Vance Hess
  • 52 years old
  • Date of birth: Jan 20, 1959
  • Place of birth:
    Canyonville, Oregon, United States
  • Date of passing: Feb 6, 2011
  • Place of passing:
    Sacramento, California, United States
Let the memory of Vance be with us forever

This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Vance Hess, 52, born on January 20, 1959 and passed away on February 6, 2011. We will remember him forever.
Vance was my pride and joy. He gave his all helping other and making them happy.
We shared a lot of things together. We love to play golf,meet to watch football and just hang out..
I will always miss him and part of my heart left when Vance left. I was not ready for him to leave but I had no choice 
      I Love you Vance..

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 17th January 2018

"Happy Birthday Vance we love and miss you. This a hard week for us you passed away and then Steven So sad without you two You Vance and we do remember Much love"

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 16th April 2017

"Happy Easter Vance we miss you so much . We love you wish you was here"

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 6th February 2017

"Vance, I will always love you. I miss you so much that words cannot impart the deep emptiness that resides inside of me since your departur. I will love you till the end of time."

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 20th January 2017

"Hi Vance
Today is your birthday. I will be making a cheesecake for your birthday Wish you were here to help eat  it. We miss you and  love you  Vance"

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 20th January 2017

"Dear Vance,
I want to say Happy Birthday to you Sweetheart, but it surely isn't  happy, not without you. You left me with so many treasured memories. I miss you so much. I knew when we sat and discussed our wedding  that you were that one in a million that I had sought my entire life. Three wonderful hours of being engaged to the most wonderful man I had ever met. At least we spent the rest of what was left of your life together. When I get to heaven, I'm  coming looking for you, you still owe me more time! I will always love you."

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 24th December 2016

"Merry Christmas Vance
Your dad and I miss you so much. We lost you too soon We love you my som"

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 21st March 2016

"Hello Vance
I wanted to tell you how much we miss you we Love and miss you. Our lives will never be the same without you."

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 20th March 2016

"Vance some of the things that I'm doing right now make me miss you so incredibly much. Baby, I wish I could hold you or whisper in your just sucks without you. Have you and Connie caught up with one another, since she joined you last year right before Thanksgiving. I sit in such disbelief that you are there. My heart aches for you. You left a forever mark across my heart and my life. It is so hard not to be mad at you for leaving me all alone. Here we finally found the right one. I treasure everyday that we shared I'm  just so sad that there weren't  more. Well Baby I need to try to sleep. You are always in my thoughts and my heart, I love you forever."

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 6th February 2016

"Sweetheart,  I can't  believe it's  five  years since I've  held you close. I love you always. So hard for me when I  think of all of our dreams and plans that never came  to fruition.  You are truly one in a million, how my heart longs for you. I miss you so much! I love you."

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 20th January 2016

"Hi Vance
I wanted to say Happy birthday. You always wanted me to bake you a cheese cake. I wish I could bake you a cake today. We  love and miss you Vance Happy Happy Birthday"

This tribute was added by Karen Cole-Ainley on 8th February 2015

"Thank you big brother for reminding me all the years we knew each other to live life with all your heart and soul.  The choices we make are ours and no else's because as no one changes our path accept ourselves.  I miss your frankness and the candid conversations about family and integrity of valuing each moment we live and share with those who are still alive as you told me when I cried about our moms passing.  Now you are dancing in heaven with those we love so dearly.  I will cherish the memories and until we meet again my brother, may your words, advice, and enduring passion for all that is good on earth live in our memories.  

We love you and miss your wild and practical perspectives.

Love Sis & Family"

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 6th February 2015

"You took my heart, that fateful night,
Nothing again would ever be alright.
The depths of the love that we shared,
So incredible, but could not be spared.
Your heart stopped beating, just as we had begun,
All of our dreams shattered and no where to run.
You've been gone now for so very long,
My heart cries out for you, I miss you, but I'll be strong.
Save a place for me that is close to where you are my dear,
On that motorcyle ride in heaven sitting behind you in the rear.
God knows how much I miss you, your smile, your voice, your touch,
One day we'll be together again I love you so much."

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 21st January 2015

"My precious Vance, I miss you so much Sweetheart. I love you. There is no one here that can fill your shoes."

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 31st August 2014

"Good Morning Vance
I am having coffee and thought of the times we went and had drinks. We had a lot of fun.
Love you"

This tribute was added by Stephanie McCammant on 30th August 2014

"I miss you terribly Vance, you are always in my thoughts. I only wish we could've had more time together."

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 6th February 2014

"Sweetheart, you know that I love and miss you with all my heart. One day we will see each other again. I thank God for the time that He allowed for me to have you in my life. Today being three years that you're gone, my world is so empty without you. Thank you for being such a wonderful blessing to me while you were here. I love you, Vance forever."

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 20th January 2014

"Happy Birthday Vance
Its been three years the 8th of Feb but it seems like yesterday. Your birthday is today but your true birthday was when you went home to be with God. Happy birthday my son Vance. Your Dad and I miss you so much. We love you."

This tribute was added by Nadine Neis on 20th January 2014

"Vance........I will love you forever. You are in my heart and on my mind everyday of my life. You left such a gapping hole in my heart that is the hollow I now live with until we meet again. We should be celebrating today, taking one of our rides up to Jackson and getting ready to execute all the plans and dreams that we talked about and shared. You were the most amazing, loving, kind, intelligent, pragmatic. awesome man that God had ever given me the privilege of sharing so many special times together. I treasured you in life and for all time. You were a one of a kind and I miss you more than words could ever express. I love you for all time. Happy Birthday My Love. Until we are together again, I will keep you safe in my heart."

This tribute was added by Jane Hess on 25th November 2013

"Hi Vance
It will soon be 3 years since you left us. Your Dad and I miss you and love you very much. We wanted to say Happy Thanksgiving"

This tribute was added by dana jensen on 6th March 2013

"As we just crossed the 2 year mark of my brothers passing, I can only smile when I think of what he would have been saying to me when I found myself crying, not for him, because he is now forever at peace which he truly deserved, but for me and for Wayne.  We sat together on February 6th, just the 2 of us and remembered the love he had for us and became thankfule for the time we did have."

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