Words fall short. Dzingai had a larger than life heart, and soul. He was a tower of kindness, ready to share, guide with his knowledge. I knew him from Airforce days in Chegutu. Emigrated to UK in the 90’s kept in touch. I grew professionally and in life, as I never would have without his mentoring and generosity of his soul. RIP GOD’S BEST.

I am really shocked to hear this sad news. I worked with Tonderai at the BEH-Chase farm for over 15 years. Tonderai was an exceptional work colleague. It was so pleasant to work with him. Always in a good mood, positive and very professional. He really had a way with people. Everyone loved him. He was laughing all the time. Thinking of Tonderai, we immediately see his beautiful smile. He was both a valued colleague and a truly kind person. There are some people that make work worth it on the dreariest of days—that was Tonderai. Rest in peace Papa!!!

Such a genuine and compassionate nurse, leader and man. Your smile was infectious and your impact on BEH will last a lifetime, thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom.

Tonderai will be deeply missed by all whom who had the privilege and pleasure of meeting and working along side him. He was such a calm and compassionate man. My sincerest condolences to the Dzingai family.
May his beautiful soul rest in eternal peace.

I worked with Tonderai on Sage ward up until my retirement. It is rare to meet such a compassionate, caring and thoughtful colleague. At the time we had a great team - we used to call it the 'dream team' - and Tonderai was a core member, a pleasure to work with. He will be greatly missed by both staff and patients. I wish his family strength and happy memories.

Such sad news. Tonderai was a great ward manager and had a lovely relationship with staff and patients. It was an absolute pleasure working with him. Sending all my love to his family and friends.

Dear Tonderai, you are one of the kindest people i've had the pleasure to meet, you always made time to speak even when you were busy. You always had time to make funny jokes and lift everyones mood with your smile. You are such a inspiration to us all.
May your gentle soul rest in peace.

Dear Tonderai, It was heartbreaking to hear that you are no longer with us. It will not be the same going to Cardamom ward without your presence. Always smiling, kind, caring and supportive...you will be sorely missed and your memories forever cherished. May your soul rest in peace.

Paps
My journey with you started the day I Interviewed you for your first appointment at the North London Forensic Service. I got to know you as a colleague, a friend and a brother. You remained humble and down to earth as you progressed in your career. What struck me most was your kindness and generosity. Always willing to help others and never asking for anything in return. You were indeed our PAPA. I have no words to describe how gut wrenching a loss this is to me personally. May your soul rest in eternal peace

Tonderai I still can’t quite take in that such a beautiful soul as yours has left us so soon. It’s still sinking in. You had such an impact on so many and your smile will never be forgotten. Your love and compassion for all is such an example to strive for. I will always remember how kind you were to me, how you encouraged me and went out of your way to always check in on how I was. My heart is with your family and friends, we may have lost you too soon but I know heaven has received one more angel. Till we meet again x

To read the message that you had passed was such a shock and heart wrenching.  What a man!! , a noble upright, and gentleman. A man with such a gentle compassionat soul. Death has robbed us. Death's sting is so deep but one thing for we have this blessed hope that grave will not be victorious in holding forever for God himself will busrt your grave open and we will see you again very soon. Meanwhile rest well gentle giant. To mbuya and the boys and the entire Dzingai family and friends my deepest sincerest heartfelt condolences to you. 

Tonderai , although I have never worked on the same ward as you , I have known you for many years when we both worked together in what was a small part of the Trust called forensics . I always wondered why you were called Papa ? The massages that family, friends have written before me highlights in bold lights why you were called Papa , words like boss , gentleman, kind , gracious , the loss felt , People described your smile , laughter, confidant, leader , humble . These are things that people describe a loved member of family, a wise person who people seek for advice from . You were that man . I cannot add anymore to the description other than this , your kindness to others, and the ability to carry on when times have been tough with the same coolness and smile is an example to us all.
God and the angles will have accepted you , I ask them to bless your family and friends.
RIP PAPA
From Paul Duff and family

My heartfelt condolences to the family of our dear friend and colleague - Papa Tonderai who on 5th February 2021 sadly departed this sinful world and was called home. Death took the body, God took the soul, our minds hold the memories, our hearts keep the love and our faiths let us know that one day we will meet again. Rest in the bosom of our Lord Jesus Christ until we meet and part no more. As we cannot turn the hands of the clock back, let us celebrate the brief time he spent with us. Many people has attested to how humble, dedicated, selfless, ....... (the list goes on)he was. I want us to ponder for a second on this “what will people say about me after I have gone?” Though he was firm and fair, he showed us all the practical meaning of love, dedication, selfless, and servant leadership at its best. Adieu my dear friend. Rest in perfect peace.

To the Dzingayi families we are with you in prayers.

What a lovely man with such great compassion. I enjoyed working with you at Chase Farm and am so sorry that this cruel illness has taken you far too soon.

