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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Benedicta Udoesu, 32 years old, born on March 21, 1980, and passed away on December 13, 2012. We will remember her forever.
December 21, 2012
December 21, 2012
Benema; Benedictus;Benedupa.....dats how i call you when am in my jovial mood or Madam....then am serious now. Its still a mirage. Or i have it at the back of my mind that you are still alive. Ofcourse; you live in Christ forever. All ur lifetime we av shared our thoughts and life. All of a sudden i cant believe you ar not there again. You...not you bene...but God knows best. Je t'aime.
December 21, 2012
December 21, 2012
I'm still in shock but greatly consoled that I got to know you while you were still with us. You inspired me in many ways in the ministry. Thank you for everything. 

RIP my dear friend till we meet to part no more at Jesus' feet.
December 19, 2012
December 19, 2012
May her soul rest in perfect peace and may our Lord God be with the families and friends she left behind especially her husband and children. Thank God Lord for a life well spent.
December 19, 2012
December 19, 2012
Sitting here all alone, looking at your photos
Because it’s all I have of you right now
I can feel the pain inside as it still grows
And I wish that I could bring you back somehow....

Adieu! sweetest Benny!!
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Benedicta!!! Its so sad that you left us too soon,we all don't know why but,God knows and he loves you so much.........you will forever be remembered......continue to Rest in the bossom of the Lord Almighty.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Bennie,its so hard 2 say goodbye,i still remember our days in Unilag,how excited u where that i had joined Christ Embassy,hw i used 2 call u OROBO,i never knew d last time i saw u was going to b the last time i will ever c u again Quel dommage!but one thing is certain you lived a Glorious and a fulfilled LIFE.Au Revoir "BENNIE" mon tres Bon Amie,je vais jamais vous oubliez Repose en paix.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Benedicta Martins! I still can't believe that you are gone. I know you are in a better place. It is a big loss, God will give your family the strength to bear this big loss. We will all miss you. My heart bleed. Rest in peace! till we meet at the feet of christ. Good Nite Bene! We love you but God loves you more. Gone too soon.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
My dear Sis.Benedicta, I look to see you as I enter church sitted at back with Sharon. I still can't believe it. I miss you so much,no one to talk about the french brethren to,only you knew them so well. Remember you promised to help me out Sis.Benedicata,Bro.Alex won best cell no.8 position at the zonal level on Sunday, but we will make no.1 next year just for you. Rest my Sister.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
My Lovely and angelic Benny, am yet to Come to terms with the fact that your no more. I can still hear your lively and resounding chuckles that lights up every soul. You wil be greatly missed my dear. You were upright, very friendly and a solution provider. You exhibited the Christian virtues, and you have gone to rest at The Lords feet. Adieu my dear friend.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Hummmmm! Benedicta you were such an upright, trustworthy, smart and straightforward lady that would be missed by all who knew you. Benedicta truly you have gone to be with The Lord, but we shall always remember you for all your wonderful deeds. Sleep on beloved Benedicta!!!!!!! Adieu Friend!
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
My dear sis Bene, it’s hard to believe you have gone so soon but the joy of it all is that u die in the Lord. You won many soul to Christ. I will miss u so dearly
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
It was meant to be poems
Pages I have torn apart
On tear stained paper
I poured a broken heart

The feeling of despair
Not even words explain
Mixing tears and ink
Pages release the pain

