Big, little brother.....
September 21, 2020
by Kathy Dolan
Our folks split up when I was in 6th grade; that made Tyler about a first grader. Mom went to work full time so I became the evil older sister! My job was to keep these four hellions under control. What it actually meant was they did whatever they wanted and I threatened them with "telling Mom" to get them to do my chores, etc. Everyone protected Mom; even as littles we knew how difficult her situation was. Tyler more than anyone. He heard from many that he was now "the man of the family" after Dad was gone. I know that expectation was difficult for him the older he got; but, even so, he took those sentiments very seriously and became the big, little brother we all counted on.
As you can imagine, we weren't particularly close through our school years....reference evil older sister. After college, I moved to Minnesota where I met my husband, Tom. I think initially the lure of the Boundary Waters brought Ty to visit, which soon became a frequent journey. He loved getting to know our Minnesota relatives and friends and they too enjoyed their adventures with him. Ty and Tom became very close and we found ways to get back to Colorado more and more. Oh, the fun we all had.
Our kids, Joe and Katie were born and we became even closer. As you have read through these posts you know Ty loved kids. They let him continue to be a kid and he loved teaching them new things and showing them new adventures. As every kid who has experienced Ty's mentorship - that didn't come without a degree of pain!! Who can forget his own rise and shine method for early morning snow skiing and water skiing events!
Soon, Ty and I found ourselves talking almost every day. With a growing business, his exciting new family with Deb and her kids, my growing family, our jobs - there was always so much to talk about. Those are such wonderful, exciting years for everyone - lives were fast paced with constant challenges and new adventures. We shared them all; counseled each other, bragged to each other (I know, shocking) and enjoyed making each other laugh and just a little bit better with each conversation. He was my best friend.
I will forever miss his laugh, that amazing smile, the way he loved and supported my sisters and me, his friendship with my husband, his love for my kids, the way he brightened every event, the energy he put into pushing everyone to be better, his kindness for people when the chips were down. So many ways I'll miss him. But mostly I miss now, and will forever, knowing he is here on God's green earth with all of us.
Our condolences to all who loved him. Rest in peace and pain free, Ty.
As you can imagine, we weren't particularly close through our school years....reference evil older sister. After college, I moved to Minnesota where I met my husband, Tom. I think initially the lure of the Boundary Waters brought Ty to visit, which soon became a frequent journey. He loved getting to know our Minnesota relatives and friends and they too enjoyed their adventures with him. Ty and Tom became very close and we found ways to get back to Colorado more and more. Oh, the fun we all had.
Our kids, Joe and Katie were born and we became even closer. As you have read through these posts you know Ty loved kids. They let him continue to be a kid and he loved teaching them new things and showing them new adventures. As every kid who has experienced Ty's mentorship - that didn't come without a degree of pain!! Who can forget his own rise and shine method for early morning snow skiing and water skiing events!
Soon, Ty and I found ourselves talking almost every day. With a growing business, his exciting new family with Deb and her kids, my growing family, our jobs - there was always so much to talk about. Those are such wonderful, exciting years for everyone - lives were fast paced with constant challenges and new adventures. We shared them all; counseled each other, bragged to each other (I know, shocking) and enjoyed making each other laugh and just a little bit better with each conversation. He was my best friend.
I will forever miss his laugh, that amazing smile, the way he loved and supported my sisters and me, his friendship with my husband, his love for my kids, the way he brightened every event, the energy he put into pushing everyone to be better, his kindness for people when the chips were down. So many ways I'll miss him. But mostly I miss now, and will forever, knowing he is here on God's green earth with all of us.
Our condolences to all who loved him. Rest in peace and pain free, Ty.