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This lifetime memorial website in honour of Mrs Vicky Addai-Diawuo (nee Baah) has been created at https://www.forevermissed.com/vicky-addai-diawuo/#about.
Vicky was called home to be with her Lord and Maker on Wednesday September 26, 2018 at St. Thomas’s Hospital in London, UK.
Indeed Vicky was a blessed child of God, a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, auntie, cousin and niece; a loyal family woman; a true lovely friend, work colleague, prayer warrior and a joyful companion to know.
The Justgiving weblink set up for kind donations in support of Vicky’s chosen charities GHAFES, Scripture Union (Ghana), Renew West Africa (Ghana, Togo, Ivory Coast and Hornchurch Baptist Church (UK) raised well over the £3000 target, thanks to the kindness and generosity of friends, family, colleagues and loved ones.
https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/vicky-addai-diawuo?utm_term=DV52Db4kG


Vicky was buried on Friday October 19 2018 at the UPMINSTER CEMETERY, Ockendon Rd, Upminster RM14 2UY. The Committal service which started at 1245 pm was also marked with a lovely time and spontaneous celebratory atmosphere at the graveside “Singspiration”

DRESS CODE: Black & White (where possible)

Details of The Service of Celebration were as follows:

Date: Friday 19 October 2018

Time: 10am prompt.

Venue: ROMFORD BAPTIST CHURCH, MAIN ROAD, LONDON, RM1 3BL, UK

The Service of Thanksgiving followed, at 1:30pm in the ROMFORD BAPTIST CHURCH HALL, with music, tributes and refreshments UNTIL 4PM. Clearing up and shutting RBC was completed by 5pm.

The traditional Ghanaian “one week celebration” took place at Vicky's family home in Hornchurch on Saturday 6th October 2018 from 4pm- 10pm in a lovely atmosphere, listening to some of Vicky’s favourite Christian inspirational songs in the pleasant company of the many well wishers.

Many thanks to all friends, loved ones, church family, neighbours, work colleagues, and acquaintances who were able to come in their numbers to mourn with Vicky’s entire family. 

“Indeed, The Lord turns our sorrow into joy as we gratefully receive His strength for each day”


October 13, 2023
October 13, 2023
Vicky, I am missing you. The difference you made to my life was so remarkable. Unknowingly, you taught me some lessons which are continuing to help me to navigate situations and make decisions. Thank you.. Continue to rest in peace.
October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
I can't believe that it's now five years since you left us and went to join the party in Heaven. I miss you lots and especially the times I shared at house group with you, Akwasi and other dear friends from HBC.

I thank you once again for all the prayers that you prayed for myself and my family. 
We are all doing well and I feel very blessed by God's incredible love.

Carry on resting in the perfect peace that transcends all understanding. I remember you saying 'don't be anxious about anything, but pray about everything!'

God bless Vicky 

October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
Precious memories of Vicky and love and prayers to Akwasi and all the family. May God bless you daily with His peace and continual signs of His grace in the Lord Jesus.
October 11, 2023
October 11, 2023
I what a wonderful day.
“At this time there are three things that continue.
1. We continue to trust God.
2. We continue to hope for his good things.
3. We continue to love other people.

But the most important of these things is LOVE

‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13‬:‭13‬
RIP ‭- “Toria”
September 27, 2023
September 27, 2023
5 years gone already and seems like only yesterday. We continue to remember that smile and genuine interest in knowing how one was faring.
The effort to get in touch with family as much as you could, whenever you had opportunity in Ghana.
We're thankful to God, for the opportunity of connecting with you, and pray that your memory will continue to be a blessing to us all.
Amen.
September 27, 2023
September 27, 2023
It's been five long years.
Still no stopping the silent tears;
still no stopping the sudden smiles.
Memories of fun times and many miles
travelled, from the Aburi mountains
to the diamond-rich, rain-fed fountains
of your beloved Sierra Leone...
And now, dust to ashes you lie, alone,
as it was in the beginning, like a spinster
six feet under, in Upminster...
But now you are risen from the grave,
To death no longer a slave,
Safe in the arms of Yeshua
Everlasting life forever sure
September 26, 2023
September 26, 2023
Miss your fun, smile and laughing and your godly wisdom. 
September 26, 2023
September 26, 2023
It only seems yesterday Vicky, we were having coffee at Costa chatting and laughing your amazing beautiful Mum and grand mother and you're a great friend too. You're now with God!

♥️
September 26, 2023
September 26, 2023
Away from the body, at home with the Lord, and ever-present in our hearts & thoughts.

