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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Brigadier General Olayinka - Provost Marshall of the Nigerian Army. 

June 2, 2021
June 2, 2021
Losing people I know has to be one of my biggest struggle and I still find it hard to come to terms with your loss
Your humble personality and warm smile will forever be treasured.
Thank you Bro TJ for supporting my business. May God forgive your sins and continue to rest your soul in peace.
June 2, 2021
June 2, 2021
Brother Tunji,

If I write everyday, will you come back ?

Rest in peace. We miss you !
June 2, 2021
June 2, 2021
TJ, you were always a humble guy from the formative years back in YMS, James Robertson Rd, S/Lere; simple, unassuming and with that trademark signature smile which you maintained even as a brilliant soldier. You have run your own race, and I pray God will comfort your family (especially your wife) and friends well at this time in Jesus name.
Adieu bruv, one love.
June 2, 2021
June 2, 2021
Up YMS..... Up SuruLere ... too soon but only God is knowledgeable in all things.. Brother your smile will linger on in our minds till we meet again. Bode Ojuri
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Brother Tunji, I’m back again . I can’t really stay away .... it seems ...

I wanted to use this opportunity to thank you for the person that you were. Peaceful, loving, unifying, compassionate.

I thank you for the way that you honoured Mummy , in accordance to the word of God . You always said to me , let’s be here for Mummy for as long as she lives . But you’ve left and I’m now confused....

I pray that I/ we are all able to emulate the exemplary attributes that you demonstrated in the time that you were here with us physically .

I choose to trust God despite the circumstances that we find ourselves.

I love you my Apple brother.

Good night.


June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Gone Too Soon
Words cannot describe the loss I feel saying farewell to you, but heaven chose to give you wings.
And now it’s time you flew,
I wish we spent more time together when we saw each other a month ago after 27 years at your place in Abuja.
I wish I had just one chance to see that tender smile,
To laugh with you again my dear friend just for a little while.
I can’t even say more because it’s too hard to believe you’ve gone my friend.
Gone too soon, but not forgotten,
God knows best.
Sleep well in peace ore mi.
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
My brother Tunji, Mummy’s Apple, our Apple this is so heavy. I cannot find words to express all the phases we are collectively going through, that we have been going through since the 21st of May 2021 . It still feels so,so surreal .

43 years of knowing you and then you are no more. I keep seeing this vision of all of us at a gathering, deep in discussions and of you being suddenly snatched from our midst without any prior warning. Mummy misses you exceedingly . I miss you too . Everyone misses you .

I can’t believe I am writing this at this time but may you rest in absolute peace. Amen .
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
When I was a little boy, I used to gaze at your pics in one of my aunties house and wondered why and how a young boy of your age would be wearing a military attire. That was the point at which you induced in me the interest to join the army. It was joy overflow to later learn that you were a close relative.
Over the years, you inspired me with every bit of your personality and I always just found it favourable and exciting to be anywhere you are.
No one, I mean no one can describe how great and pure my respect and admiration for all you stood for was in my heart and even how sad and devastated I feel since the day your death created an indescribable emptiness in me.
I have since the day of your departure come to realise that good people aren't around for long cos like a comet blazing across the evening sky...you departed just too soon without a goodbye.
I remember your calls, advice and aid during the covid lockdown era and also when my father passed away. I also remember the warnings you gave me and how u wanted me to be known and perceived. Your smiles and voice were always reassuring and comfy.
I know without a doubt that the thoughts of your wife, daughter, siblings and your precious mother ran across your mind before the plane crashed.
I also know that your soul is resting and being comforted after a life of selfless service to your country and family.
I and every member of my household will miss you and would never forget you, the general who was a friend to all.
Brother tunji, if God Almighty gives me another son, I'll name him Olatunji Lukmon so that anywhere I am ,so will a person called by your name be beside me.
I love and miss you sir, say me well to my late father, Agboola Francis Amona (the man who told me to mirror you in all I do)

From your cousin who loves you more than a brother should.
Amona Segun
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
It was always pleasant whenever we met and any feedback when I asked of you was always that of a new promotion or a recently passed exam. Thank you for your service to our nation Nigeria. May your death not be in vain but lead to a safer country for us all.

