Hi!
I’m Dick Schreiber.
94 years old, been here a long time.
You know the old saying, “If you live long enough, you’ll have to bury all your friends.”
Well, Walt was one of my real good friends.
I have a couple of things to say about how I deal with it when I have a close or dear friend die.
So, let me give you a little history -
In WWII, I went through cadet training as part of the aircraft section for the army. And there was a long process to be going through, and we got moved around from field to field all over Texas. This took quite a while.
Anyhow, this gave me a new term. The people who were assigned to these stations or fields were called “permanent party.” We cadets just moved in and out, and in and out, but the other people were “permanent party.” Well, that is a term that I have hung on to. In this world, nobody is “permanent party.”
So one of things that I remind myself of when one of my dear friends dies, is that we all here are not “permanent party.” Nobody is “permanent party.”
Something to add to this.
One of my favorite poems is ‘Gunda Din.’
There are some really priceless parts in there that I like to borrow from.
Gunga Din, he was a water carrier, that’s what he was. One of the guys says in the poem Gunda Din; “You limpin’ lump of brick-dust, Gunda Din … Though I’ve belted you and flayed you, by the living God that made you, you’re a better man than I am, Gunda Din!”
Well, another part of that same poem is where he says;
“So I’ll meet him later on, in the place where he is gone.”
And that is kind of the way I am. None of us is “permanent party” here, but when somebody goes [I think] “I’ll see you later on, in the place where you have gone.” And that [thought] is kind of something that settles me, forever.
It is okay to have lived to a ripe old age, but remember, if you do, you have to bury all your friends.
That’s it.