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This memorial website was created in memory of Walter Steuber - inventor, lifelong learner, husband, father, grandfather (and great-), uncle, friend, brother.

Walter was well-known for his curiosity, sense of humor, interest in and knowledge of  a wide variety of topics, and sometimes non-conforming way of doing things.
 He married Eileen Patton after a rapid courtship - in 3 weeks they were engaged (Eileen wondered why it took him so long to propose) and married 3 months later. They moved into their "forever" home in 1951 and created a wonderful family home. Over the years, he had 3 children, 20 nieces and nephews, 4 grandchildren and 2 great-grandchildren. He also enjoyed lots of conversations with his "in-laws" of several generations.

This memorial will provide a place to share stories and photos, offer condolences, and spend time reflecting or grieving. We encourage you to add your own thoughts and stories and photos and to view the different sections.
September 5, 2020
September 5, 2020
My parents, Bill and Peg Capron, were close friends of Walter and Eileen. When I spent four years at Swarthmore College, they became my second family. They showered me with good food, love and attention. Although they started out as my parents' friends, they became close friends of mine. For the more than three decades I have lived in Washington, DC, beginning in 1987, I came up a couple of times a year to visit with them. Although Walter was 31 years older than I was, I always found him a fascinating companion. He was an inventor's inventor -- always tinkering with some new project. I always heard of brand-new technologies first from Walter Steuber -- such as LED lighting. He got so excited about new technologies and new discoveries. He had a wonderful, curious mind -- always learning new things even when he was 103 years old. It is probably why he lived so long -- because he was always learning. I will always miss Walter and Eileen a great deal. They were both lovely people.
February 13, 2020
February 13, 2020
Lee, Pat, David, Sari, & Gordon, our deepest condolences on Walters passing. We have fond memories of our visits and chats covering a wide range of subjects. Walter will live in our hearts and memories and make us smile because we were fortunate to have known him.
Rest in Peace
February 13, 2020
February 13, 2020
Bobbie's remembrance of Walt speaks for me, too. It captures my wonderful memories of the Wood family's good and long-time friend. When I search for words to express all the things Walt meant to me, I see him lounging by the pool or in a comfortable chair in the living room and realize that his face said it all. He had the warmest, friendliest, most welcoming face of anyone I've ever known. The memory of Walt's embracing, jovial smile and eyes full of curiosity and good humor lives on in my heart and soul and is worth a thousand words.
February 11, 2020
February 11, 2020
February 11, 2020

Dear David, Lee, Pat and Sari,

Wow! A world without Walt Steuber? It just seems impossible. Walt was larger than life to us Wood girls, a friendly, vivid and colorful presence during our early Swarthmore years. Walt and Eileen were extended family and always so interested in us and our little lives. The adventures of Walter Steuber were endlessly fascinating, and partially unfolded over time. I’ll never forget the first time I heard about the DDT endeavor (I’m sure I have this somewhat mixed up in my mind). We pictured Walt transporting chemicals home from Dupont to his basement where he and Eileen concocted DDT (or something?) in a witch’s cauldron, and then funneled it into big jugs; then marketed it to friends and relatives. All this before DDT became commercially available, then banned!

Then there was Dupont Teflon, which we were sure Walter had invented. For all we know he invented Velcro and Whiteout too! The science of it all was more than we could handle. Walter was the ultimate inventor!

Of course, there was the silkscreen operation. I can still vaguely picture the huge platform and apparatus that cranked out all sorts of awesome prints of our dad’s and other people’s creations. Wasn’t this setup right in the dining or living room? With that smile in his eyes, chuckle, and booming voice, Walt was always happy to demonstrate or explain any of this stuff to us kids. And wasn’t it great how Eileen put up with all the “stuff” in her house?

I know Walter was an artist in his own right, but I’m a bit foggy on the media he may have worked in. I remember the sculptures most of all—partially finished busts around the house; sculptures mounted outdoors—in clay I think. Did Walt also paint? I can’t remember.

The house itself could be considered a huge work of art by Walt (and Eileen). The designing and building of the apartment (as I recall it was) at the end of the driveway; and its ultimate demolition; the walls, stairs and landscaping around the property; the interior remodeling. And then there was mission control—that room around the corner from the living room that held all those computers and other mysterious equipment—long before the times of Steve Jobs or Bill Gates.

The Pool deserves a paragraph of its own. Its setting and design was way beyond unique; even we kids recognized that. No flat aqua rectangle for Walt! Its generous oval shape hugged the hillside and provided a view of Smedley Park. The pool became a focal point for our summers. Towels trailing, we descended the steep steps to the picnic table, then jumped into the pool for our swimming lessons from Eileen as little children; or swimming, diving off the board, and splashing each other as teens. Eileen and Walt (and of course, Pat, Lee and David) filled our summer days with fun. The 4th of July picnic/swim with all the family friends is a particularly fond memory.