May your memory continually be a blessing.
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
Cuz, 

I never met you, but hear you were an example to us. Kind words have been spoken about your character and who you were. May your memories live beyond this generation, may you be celebrated in the corridors of the noble. Sleep in power.

Agboola Ogundeyin
June 1, 2021
June 1, 2021
T.J,
I woke up to receive the news, for a min I couldn’t believe it. I was looking forward to seeing you this year. I am here to appreciate all the wonderful times shared, the laughter, you were always willing to listen. As you triumph with your military career so did your friends because we were always happy for you and wish you nothing but the best. You were a great man, always humble. I can go on and on but I pray that the good LORD grant your soul peace. Rest T.J ..You will always be remembered. My Brigadier General friend. Say his name- Brigadier General Olayinka.
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June 22, 2023
June 22, 2023
Brother mi
I'm still crying looking at the birthday pics you sent to me in 2017.

That i shall never get to see you again is what confuses, discourages and shatters my being.

One part of my life is gone and never to be seen again.

I just hope you are smiling and watching over your loved ones, especially the one whom everyone knows you cherished the most.

Sun ré ó general wà
Omo Olayinka
May 21, 2023
May 21, 2023
It’s been 2 years sir
It’s been filled with all stages of grief but the Lord has sustained us and continues to.
Love you dearly bro
His Life

ORIKI OLATUNJI Omo LATEEF OLAYINKA

June 22, 2021
Omo onikoro mebimare , ikoro mebimare tin’ n wun omo elomi jee.... omo asheun mapekun, omo apekan Mafun obinrin je , omo iku meta ni’ salu , Agemo iku , Iyemoje iku, iketa o se daruko lowo obirin, omo ponle ejiran, omo Aromire  to nf’ogun sho gbagede, omo oro nje , omo oro nso , omo Aja nla to nse’nu gbogan gbogan, omo akenigbo Keru ba ara ona, omo ake lona keru ba ara Igbo, omo af’are fura omo afura faare, omo olowen Ajaiye , omo aba’jaiye ponsa logbogba, omo onile ate jeje , ajoji ate girigiri, omo ita terikodo, m’ase pa’gi loko, omo fa’aa gbohun Olorun , omo ojom’aworo, omo ojomul’ashe, omo aji’bolorun soro, Omo Abere meta ni’salu ikan se, ikan tee , ikan toku ni won fin se omo’raye lore, omo osho ologun abule sari , omo ede lokun, eja lokun gbogbo eee.........Lokun Lokun. Omo akesan ileri omo aketa kin se eru eni, omo papa kuku amu tan ona ijebe, omo kafi opa wa , kafi aje wa , kafi ogede gede owo wa oko dele Isheri mole , omo erin wopa egberun aje, omo babe re mu agbo Dudu won inu oko to di funfun nene, omo oniyan koko ti’megbe ju ako isu lo, omo epo wewewe lojude akesan ko se fi oko ro, ko se fi ada ro , ko se fi airo tibe kuro, omo o se owo opo ba ori owon pade eni aje nwa kiri.
Kabiyesi ooooooooooo omo Onikoro.
Suu re oooooo

Biography

June 21, 2021
Brigadier General Olatunji L. Olayinka was born on Saturday,13th of June 1970 to the family of Late High Chief Lateef Mobolaji Olayinka and Kikelomo Olawanle Olayinka. He was the seventh (7th) child of the Lateef Olayinka family.

TJ, as he was fondly called, had his nursery and primary school education at Yewande Memorial Nursery and Primary School before proceeding to the Nigeria Military School (NMS), Zaria for his secondary education. While in NMS, he was in Echo Company where he rose to become a Boy Sergeant of the School. While awaiting his WAEC results, young Private Olayinka was posted to Jos, Plateau State where he performed several military duties, including being a night guard in the home of some senior officers.

