for those who wanted extra time for pre-reads, made sure everyone who spoke used the microphone for amplification for those who had hearing impairments, and used a platform that allowed students to chat with instructors while class was going on (this was well before today’s technology and simultaneous chat/video functions existed). He taught us through his own actions; I think about this all the time.

I feel among the lucky to have learned from Tom as a student and friend. To Tom’s family - thank you for sharing him with us. I promise to carry forward all I have learned.
June 26, 2022
June 26, 2022
I know Tom from my time as a student in the Harvard Graduate School of Education's School Leadership program, which he led. He changed the way I think about supporting students with disabilities and gave me the tools to be an advocate for them when I left HGSE. I know he did the same for many HGSE students, and in this way, the ripples from his teaching have impacted thousands of young people.
In addition to the knowledge and passion he passed on, he was also just an amazing person - always available to listen, warm and caring, and fun. Tom could light up a room with his infectious energy. I'm sad to know that he is no longer with us, but grateful to have had the opportunity to know and work with such an amazing person. If there is a role model for how to live one's life with joy while making a positive impact on others, it is him. Thank you Tom. You are missed.
June 26, 2022
June 26, 2022
From Bill Henderson:

Tom Hehir was a champion for persons with disabilities. He was also a good friend.

In the early years of inclusion at the Henderson School in Boston, Tom became Assistant Secretary of Special Education for the entire country. As a national leader, he facilitated many connections for our school, and he drafted policies which enhanced our efforts. Once he became a professor at Harvard University, Tom continued to support our school significantly with his many classes and interns, his ongoing research, and his frequent visits. Tom truly enjoyed being around children and adults with disabilities. I fondly recall how comfortably he fit in as the only sighted individual at a banquet for the blind.

Over the years, Tom and I shared many stories about loved ones and family members. We did talk a great deal about education, but we also relished discussing experiences with gardening. Although our views on politics and sports were quite similar, we did sometimes engage in friendly debates. We definitely had fun hiking, swimming and sharing meals together.

Tom Hehir will be missed. We should keep his passion for life and for inclusion glowing.

Bill Henderson 

June 26, 2022
June 26, 2022
I first met Tom when he came to Chicago 40 years ago to lead special education for the school district. I was then with the Office for Civil Rights and quickly jumped ship when offered the opportunity to work for Tom. For the next 2.5 years, we had lunch together nearly every day as he regaled me with his stories of the day and plans for the future. Tom led Chicago's move toward more inclusive education for students with disabilities, overcoming Union resistence, special education private school hostitility, and vocal naysayers. When he left for his first teaching stint at Harvard, we were on a clear inclusivity path. Tom never steered from this path for the rest of his life, leaving a trail for others to follow that was less perilous and full of promise. Love ya Tom - forever and to the moon and beyond.
June 25, 2022
June 25, 2022
He had the biggest smile and gave everything to his students. He was my mentor, my favorite professor, and my friend. He told me I could change the world and I believed him. He was a fierce advocate and each time I fight for a student I hear his voice in my head. The world feels smaller and darker today. I will miss him and I send his family and friends my deepest condolences. He leaves a legacy that his students can only hope to strive for. Rest In Peace Professor- rest assured that you and your words will not be forgotten.
Fatema Dariani Keenan
June 24, 2022
June 24, 2022
I’ll never forget how Tom warmly reached out to me before I started my Ph.D. & offered me the incredible opportunity to teach and work with him for several years. He was a giant for improving the lives of people with disabilities and I learned so much from him.

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June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
I wouldn’t be the teacher or leader I am today if I hadn’t stumbled into Tom’s class at the Ed School 21 years ago. I wasn’t sure what I wanted to learn, but his passion for disability rights and inclusion moved me and his expansive and engaging story telling hooked me immediately! Thank you Tom for reaching me and believing in me and making such a difference in so many lives. You will be missed.
June 28, 2022
June 28, 2022
Tom was the reason I came to teach at Harvard almost 25 years ago. That's because he trusted students. A mentee of mine, also a HGSE student, suggested to Tom that I come teach about building democratic schools. Tom called and convinced me I could both run a school and teach. (And then he included my school in his book!) I've been at HGSE ever since. (Although not still running schools). Tom would be so proud of the many students that have gone on to found their democratic schools. I loved the enthusiasm that he always showed for the work. When my daughter went to HGSE, I told her to be sure she took Tom's class. He was and is one of kind! Thank you Tom for all you gave to so many generations of students.
His Life

Obituary

June 25, 2022
(February 2, 1950 – June 22, 2022)

Dr. Thomas Francis Hehir died on June 22nd from ALS at the age of 72. The special education expert and professor was a leading advocate for the rights of the disabled.