May the souls of the faithful departed rest in peace.

Tonderai
Our NLFS falling Hero
We wish we could see you one more time walking through the door as we struggle with the heartache that we lost you day’s will pass and turn into years but we will forever remember you with silent tears bye bye bye ooo
RIP

Aunty Rebecca , Tinashe , Daniel , the rest of the family and friends I pray for God to comfort you all during this difficult time .Am still in shock , am heart is broken ,cant believe you are gone . I will miss you soo much dad . I will always remember everything that you taught me , your constructive advise . You were so full of love and your heart was big enough to accommodate all. Your warm bright smile. You motivated me in every way possible through your words, hard work , consistency and selflessness. You were a great leader and a loving father. I will miss you soo much . May your Loving Soul Rest In Peace . Forever in my heart till we meet again .

What can I say Tonderai, dance with angels till we meet again. So sad, may your family find peace and strength. Rest in peace Tonderai .

Tonderai I still cannot believe you have departed to go and be with your maker. You were a true and sincere friend. You always made the time to check on your friends now and then, encourage and give sound advice. We shared both joys and misfortunes. You will be sorely missed. Rest in perfect peace my friend. To the Dzingai family please accept my heartfelt condolences on the passing of your loved one. Rebecca, Tinashe & Daniel I pray that God Himself will heal your pain.

Words fail me.
I'm numb and in shock. Tonderai, I celebrate you. From my early days at NLFS to the day I left Cardamom ward, you remained a loyal friend. I haven't seen you in a very long time but your infectious smile is one thing I will never forget. Thank you for making a lasting impact in my life and career. You left us too soon but your legacy lives on. Rest in eternal peace my dear friend and mentor.

I pray that your beloved family finds peace and strength to carry on.

It is so sad that you left so soon l couldn't believe.My heart beat and feels painful.
Tanderia you have gone with your loving good heart and smiling face
You were such a person l would ever remember when i first came in cardamom ward for first time for my practical placemènt the way you received me and treated me throughout my time spend there, i would never forget
You were such a good ward manager in Forestice ward that NHS have missed.
May your soul rest in the boson of thy Lord till we meet again were there is no death no more.
My prayer goes to your family you left behind.
Rest in peace
Rest in peace in perfect peace.

To Tonderai's wife, family and friends. We pray for your peace and comfort at this difficult time and offer our condolences to you all. We had the privilege to know Dzingai from Zim and particularly during his time of service in the Airforce of Zimbabwe and kept in touch even after we moved to the UK.
His friendly persona and gentle soul will always be in our hearts. RIP comrade. Khoza Family.

What a loss! Gone way too soon Tonderai. I will miss your warm and infectious smile. Sitting in your office chatting and you giving me advice. The impact you have made is vast, we thank you for your great service, your hard work and kindness to all. You will be sorely missed!! Rest in perfect Peace, Tonderai.

Tonderai you touched the hearts of everyone with your smile. Your approach to everything was with a natural calmness.In those long years we worked together you gave to me much more than I could ever give to you, yet side by side we always stood together with unity and trust. RIP Papa, it was an honour to know you.

Dear Tonderai, I can not believe that I will never see you in your office, always busy talking to staff and patients. You have always had time for everyone. Cardamom will never be the same without you. I will miss you dearly and will always remember your smile. My deepest condolences to the family.

So sorry you are gone too soon. You will be miss dearly by many. Heaven has gain an Angel, sleep on and be at peace.

Dearest Tonderi.... I am deeply saddened at the news of your untimely death. You were a kind, humble, gentle man. I had the honour of being one of your work colleagues and you were always an absolute pleasure to work with. Thankyou for looking after my precious daughter Robyn. Who briefly worked on Cardamom Ward with you. She too is devastated by your passing. RIP...May you rest in perfect peace. X

Babamunini Tonde, I'm short of words! You will be missed for your kindness, gentleness and the love you showed everyone you came across. Thank you for always being encouraging and supportive. May you Rest in Peace!

Mai Stella (aka Gules)

We studied together many years ago, and as fate had it we met again through family ties.

You were our big brother, our role model when we needed one. Always cheerful, calm and focused on the important things in life. You left an imprint on our lives that perhaps you never realised, 'Bla dzi'. May your soul rest in eternal peace.

Tonderai- a colleague, friend & “brother in law”. You left us too soon. Papa you changed the world of nursing by setting an unprecedented example. Your hard work, kindness, smile & ability to handle others will be exceeded by none. Can’t believe that we won’t be able to have those early morning conversations in the NLF S car park again. Rest in peace Papa.

You were such a kind and good person and i am lucky to have known you. You're greatly missed.

RIP Papa

Papa we have worked together for a long time from Camlet1. Very out going & full of life . Cherished your pieces of advice. Very jovial & I made you laugh a lot with my dancing . Good team player. Good listener. Sorted things out for me . You will be greatly missed . Rest in Peace . Aurevoir

Our dearest Sekuru, words can’t describe how we feel , your death has left me speechless and confused, this period is a very trying one for us You made so many of us proud of who we are. Hamba kahle.....Sizoku bona phambili. 