Can finally report some progress: Akwasi finally stepped foot in the 'Inn' this summer! Only for a few minutes, but a giant step, nonetheless. Still praying and hoping
September 26, 2023
September 26, 2023
I REMEMBER IT ALL SOOOO WELL

“Then Job replied to the Lord: ‘

I KNOW that YOU can do all things; no PURPOSE of YOURS can be THWARTED.

YOU asked,

“Who is this that OBSCURES my PLANS without KNOWLEDGE?”

SURELY, I spoke of things I did not understand,

things too wonderful for me to know.

‘You said, “LISTEN now, and I will SPEAK ;

I will QUESTION you, and you shall answer ME.”

My EARS had HEARD of you but NOW my EYES have SEEN you.

THEREFORE

I despise myself and repent in dust and ashes.’”
‭‭Job‬ ‭42‬:‭1‬-‭6‬ ‭
May Your Soul RIP
August 30, 2023
August 30, 2023
Vicky darling, it seems just like yesterday when we were saying goodbye to you. Your memory & your voice is still soo fresh in my mind, never to be forgotten. Rest well sister dear until we meet again.
August 27, 2023
August 27, 2023
5 years......still seems like yesterday. Memories linger.........still very fresh. Love you forever, sis.
August 26, 2023
August 26, 2023
HOLDING ON TO THE PROMISE ~5 YEARS ON

“My eyes will watch over them for their good, and I will bring them back to this land.
I will build them up and not tear them down;
I will plant them and not uproot them.

I will give them a heart to know me, that I am the Lord.
They will be my people, and I will be their God, for they will return to me with all their heart.”
‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭24‬:‭6‬-‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬
October 12, 2022
October 12, 2022
Hmmmmh, my dear Vicky it still seems like yesterday when you left us to glory. You are always remembered for your love and care. Rest in peace my dear till we meet again.
October 11, 2022
October 11, 2022
Reflections on This Day:

“May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.”
RIP Vicky
‭‭Romans‬ ‭15:13‬ ‭NIVUK‬‬
October 11, 2022
October 11, 2022
Forever in our hearts, Vicky continue to rest in peace
September 26, 2022
September 26, 2022
It's 4 years since your sudden departure, but the shock & the pain of loss are no less raw. Akwasi has not set foot at the 'Inn' since you left us.

But we take comfort from the assurance of Scripture that "away from the body means at home with the Lord", where there is no more pain or suffering. Rest in peace till we meet again in the streets of gold, and prostrate together at the feet of the Lamb that was slain, in wonder, love & praise.
September 25, 2022
September 25, 2022
Fondly Remembered. Rest In Peace, Vicky.

“You will keep in Perfect Peace those whose minds are steadfast, because they trust in you.

Trust in The Lord for ever, for The Lord, the Lord Himself, is The Rock Eternal.”

‭‭Isaiah‬ ‭26:3-4‬ ‭NIVUK‬‬
October 11, 2021
October 11, 2021
You’d be saying today as you often did:

“Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame.
Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant.
Don’t quit in hard times; Pray all the harder.
Help needy Christians;
Be inventive in hospitality.”

‭‭Romans‬ ‭12:11-13‬ ‭MSG‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/97/rom.12.11-13.MSG
RIP Vicky
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
I am still missing one of my dearest friends. It still seems so surreal to me. My consolation is that I know she's in a better place and I'll see her again one day.
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Still missing you my dear sister. I know ur are resting in perfect peace. You will always be remembered.
September 27, 2021
September 27, 2021
Ooh my dearest Vickie the memory of your passing away is still fresh. Today you are remembered with love, trusting that you are resting with our Father in heaven. You remain in my heart always.
September 26, 2021
September 26, 2021
My sister Victoria, 3 years? Grace abounds and keeps. Love you for all eternity.
September 26, 2021
September 26, 2021
Days and times have passed, but you will never be forgotten auntie Vicky.
Forever rejoice in heaven with the angels .
September 26, 2021
September 26, 2021
Three Years On.
A GASP for Breath:
His G-race, A-noiting, S-trength, P-ower

“Don’t burn out; keep yourselves fueled and aflame. Be alert servants of the Master, cheerfully expectant. Don’t quit in hard times; pray all the harder. Help needy Christians; be inventive in hospitality.”
‭‭Romans‬ ‭12:11-13‬ ‭MSG‬‬
https://bible.com/bible/97/rom.12.11-13.MSG
RIP Vicky
October 18, 2020
October 18, 2020
https://youtu.be/ZEMCeymW1Ow

