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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Victoria Nene Udoh.We will remember her forever.

"Gone Too Soon"

Like A Comet
Blazing 'Cross The Evening Sky
Gone Too Soon

Like A Rainbow
Fading In The Twinkling Of An Eye
Gone Too Soon

Shiny And Sparkly
And Splendidly Bright
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like The Loss Of Sunlight
On A Cloudy Afternoon
Gone Too Soon

Like A Castle
Built Upon A Sandy Beach
Gone Too Soon

Like A Perfect Flower
That Is Just Beyond Your Reach
Gone Too Soon

Born To Amuse, To Inspire, To Delight
Here One Day
Gone One Night

Like A Sunset
Dying With The Rising Of The Moon
Gone Too Soon

Gone Too Soon

 

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April 17
April 17
Mummy, I let myself think about you today and it has not gotten any easier. We are doing good tho. I trust that Heaven is fun for you and Chi. A lot has happened that I wish I could tell you but I guess that is what grief is about. I miss you very much.
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April 14
April 14
Adamazi, continue to rest in peace. We remember you today on your birthday.
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April 13
April 13
Happy birthday Mummy. Miss you❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
October 27, 2023
October 27, 2023
Neneeee, so am sure you had seen Chi, what did he tell you. Missing my connection f to m age 6 which was consummated 22 year after. Rest on my lovely Nene. Ada Amuru Gbaa Egbe
April 13, 2023
April 13, 2023
Happy heavenly birthday aunty ♥️♥️
April 13, 2023
April 13, 2023
Happy Birthday Mummy! You are missed so much and I hope you and Chi papa are having a ball on the other side! Till we meet to depart no more! Stay Jiggy! I love you so much!!!!
April 19, 2022
April 19, 2022
Nene you are sorely missed. It's been 5 years that you've gone to be with the Lord. Continue to rest in the bosom of our Lord to rise in glory
April 19, 2022
April 19, 2022
Keep resting till the day of resurrection, when we will all ascend to rejoice with one another for the good life spent while on earth. Rest on ma....
April 19, 2022
April 19, 2022
In your memory Nenem, many were blessed in this season as we remembered you through a medical outreach. We celebrate your legacies. Thank you for these quality Children, Gigi, Mariskolo, Loco De captain, De Ma. Seye your son inlaw is been great. Ndewo inu.
April 17, 2022
April 17, 2022
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
April 13, 2022
April 13, 2022
Happy Birthday Aunty'm. Keep on resting in the Lord beautiful soul. I do not have much to say but little to communicate to you that I will always miss you.

Love you always my bestie.
April 13, 2022
April 13, 2022
Happy birthday Mummy! Always loved… Never forgotten… Foreverrrr Missed❤️
April 13, 2022
April 13, 2022
Happy birthday Mummy. 5 birthdays we have had to celebrate without you, it can be hard ohh but thank God for memories we have. We miss you so much but I will continue to keep you alive in my actions and reactions. Stay Jiggy Mummy Ma hahaha <3
April 17, 2021
April 17, 2021
It’s 4 years today Mummy and life hasn’t been the same since you left us. I miss you more everyday. ❤️
April 15, 2021
April 15, 2021
May your amiable soul be blessed by God Almighty. Rest in God's vineyard. Amen.
April 15, 2021
April 15, 2021
It was just like yesterday your amiable soul departed this wicked world. Though we miss you dearly, we are consoled that you lived a life worthy of emulation. We shall continue to celebrate the good life you lived. May God Almighty accommodate your soul in his vineyard. Rest on our dearest sister, wife mother and aunty. AMEN.
April 13, 2021
April 13, 2021
Happy birthday Aunty'm Oma. Rest on and I wish you were still here. Everyone including my younger ones (Your children) and Husband you left behind are all doing great to the glory of God.
April 13, 2021
April 13, 2021
Happy Birthday Mummy!!!! I miss you!!
April 13, 2021
April 13, 2021
Can't really believe how much time has already passed since you left . The wonderful children you bore are a true testament to the loving , selfless, mother you were.
We all miss you, and with each milestone in their lives - we miss you more. Continue to rest in perfect peace. 
April 13, 2021
April 13, 2021
Just like yesterday. May your gentle soul continue to rest in peace. These past years, you have been greatly missed. It is well.
April 18, 2020
April 18, 2020
Nene is been 3 years but it is like 3 days. Just want to thank you for amazing support you left behind for me as Gini, Kele, Chi and Mama. The Joy and peace your memory brings is loud enough for our consolation. Thank you Nene for passing this way in your life time.
April 13, 2020
April 13, 2020
Missing you dearly my favourite Auntie. Rest on but you will never be forgotten. My younger ones ( your children) are doing great.
April 16, 2019
April 16, 2019
Happy Birthday to Ada Aro Okeigbo, continue to rest in the lord
April 13, 2019
April 13, 2019
Missing you so so much my best Aunty. The shock is still in us all. Keep on resting in the lord.
December 25, 2018
December 25, 2018
It’s Christmas today mummy. Second Christmas you ain’t here chai :( I ain’t very big on Christmas but you say it’s a way to celebrate the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ so I guess we will be merry loool. I miss your early morning banter and sandwiches (sure a lot of people miss that) but we move.
Onwegi nhe Chineke amagi so this is for the best.
Continue to rest on my beautiful mummy. Merry Christmas from your nne por por ❤️
April 17, 2018
April 17, 2018
Nnenne you are Forever.

