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This memorial website was created in memory of our beautiful and awesome girlfriend, sister, daughter and loved one, Tope Audrey Oyedotun who passed from life December 5, 2013 after a prolonged battle with leukaemia. Our love for you will never fade just as your smile will remain engrained in our memories.

A very special thanks to everyone for your words of comfort and love and presence at Tope Oyedotun's funeral and to all who stood by her during her untold suffering but couldn't make it to the funeral.

I have a little gift for all and I hope this comforts you - She Lives On. On a piece of paper, she scribbled a little note just before she passed. I'm sure it will liven us all up. This and other images from the interment will be uploaded to the gallery section of the memorial website, and please do not hesitate to contact me via daniel07822@yahoo.com.

God be Lord be with us all till our days are done.

With Love, Dan.

December 1, 2014
December 1, 2014
My sweetpickle.......

I still can't blive dat I wouldn't get birthday wishes from u on d 6th of december.....
Tots of u r still fresh in my heart.....lol....our crazy tawks nd all....
I miss u.....I so much miss u......

I wld give anytin to hv u bk......love u.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
My Gorgeous Angel,

I miss you so much that the wrinkles hold the tears and give me a wet tee-shirt, that makes everyone sick at what they see! If you really love me like you always said, send me the lottery numbers ASAP. I'm sick of computers right now - it sucks - and I want some real big money like we planned to amass!

Get busy up there and pull some strings, cause when I get there I'm gonna kick your ass for leaving me! Please come help me find happiness. Luv You :)

Affectionately Still,
Dan The Magnum..
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Hey baby, another week goes by without you. I miss you and hope to see you again someday. You where such a great friend and sister and I'm so thankful that you where a part of my life, God Bless You.
Rox
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Temi,I remember u every single day n night. the reality is beginning to dawn on me. I know u can see me n u know how much I miss u. Pls come see me in my dreams. We need 2 talk. Love you.
December 17, 2013
December 17, 2013
My everyday thought is to meet Temitope one day, but death took you away too soon.
Tope, i will never forget what you did in my life and my affairs particularly
You are such a genius
I will never forget you and your impact in my life
Missing you soo much
*GOODNIGHT BOO*
December 13, 2013
December 13, 2013
A silent tear, an empty smile.
So insincerely but so gently in denial.
And me a thief, so selfishly.
All the moments meant for you, I made them mine.

I wishful look
A hesitate,
You're hoping I will notice that you're not ok.
And me a fool, you turn away.
It's only then I feel the weight of my mistake.

How was I so blind to miss you crumbling inside.
Is it too late now to fix you, Let me make it right.
Cos there'll be no sun on sunday,
No reason for words to rhyme.
Cos if I cut you, if I bruised you
then the skies are always mine.
Cos I love you, to loose you is worse than if I die.
December 11, 2013
December 11, 2013
Precious one, a life so young,
that left footprints in my heart
now embedded in my soul
oh precious one,
your life had not begun
now spread towards the shore
may your memory flow
like the waters
chorus:
And So long my love,
although I hadn't had enough
enjoy your life beyond
as long as you are now
happier!
Precious one, a life so loved,
that left footprints in my heart,
now a treasure to my soul
oh Precious one,
your life has just begun
so live forever more
may your legacy flow
with the waters
chorus:
And So long my love,
although I hadn't had enough
enjoy your life beyond
as long as you are now
happier!
I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let
you go
let you go, I'll let you go!
I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let
you go
I'll let you go,
I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let you go, I'll let
you go
go! go!
I'll let you go, I'll let you go , I'll you go, I'll let you
go,
I'll let go
of my precious one..
chorus:
And So long my love,
although I hadn't had enough
enjoy your life beyond
as long as you are now
happier!
December 10, 2013
December 10, 2013
I lay this flower on your tomb, and let it be forever remembered that you remain everything to me. I know you're looking at us, smiling at us and praying for us. We shall never forget you and the love and sunshine you brought to our lives. I love you so much, darling. Rest on.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
I'll never forget when Tope and i got off work and her car wouldn't start cause he had no more battery, so after about an hour of trying to jump start her car we decided to pray, after our quick prayer, her car literally started as if nothing was ever wrong. Tope, you were an amazing friend and I thank God that I had the opportunity to know you. I love u and miss u girl. See ya someday. Rest in peace.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
Miss you Tope so much. I have so many fond memories of us growing up in Nigeria, memories I will always cherish. All the mishaps I got into as a child you were always there to help, such a caring niece even at that young age. Love you and miss you. Rest on.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
Hello, Tope - A few months ago, God placed on my heart that I needed to spend time with you. What a glorious week we had. You are now with your heavenly family in a place that knows no pain or sorrow, watching over your earthly loved ones. Your love still remains with us. We miss u
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
Sweet Pickle, everyday I look at your picture and I hear your voice and see your one of a kind smile. I know you've got a front row seat watching over us. I miss you sister, our lives will never be the same without you. Love you.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
If one day you’ll want to see her again, don’t look anywhere because you will never find her. If one day you’ll miss her, search in your heart, there you can feel her, be with her and embrace her. For the person can only be physically gone but never the life lived and the memories shared. Have faith and be strong.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
Dear Pickle,