The falling leaves drift by the window
The autumn leaves of red and gold
I see your lips, the summer kisses
The sun-burned hands I used to hold
Since you went away the days grow long
And soon I'll hear old winter's song
But I miss you most of all my darling
When autumn leaves start to fall
Since you went away the days grow long
And soon I'll hear old winter's song
But I miss you most of all my darling
When autumn leaves start to fall
October 16, 2020
October 16, 2020
Death is so cruel to have taken our dear and loved Vicky away from us. You were dear to our heart for which we shall always remember you. Hope you are resting in the blossom of your Creator. Our thoughts will always be with you till we meet again.
Rest in peace Sister Vicky.
Wofa Yaw
October 12, 2020
October 12, 2020
Happy Heavenly Birthday dear Vicky, was thinking of you today with such fond memories. You will never be forgotten ❤️
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
Happy Heavenly Birthday Dear Vicky.
I often think of you and all I learnt from you.
Your presence is still very greatly missed.xxx
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
To my dear Vicky. You are remembered today with so much love and affection. It's comforting to know that you are resting in the loving arms of our Heavenly father. Rest In Peace my dear. Your memory lives on.
October 11, 2020
October 11, 2020
The Memories Live on Vicky. I am grateful to God that I could reflect and pray through the heart felt message in my Last Birthday Card to you in 2017. Pity there’s wasn’t the opportunity to top that in 2018. Somehow it was all that needed to be shared. RIP Vicky.
October 2, 2020
October 2, 2020
Vicky my dearest friend, memories of your last visit still lingers so fresh on my mind. Your strength & courage still encourages me. You’re out of our sight but never forgotten. You’ll always be in our hearts. Enjoy His presence girl!!
October 1, 2020
October 1, 2020
Dear Vicky, you've been on my mind, especially this past week. Still see your different facial expressions: seriousness, reflective, mischief, glee, and more that made you you.
It's been a blessing knowing you, praying and worshipping together, discussing spiritual matters, chatting and having fun as well as discussing serious issues. Your memory is a blessing.
I wish it were possible for you to tell me how it is on the other side. Knowing you, it would be animated, colourful and exciting.
Rest well till we meet again.
September 28, 2020
September 28, 2020
2 years on and it's still surreal. Still unable to get my head fully round the fact of your not being here, although you were definitely not there when I visited Akwasi last September, and visited the grave. I thank God that you were my friend and sister, one of the few I could bare my heart to. Thanks for loving me and accepting me as I am. I love you and I miss you.
September 28, 2020
September 28, 2020
Can't believe that 2 years have whizzed pass since you left us. You are forever in our minds. Rest on sister. Your work on earth speaks on
September 27, 2020
September 27, 2020
Vicky, it's so hard getting used to not having you around. We fondly remember you, two years on, as if it was yesterday. I was going to say rest in peace, but knowing you, you will be skipping all over heaven making all the angels smile and chatting away with the saints triumphant. Miss you loads.

From Lucy and Sackey.
September 26, 2020
September 26, 2020
Ooh my dear Vicky, 2years ago, today you left me in sorry but comforted by the fact that you are at peace in the Lord and free from the pain you were in. I miss you dearly and cannot forget you and the part you played while you were alive as my advocate. I will always love you and your memory lives on.
September 26, 2020
September 26, 2020
I can't believe that 2 years have gone by. So much has happened and the world has changed so much.. Vicky you were such a beautiful and valued friend and I miss you. You will never be forgotten.
September 26, 2020
September 26, 2020
Dear Vicky,
Your friendship was precious and life changing. I still miss you.
May the Lord continue to watch over your family and all those whom you loved. I pray that He will bless them forever.
Angie
September 26, 2020
September 26, 2020
Two years on the memories of our last moments together and conversation remain so fresh and heartwarming. “God is Good and Faithful” indeed. “Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, faithful in prayer” remains your abiding spiritual legacy to me, Rest In Peace my dear Vicky
September 26, 2020
September 26, 2020
Gone but never forgotten.
Rest peacefully in the bosom of the Lord.
April 14, 2020
April 14, 2020
Dear Vicky, you have been a true blessing to Hornchurch Baptist Church and the Body and Christ. Thank you for your labour of love and may the good and faithful Lord strengthen your family here on earth. May you rest in peace.
October 26, 2019
October 26, 2019
Dear Sister Vicky,
It has been over a year since you left us. You are sadly missed my sister. Thanks be to God for the precious time we had with you. I will always remember you with fond memories and much love. May you rest in heavenly peace always.
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October 13, 2023
October 13, 2023
Vicky, I am missing you. The difference you made to my life was so remarkable. Unknowingly, you taught me some lessons which are continuing to help me to navigate situations and make decisions. Thank you.. Continue to rest in peace.
October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
I can't believe that it's now five years since you left us and went to join the party in Heaven. I miss you lots and especially the times I shared at house group with you, Akwasi and other dear friends from HBC.

