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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Trudy Van Der Vyver 82 years old , born on May 2, 1933 and passed away on July 23, 2015. We will remember her forever.
December 31, 2023
December 31, 2023
New Year's Eve Mom, and I wish I could hug you into the New Year. But I can't. I will look for your star and send you my love instead. may it be a better year ahead. I love you. Miss you. Happy New Year.
December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023
Yet another Christmas has come. And another year without our Christmas Star. It's a dark and bleak time of year without you to add the brightness and sparkle to the season. How much fun and laughter we had, year after year. I wish with all my heart it was still like that. We miss you. I miss you. Love you. Merry Christmas in Heaven Mom.
July 23, 2023
July 23, 2023
Another year gone, Mom, and the missing of you just grows. I miss my best friend so much. I feel your absence in the depths of my soul. I love you Mom.
May 2, 2023
May 2, 2023
Happy Birthday Mom. Another year passes and my heart breaks a little bit more. I love you and wish so desperately that you were here. I miss you so much.
December 25, 2022
December 25, 2022
Merry Christmas Mom. It was not one of the best, like we used to have when you were here with us. Those were always the best. A day filled with fun, family, love and you. I dream of those days, and you. I love you. I miss you.
December 22, 2022
December 22, 2022
It's almost Christmas, Mom. Just a few more days. I put your little tree up, it was difficult, but there was no way you would not have your tree, not as long as I am still here. This Christmas seems even harder than the rest. I guess I'm missing you more and more each year. But it does bring me 1 year closer to being with you again. I love you.
July 24, 2022
July 24, 2022
It was a hard day for me, Mom. 7 years is like a lifetime without you. I miss you beyond words. Thank you for sending White Crow to see me. I needed to be reminded that you never truly leave me. Even now. I love you. We'll be together again one day, and then for always. Love you.
May 3, 2022
May 3, 2022
It's my Birthday today, but you know that, don't you Mom? You never forget. We always celebrated ours together. I wish we still did. Love you.
May 2, 2022
May 2, 2022
Happy Birthday Mom. How I wish you were here so I could give you a great big Birthday hug and kiss. Remember all those double Birthday parties? What I wouldn't give to have one more. I love you, I miss you. Forever & a day. Always.
January 1, 2022
January 1, 2022
Happy New Year Mom. It will not be as good of a year as any that you were here with me. I miss you terribly. I love you.
December 26, 2021
December 26, 2021
Another Christmas came and went without you. Terribly cold and snowy, just like how I feel. I had your picture up under your tree. You'll always be with us, just not in the way we would truly like. Love you Mom. Merry Christmas. xoxo
December 24, 2021
December 24, 2021
It's another Christmas Eve without you, Mom. I can still see you busy, busy, getting ready for tomorrow, setting and making the perfect Christmas morning table. Late to bed and early to rise. You always made the whole season perfect. I try to copy you and fill your shoes, but I don't even come close. I miss you and love you very much. It isn't truly Christmas without you.
December 1, 2021
December 1, 2021
Well, December has just rolled in and that means Christmas is just around the corner. Another Christmas without you. Another season with no light and no joy. I just can't do it. I'm sorry. I love you. I miss you.
July 23, 2021
July 23, 2021
Hi Mom,
6 years today, I lost my best friend. Your memory walks with me every day, but I wish it was you instead. I love you and I miss you beyond words.
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Happy Mother's Day Mom. I wish I could give you an armload of flowers today and see your huge smile. I love you. I miss you.
May 2, 2021
May 2, 2021
Happy Birthday Mom.
I wish with all my heart you were here with me today. We had such special Birthdays, you & I, and I miss that terribly. I miss you terribly, and my heart aches for you. I love you. I miss you. xoxo

February 24, 2021
February 24, 2021
Spring is not far off, Mom, and it's another one you will miss. We love you and miss you so terribly much. Forever & a day Mom. xoxo
December 26, 2020
December 26, 2020
Another Christmas has come, and gone, without you Mom. We missed your laughter and your joking around and the fun only you could bring. But above all, we missed you. So very much. Sleep sweetly. I love you. Forever & a day Mom.
December 22, 2020
December 22, 2020
Just a few more days and then Christmas will be done. It's not a celebration without you. There is no magic, no fun any more. I miss you. I love you. Forever & a day Mom.
November 22, 2020
November 22, 2020
Hi Mom,
It's getting closer and closer to Christmas. I'll have to put the tree up soon, even though there is no joy in it for me, anymore. I miss you. Nothing feels the same without you here. I love you. Forever & a day Mom.
July 23, 2020
July 23, 2020
Hi Mom. 5 years today. The world is certainly not a better place without you. It needs your light and love so very much. And so do I. I love you. I miss you. Forever and a day Mom.
May 2, 2020
May 2, 2020
Hi Mom, Another Birthday for you. Too many already, without being together. I wish you were here. I love you, I miss you. Forever and a day.
March 23, 2020
March 23, 2020
It's getting to be a scary time here, Mom, but I know you will do your very best to keep us safe. I love you. I miss you. We all miss you.
January 15, 2020
January 15, 2020
It's 2020 now Mom. A new decade without you. How very sad. I miss you so much. Soon, I'll see you soon. Love you.
December 31, 2019
December 31, 2019
New Year's Eve day Mom. Another year is just around the corner. Another new year without you. But it brings me closer to being with you. For that, I am grateful. I love you.
December 25, 2019
December 25, 2019
Hi Mom,
It's Christmas Eve. I remember so many from my childhood where we would sit on the couch together, by the tree. I would lean against your hip, like I did a thousand other times and all would be right with the world. How I wish for those days again. I miss you so much. I love you. Merry Christmas.
December 19, 2019
December 19, 2019
Oh Mom,
Christmas is just around the corner and each year, is harder than the year before. I try so hard, but the sadness from missing you is so overwhelming. My only comfort is that we'll be together again one day. I love you and would give anything to find you by our tree on Christmas morning. I miss you so much.
November 7, 2019
November 7, 2019
It seems so empty without you here. I love you and miss you so much, Mom.
July 23, 2019
July 23, 2019
4 years today Mom. It doesn't seem real. When are you coming home? I miss you. I love you. I will see you again. xoxo
May 2, 2019
May 2, 2019
Happy Birthday Mom. I love you so much. My life is so empty without you. I hope where you are is as beautiful as you are. Even if it is only half as beautiful, it will truly be a glorious place. Sleep well, I will be there in no time Mom and then nothing will ever tear us apart again. xoxo
April 28, 2019
April 28, 2019
Your birthday is almost here. I wish you were still with me.
April 28, 2019
April 28, 2019
I miss you Mom. It's so lonely without you here. You are still, and always will be, my Mom and my best friend. I'll be with you again soon. I love you.

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December 31, 2023
December 31, 2023
New Year's Eve Mom, and I wish I could hug you into the New Year. But I can't. I will look for your star and send you my love instead. may it be a better year ahead. I love you. Miss you. Happy New Year.
December 25, 2023
December 25, 2023
Yet another Christmas has come. And another year without our Christmas Star. It's a dark and bleak time of year without you to add the brightness and sparkle to the season. How much fun and laughter we had, year after year. I wish with all my heart it was still like that. We miss you. I miss you. Love you. Merry Christmas in Heaven Mom.
July 23, 2023
July 23, 2023
Another year gone, Mom, and the missing of you just grows. I miss my best friend so much. I feel your absence in the depths of my soul. I love you Mom.
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