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Welcome to Tyler's site. We hope everyone who loves Tyler is comforted by these memories. 

Tyler was such a kind, polite and gentle person. He was hard-working and dedicated to improving his life and so easy to be around. He worked endlessly on school work and basketball workouts and was always so honest and content. Although he was a young senior, he was very mature for his age. He was most happy when he was with his brothers and cousins laughing and joking - and happiest too if chocolate lava cake was involved. He was very well-liked and always had a smile and wave for everyone. Oh, how I wish we could go back in time and hug him again. I am so honored to have been his mother for seventeen beautiful years and he will forever hold a very special place in my heart, my beautiful baby - such a happy, easy, and fun baby. I do not know how I was so fortunate to be his mother but I am so grateful for every moment we had together and I will miss him every single hour of my life. I especially miss his wonderful hugs. Tyler, I hope you know now that you were enough. More than enough. We loved you just the way you were and we will always love you deeply forever!

Here is the video we aired at Tyler's Celebration of Life!

Tyler's Celebration of Life will be held at the Hyatt Aviara in Carlsbad,
7100 Aviara Resort Dr., on Saturday, March 27th, 2021, 3:00pm-6:00pm.

This is a walk-through memorial. Please try to arrive in staggered waves every 15 minutes or so, starting at 3:15pm. We realize this is less than ideal but it is the only way we are able to have this memorial during Covid.  

We know that not everyone will be able to attend his celebration and that is okay.  Anything goes. This website will help you express your grief and enjoy learning more about who Tyler was and why he was so very precious to us all.
March 3
March 3
Hey Buddy. It's been three years, yet feels like yesterday. I still have those surreal moments where I feel like it was a dream and I'm going to wake up and know that I can see you, hear you, hug you. But no, that's not the reality. You are so dearly missed. It's still so hard to understand but the love we all have for you grows stronger and deeper. You were such a magnanimous young man with so many admirers. The world lost something special when you decided to leave. I love you dearly and I miss you so much. Forever your champion sweet Tyler.
June 11, 2023
June 11, 2023
Tyler you have been an inspiration to all. You are missed so much and loved even more. It's been an honor to be a part of your celebration. You will forever be in our hearts
With love,
Your Auntie Cheri and Uncle Steve ❤️
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
We are here together again celebrating and awesome personality, a great grandson with big hugs and a beautiful smile.
We are doing some new things this year to remember you, we will cry and laugh, give each other hugs and hope to feel your presence with us as we honor you on this day, your birthday.
Our grief is still raw, but how could it not be. Our love for you will stand forever.
May you smile when we release the butterflies.
Love you always, Grandma
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
Sweet beautiful boy! Family is gathered in San Diego to celebrate your beautiful life today. We're painting rocks with messages of love to lay around the tree that shades the bench put their in your honor at Stage Coach Park. It's still hard to believe that you are not here celebrating your 20th birthday. My heart aches for your presence, to be able to look you in the eyes, hold you, and surround you with absolute dedication and love. Still regrets on wishing we'd seen more, done more. I love and miss you sweet Tyler.
Aunt Samie
March 3, 2023
March 3, 2023
Sweet, sweet Tyler. I miss you so much! We mourn you everyday. I wish so much that you were still with us. Your kindness and dedication that you showed to so many people, lives on. It's so hard to believe it's been 2 years. It's a different life that we all walk. And these last two years have been difficult. You touched so many people in your 17 years. Your light will always shine. I love you so so much!
Always your champion, Aunt Samie.
March 3, 2023
March 3, 2023
Tyler,
I think of you ever day and wish so badly you were still here. You were such a kind person, and you marched to your own drummer just like your Papa. You helped so many and we miss you so much.
Love you forever  Grandma
March 7, 2022
March 7, 2022
I think about you every day my sweet nephew with the most wonderful, meaningful hugs!  I miss your laugh, I miss your quick wit, and I miss how would always welcome me with a smile and hug.  This world is missing your beautiful soul. Your vibrant personality will forever be a part of our memories and our hearts. We love you, and will always love you!  Love, Aunt Sissy (aka Tricia) 
March 5, 2022
March 5, 2022
I didn’t get to meet Tyler but I know his mama. I also know a very special girl who met Tyler and was very taken with him. I feel the void he left by knowing the people who loved him.
March 4, 2022
March 4, 2022
Tyler. I miss you so much. So often I wish I could just talk to you, wish I could share an activity with you, wish . could tell you how important you are and what an amazing person you are becoming. You're in my thoughts every day. I hope you are able to know the impact you had on so many people, the influence of your presence. Always kind, generous heart. I love you so much. Miss you always. Aunt Samie.
March 4, 2022
March 4, 2022
Thinking about you a little extra these past days Tyler. ❤️
March 3, 2022
March 3, 2022
Thinking of you always. Your smile and humor are truly missed.
March 3, 2022
March 3, 2022
Tyler, we know your spirit lives on and that you are in a happy place, surrounded by loved ones. Some of us know you are watching over us, and that you want us to heal. However, we still miss you very much. I think about you often, especially when skiing. Like this week. I am in Lake Tahoe and knowing how much fun you would be having. You are such a kind, thoughtful, hard working and beautiful young man. Your memory always brings a warm feeling.
June 11, 2021
June 11, 2021
Happy birthday beautiful boy! We ate lava cake in your honor today at your favorite restaurant Islands. Wishing so badly I were singing happy birthday to you instead of leaving a message here. I love you Tyler. You are forever in my heart and I will keep you close with me always!❤❤❤❤❤
June 10, 2021
June 10, 2021
Happy Birthday, Tyler, I'm constantly thinking about you and how much I wish you could be graduating with us tomorrow. I loved having math with you and I know you'll be watching over all of us tomorrow. We will never forget your kind heart and soul. TD12<3
June 10, 2021
June 10, 2021
Happy Birthday to you. We miss you so much. You live on in our beautiful memories.
Grandma and Papa.
April 27, 2021
April 27, 2021
tyler lit up every room he ever entered with his smile and charm. he made math class fun to attend and he was one of the funniest, most talented, and most respectable person I knew. I’m so sorry for your loss thank you so much for sharing all the photos and stories you have of Tyler with us. ❤️
April 8, 2021
April 8, 2021
We are very sorry for your loss