I thank you once again for all the prayers that you prayed for myself and my family. 
We are all doing well and I feel very blessed by God's incredible love.

Carry on resting in the perfect peace that transcends all understanding. I remember you saying 'don't be anxious about anything, but pray about everything!'

God bless Vicky 

October 12, 2023
October 12, 2023
Precious memories of Vicky and love and prayers to Akwasi and all the family. May God bless you daily with His peace and continual signs of His grace in the Lord Jesus.
Her Life
October 22, 2018

By Akwasi Addai-Diawuo

BIOGRAPHY (October 11 1958-September 26 2018)

Vicky was born at the Princess Mary Maternity Hospital in Jesmond, Newcastle upon Tyne, in the district of Victoria, to Mr Emmanuel (Yaw) Baah and Mrs Mary Julia Baah (nee Nyampong). Family legend has it that Vicky was a fascinating baby, with unusually thick, dark kinky hair which became a spectacle for the nurses, doctors and the local Geordie community who often asked to touch and feel it. It is a wonder why her student parents did not charge for the privilege to touch little Queen Victoria’s hair. In 1992 when Vicky gave her reluctant aging parents a first class train journey to revisit their past, they only brightened up on arrival at 1 Eslington Terrace. Invigorated, by the fond shared memories they started claiming ownership of a house, pointing to areas of the street where Mummy frequently plied every morning with baby Vicky in her huge pram. Vicky’s Daddy who was a student of Town Planning and Landscape Architecture even offered the residents some gardening advice as we watched and listened listened gleefully.

Vicky as a child accompanied her pioneering, professional post-colonial Civil servant parents as they were posted from town to town across the length of Ghana from Kumasi -Tamale-Koforidua-Kumasi-Accra

Vicky attended a number of Primary Schools when the family returned from the UK namely, Garrison Preparatory School in Kumasi, Koforidua Experimental School and State Experimental School at Nhyieso in Kumasi until September 1970 when she became a member of the Ninos of Aburi Girls 70.

She studied for her GCE O’ and A’Levels from 1970 to 1978 at Aburi Girls’ Secondary with a year of intercalation. The 1975 Class of Aburi Old Girls Association fondly remember Vicky as the witty, intelligent, funny and mischievous baby of the cohort. Although she was among the youngest in her cohort Vicky showed recognisable leadership skills that earned her a place as one of the 10 Dormitory Prefects “to look after” Form One students at “Metico”, the student residence located away from the main school campus. Some of the highlights of Vicky’s student life at Aburi Girls relate to her jovial and affable personality and her famous Uncle on the teaching staff.

In 1978 Vicky enrolled at the Advanced Teacher Training College, now University of Education in Winneba. She often recounted amusing experiences of being pampered, fussed over or even receiving privileges from course mates, “mature students” and lecturers. This was because Vicky was the youngest and the only female Science student in her College class. After qualification in August 1981 Vicky started her first teaching appointment at Ghana Secondary School, Koforidua, where she taught Biology and General Science for two years. On August 7 1982 Vicky and Akwasi got married at the Legon Hall Chapel, University of Ghana, after seven years of dating and courtship. Vicky was blessed with two lovely daughters and three amazing grandchildren.

In June 1992 Vicky qualified as an Accounting Technician after part time studies at Waltham Forest and Havering Colleges. She also completed the Professional Diploma in Management with The Open University.

Vicky’s teaching career was further enriched when from September 1983 to 1984 she taught Biology and Chemistry at the Njala University Secondary School in Sierra Leone. It was here that Vicky often hosted 10 young Namibian refugee students to meals and games in her home. The students’ pet name for Vicky was “Anopheles”. She moved to Freetown at the end of the academic year to teach at the elite Bertha Conton School, before leaving for the UK. In June 1985 she had taster day at the Clapton Girls School in Hackney whilst considering a teaching career in the UK. She was so decisive at the end of her experience on the day that pursuing a teaching career in the UK was definitely not her for her.

