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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Vani Theokary, . We will remember him forever.

October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
Dear Baby Brother,

I miss talking to you. I know you are resting but hoping you are watching over me and the family. I have four grandkids now. I know they would love you like I do. Keeping your memory alive, until we all meet again. Love from your sister Andonetta.
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
Today I remember you in Memorial 10 years passing and you were our younger brother and you left us to soon. Wish we all could have lastly longer on earth to share memories and conversations. I miss our talks and how you and Mommy always had the right words to say to me when I was down. I love you Woots from your Toots. Please watch over me, I feel so alone on this Earth without my tribe. RIP Baby Brother Johnny. ❤️
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Baby brother I did not forget you I know you're resting but we miss you here on Earth your nephew got married and it was a beautiful wedding I know you would have been there in person but I hope you were there in spirit I'm sure you were with all the other siblings and mommy and daddy. Love you.
October 22, 2020
October 22, 2020
In Memorial for my baby brother 10/22/2012. Eight years ago you left us and our world as not been the same since. I miss you "Woots" from your baby sister "Toots". Until we meet again. RIP
October 20, 2019
October 20, 2019
Seven years and we miss you. You were our Rock after Mommy left us. Miss you baby brother. You are the Woots!!! RIP May Your Be Eternal
July 22, 2019
July 22, 2019
Dear baby brother, we miss you and honored your resting place last week. Sophia and I went to New Jersey to pay our respects. It a beautiful cemetery park and we are so happy you are resting with Michael. Until we meet again. May Your Memory Be Eternal
October 22, 2018
October 22, 2018
NEVER LITTLE JOHN, I MISS ALL OF THEM I GREW WITH THERE FAMILY FEEL BLESSED FOR THAT, I KNOW YOUR HAPPY NOW JOHN WE HERE ON EARTH
DONT UNDERSTAND WHAT LIFE MEANS, WELL AT LEAST I DON'T EVERY DAY ALL THE THEO ARE IN MY HEART I PRAY ALL ARE WELL INCLUDING MY BROTHER RALPH. BEN TORRES
October 21, 2018
October 21, 2018
10/21/18 Six years ago tomorrow you crossed over. I miss talking to you brother. But I know you are in a good place. Until we meet again. May your Memory be Eternal. Say hi to Michael, Nicky , Mommy, and Daddy. Love you Woots!
October 22, 2017
October 22, 2017
My Brother from another mother! I was being honored at an awards banquet & an usher came up to the head table & said someone is trying to get in, just to say hello & to congratulate you. I said who is it? And they said it’s a cab driver. When the usher turned around, there was Johnny! I think of you a lot & hope you are resting well my 1st friend ever.
October 21, 2017
October 21, 2017
In Memory of my baby brother. Five years now and we still miss you. Wish we could see you but we will see you again some day. I miss you and wish you did not leave us so young. I know you are with Mommy, and Nicky but we still miss you. Love you brother. 10/22/17
October 22, 2016
October 22, 2016
Uncle Johnny, hope your spirit is resting well. Things are going along fine here and we are thinking of you. You are still missed very much and the family always has nice stories to share. I saw Anthony earlier this year and he is doing well. He always had such sweet things to say about you. Until we meet again, love you Uncle!
October 21, 2016
October 21, 2016
It's been four long years. Wish you could had stayed on this Earth longer. Miss you Johnny. See you soon. Love you. RIP 10/21/16
October 22, 2015
October 22, 2015
Love you dude continue to watch over us, I will continue to find Mike and maybe R you were the rock brother, Ant has you know is doing ok and is a grandma miss you dude.
October 22, 2015
October 22, 2015
Brother John I know you watch over us, say hello to all my brothers and sisters. love you I know you were the rock. And I will continue to try and connect with your other brothers here on earth. Thank you John for being my family Ben Torres
October 21, 2015
October 21, 2015
My baby brother John, you are missed so much here on Earth. I know you are watching over your nieces and nephew and you are with mommy but boy we miss you so. Wish I can talk to you. Three year memorial of your passing. Johnny you left us too young. I love you brother and I know I will see you again someday. May you Memory Be Eternal. God Rest Your Soul!
October 22, 2014
October 22, 2014
Dear Uncle Johnny,
You'll never be forgotten, rest in peace!!
<3<3<3
Phia
October 21, 2014
October 21, 2014
10/21/14 Dear Johnny, I was driving home from work tonight and I could not shake the sad feelings I feel today. Today you were very missed and it will be two years tomorrow. I will light a candle in your memory tomorrow. I miss you so much brother. Wish you were here so we can talk. Rest In Peace Baby Brother. I love you Woots, your sister Toots. ;)
October 21, 2013
October 21, 2013
A year ago on October 22, 2013 my beloved Baby Brother Vani "John" Theokary pass away due to liver failure at a young age of 44. I will light a candle tomorrow night for you brother near the beach at the stature of the Virgin Mary. I know you are watching from above but you are missed so much here on earth. You were the one brother I could call on even just to talk. I miss you Brother.
December 26, 2012
December 26, 2012
When I last saw you in October, I told you that I will see you at Xmas. I did not see you in my dreams last night, must mean you are resting in peace and safe in HEAVEN but boy it would have been great to see you in my dreams. Miss you "Woots".
December 10, 2012
December 10, 2012
Last night I wish I could call you to talk so you can tell me everything will be okay..........I'll been sad and I missed you ...so I went to the Virgin Mary stature across from the beach and lighted a candle and left it there with a picture of us. I wish I could hear your voice again and wish you can tell me that everything will be okay. Miss talking to you brother....you were my rock....
November 12, 2012
November 12, 2012
Hi Brother John, your home I know your journey was sometimes a hard one, but the baby of the family ALWAYS took care of his brothers and sisters, Your big heart is now glowing has you sit with our lord, John I will never forget you, I know Mom and Dad, Nicky and all others are loving you like you deserve to be.
Your Big Brother
November 1, 2012
November 1, 2012
November 01, 2012 Words from Michael Lieberman:
Code 5 was a good man. He would help people even though he would lose money doing it. A good soul RIP John.
Reposted from the website philly.com/obituaries.
November 1, 2012
November 1, 2012
Uncle Johnny .... I always remember your heart!!! You cared for mom mom selfishly! You never had kids of your own but you went out of your way to be there for all your nieces and nephews when we were kids!  You are leaving us to young!  So unfair....
October 30, 2012
October 30, 2012
John, "my brother for another mother", You were the first friend I ever had & I will miss you dearly! R.I.P my Brother!!
October 29, 2012
October 29, 2012
Gone but not forgotten...your sense of humor, your smile. When good people leave this dysfunctional world they always get their reward and you got yours: The Kingdom of Haven next to our God and your family...What a gift!!!.You are in a better place and I know we'll see you again. R.I.P. my brother.
October 28, 2012
October 28, 2012
Uncle John... I remember ....when you would give me money if I got A's on my report card, your love for decorating the Christmas tree with mom mom, our many cab rides as kids and in college when I was coming back from the bars and needed a lift back to Delaware county, and your infectious laughter and your big heart. Thank you for always being there. Love Vanessa
October 28, 2012
October 28, 2012
I really don't know where to begin; from when you were a sweet young boy to the man you became. Your kind, thoughtful, generous, giving person anyone could ever know. Anyone that knew you, would agree with me. You will forever be missed but not forgotten. Rest in peace Johnny<3
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
My baby brother was the best. We grew up together and him and I were the babies of the family. He was my confidant and I can call him for anything through out our adult life. Johnny was the calm one of the family, the sensible one, the one who had a quiet sense about him. He was his mother's baby and caretaker. He always helped anyone if he could. He will be truely missed Love you brother.
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
Uncle Johnny and I spent little time together and most of my memories are from when I was little. But I always knew the goodness of his heart and felt his strong spirit, which always emanated from my mother as well. I know he is in a better place now and the memories of his laughter, humor, and love will last a lifetime.
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
On behalf of my brother Michael Theokary here are his words,
My brother John was good to me and helped me alot. We stuck together like glue during the good times and bad times. I will miss him with all my heart. Love you brother John from your brother Michael.
October 27, 2012
October 27, 2012
On behalf of my older sister Helen Theokary here are her words.
My baby brother was the heart of the family. I love him and he will always be in my heart and in my memory. I love you baby brother.

