Let it be forever remembered, she was always a diamond to us.
  • 24 years old
  • Born on September 14, 1989 in Baltimore, Maryland, United States.
  • Passed away on December 5, 2013 in West Wendover, Nevada, United States.

This memorial website was created in memory of our beautiful and awesome girlfriend, sister, daughter and loved one, Tope Audrey Oyedotun who passed from life December 5, 2013 after a prolonged battle with leukaemia. Our love for you will never fade just as your smile will remain engrained in our memories.

A very special thanks to everyone for your words of comfort and love and presence at Tope Oyedotun's funeral and to all who stood by her during her untold suffering but couldn't make it to the funeral.

I have a little gift for all and I hope this comforts you - She Lives On. On a piece of paper, she scribbled a little note just before she passed. I'm sure it will liven us all up. This and other images from the interment will be uploaded to the gallery section of the memorial website, and please do not hesitate to contact me via daniel07822@yahoo.com.

God be Lord be with us all till our days are done.

With Love, Dan.

Posted by Becky Flawless on 1st December 2014
My sweetpickle....... I still can't blive dat I wouldn't get birthday wishes from u on d 6th of december..... Tots of u r still fresh in my heart.....lol....our crazy tawks nd all.... I miss u.....I so much miss u...... I wld give anytin to hv u bk......love u.
Posted by Funso Adeniyi-Oladele on 11th July 2014
Sweetie Mi!.. Thoughts of you now, forever and always. How's life yonder? Were you able to get those wild adventures?
Posted by Daniel Coleman on 18th December 2013
My Gorgeous Angel, I miss you so much that the wrinkles hold the tears and give me a wet tee-shirt, that makes everyone sick at what they see! If you really love me like you always said, send me the lottery numbers ASAP. I'm sick of computers right now - it sucks - and I want some real big money like we planned to amass! Get busy up there and pull some strings, cause when I get there I'm gonna kick your ass for leaving me! Please come help me find happiness. Luv You :) Affectionately Still, Dan The Magnum..
Posted by Roxane G on 18th December 2013
Hey baby, another week goes by without you. I miss you and hope to see you again someday. You where such a great friend and sister and I'm so thankful that you where a part of my life, God Bless You. Rox
Posted by Taiwo Ogunsola on 18th December 2013
Temi,I remember u every single day n night. the reality is beginning to dawn on me. I know u can see me n u know how much I miss u. Pls come see me in my dreams. We need 2 talk. Love you.
Posted by Oki Josephine on 17th December 2013
My everyday thought is to meet Temitope one day, but death took you away too soon. Tope, i will never forget what you did in my life and my affairs particularly You are such a genius I will never forget you and your impact in my life Missing you soo much *GOODNIGHT BOO*
Posted by Trevor Eizhengart on 13th December 2013
A silent tear, an empty smile. So insincerely but so gently in denial. And me a thief, so selfishly. All the moments meant for you, I made them mine. I wishful look A hesitate, You're hoping I will notice that you're not ok. And me a fool, you turn away. It's only then I feel the weight of my mistake. How was I so blind to miss you crumbling inside. Is it too late now to fix you, Let me make it right. Cos there'll be no sun on sunday, No reason for words to rhyme. Cos if I cut you, if I bruised you then the skies are always mine. Cos I love you, to loose you is worse than if I die.
Posted by Sal Jackson on 11th December 2013
Precious one, a life so young, that left footprints in my heart now embedded in my soul oh precious one, your life had not begun now spread towards the shore may your memory flow like the waters chorus: And So long my love, although I hadn't had enough enjoy your life beyond as long as you are now happier! Precious one, a life so loved, that left footprints in my heart, now a treasure to my soul oh Precious one, your life has just begun so live forever more may your legacy flow with the waters chorus: And So long my love, although I hadn't had enough enjoy your life beyond as long as you are now happier! I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go let you go, I'll let you go! I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go go! go! I'll let you go, I'll let you go , I'll you go, I'll let you go, I'll let go of my precious one.. chorus: And So long my love, although I hadn't had enough enjoy your life beyond as long as you are now happier!
Posted by Daniel Coleman on 10th December 2013
I lay this flower on your tomb, and let it be forever remembered that you remain everything to me. I know you're looking at us, smiling at us and praying for us. We shall never forget you and the love and sunshine you brought to our lives. I love you so much, darling. Rest on.
Posted by P Grimes on 9th December 2013