Tom was born on February 2, 1950, in Worcester, Massachusetts, into a large and loving extended family. He was the middle of three brothers born to Elizabeth (née Hussey) and Leo Hehir.

After being educated in the Worcester Public School system, Tom attended The College of the Holy Cross. While there, Tom began volunteering to help kids with intellectual disabilities. After graduating from college in 1972, Tom attended Syracuse University where he received a graduate fellowship and earned a Master’s degree.

From 1973 to 1987, Tom worked as a teacher and as an administrator focusing on special
education. This included his work with the Boston Public Schools, where he was named
Director of Special Education for the entire district.

From 1987 to 1990, Tom returned to graduate school earning his Ed.D at Harvard in
Administration and Social Policy. Tom was awarded for his work with a Dissertation Of The Year Award from the American Education Research Association.

In 1990, Tom moved to Chicago where he served as associate superintendent, primarily
working on issues of special education, as well as gifted and talented programming, and
all student support services. During his tenure in Chicago, the district was able to reach a much higher level of compliance with IDEA (Individuals with Disabilities Education Act).

In 1993 Tom was asked by the Clinton administration to join the US Department of
Education. Tom was appointed to serve as director of the Office of Special Education Programs (OSEP), where he served from 1993 to 1999. He helped oversee the reauthorization of IDEA in 1997, which ensured children with special needs would gain access to a general curriculum and high quality education programs.

At the end of the Clinton presidency, Tom returned to Harvard’s Graduate School of Education to teach on school leadership and federal policy, as well as study and write about special education in the reform movement, due process, and least restrictive environment issues. Throughout his 19 years, during which he was named the Silvana and Christopher Pascucci Professor of Practice in Learning Differences, Tom instructed thousands of Harvard graduates — teachers, principals, superintendents, and policymakers — on the importance of implementing meaningful inclusive education. Tom was beloved by his students and remained close with many of them after retirement.

Throughout a storied career, Tom Hehir made an incalculable impact on the life of students with disabilities, their parents, and the educators who serve them. For his work, he received countless awards and recognition including the Martha H. Ziegler Founder’s Award. The Ziegler award is given to individuals who have had a tremendous impact in improving the quality of life or children and students with special needs. Tom also was a dedicated trustee for Perkins School for the Blind.

In his personal life, Tom loved being with people and being active. Tom developed close
relationships wherever he went and enjoyed spending time with friends and his large extended family. He split time between Boston and Maine and loved to garden, ski, and hike with his dogs. Ever a teacher, Tom was proud that he taught generations of Hehir’s how to ski.

Tom was also a proud gay man, coming out in 1976, becoming an openly gay appointee in the
Clinton administration, and getting married to his husband, Danny, in 2022. Tom played an
active role in Boston’s gay community and was a leading member of the Boston Gay and
Lesbian School Workers and its political activism beginning in the 1970’s. Later in life, Tom found an accepting community among the congregation of Old South Church.

In the fall of 2020, Tom was diagnosed with ALS. Like everything else he did in life, Tom
approached his disease with vigor – researching the disease, getting involved in clinical trials, and becoming part of the ALS community. After a career of advocating on behalf of those with disabilities, Tom became disabled, himself. He admirably confronted the disease as he progressively lost his mobility and speech. However, Tom never lost his ability to make those around him feel special and loved.

Tom is survived by his husband, Daniel Morabito, and his brothers, Richard (Marilyn Shelleman) and Michael (Susan). He is also survived by his nieces and nephews: Theresa; Daniel (Susan); David (Amanda Shillingford); Thomas (Lindsey Stuart); and Kristin (David Chao). Further, Tom leaves behind cousins whom he considers siblings: Sally St. John (David), Frances Carrigan (William), Martha Wally (Robert), Joanne Frew (Gerard), and Patricia Hackett (John). Finally, he is survived by many loving cousins and grand nieces and nephews.

The family is planning a Memorial Service Tuesday June 28th at 1:00PM. The service will be held at Old South Church located at 645 Boylston St., Boston. For those who cannot attend, the service will be streamed (https://vimeo.com/event/2236610).

In lieu of flowers, the family suggests a contribution to one of the organizations Tom supported including: MGH’s Healey Center for ALS, Compassionate Care ALS, and Perkins School for the Blind.

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He was one of a Kind

June 24, 2022
Words cannot express how deeply saddened I am of the passing of Thomas Heihr. He was a man whose wisdom spread like fire across IEP meetings, lectures and the world.  He believed in  Equality and educating those with disabilities in a inclusive setting and taught all to never give up.  He believed!!! 

His contributions to communities across the country will never be forgotten and his knowledge and wisdom eternal lessons. 

Thank you Professor Heihr may you Rest In Peace knowing you have indeed left a legacy behind eternally

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