Squire Family
March 31, 2021
March 31, 2021
Dear Dave-
I am very sorry to hear about Tyler. I can't imagine anything more difficult for a parent than to lose a beautiful child.

I am thinking of you and I am praying for you and your family during these trying times. May Tyler's memory be a blessing.

With Sympathy,
Gary Whitman
March 28, 2021
March 28, 2021
Dave,
I cannot imagine what you and your family are going through right now, and I’m so sorry you have to deal with this kind of loss.  My heart goes out to you all.
Alea
March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
I have always loved and admired the Daugherty's closeness and love bond. I am honored to witness and be a part of a small part of their awesomeness. Tyler will remain in my heart forever. May love and strength help all find peace. xoxo Denise V.
March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
Dear Dave,

I can’t envision a grief so profound as one brought on by the loss of a child. I wish you and your family peace and comfort during this most difficult of times

With deepest sympathy,
Joe Mumford
March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
We are so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing these wonderful pictures and videos of Tyler. May the joy he brought you in his short life be forever in your hearts.
Kay Carmer and Roger Martin





March 26, 2021
March 26, 2021
Dear Dave and Toni,

Here's what I remember: All of you were visiting Washington and staying at a hotel. As I walked down the hallway, I heard a commotion well before I reached your room. When you opened the door, four boys were jumping on the bed, locked in a raging pillow fight. That moment captured all the joy, fun, love, laughter and raw, rambunctious energy that defines your entire family. That will never change. We are thinking about you every day.

Greg and Jen
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021
To Tyler’s family,
I met your mom through tennis and met you all at your house. Tyler and your brothers were always so adored by your parents. When I think of you all I think of love. I’m sending my thoughts and prayers and love to you all.
March 25, 2021
March 25, 2021
Dave, Toni, Dawson, Brendon, and Chandler
The pictures you have shared show such a sweet spirit. I wish I knew you all better. Knowing Tyler was clearly a privilege.
Dave, I know being a father is so integral to your being and how proud you are of all of your sons. This loss is not something I can comprehend and I am so very sorry.
-- Cindy
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Toni and Dave,

Our prayers are with you.