Time is passing with each day. And today is yet another in my journey of sorrow when you will be lowered to the ground. I hold on to the gratitude that we told each other how much we truly loved each other. I loved our friendship, our connection. I loved your sentimental side, your chuckle, and your kind heart. I have faith that you hear the prayers of all those you loved.

Love
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
You are truly going to be missed. I will always cherish the good times we had together, and all the laughter. We had some great times when you lived in MA. I know the good Lord is watching over you. You will always be in my heart forever.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
If we could have a lifetime wish
A dream that would come true,
We would pray to God with all our hearts
For a yesterday and you.
A thousand words can’t bring you back,
We know, because we tried;
And neither will a million tears,
We know, because we cried.
You left behind our broken hearts
And happy memories too.
But we never wanted memories,
We only wanted you.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
In our circle of love, we are forever all holding hands together.... We love... We care deeply. We know you are there; unseen to us now, but with us. We all share the same heart-felt energy. In our thoughts and in our hearts, we remember you, Tope....always
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
Tope, I dedicate your tribute to Brandon to you as well, cos I know the words meant so much to you. RIP

Sunlight streams through window pane
unto a spot on the floor....
then I remember,
it's where you used to lie,
but now you are no more..
Our feet walk down a hall of carpet,
and muted echoes sound....
then I remember,
It's where your paws would joyously abound.
A voice is heard along the road, 
and up beyond the hill,
then I remember it can't be yours....
your golden voice is still.
But I'll take that vacant spot of floor
and empty muted hall
and lay them with the absent voice
and unused dish along the wall.
I'll wrap these treasured memorials
in a blanket of my love
and keep them for my best friend
until we meet above.

I love and miss you sorely.
December 9, 2013
December 9, 2013
I only dated Tope for such a short time few years ago but will always remember her beautiful eyes and winning smile. Her sense of humor was truly a gift and she was passionate about life and love and other people's relationships. She will be greatly missed but is eternally embraced in Paradise by God and her loving father. May she dwell in peace throughout her eternity.
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
Could someone please tell me this is all a joke? I can't believe this. Rest in peace, dear girl. We love you.
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
I will miss her smile and her visits and was so glad that she was a part of my life. We will never be able to forget her, as she will always be in our heart. I will pray to almighty to give you the courage, support and strength to over come the situation.
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
I am truly saddened by Tope's death. Tope was more than just a friend; she was an amazing person. She was always so kind and considerate to us that we always welcomed seeing her at every opportunity. Her passing will not only leave a void in our lives, but in the hearts of everyone who knew her. Tope's memory will always remain deep within our hearts. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you and the entire family.