Tope, I dedicate your tribute to Brandon to you as well, cos I know the words meant so much to you. RIP Sunlight streams through window pane unto a spot on the floor.... then I remember, it's where you used to lie, but now you are no more.. Our feet walk down a hall of carpet, and muted echoes sound.... then I remember, It's where your paws would joyously abound. A voice is heard along the road, and up beyond the hill, then I remember it can't be yours.... your golden voice is still. But I'll take that vacant spot of floor and empty muted hall and lay them with the absent voice and unused dish along the wall. I'll wrap these treasured memorials in a blanket of my love and keep them for my best friend until we meet above. I love and miss you sorely.
Posted by Kirk Baxter on 9th December 2013
In our circle of love, we are forever all holding hands together.... We love... We care deeply. We know you are there; unseen to us now, but with us. We all share the same heart-felt energy. In our thoughts and in our hearts, we remember you, Tope....always
Posted by Tade Oladele on 9th December 2013
If we could have a lifetime wish A dream that would come true, We would pray to God with all our hearts For a yesterday and you. A thousand words can’t bring you back, We know, because we tried; And neither will a million tears, We know, because we cried. You left behind our broken hearts And happy memories too. But we never wanted memories, We only wanted you.
Posted by Diana Wyatt on 9th December 2013
You are truly going to be missed. I will always cherish the good times we had together, and all the laughter. We had some great times when you lived in MA. I know the good Lord is watching over you. You will always be in my heart forever.
Posted by Tyrone Dalton on 9th December 2013
I only dated Tope for such a short time few years ago but will always remember her beautiful eyes and winning smile. Her sense of humor was truly a gift and she was passionate about life and love and other people's relationships. She will be greatly missed but is eternally embraced in Paradise by God and her loving father. May she dwell in peace throughout her eternity.
Posted by Serano Davenport on 9th December 2013
Dear Pickle, Time is passing with each day. And today is yet another in my journey of sorrow when you will be lowered to the ground. I hold on to the gratitude that we told each other how much we truly loved each other. I loved our friendship, our connection. I loved your sentimental side, your chuckle, and your kind heart. I have faith that you hear the prayers of all those you loved. Love
Posted by Schroeder P on 9th December 2013
If one day you’ll want to see her again, don’t look anywhere because you will never find her. If one day you’ll miss her, search in your heart, there you can feel her, be with her and embrace her. For the person can only be physically gone but never the life lived and the memories shared. Have faith and be strong.
Posted by Greg Mendoza on 9th December 2013
Sweet Pickle, everyday I look at your picture and I hear your voice and see your one of a kind smile. I know you've got a front row seat watching over us. I miss you sister, our lives will never be the same without you. Love you.
Posted by Maria Alvarez on 9th December 2013
Hello, Tope - A few months ago, God placed on my heart that I needed to spend time with you. What a glorious week we had. You are now with your heavenly family in a place that knows no pain or sorrow, watching over your earthly loved ones. Your love still remains with us. We miss u
Posted by Segun Oyedotun on 9th December 2013
Miss you Tope so much. I have so many fond memories of us growing up in Nigeria, memories I will always cherish. All the mishaps I got into as a child you were always there to help, such a caring niece even at that young age. Love you and miss you. Rest on.
Posted by Kenneth Bray on 9th December 2013
I'll never forget when Tope and i got off work and her car wouldn't start cause he had no more battery, so after about an hour of trying to jump start her car we decided to pray, after our quick prayer, her car literally started as if nothing was ever wrong. Tope, you were an amazing friend and I thank God that I had the opportunity to know you. I love u and miss u girl. See ya someday. Rest in peace.
Posted by Tai Ray on 7th December 2013
I know for certain that we never lost you, even to death. You continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Your love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared your love. Sleep on, my beloved. God bless your soul. Amen
Posted by Matt Riddle on 7th December 2013
May God rest your soul, baby. You told me to hold in to your favorite word "Freedom". Fly free, beautiful one. You remain a ruby to the world.
Posted by Matt Riddle on 7th December 2013
This is really sad and a great loss indeeed to all of us who have had contact with her. She was a great live heart and gorgeous personality. May Lord give her family Courage and Patience. Amen. RIP