Vicky’s career route changed completely when in March 1986 she started as Administrative Officer at the Department of Social Security in Hackney, a strategic move which turned out to be the bedrock of her career progression. She moved to the Housing Benefits sector from March 1988, working for 3 months with the London Borough of Islington as a Housing Benefits Officer and returned to the London Borough of Hackney in the same role from June 1988 to March 1993.
Vicky’s cumulative knowledge, skills and expertise in Housing Benefits policy and practice prepared her to step into management roles, first as a Deputy Team Leader from April 1993 to December 1997 and Team Leader under ITNET in December 2001. Vicky was in her elements managing corporate change, monitoring performance and supporting the personal development of her staff. Her outstanding achievement in this capacity was sustained when the Revenue and Benefits came back under the London Borough of Hackney. 

As the Head of Customer and Corporate Services Vicky was responsible for over 150 staff covering 26 areas including Facilities Management, Business Support, Finance, the Council’s Contact Centre as well as front facing Customer Services. On a daily basis she advised, mentored, led and supported people to achieve their best potential. As a stalwart and an influential team player Vicky was always results driven but never at the expense of her human relations.

When Vicky left the shores of Ghana with her 3 month old daughter Afua to Sierra Leone it was in response to the opportunity, as a Teacher to be involved in “Tentmaking Ministry” by supporting the work of SLEFES and Scripture Union (SU). She, with her husband, networked with Christian Lecturers, SLEFES and SU Staff to provide support and training of Christian students at conferences in Freetown and Bo.

In the UK Vicky attended the Methodist Church, Mare Street in Hackney. She joined the Hornchurch Baptist Church in 1990 and soon became actively involved in leading Homegroups. She regularly attended the Saturday morning prayer meetings as well as facilitating the Tea rota for the church. She was a keen member of the Ghana Christian Fellowship which used to meet in Tavistock Place in London and GHAFES Associates (UK). Vicky was recently invited to join the Board of Reference of Healing Rooms (England and Wales) a honourable strategic  role which she did not get to play. She has been keen to support the ministry outreach of Hope Chapel in Basildon through monthly Healing Rooms meetings.

Vicky was diagnosed in 2014 with Systemic Sclerosis (or Scleroderma), a rare autoimmune family of diseases which affects skin tissues and various organs. Frequent hospital appointments, admissions and the variety of medication she had to tolerate became routine in her life. 
Alongside the treatment plans of the medics Vicky prayed diligently and hoped fervently for divine healing. Her faith in the power of God to heal remained resolute and undimmed to the glory of God.

“BE JOYFUL IN HOPE, PATIENT IN AFFLICTION, FAITHFUL IN PRAYER”Romans 12:12

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Tears Are A Language God Understands

October 12, 2019
 Often you've wondered why tears come into your eyes
and burdens seem to be much more than you can stand.
But God is standing near, He sees your falling tears.

Tears are a language God understands.
When grief has left you low, it causes tears to fl ow.
When things have not turned out the way that you had planned.

But God won't forget you, His promises are true.
Tears are a language God understands.
God sees the tears of a broken-hearted soul.

He sees your tears and hears them when they fall.
God weeps along with man and takes him by the hand
Tears are a language God understands

TRIBUTE FROM MRS JOYCE ACHEAMPONG- BERCHIE.(UK)

September 12, 2019
I write this with great sadness over the unimaginable loss of my dear friend. To me, Vicky was brave, strong and inspirational. A woman who loved God and gave everything for her family. 
As I sit here reflecting....reflecting on my long friendship with Vicky which spans over 47yrs: Secondary School, Holiday fun times, her Wedding day, the Births of children and grandchildren, Prayer times, Home Visits, Church visits, Lunches, More Prayer times, Phone calls, Shared Thoughts about our children and grandchildren, I could go on and on... I just thank God for putting Vicky in my life.
 She was special; kind, witty, funny and extremely courageous. She encouraged me with her life. The many times throughout her illness I spoke to her, she never complained, instead she was taking each day in her stride and hoping that a treatment would be found so that she could get on with her life. Oh, she fought a brave and strong battle. 
Her beautiful spirit will live on through her children and grand children. 
Whilst we are mourning the loss of our beloved friend, mother and wife, the crowd of witnesses are rejoicing to meet her behind the veil. Whilst we watched her sail disappear from sight, they are welcoming her home.
(NB:Dated October 10 2018, one day before Vicky’s 60th birthday)


July 21, 2019

This is to let you (The Diawuo family) know that it was a pleasure talking to you today and to share  thoughts and inspiration both old and new.May the Almighty God keep you strong always until yo are reunited with your dear wife.Remember ,1 Thessalonians 5:7-8 and Philippians 4:6.We shall keep you in our prayers .Stay blessed

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