As expected, TJ passed his WAEC in flying colours and prepared to proceed to the Nigerian Defence Academy (NDA), Kaduna after being successful at the Armed Forces Selection Board. However, his Dad vehemently refused, stating that none of his children would join the Nigerian Army. Against this backdrop, TJ reluctantly sat for the JAMB examination and was admitted to the Lagos State University, Ojo. With the desire to join the military still strong, TJ “intentionally” flunked his first-year exams in LASU and was “advised to withdraw” from the Institution. He subsequently took the NDA Entrance Examination “again” and passed. Having been asked to withdraw from LASU, Dad had no choice but to grant his wish and bless his decision and choice to join the military.

TJ joined the Nigerian Defence Academy as a member of the 40th Regular Course to study Economics and was in Burma Battalion. In his final year, he was selected alongside one of his course mates to complete his training at the Prestigious Royal Military Academy, Sandhurst, England. However, because of the June 12 saga and the tensions between the United Kingdom and Nigeria, they were withdrawn mid-course and had to return to the NDA to complete their course before being granted a Presidential Commission in the rank of 2nd Lieutenant on 17 September 1994. He was thereafter posted to the Nigerian Army Corps of Military Police (NACMP).

As a fresh Second Lieutenant from the Academy, TJ was posted to the HQ NACMP Apapa and appointed Platoon Commander. He was later drafted to HQ 7 Brigade ECOMOG Liberia as a Platoon Commander. Upon his return, he was appointed Company Second in Command at the HQ NACMP Administrative Company in Arakan Barracks Apapa. As a Captain due to his hard work and diligent nature to duty, he was appointed Aide-De-Camp to the General Officers Commanding 3 Division and 2 Division of the Nigerian Army at different times. Still as a Captain, he was posted to HQ Special Investigations’ Bureau as the Administrative Officer. He equally served as the Officer Commanding Ministry of Defence Provost Group before being appointed General Staff Officer Grade 2 at his Corps HQ. At different times at his HQ, he also held the appointments of Staff Officer 1 Grade 4, Deputy Chief of Staff Grade 3 and Chief of Staff. Once again, he was called to serve on the international scene as a Military Observer to the United Nations Operation in Côte d’Ivoire. Upon his return, his instructional ability was required when he was posted to the Nigerian Army School of Military Police (NASMP) Basawa, Zaria as Senior Instructor. He had a spell as the Acting Commander HQ 1 Division Provost Group Kaduna before he continued his instructional tour of duty as a Directing Staff at the prestigious Armed Forces Command and Staff College, Jaji. Again, his service was requested on the international scene this time on instructional appointment as a Directing Staff at the well-known Ghana Armed Forces Command and Staff College. After a notable career as an astute Instructor, he was appointed Commander Special Investigations’ Bureau and later Commandant of the NASMP before being posted to the National Defence College as a Directing Staff. Indeed, his instructional capacity was unique having bagged a triple dagger. The term dagger symbolises an embodiment of knowledge and the ability to tutor, mentor and impart knowledge at specific operational level and strategic level military institutions. Before his untimely demise, he attained the peak of his military police career when appointed Acting Provost Marshal (A).

During his meritorious career he earned the following honours and medals:

Distinguished Service Star

Meritorious Service Star

Forces Service Star

Golden Jubilee Medal

Silver Jubilee Medal

River Benue Star

Fellow Defence College (Dagger)

Pass Staff Course (Dagger Dagger)

United Nations Operations Medal

Command Medal

Training Support Medal

General Operations Medal

Corps Medal of Honour

TJ was a very brilliant, highly cerebral Gentleman Officer as evidenced by the 3 Master’s Degrees he obtained from the Ahmadu Bello University, Zaria and the University of Ibadan. He was an officer with a great sense of purpose. He exhibited the traits of a professional soldier. Until his demise in the ill-fated plane crash, TJ was pursuing his MPhil/PhD in the Department of Peace, Security and Humanitarian Studies at the University of Ibadan.