Posted by Ojelabi Dolapo on 7th December 2013
Rest in peace
Posted by Casey Micheals on 7th December 2013
I am truly saddened by Tope's death. Tope was more than just a friend; she was an amazing person. She was always so kind and considerate to us that we always welcomed seeing her at every opportunity. Her passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of everyone who knew her. Tope's memory will always remain deep within our hearts. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family. With deepest sympathy, Casey
Posted by C Lambert on 7th December 2013
I will miss her smile and her visits and was so glad that she was a part of my life. We will never be able to forget her, as she will always be in our heart. I will pray to almighty to give you the courage, support and strength to over come the situation.
Posted by Ray George on 7th December 2013
Could someone please tell me this is all a joke? I can't believe this. Rest in peace, dear girl. We love you.
Posted by Adeleke Adedoyin Nelson on 6th December 2013
I cannot say and I will not say That she is dead, she is just away. With a cheery smile and a wave of hand She has wandered into an unknown land; And left us dreaming how very fair Its needs must be, since she lingers there. And you-oh you, who the wildest yearn From the old-time step and the glad return- Think of her faring on, as dear In the love of there, as the love of here Think of her still the same way, I say; She is not dead, she is just away. Tope! you brought smiles to my face in times of distress, You shall forever be missed.
Posted by Taiwo Ogunsola on 6th December 2013
If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together...there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think, but the most important thing is, even if we're apart...I'll always be with you. Love and prayers
Posted by Ortiz Nguyen on 6th December 2013
The day you die is better than the day you are born. Better to spend your time at funerals than at parties. After all, everyone dies—so the living should take this to heart. Sorrow is better than laughter, for sadness has a refining influence on us. A wise person thinks a lot about death, while a fool thinks only about having a good time. -Ecclesiastes 7:1b-4 Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Posted by Mia Wood on 6th December 2013
Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh And talk of me as if I were beside you. I loved You so—‘twas heaven here with you. RIP baby. We all miss you
Posted by Joy N on 6th December 2013
Babe, you were the best girl i ever had. Happy night rest. J
Posted by Funso Adeniyi-Oladele on 6th December 2013
Woe to Cancer! Woe unto Death! Tope "SweetPickle" Oyedotun, I gave you that nick and it stuck to you. You were everything I ever wanted and you fought my every fight like it was yours. I will always remember your name at the rising and the setting of the glorious sun. If I came to this world a million times over, I will always hold on to you. I won't fail in all the promises I made to you, and all you have requested of me, I will try to make happen. Rest in Peace, my beloved! To thy memory, I dedicate this piece. The knell of death, that on the twilight gale, Swells its deep murmur to the pensive ear; In awful sounds repeats a mournful tale, And claims the tribute of a tender tear. The dreadful hour is past! the mandate given! My SweetPickle shall breathe no more, Yet who shall blame the wise decrees of Heaven, Or the dark mysteries of fate explore? No more her converse shall delight the heart; No more her smile benign spread pleasure round; No more her liberal bosom shall impart The balm of pity to affliction's wound. Thy soul above the pride of noble birth, Above the praises of an empty name, By graceful meekness marked superior worth, By peerless virtues claimed the fairest fame Never shall I cease to mourn thy sainted Spirit gone To seek its resting place, beyond the skies; Where amid-st the glories of the ETERNAL's throne, She tastes celestial bliss that never dies
Posted by Ayoola Odebiyi on 6th December 2013
RIP BABY
Posted by Danny Cruz on 6th December 2013
To all of Pickle's family and friends: You have my deepest sympathies, condolences and prayers. May you find comfort in your memories of her. Peace to each and every one of you. It seems odd to memorialize someone I never officially met, yet feel like I knew forever. I am truly sad in her passing, and I will miss the humor, conversations, the love of words but I believe she is without any pain and dancing among the stars. Rest in peace dear girl...
Posted by Arinola Odebiyi on 6th December 2013
I can't stop crying,When I believe its all over......U were there.I remembered our last conversation"FREEDOM" U made me know the meanin of frienship.U made me see a lot in life.Ure my helper,my sister,my companion,my love,Ure d only person I run to wen am in trouble.Now dat ure gone,How do you want me to cope?No other friend can show me the love u showed me?I love you tope and I'll forever do.U'll be the 2nd person dat wil make me cry after my mum's death.I can't stop sheding tears.I love u tope.