Our dear Nnenne, how time flies, just like yesterday and its one year already. On Sunday 15 April 2018 at 8 am we were all gathered at your Congregation, Presbyterian Church Ikeja Parish at Ojodu, as usual, to commemorate your one year of transition and also mark your 56th birthday. The church was filled by many of your admirers. We have now found the strength to discuss your enduring legacies, we did that with bravado concealing our inner tears of joy of your memories.
The theme of the service was on shepherding, it reminds us of all your skills and efforts in shepherding the family while Nd was away. Yours was a gift from GOD, your demeanour and attitude to issues were disarming. You give loud and firm instructions with body language. Like the good shepherd, you don't rest until all your flock returns. 

Nd, Gini & Seyi, Kelechi, Capt Joe(He read the Bible lesson) and Mama. Ngozi and OO your siblings were there. Ibom and Amasu people were everywhere to honour you.

The cream of Aro kindgom were in attendance: From Mazi Eni Paul Kanu who offered the memorial remarks, Mazi Sam & Stella Ohuabunwa , Mazi Ike & Ann Okoronkwo, Mazi Chima Okereke & Wife, Mazi Ejike & Bimpe Onwuchekwa(President Nzuko Aro Lagos)Mazi Ugochukwu Onwuchekwa,Mazi Jideofor & Ezinne Kanu, Mazi Chike Okoroafor, Mazi Ernie & Ijeoma Onwumere, Mazi Eze Achinivu & Wife, Mazi Sam Achinivu, Mazi Nwosu & Ebere Nwosu , , Mazi Ogbonnia & Tina Okereke, Mazi Iyama Okoro, Mazi Alex Ikwuagwu, Mazi Chijioke & Chibuzor Ogbonnia(President Ezienyi), Mazi Chinedu Onwuchekwa, Adaukwu Aro -Mrs Onyechere(Ncheghe Aro) and her team Nkwo ekpe, Chinasa. Mazi & Derrick & Onyinye Ukwu-Okoronkwo, Ms Erinma Oti, Engr Oki Chiori, Mazi Sab Nwafor, Mazi Paul Okoro,

Elder UK Eke, Elder & Rev Aka, Hon Uko Nkole of National Assembly attended with his team, Mrs Ebila, Capt Dapo Olumide, Mrs Okonkwo, Mrs Ngozi Jack Ogbonnaya, Mr Okey Okeke, Eng Agunwayi Agubata(President NSWE), and lots more.

