May you rest in peace.
You were a great engineer and you shared with us a lot of your knowledge.
Thank you
My dad was, and is, a significant part of my life. I was lucky to have him as a teacher and role model growing up. I will forever treasure our time playing volleyball and working on building projects together. He always had my back and was everlastingly supportive. In the end his greatest worry was leaving us behind. Following is a letter I wrote for him in his final days. I feel comfort in him knowing my words before he passed, as much went unsaid in our relationship.
Dad,
I wanted to write something down to try and organize the thoughts in my head. First off, I want you to know I do not think just anyone could handle the last couple years the way you have. You have carried on with positivity and strength despite the challenges you have faced. In reference to the book you gave me I believe this to be a strong demonstration on top of countless others to live as an example to others. You apologize for leaving, but you should take comfort in knowing you have prepared us by your example. Provided memories that prevent you from truly leaving. You are a great dad to me and my sisters. You cannot stop being that. the only thing you are leaving is legacy.
I hope you find this reassuring for your thoughts. I feel you know it already. For myself I find it alleviating writing it down.
Love Matthew