Dave - you've given me laughs and smiles since our first day as roommates in college. I've always admired what a family man you are, and I know you've given laughs and smiles many times over to your kids. Please know in this difficult time that you have friends who care about you.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dear Dave and Toni,
     I am so sorry for your loss. Dave, whenever we saw each other over the years you always spoke of your boys with such pride and love. I wish I had met Tyler. The tributes, pictures and videos only tell a small fraction about Tyler. I am sure there were many more wonderful things about him. Please know I am thinking of you and your family at this difficult time.
Brian
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave, so sorry to hear of your loss. I will be praying for the family to endure in these difficult times. I will ask God to provide the peace beyond understanding that only He can provide.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave & Toni, please know that we grieve along with you and your family and that all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Hi Dave,
So sorry to hear of this terrible loss. I can't imagine what you are going through. You and your family are in our prayers.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave I can tell by the wonderful words from your wife, as well as knowing the man you are, that your son had two of the most wonderful parents on earth. There is no better gift for a child than the knowledge that he is loved. Please know that I am your friend and brother always, that I grieve with you, and that I am here for you.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I was never fortunate enough to meet your son, but he sounds like a wonderful person. He will always be with you and be missed by all.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave,

There are no words that can express our sorrow! We are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please know you and your family are in our prayers.

Brad & Emily
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave and Family - Words can't express how sorry I am for your profound loss. Tyler sounds like an amazing kid who was taken much too soon. My heart goes out to you all during this most difficult time. 
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Tyler sounds like he was a wonderful young man who made an impact on others, as I'm sure he did on you all. My most sincere condolences to you and your family, David.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave,

We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Tyler.
Our prayers are with you and your family.

-Web and Julie
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave
We are so sorry to hear about the loss of your Son, Tyler.
Our prayers are with you and your family.
-Aaron and Jamie
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
I only got to meet Tyler one time, but his glow was unmistakable. His dedication for perfection undeniable. His love for his family so very evident. He will be missed. I'm so sorry for your loss.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
I can't imagine what your family is going through at this time. I'm so sorry your family is experiencing the pain of a loss like this. My heart goes out to each of you.
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave and Toni I am so sorry to hear about Tyler. I can't imagine your sadness.
Please know that you and you family are in our hearts and prayers. 
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave, we are so sorry for your loss. Tyler seemed like an amazing boy and our thoughts are with you and your family. -Kyle & Casey Von Iderstein
March 23, 2021
March 23, 2021
Dave,

I remember your telling me so many times about playing basketball with your youngest son in Lexington. It's so sad I finally put Tyler's face to his name this way.
I am deeply sadden for your loss. I am certain Tyler will have a special place, and continue to live on in your heart, like the ray of sunshine he had always been.
-Haixi
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
David:

I am devastated. I can't imagine your grief. Every time we talked about family, I heard loud and clear your love and dedication to your children. Remember, your Yale brothers will always be with you. My thoughts and love are with you and your family.
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Dave,
Jill and I are deeply saddened to hear this. Please know we are holding your family in our thoughts. Due to COVID haven’t seen you in a while, I hope we are able to catch up in person sometime. So sorry.
Matt Rood

March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Dave,
Time and distance sometimes separate people but know that loyal friendship extends through defined boundaries. Be assured that my tears join your river of sorrow. God bless you, your family and Tyler. I am certain he has been received with open arms.
Most sincerely,
Rich Diana
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Our hearts are broken for you. What a wonderful boy he must have been. Our sincerest condolences. - Paul & Stephanie Molinari
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
Dave, I am so sorry to hear about Tyler’s death. I wish I had met him. I know your son, being your son, would have to be a wonderful person. I also know I am feeling only a small fraction of your grief, but I want you to know that I am thinking about you, remembering your kindness and generosity, and hoping you will continue to find comfort in memories of the sweet boy Tyler was and the vibrant young man he became. Please accept my deepest condolences, my friend.