We retired to your home for entertainment and stayed until late evening even with the shower of blessings.
April 17, 2018
April 17, 2018
It's just like yesterday but we cannot reconcile ourselves to the fact that U are no longer physically present with us. We miss U dearly but we are happy U are with the Lord. The seeds U sowed shall keep blossoming till the end of time. Sleep on our mummy. We all love U.
September 11, 2017
September 11, 2017
A random thought of you came to mind today at work mummy, lool yes i started work. amazing right? i miss you so much, one thing that brings me joy right now is that i know you are up there chilling. We are still here doing well on your behalf mummy. i will love you forever. Nne mor mor na por por ya <3
August 23, 2017
August 23, 2017
i missed you very much today mummy. I remember random moments with you that now bring me comfort. my human body just misses your calls, conversations and just general input in my life but i do know that you are on the other side living it up and interceding with the father as usual.
I miss you so much and i love you
July 19, 2017
July 19, 2017
Mummy I misss u so much!!!!!!
Mama graduated today also...nne mor mor I know you're smiling in heaven, by the way the okazi soup you made for me has finally finished loll...'like we used to say all the way charlie papa'
June 8, 2017
June 8, 2017
The news of your passing was one of shock and unbelief, it was such never expected for decades to come; but, as they always tell us, God knows best. Though we sometimes wonder far in the deep recesses of our minds if that is really true, given our anguish; but, it is always true: He does know best why you had to leave us when you did.

Though, to us, your job is not yet done here on earth; to Him, it is done, and it is time to call you home. We have no choice, but we take solace in the promise that He will comfort those you left behind in this our time of mourning. This time, this season, this period of sorrow and sadness will also pass.

Adieu!!
June 7, 2017
June 7, 2017
The News of your demise was like a thunder bolt and sent shock waves through out the kingdom of Arochukwu on that faithful day! It was unbelievable, but we take solace in the Living God we serve. Our prayers will ever remain with the family you left behind and especially to your indefatigable husband Mazi Nnamdi to whom you had been a source of strength. Rest In Peace Nnenne, Aro will forever miss you.
June 6, 2017
June 6, 2017
I WAS TOTALLY SHOCKED WHEN I HEARD ABOUT YOUR DEATH. THOUGH I HAVE NOT WORKED OR RELATED CLOSELY WITH YOU, BUT YOUR LOVE AND CARE RADIATE ALL OVER YOUR HUSBAND WHOM I KNOW VERY WELL HAVING WORKED WITH HIM AS ASST. GEN OF NZUKO AROCHUKWU WORLDWIDE DURING HIS SIX YEARS TENURE. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS GOSE TO MAZI NNAMDI UDOH AND YOUR WONDERFUL KIDS WHOM YOU LOVED SO MUCH. I PRAY THAT ALMIGHTY GOD HIMSELF WILL ALL OF US THE FORTITUDE TO BEAR THIS GREAT LOSS. RIP! RIP!! RIP! ADIEU NNE OMA.
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
My Sister Nene
Who can answer my many questions?
On whose shoulder should I cry?
Nene: A symbol of peace is gone
Nene- Gentility is gone
Nene- Genorosity is gone
Nene- Love is gone
Dear God, you know why it all.
You know our deepest thought
I will Remember Nene forever . RIP Nnamdii
Udoh's wife.
RIP Ezigbo Ada Aro
RIP Nwanyi Obi Oma
I hope to find an answer to my questions some day.
I am finding it difficult to delete our last chats.
It's well
Sleep on dear Comrade
I am hopeful we shall meet at the resurrection
morning.
Adieu !!!
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
By Dr (Mrs.) Uzoma Ifezue.(nee Udoh)


TRIBUTE TO AUNTY NENE

Aunty Nene, the news of your death ran shock waves down my spine. You were such an elegant woman, hospitable and adorable. You saw the best in everyone and opened your hands towards us even at odd hours. You showed our mother love and respect through all these years. Thank you for being an example to be emulated. You shall indeed be missed by all. No wonder they call you ”Big Mama”.
Rest in Peace ma, till we meet to part no more.