The late Brigadier General Olatunji L. Olayinka left behind to mourn him: his wife,daughter, mother, siblings, cousins, course mates, colleagues, friends, and fellow soldiers.

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EULOGY FOR TUNJI OLAYINKA

June 21, 2021

Can this really be true, that I am writing a eulogy for Tunji ‘TJ’ Olayinka – A Brigadier General in the Nigerian Army, a fellow Lagosian, a true friend and brother, a detribalised Nigerian and one of the most respected gentlemen officers of the 40th Regular Course of the Nigerian Defence Academy.



I met Tunji in 1982 as Boy Soldiers at the Nigerian Military School, Zaria. At that time, he was a year ahead of my set and we didn’t really interact much because we were not in the same Company (House).



Our paths crossed again in 1987 when we met at the Lagos State University after leaving Secondary School and that was when our friendship started until 21 May 2021 when the unthinkable happened.



Our days together in LASU marked the period when as young school leavers, we began to explore life. Tunji and I practiced lyrics on how to toast babes, shared sticks of Rothmans until we reached “claro”, Tunji and I attended most of the raves and parties together in the University, waking up with hangovers and dashing to lectures the following morning. I met my very first girlfriend through Tunji’s girlfriend. The only time Tunji and I were not together was when we were in our separate lecture rooms. Alhaji Masha Street was a second home for me, and I knew everyone in the immediate Olayinka family. I was welcome into the home at any time.



Our lives continued until we both sat for the entrance examination into NDA, attended the interview together and threw one of the wildest parties on campus to celebrate our admission into NDA. We, along with others, trudged on with the grinding and rigorous military training and never missed an opportunity to enjoy ourselves to the fullest when on break. Back in the day, it was either one party or rave and of course Fela’sShrine at Ikeja. At some point in NDA, Tunji had to leave for the UK to continue his military cadet training at the Royal Military Academy, Sandhurst. When he came back, we continued from where we stopped. I recall he came back with so many CDs of hot jams at that time. There was never a dull moment around Tunji.



Our separate military careers naturally kept us away as expected. But that didn’t affect the friendship we shared even though we didn’t meet as frequently owing to exigencies of military service.



At about 1042 am on 21 May 2021, my phone rang, and it was Tunji who called me. We spoke for exactly six minutes, exchanged banters, as we always did, and planned to play golf together the following Saturday. Little did I know that I would be speaking to Tunji for the very last time on that day.



Tunji, you left this mortal world without giving me a hint......



Tunji, you never indicated that I would be speaking to you for the very last time on that morning of 21 May 2021. This wasn’t how we used to do it back in 1987....,



Tunji, you gave your life in service to our nation...,



Tunji, you sure made an impact in so many lives as your footprints would remain indelible forever.......



Tunji, you will forever remain a brother and a true friend........till we meet, again.



Rest on brother and may God bless your soul.



Adieu, Olatunji Lookman Olayinka!



Exemplo Ducemus!!!



- Olusegun Ferreira

June 19, 2021
Brother mi, I know the Bible says we shouldn't communicate with the dead but inside of me says you live somewhere in my heart and my subconciousness.
If I knew you'll be leaving this soon, maybe I could have done something to make me see you smile at me for one last time. 
I have cried and cried and don't really know when this would stop. Sometimes I cry as if I had the power to bring u back or at least stopped you from boarding that plane.
Mummy is, with each day, finding it hard to reckon with the fact that she won't see you again. What saddens me the most is that I didn't get to see your remains nor pay my last respect as should before you were buried. Brother mi, it's hard and impossible to find someone of your repute and candor however I believe that I shall see you again in paradise.
I will certainly be back bcos here is where I can be myself and pour out my heart as it concerns your demise.
God bless your soul brother mi... Amen

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