A crumpled notebook
On pages I would write
More paper was torn
Shedding tears tonight
Accept my heartfelt condolences dear.
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Sis Benny, I knew you for a short while, but admired you from a distance. You were such a calm and lovable person. I was shocked when I heard you passed on, but is consoled by the fact that I know you are in a better place. We will all miss you!
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Darling Benedicta how do I begin.This is about the most painful thing I have ever written.You infected us all with ur bubbling personality and ur love for christ.you were so smart,so intelligent,so kind and u sometimes gave me a hard time,but u wanted to make me a better person.I miss u so much but I know u're wit Jesus and we will meet on the last day.I just wished u never left.rest well
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
Dagan! U were wonderful, intelligent, funny, strict, mischievous, devoted. We had our not too pleasant moments but dat's ok cos it shows u were human. We always made up but then we didn't make up when it was important n now u r gone. It's ok dear, GOD sees our hearts n knows that we love(d) each other irrespective. Sleep well my darling cousin. Adieu!
December 18, 2012
December 18, 2012
IS NOT HOW LONG BUT HOW WELL
Sis Benedicta, your death came as a big shock to me but in all things i give praise to God because you are in a better place, the bossom of the Lord. you will be greatly missed by all. You affected alot of lives, so your memory lives on. May God comfort and heal everyone you left behind. RIP
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
My sweet Bennie, you were a great sister, friend and confidant. its always a joy to see you when i arrive Church. oh how can i say good bye to you, still can't believe that i won't see your pleasant face in Church anymore. my only consolation now is that i know you are resting in the Lord's bossom and at your arrival last thursday 13/12/2012, there was a great celebration. Adieu Mon Ami
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
''Hmmmm! who am I to question God?*tears* I remembered how you used to console/advise me to carry on when I was going through some difficult situations. How we used to chat on BB when u want me to teach you how to prepare ''Ofada stew''*tears*. We'll all miss you, your calm smile and your good deeds. Rest in the bossom of the Almighty.
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
While we miss you, our succor is knowing that you are in God and you have gone to a better place. We pray that God comforts those you left behind, and all those you affected in life shall grow into a mighty harvest... bro efe atiyio
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Your passion for the things of God. We are consoled because we know................. to die is gain (Phil 1:21).
You will be greatly missed.
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Sis Benny, I still don't want to believe that you are gone. But like we all know, no one can question HIM. My greatest joy is that you are in a better place. We will miss you.
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
I look up 2 d sky wit misty eyes
Wondering y u ad 2 die
D questions in my mind r many
As I recall memories of my Afiavi
Our friendship transcended bloodlines
Moments wit u always brought cries
Of laughter,of excitement,of joy
Can't bear 2 tink u r no more
U were a shining beacon
God's light in dis dark generation
Filled wit Christ-like passion&love
U were 2 many an angel sent 4m above
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
'Sweet Sis Benny, how can I ask questions? You were a sweet sister and friend, your sweetness still lingers; the movies we saw together, your great smile and rich laughter, the purity of your heart in the questions you asked, or is it the phone cooking lessons.....awwww, sleep well my dear Sis Benny... The Lord knows it all. Adieu!
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
In this & this only we take our consolation
Dat we shall see you @ the resurrection
In glowing garments and gleaming crowns
Smiling, and Dancing to Alleluia sounds
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Ma chère Afiavi, les mots me manquent pour bien m’exprimer! Dire que je t’aime ne suffit pas… dire que ta mort me donne une douleur c’est bien le moins qu’on puisse dire! Dieu est le Tout-Savant et c’est chez lui que nous tous retournons. Ma consolation est que tu l’as bien connu et on se verra au jugement dernier. Sun re, ore mi!
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Bennie,d principled chic;Bennie,d wonderful friend; Bennie,d passionate soulwinner.I quash all feelings of sadness @ ur passing because u lived a life of impact 4 Christ.U sowed a seed of God's word in my life which blossomed when I surrendered to Christ.Ur Christ-like conduct & boldness @ the French village & French school touched lives.I celebrate You.My sis & I miss u.Otubusin Temitope
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Vous étiez en effet une pierre précieuse(une merveille) rare.Le repos dans la poitrine de Dieu avant que nous ne nous rencontrons de nouveau. Votre famille ne sera pas interrompue l'esprit à cause de votre mort du nom de Jésus. Tu me manques. avec amour,Temitope Otubusin
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Bennie, i refused to believe this news when i heard it on Thursday. However, now , i know it's true. I know you're resting in the Lord now.
Bennie, you touched my life in a whole lot of ways and indirectly, you touched others through me.
Bennie i love you and i miss you but God loves you most. Sleep well, ma Cherie till we meet again at Jesus' feet
December 17, 2012
December 17, 2012
Sis Benny, you were such a loving and caring friend, sister and wife. You affected many lives even though you lived a short life. The church, your family, your husband, your office, sharon your daughter will miss you greatly. your memories will forever live in our hearts. Adieu Sis Benny Udoesu. We love you but God loves you more.RIP
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September 4, 2013
. Can I ever forget her, the days we spent together during our service year..it took me long to know benny. I miss you, sure your family misses you more...I remember d day u prayed so hard 4 me, I remember d fellowships u took me 2, I remember d freak accident on a bike in lagos, so many things. Benny may your spirit live on...you were d best friend, benny till we meet again heaven...you are d still person I ever came across. Solace to your family, solace to friends. ..be sure we would live our lives to make you proud.... I miss you, we miss u... Feyisayo ranti Borisade

What a rare gem you are

December 29, 2012

Dear Sis Benny,

Though i knew you just about a year ago, you are a gem very calm and sound.

The grace at which you address issues is unparallel (i used present tense because you are alive to God but absent here in this part of heaven we belong) i realy missed your smiles, the last time we shared was in your car when you took me to Barracks while on your way home after a group meeting early this year.

I remember your counsel to always take life easy, not to allow any stressor take charge of my life as a woman. You counselled me just like an experienced teacher, mother and sister would.

Rest on beloveth, till we meet to part no more.

Love you forever sister.

December 21, 2012

My dear friend Benny.

You were a great inspiration to me in church. You served God relentlessly and never complained about responsibilities in the house of God rather you looked to take on more.

I am grateful to God that I was able to be a part of your life even though it was short. We partnered together a few times on particular projects and it was indeed an interesting experience. Your demise came as a huge shock to everyone.  But just as the bible says, I do not weep as one who has no hope. All I can do now is pick up the torch from where you left off and ensure we finish the race that has been set before us.

Rest well my dear friend till we meet at the Master’s feet. 

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