A Tribute to my dear friend Vicki.
I met Vicki when I was 20 yrs. and in-between my Junior/Senior year at
Ohio University. Vicki was 19 yrs. old and my sister Elonne's friend. Vicki
and Elonne had both been a part of DIRTY FEET, Vicki with a "starring" role
and Elonne designing and drawing all the artwork for the Record jacket,
the movie credits, etc. Elonne, at the time had a little upstairs studio apartment in a 3 story rental on "B" street on the Balboa Peninsula in Newport Beach. Elonne had generously invited me to come and spend the
summer with her. Vicki, Elonne and I had a really fun evening together with
Vicki spending the night. Elonne's upstairs tenant was a single guy and he came home about midnight that night with a "friend." You know how some
things can just "hit you so funny?" The more the overhead bed moved
the more Vicki and I became hysterical...with Vicki you couldn't stop laughing.
We were up all night talking and laughing and adding more and more
commentary about the length of the time the noise went on...when we saw
the upstairs neighbor the next day we burst out laughing all over again.
Those were really fun times, wonderful, lazy days at the beach...over the
years one or the other of us would recount that night that we became
friends laughing our hearts out at a springing bed that seemed to move
up and down for eons.
I came from a small town in Ohio... you know, quiet neighborhoods, no traffic except maybe a couple of cars on a turnpike...I was definitely and totally
unprepared for driving around downtown Los Angeles with Vicki in her Karmann Ghia! OMG I was terrified and she was just "sooo-at-home" with it
all. In and out of big trucks, us low to the ground, the hood down, I just
hung-on. Elonne and I were chatting about Vicki the other day and all her
cars...I remember her LOVING her YELLOW V.W. THING. Sure not a sports
car but a super big fav of hers always.
When Vicki went to work at KISS RADIO the idea of doing a small cartoon
in the newspaper was sold-in to management. Vicki asked me if I would
like to create a nebulous character to illustrate the copy?
My degree is in Fine Arts, I had never done any commercial art so I was
really a fish out of water. But I tried and came up with a rather strange
little guy (which he turned out being as they wanted a girl also down the
road). They called the small cartoon KISSABLES. Vicki liked him from the
start and all the fans the little cartoon generated...Vicki was always very
positive about everything I submitted which really was the BEST part of
the job.
Vicki and Michael's Wedding Day was my husband of 30 years and my
"first date." She was such a beautiful bride and soo happy! I was always
so happy that the day was so extra-special and wonderful for both
Vicki and Michael. Still a very clear and wonderfully romantic memory of mine!
The last time Vicki and I "really got-together" for a good period of time was
when I took the train up for her 60th Birthday party and spent the weekend.
That night, once again sharing a bed, the years melted away as we talked
and laughed for most of the night...this time without the impetus of a bouncing bed!
Vicki was the strongest woman I have ever known. In spite of all her bodily
challenges she continued to smile and laugh and be positive. She didn't
get bitter or self-pitying, she just did her best to take what she was given
"in stride." Vicki was Brave, Courageous and Strong. Vicki was a lot of other
things as well...She was Glamorous, Sexy, Thoughtful, Warm-hearted, Loving,
Talented, Independent, Passionate about Life, Playful, Generous, Giving,
Delightful, a Great Hugger and a Most Wonderful and Irreplaceable Friend to me.
I miss you Vicki but the sound of your laughter (and we laughed together
a lot.) I will always carry in my heart. You were and still are a "Sparkling
Light Beam Spirit" who enhanced my world with the Essence of your Soul!
Love, Marlene