Barry
March 22, 2021
Toni, Dave and boys,
I am so sorry to hear of Tyler’s passing. As neighbors we got to know your family and are very fond of all of you. Tyler is a loss to the world!
A bright, beautiful young man whose smile brought a smile to every person who met him♥️
We are deeply saddened by his passing.
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
When my words fail, as they do here, I look to others for guidance. William Shakespeare, writing about Romeo, a man who died young, drafted these words: "When he shall die take him and cut him out into stars and he shall make the face of heaven so fine that all the world will be in love with night and pay no worship to the garish sun." Those are the words I hold in my heart when I think of Tyler Daugherty. May those who love Tyler be comforted and consoled.
March 22, 2021
March 22, 2021
When Samantha and I met and then got married, I got to meet and get to know Tyler. I was always impressed by his warm acceptance and his even warmer hugs. What a beautiful young man. Very thoughtful, creative, and hard working. His work ethic was strong, especially homework and practicing his basketball skills. TYLER, you're deeply loved and will be forever in our memories and hearts.
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March 3
March 3
Hey Buddy. It's been three years, yet feels like yesterday. I still have those surreal moments where I feel like it was a dream and I'm going to wake up and know that I can see you, hear you, hug you. But no, that's not the reality. You are so dearly missed. It's still so hard to understand but the love we all have for you grows stronger and deeper. You were such a magnanimous young man with so many admirers. The world lost something special when you decided to leave. I love you dearly and I miss you so much. Forever your champion sweet Tyler.
June 11, 2023
June 11, 2023
Tyler you have been an inspiration to all. You are missed so much and loved even more. It's been an honor to be a part of your celebration. You will forever be in our hearts
With love,
Your Auntie Cheri and Uncle Steve ❤️
June 10, 2023
June 10, 2023
We are here together again celebrating and awesome personality, a great grandson with big hugs and a beautiful smile.
We are doing some new things this year to remember you, we will cry and laugh, give each other hugs and hope to feel your presence with us as we honor you on this day, your birthday.
Our grief is still raw, but how could it not be. Our love for you will stand forever.
May you smile when we release the butterflies.
Love you always, Grandma
His Life

Tyler and Basketball

March 28, 2021
Tyler was so excited to play basketball for the same school that his brother played, LCC.  When he made freshmen team and was a starter at the beginning of the season, he was thrilled. He gained new confidence and worked incredibly hard. He continued working hard, working with a trainer and working out at the gym with his friends and brothers. He would make me drop him off for practice almost an hour early so he could warm up before the other guys arrived and he was often the very last one to leave - although sometimes that was just changing his shoes.  He always wanted to be super early for his games so we often caught the end of the previous games before he had to be there. Tyler continued with basketball until covid made it almost impossible for our players to play. He taught everyone in our new neighborhood how to play the game and set up drills for the younger kids.  He was very well liked in our old and new neighborhood and spread his love of basketball with new players at school and with the kids in our neighborhood. 

Young Tyler fights bad guys all day!

March 28, 2021
As a young child, Tyler used to fight bad guys all day, jumping and kicking and running around the room or yard.  When his doctors commented on his remarkable BMI I used to say, "Well, he does aerobics for hours every day". He wore a spiderman outfit (or two at once) every day.  He would thank me for letting him wear spiderman to the store and I would say, "Well, it's always good to have spiderman protecting me."  He would beam!  He loved all girls and would insist I wait in the long line if a young girl was running the register, so he could talk to her.
When camping with friends, Tyler met Hailey (a sweet young smart and kind girl )10 years older than him.  He sat by her tent every day until she awoke every morning.  She was the light in his day during that camping trip.  When our friends visited us with their daughter Kate, Tyler fell in love immediately, holding her hand and going everywhere with her.


Recent stories

OMG! I just cannot stand it without you!

September 26, 2022
Oh Tyler Wyler. I miss you so much my heart is deeply aching. I don’t know how to stop the hurt. I want to see you, hear you, and hug you. I want you to walk in the door after a semester of college. I love you so much. So much!!! My sweet boy. My baby.  I know this is about me and not you and I know that you know I loved you but I don’t think you knew how unbearable it would be for us to lose you, my sweet and kind child. 

Hard working

April 14, 2021
Tyler was such a hard worker.  He used to sit at the kitchen table 3pm-11pm doing homework - nonstop.  I would set his meals next to his computer and he would eat and work.  I would beg him to take a break but he wanted A's.  He always had to spend more time than other students but his last report card was all A's and 1 B (Spanish - he hated learning Spanish, ha!)  Sometimes I could convince him to go out and shoot some hoop but he would sit right back down and work. Then he would set his alarm for 6am so he could take a quiz before class.  He really wanted to succeed. 

Keep the stories coming!

March 29, 2021
Hi Daugherty family, I love reading stories about Tyler. Keep them coming 

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