Dr (Mrs.) Uzoma Ifezue.(nee Udoh)
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
By Nnenna Nwachukwu

My dearest Ogbom,

My sweet sister in law, my ever gentle lady, my adorable wife, your demise came as a big shock and till now, still can't believe that you are gone. You were indeed an epitome of a virtuous woman, You were kind, a loving wife and mother. My happiness is that your Husband, Mazi Nnamdi Udoh loved and cared for you even till death. You embraced everyone who came around you with warmth, regardless of whom he or she was. You were too gentle to a fault and I admired you for that. I will miss you so much. May your gentle soul rest in peace and may God Almighty give those you left behind, especially your beloved husband and children the fortitude to hear this irreplaceable loss. It is well. You will surely be missed. Ga na Udoh Nwanyioma."

Nnenna Nwachukwu
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
By Ikenna Ikoku

TRIBUTE TO MY VERY SENIOR FRIEND (NNEM UKWU). 

Ah! Death is strong! else you wouldn't have left behind your family whom you had loved and cared for so much. For more than a decade now, you have also cared so well for your aged mother, while she resided with you. You brought up your children to speak fluently, their native language. That's a plus for you. You extend your hand to help the less privileged. That's another plus for you. Ah! For these acts of benevolence, responsibility and honour to your family and mankind, I pray that the Lord blesses your soul all the more in eternity. Nwanyi Obioma, you were at my traditional marriage, early in the morning to fill minor vacuum from being noticed. Again, you flew Lagos to Benin with your husband, to attend my wedding. You were to me a friend indeed. Recently, I visited and charted with you face to face at Ojodu Junior Grammar School. And the next I heard was the news heralding your death. It got me shocking to my bones. I knew you right from my youth and we have carried on till your demise. Ah! Even in death, I honour you. You always calls me, May, with your lovely sweet voice. Aunty, you were a peaceful woman, slow to speak and collected. I have never sighted you quarrelled with anyone openly, for you use to open your mouth in wisdom. You were very organized, hospitable and knew how to comport yourself always. You were humble and could manage the riches of a whole Estate without bragging about it. You were a silent achiever who worked with speed. I missed you. We missed you but God loved you the most. May your soul rest in the blossom of the Lord till we meet again to part no more. Adieu Elder (Mrs) Nene Udoh. Tribute from Mrs Mary Obasi Kalu.


My dear aunty...this whole thing came as a shock. I still can't deal with it, but I know you're in a better place...rest in peace

Ikenna Ikoku
June 5, 2017
June 5, 2017
By Arc. Obinna Onoh

AUNTY NENE....SUDDEN TRANSITION

Death is no stranger, for I have witnessed a couple this year but now "death's" intrusion has appeared to claim a precious, kind lady - one I often referred to as " the Aunty without stress" a lively centurion whose faith never wavered, nor spirit ever aged, and the expressions of my grief and that of my family are extraordinarily out of proportion. This was the least news we expected to receive on Easter Monday when my wife and I called to chat with my parents and grand Pa.

We have wept and prayed and hoped that it was a dream but reality it is that we would seize to share bodily experience with you, aunty Nene.

She believed in the "open door" policy. I knew, as did countless others, that I could go at any time and be made to feel welcome. She approached life with ease and so much peace and willingly accepted all our joys and sorrows, successes and failures but with optimum hope for the best in every situation.

Aunty Nene would hardly hassle anyone who didn't keep in touch with her but at anytime would seek to know your well being. She filled every femininity from mother to valued friend with ease.

So, now, beloved aunt, and mother, I bid you a fond farewell for a short while, conscious of your faith in Christ, we would meet again. Joyful at your life, so fully and well-lived, grateful that I could have been a part of it.

Rest in Christ

Arc. Obinna Onoh
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April 17
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Mummy, I let myself think about you today and it has not gotten any easier. We are doing good tho. I trust that Heaven is fun for you and Chi. A lot has happened that I wish I could tell you but I guess that is what grief is about. I miss you very much.
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April 14
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Adamazi, continue to rest in peace. We remember you today on your birthday.
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Night of Prayers

June 15, 2017

NIGHT OF PRAYERS

Venue:  Hugh Goldie Theology College, Arochukwu

Date : 9th June, 2017

Time : 7pm

ORDER OF PROGRAMMES

OPENING PRAYER

PRAISE AND WORSHIP

1ST HYMN "  WHEN PEACE LIKE A RIVER, ATTENDETH MY WAY"

BIBLE READING -   FAMILY

TESTIMONIES

2ND HYMN "IAM THINE, O LORD "

1ST PRAYER

MUSIC

SERMON

3RD HYMN " WHEN THE TRUMPET ..."