Posted by Raquel Jachovic on 6th December 2013
I will always remember the time Tope and I went skinny dipping in the winter. And all the hockey games we went to. Tope was a maniac, in the best way. She gave me such great fashion advice, and pushed me to do daring things, and to follow my dreams. I'm so glad for that. I've had the most fun, the best times with her. Tope was the greatest friend anyone could ever have. My heart goes out to you, Daniel, during this difficult loss. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you in this trying time. We're going to miss Tope desperately, but I know she's having an orgy up there in heaven, waiting for us. Love you
Posted by Pauline Watson on 6th December 2013
Tope, I will miss your head squeezes! The last one I got was outside Waterloo House as you pulled your car over onto the side walk and jumped out yelling "Freeze!" I will cherish that squeeze forever. Much love, beautiful.
Posted by Sal Jackson on 6th December 2013
Sail on with calm seas and gentle breezes, darling daughter, Sail on, hear the ocean’s song, my little ship of dreams! How much we wanted to see you stay on To love, to laugh and bring laughter to others as you have done To be well and help others to heal as you have. To marry, have children, share your love, your joy, your passions, with them. How happy you made us! Your mom and brothers will be fine. I promise. Rest in Peace.
Posted by Nova Fabrica on 6th December 2013
An amazing friend like you!I still can't believe you are gone...So many times you made me laugh,even in the midst of tears.I can't just find the words to put here.I appreciate you being part of my life dear one,God bless your soul.R.I.P
Posted by Paul Beckman on 6th December 2013
I cannot believe you are no longer with us… I have to believe that God has bigger plans for you. In these moments of great ordeal, words are useless … God rest your soul in peace and the angels to always be there with you! You will always remain in our hearts, farewell, beautiful lady.
Posted by Kunle Bolarinwa on 6th December 2013
Dear Oyedotuns, The loss of someone dear to us is never easy, but may you take comfort in the fact that you are surrounded by people that love and care for you, if there is anything we can do, please don’t hesitate to let us know. Our condolences. - Bolarinwas
Posted by Sayo Akanji on 6th December 2013
Tope, I will never forget the kindness you showed me just three weeks ago. You were a shoulder to cry on and a voice that I needed to hear. I will never forget your words. Thank you for your friendship and your inspiration. I hope to see you again one day, in the land beyond the sea.
Posted by Wafa Jee on 6th December 2013
Please accept my condolences. It was an honor to have known such a great person and we will truly miss her. Tope was such a lovely lady. May God embrace you in comfort during this difficult time.
Posted by Funke Adetoro on 6th December 2013
Prayers and fond memories are what we have to remember our dearly departed. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days, my most heartfelt condolences and may her soul rest in peace. Amen
Posted by Angel Maya on 6th December 2013
There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart. - Gandhi Our deepest condolences to all of Tope's friends and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
Posted by K Oladele on 6th December 2013
Tope was a special girl born for a special purpose in life. She was a wonderful cousin who fought hard for all she believed in and was never swayed. She lives here with us in our hearts and memories even though she's gone to another and better place. Thank you, Tope for everything that you were. We love you.
Posted by Kimberly P on 6th December 2013
You dirty, beautiful girl, we are gonna miss you. You were the strongest of all of us. Death is cruel. Love you, darling, always and forever. RIP - Kimberly, Annie and Erin
Posted by Jenny B on 6th December 2013
You are the stars to me; you are the light I follow. I will see you again; this is not where it ends. I will carry you with me, till I see you again. I feel my heart is breaking, but I stay strong and I hold on, because I know. I will see you again. Happy Night Rest, darling. You're the best I ever had.
Posted by K D on 5th December 2013
The blow was hard, the shock severe; We never dreamed your death so near. But only those who love can tell The pain of parting without farewell. God give us strength to face this blow, What it meant losing you, no one will know. To hear your voice, to see your smile, To sit and talk with you awhile; To be together in the same old way Would be our dearest wish today. But loving memories never die As years roll on and days go by; In our hearts a memory is kept Of the one we love and will never forget. RIP, our baby.... KD, on behalf of the family.

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