With deepest sympathy,

Casey
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
This is really sad and a great loss indeeed to all of us who have had contact with her. She was a great live heart and gorgeous personality. May Lord give her family Courage and Patience. Amen. RIP
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
May God rest your soul, baby. You told me to hold in to your favorite word "Freedom". Fly free, beautiful one. You remain a ruby to the world.
December 7, 2013
December 7, 2013
I know for certain that we never lost you, even to death. You continue to participate in every act, thought and decision we make. Your love leaves an indelible imprint in our memories. We find comfort in knowing that our lives have been enriched by having shared your love.
Sleep on, my beloved. God bless your soul. Amen
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
An amazing friend like you!I still can't believe you are gone...So many times you made me laugh,even in the midst of tears.I can't just find the words to put here.I appreciate you being part of my life dear one,God bless your soul.R.I.P
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
I cannot say and I will not say
That she is dead, she is just away.
With a cheery smile and a wave of hand
She has wandered into an unknown land;
And left us dreaming how very fair
Its needs must be, since she lingers there.

And you-oh you, who the wildest yearn
From the old-time step and the glad return-
Think of her faring on, as dear
In the love of there, as the love of here
Think of her still the same way, I say;
She is not dead, she is just away.

Tope! you brought smiles to my face in times of distress,
You shall forever be missed.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
If ever there is tomorrow when we're not together...there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think, but the most important thing is, even if we're apart...I'll always be with you.
Love and prayers
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
The day you die is better than the day you are born. Better to spend your time at funerals than at parties. After all, everyone dies—so the living should take this to heart. Sorrow is better than laughter, for sadness has a refining influence on us. A wise person thinks a lot about death, while a fool thinks only about having a good time. -Ecclesiastes 7:1b-4

Thoughts and prayers are with you all.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Grieve not, nor speak of me with tears, but laugh
And talk of me as if I were beside you. I loved
You so—‘twas heaven here with you.
RIP baby. We all miss you
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Babe, you were the best girl i ever had.
Happy night rest.
J
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
To all of Pickle's family and friends: You have my deepest sympathies, condolences and prayers. May you find comfort in your memories of her. Peace to each and every one of you. It seems odd to memorialize someone I never officially met, yet feel like I knew forever. I am truly sad in her passing, and I will miss the humor, conversations, the love of words but I believe she is without any pain and dancing among the stars. Rest in peace dear girl...
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
I can't stop crying,When I believe its all over......U were there.I remembered our last conversation"FREEDOM" U made me know the meanin of frienship.U made me see a lot in life.Ure my helper,my sister,my companion,my love,Ure d only person I run to wen am in trouble.Now dat ure gone,How do you want me to cope?No other friend can show me the love u showed me?I love you tope and I'll forever do.U'll be the 2nd person dat wil make me cry after my mum's death.I can't stop sheding tears.I love u tope.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
I will always remember the time Tope and I went skinny dipping in the winter. And all the hockey games we went to. Tope was a maniac, in the best way. She gave me such great fashion advice, and pushed me to do daring things, and to follow my dreams. I'm so glad for that. I've had the most fun, the best times with her. Tope was the greatest friend anyone could ever have. My heart goes out to you, Daniel, during this difficult loss. Please let me know if there is anything that I can do for you in this trying time. We're going to miss Tope desperately, but I know she's having an orgy up there in heaven, waiting for us. Love you
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Tope, I will miss your head squeezes! The last one I got was outside Waterloo House as you pulled your car over onto the side walk and jumped out yelling "Freeze!" I will cherish that squeeze forever. Much love, beautiful.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Sail on with calm seas and gentle breezes, darling daughter,
Sail on, hear the ocean’s song, my little ship of dreams!
How much we wanted to see you stay on
To love, to laugh and bring laughter to others as you have done
To be well and help others to heal as you have.
To marry, have children, share your love, your joy, your passions, with them. How happy you made us!