2ND PRAYER

SONGS

3RD PRAYER

TRIBUTES

MUSIC " GONE TOO SOON"

CLOSING HYMN " ROCK OF AGES "

ANNOUNCEMENT

VOTE OF THANKS

BENEDICTION

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HYMNS

 

WHEN PEACE LIKE A RIVER, ATTENDETH MY WAY

When peace like a river, attendeth my way,
When sorrows like sea billows roll;
Whatever my lot, Thou hast taught me to say
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Refrain:
It is well, (it is well),
With my soul, (with my soul)
It is well, it is well, with my soul.

Though Satan should buffet, though trials should come,
Let this blest assurance control,
That Christ has regarded my helpless estate,
And hath shed His own blood for my soul.

 

My sin, oh, the bliss of this glorious thought!
My sin, not in part but the whole,
Is nailed to the cross, and I bear it no more,
Praise the Lord, praise the Lord, O my soul!

 

For me, be it Christ, be it Christ hence to live:
If Jordan above me shall roll,
No pang shall be mine, for in death as in life,
Thou wilt whisper Thy peace to my soul.

 

But Lord, 'tis for Thee, for Thy coming we wait,
The sky, not the grave, is our goal;
Oh, trump of the angel! Oh, voice of the Lord!
Blessed hope, blessed rest of my soul.

 

And Lord, haste the day when my faith shall be sight,
The clouds be rolled back as a scroll;
The trump shall resound, and the Lord shall descend,

Even so, it is well with my soul

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IAM THINE , O LORD

I am Thine, O Lord, I have heard Thy voice,
And it told Thy love to me;
But I long to rise in the arms of faith
And be closer drawn to Thee.

Refrain

Draw me nearer, nearer blessèd Lord,
To the cross where Thou hast died.
Draw me nearer, nearer, nearer blessèd Lord,
To Thy precious, bleeding side.

Consecrate me now to Thy service, Lord,
By the power of grace divine;
Let my soul look up with a steadfast hope,
And my will be lost in Thine.

 

O the pure delight of a single hour
That before Thy throne I spend,
When I kneel in prayer, and with Thee, my God
I commune as friend with friend!

 

There are depths of love that I cannot know
Till I cross the narrow sea;
There are heights of joy that I may not reach
Till I rest in peace with Thee.

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WHEN THE TRUMPET OF THE LORD SHALL SOUND

When the trumpet of the Lord shall sound, and time shall be no more,
And the morning breaks, eternal, bright and fair;
When the saved of earth shall gather over on the other shore,
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

 

When the roll is called up yonder,
When the roll is called up yonder,
When the roll is called up yonder,
When the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

On that bright and cloudless morning when the dead in Christ shall rise,
And the glory of his resurrection share;
When his chosen ones shall gather to their home beyond the skies,
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

 

Let us labor for the Master from the dawn till setting sun,
Let us talk of all his wondrous love and care;
Then when all of life is over, and our work on earth is done,
And the roll is called up yonder, I'll be there.

 

 

 

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ROCK OF AGES, CLEFT FOR ME

1

Rock of Ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in Thee;
Let the water and the blood,
From Thy riven side which flowed,
Be of sin the double cure,
Save me from its guilt and power.

2

Not the labor of my hands
Can fulfill Thy law’s demands;
Could my zeal no respite know,
Could my tears forever flow,
All could never sin erase,
Thou must save, and save by grace.

3

Nothing in my hands I bring,
Simply to Thy cross I cling;
Naked, come to Thee for dress,
Helpless, look to Thee for grace:
Foul, I to the fountain fly,
Wash me, Savior, or I die.

4

While I draw this fleeting breath,
When mine eyes shall close in death,
When I soar to worlds unknown,
See Thee on Thy judgment throne,
Rock of Ages, cleft for me,
Let me hide myself in Thee.

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