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October 22, 2023
October 22, 2023
Dear Baby Brother,

I miss talking to you. I know you are resting but hoping you are watching over me and the family. I have four grandkids now. I know they would love you like I do. Keeping your memory alive, until we all meet again. Love from your sister Andonetta.
October 22, 2022
October 22, 2022
Today I remember you in Memorial 10 years passing and you were our younger brother and you left us to soon. Wish we all could have lastly longer on earth to share memories and conversations. I miss our talks and how you and Mommy always had the right words to say to me when I was down. I love you Woots from your Toots. Please watch over me, I feel so alone on this Earth without my tribe. RIP Baby Brother Johnny. ❤️
October 29, 2021
October 29, 2021
Baby brother I did not forget you I know you're resting but we miss you here on Earth your nephew got married and it was a beautiful wedding I know you would have been there in person but I hope you were there in spirit I'm sure you were with all the other siblings and mommy and daddy. Love you.
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From you I found my family TheokaryFor me it will be unforgettable Rafail Jon Nikos Vani Helen Michal and my grandfather Rafail Theokary we will always remember them !!!  Thank you very much 
Forever missed .com !!!!!                                 
   By Eleni Theokary 

Ode to Uncle J.

October 28, 2012

I tried to warm the hospital room,

you were obviously cold.

You, with knitted eyebrows,

squeezed your eyes shut,

let them flip open,

it was that easy. To imagine—

to hope for an ending as sweet.

No. Your soul’s already flying,

winged, bare-backed, naked.

And there your body is white.

Not yellow. Not coursing with blue-red veins.

There, your sister’s touch is a hologram

you frame in gold.

There, the mechanical buzz is the whirr of insects,

the light from the 10th floor window,

energy of Grandma,                            energy of Uncle,

your staggered breathing, the galloping,

the journey’s rhythm,

the punctuation needed to end

your sentence.

 

You tried to focus dark pupils on me—

I knew them, just wasn’t used to the layer

of grey, and when you told me not to kiss you,

I decided that I was unable to escape

you, our parting, my mother’s lowered voice.

Which is why I take you up,

like a flag,

like faith,

like the value of you

is immortal.

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