Your mom and brothers will be fine. I promise. Rest in Peace.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
I cannot believe you are no longer with us… I have to believe that God has bigger plans for you. In these moments of great ordeal, words are useless … God rest your soul in peace and the angels to always be there with you! You will always remain in our hearts, farewell, beautiful lady.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Dear Oyedotuns,
The loss of someone dear to us is never easy, but may you take comfort in the fact that you are surrounded by people that love and care for you, if there is anything we can do, please don’t hesitate to let us know. Our condolences.
- Bolarinwas
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Tope, I will never forget the kindness you showed me just three weeks ago. You were a shoulder to cry on and a voice that I needed to hear. I will never forget your words. Thank you for your friendship and your inspiration. I hope to see you again one day, in the land beyond the sea.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Please accept my condolences. It was an honor to have known such a great person and we will truly miss her. Tope was such a lovely lady. May God embrace you in comfort during this difficult time.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Prayers and fond memories are what we have to remember our dearly departed. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days, my most heartfelt condolences and may her soul rest in peace. Amen
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
There are no goodbyes for us. Wherever you are, you will always be in my heart. - Gandhi
Our deepest condolences to all of Tope's friends and family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
Tope was a special girl born for a special purpose in life. She was a wonderful cousin who fought hard for all she believed in and was never swayed. She lives here with us in our hearts and memories even though she's gone to another and better place. Thank you, Tope for everything that you were. We love you.
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
You dirty, beautiful girl, we are gonna miss you. You were the strongest of all of us. Death is cruel. Love you, darling, always and forever. RIP
- Kimberly, Annie and Erin
December 6, 2013
December 6, 2013
You are the stars to me; you are the light I follow.
I will see you again; this is not where it ends.
I will carry you with me, till I see you again.
I feel my heart is breaking, but I stay strong and I hold on, because I know. I will see you again.
Happy Night Rest, darling. You're the best I ever had.
December 5, 2013
December 5, 2013
My deepest sympathies for your loss, Dan. Tope will be missed and loved always. May she rest in peace. Amen.
December 5, 2013
December 5, 2013
Dear Dan, Mrs Jackson, David, Tayo (and others in Tope’s circle of love),

My heart goes out to you all. It was my great privilege and joy to have known Tope. Your loss is incalculable. Tope was a true friend to everyone. I will always remember the kindness and the friendship we enjoyed for many years. I will miss her.

My sympathies and condolences go out to you all. I know Tope will be missed, but what great memories we have of this great lady.

Very Special Hugs, Chrissie.
December 5, 2013
December 5, 2013
I'm very sorry for your loss. We met last Christmas on Facebook. I'm really sad because I just didn't know anything about her health despite our many late night hangouts at Mountain Branch Grille & Pub and this came as a shock. She was a great girlfriend that brought joy to many people I'm sure. RIP girl!!!! #missyougreatly
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December 1, 2014
December 1, 2014
My sweetpickle.......

I still can't blive dat I wouldn't get birthday wishes from u on d 6th of december.....
Tots of u r still fresh in my heart.....lol....our crazy tawks nd all....
I miss u.....I so much miss u......

I wld give anytin to hv u bk......love u.
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
My Gorgeous Angel,

I miss you so much that the wrinkles hold the tears and give me a wet tee-shirt, that makes everyone sick at what they see! If you really love me like you always said, send me the lottery numbers ASAP. I'm sick of computers right now - it sucks - and I want some real big money like we planned to amass!

Get busy up there and pull some strings, cause when I get there I'm gonna kick your ass for leaving me! Please come help me find happiness. Luv You :)

Affectionately Still,
Dan The Magnum..
December 18, 2013
December 18, 2013
Hey baby, another week goes by without you. I miss you and hope to see you again someday. You where such a great friend and sister and I'm so thankful that you where a part of my life, God Bless You.
Rox
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