Tonderai...I could not believe the news that you have left this life. You were such an amazing person. Always smiling and with an innate kindness and warmth. Extremely reliable and genuinely caring. Amazing team worker. It was a blessing to work with you and will miss you greatly. Rest in peace wonderful soul.

Tonderai, you was such a wonderful and humble person, alway there for others sharing a word of wisdom. You have left behind a footprint in all our hearts. Words can not express the sadness we all feel, may you rest in eternal peace and we shall meet again at the pearly gate. Sleep well my Angel. ❤️❤️

My heart aches to hear this news losing someone so dear is devastating and no words can ever really relieve that pain.
My deepest condolences to Mrs Dzingai, the boys and the family marasikirwa ne 'GAMBA'
We will never forget you and we will preserve your legacy forever. May your soul rest in peace

My thought goes to you the Dzingai and family. May you find comfort in the Holy spirit where our words and presence fail, during this difficult moment in life.my condolences on your loss Maiguru and the rest of the family which i cannot mention by their names. brother you have left a big wound which will never heal and i will always remember you

Babmunini MaQuiet, I’m lost for words Ndarwadziwa!
RIP gentle giant!

We will always remember that special smile, that caring heart, that warm embrace you always gave us. God broke our hearts to prove to us He ONLY TAKES THE BEST.
You were one of a kind and will always be in our hearts. May your soul rest in peace Soko.

I didnt have the chance to work directly with you, but i had the chance to know you through work. It was alway a pressure to see you around work. You were so friendly, kind and caring. You was always up to have a chat. You had such a warm energy with all stuff and patients. May you rest in peace Tundari. Courage and love to your family. This is a huge and sad loss to us all xx

I feel deeply priveleged to have known Tonderai. His warmth, kindness and brightest of smiles will be sorely missed by everyone who knew and loved him. My thoughts are with his family at this time xx

It is a great shock to hear you have left us. Gone to a peaceful place, were you do not have to fight Papa and on the right hand of the lord. You are one of the most amazing, approachable, receptive person I have ever met and worked with. It look like yesterday working with you and receiving all that tutoring. The support, advice and care  you gave me has made me who I am today. Papa de papa as I always call you and your military salute we always accord each order and you always give me permission to carry on. A rare gem has past. "Out of sight is not out of mind, you will be forever treasured and remembered".

May your gentle soul rest in peace. My deepest condolences goes to your family. You will forever be missed .

Emily Ezike

TREASURABLE
OPTIMISTIC
NOBLE
DILIGENT
EXCELLENT
RESILIANT
ASSERTIVE
INDEPENDENT
DEDICATED
ZEALOUS
ILLUSRTIOUS
NOTICEABLE
GREAT
ASPIRE
INTELLIGENT
Every single letter in your name reflects on the kind of person that you were .RIP BOSS, GREAT LEGEND

How to express the pain felt over the loss of a parent is something that no one ever teaches anyone and no one can ever explain the shock, the fear of living without the person, the shared memories, the impact they brought to your life, the one on one talks, the sad moments shared, the good and happy times even the arguments.

Sekuru Baba Beja, Sekuru MaQuiet, Uncle Wellington, I as a child am at a loss of words, the pain is deep for you were a father to the fatherless, and very selfless in all that you did for the betterment of not just the present but the future. No one can and no one will replace you for you were one of a kind. A leader, a champion of togetherness, a constant source of wisdom even when we all hit a brick wall.

You will be missed

So sad, so painful, to lose such a kind-hearted and generous person. Rest in Peace Tonderai, knowing that you will forever remain in the hearts of those you have touched with your kindness & generosity.

My deepest condolence to the Dzingai family.
Charismatic, knowledgeable, supportive and jovial are just a few words that spring to mind when I think of you my brother. Tonderai (aka papa) was part of my foundation when starting at NLFS and help shaped me to be the nurse I am today. I will forever be grateful for his support and guidance.

Such a sad loss, May his soul rest in peace.

Babamunini, Gone To Soon

You were vibrant, always smiling, I can hear you speaking to Baba Tenby always starting with "Mukuru" and your booming voice calling me always starting with "Mpfana".

Your love was tangible, your love palpable and the space you leave in our lives and our hearts enormous. You were an amazing man Babamunini and we will miss you.

You will always be loved

Oh no, I’m shocked for words.Papa as you always called me rest in the bosom of our dear Lord . You were a friend,gentleman, and a loving brother who will always be missed

Papa, as I will always call you, our hearts are broken. You've gone too soon! We would have loved to continue to share your warmth, knowledge and wisdom. You were always ready with a word of encouragement and support with every situation. I am so saddened but God knows best.
May you rest in the bosom of the Lord.