I think the last time Jeff and I saw Walter, we were at your house for a dinner cooked by Eileen. I think you guys were there too, as were Mother, Dad, Molly and Sue. I believe it was soon after you had celebrated a big event—anniversary, birthday, not sure, as there was an easel with some photos on it. Anyway, everyone had a great time. I am thankful for that last memory of the Steubers and Woods together laughing and talking over a delicious meal prepared by the ultimate cook. We were all so lucky to grow up together in such stimulating and loving environments.
February 8, 2020
February 8, 2020
Dear Steubers,

I have known Walter for some 55 years, 15 years longer than I knew my own father, who died at age 72 when I was 40. Coincidentally, my father and Walter were born on the same day. Somehow, Lee and I managed to overlook that fact for many decades...

My fondness for Walter has grown immensely over the years. When I was a teenager in the 60's, I considered him (and all men of his age) to be part of "the establishment". Over the years, I gained a great appreciation for his intellectual curiosity and his eagerness to engage with me and others. 

I feel like I have been with him on an important part of the long, long journey that was his life, and I have certainly benefited infinitely from knowing him and the home and family he and Eileen created. We have all marveled at his longevity. In reflecting on his reaching 103 (and a half), I have felt it was due in part to how well Eileen took care of him and in part to how much he delighted in discovering different aspects of the world. He managed to escape the stress of the workaday world at a relatively young age and proceeded to immerse himself over the years in a variety of endeavors of his own creation.

Then there are those who are adamant that his secret to a long life was chocolate milk...! Perhaps, in part.

It seems we grew closer and closer as the years ticked by. As I look at the photos on this site, I feel a deep sadness at his inevitable passing and I feel very happy to have known and loved him.

Love,
Betsy 
February 7, 2020
February 7, 2020
Thank you Uncle for your incredible smile that completely lit up your face, your brilliant mind always wanting to learn and understand, our conversations which were always mentally invigorating, and mostly, for the creative projects you invited me be a part of and shared with me while I was growing up and spending most of my childhood summers at yours and Eileen's home ... particularly photography, sculpture, and computers ... all of which I am quite involved in to this day! And on we both go ...

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September 5, 2020
September 5, 2020
My parents, Bill and Peg Capron, were close friends of Walter and Eileen. When I spent four years at Swarthmore College, they became my second family. They showered me with good food, love and attention. Although they started out as my parents' friends, they became close friends of mine. For the more than three decades I have lived in Washington, DC, beginning in 1987, I came up a couple of times a year to visit with them. Although Walter was 31 years older than I was, I always found him a fascinating companion. He was an inventor's inventor -- always tinkering with some new project. I always heard of brand-new technologies first from Walter Steuber -- such as LED lighting. He got so excited about new technologies and new discoveries. He had a wonderful, curious mind -- always learning new things even when he was 103 years old. It is probably why he lived so long -- because he was always learning. I will always miss Walter and Eileen a great deal. They were both lovely people.
February 13, 2020
February 13, 2020
Lee, Pat, David, Sari, & Gordon, our deepest condolences on Walters passing. We have fond memories of our visits and chats covering a wide range of subjects. Walter will live in our hearts and memories and make us smile because we were fortunate to have known him.
Rest in Peace
February 13, 2020
February 13, 2020
Bobbie's remembrance of Walt speaks for me, too. It captures my wonderful memories of the Wood family's good and long-time friend. When I search for words to express all the things Walt meant to me, I see him lounging by the pool or in a comfortable chair in the living room and realize that his face said it all. He had the warmest, friendliest, most welcoming face of anyone I've ever known. The memory of Walt's embracing, jovial smile and eyes full of curiosity and good humor lives on in my heart and soul and is worth a thousand words.
His Life

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February 3, 2020
timeline created for 100th Birthday
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The Beginning

February 3, 2020
Walter was born in Wilkinsburg, PA, a suburb of Pittsburgh where his father worked as a mechanical engineer for Westinghouse. His earliest memory was of being held on his father's shoulders on Armistice Day and the joy and celebration in the streets as WWI ended. He was born as Frederick Walter Steuber, Jr.  He disliked being a junior and the name Frederick and just dropped them; everyone reading this would know him only as Walter.

His family moved a lot in the early years due to his father's work - several places in Delaware County; Leroy, NY where all his grandparents lived; Tampa, FL when his father went down in the 1920's with a crew to build houses just before the land boom crashed; and Ridley Park, PA. Later, he determined that he did not ever want to move again - he lived for over 68 years in the house Eileen found in 1951 as a foreclosure. He turned down job moves in order to keep doing science and to stay in one place.

He came of age during the Depression; he was fortunate enough to get a "real, good" job out of high school at Sun Oil because his mother taught bridge to one of the executives there. That began his life as a chemist and inspired him to further his education at college.

Swarthmore College

February 3, 2020
3 years after graduating from high school, Walter went off to Swarthmore. He remembers only having one short conversation with someone in admissions prior to being admitted.
His college days were some of the happiest in his life; they began an 80+ year relationship with Swarthmore College and his classmates. Just a week before his death, he had an extended conversation with one of his few remaining classmates! He was the longest lived of his 14 fraternity brothers in the Class of 1941.
He worked full-time throughout college with the exception of his final semester.
Recent stories

Bob's memories of Walter meeting Steve's grandfather, Bert Alport

December 7, 2020
Walter and Bert Alport met at Sarah and Steve's wedding.  A story I remember was a conversation between the two grandfathers.  They were discussing their occupations when they realized they had met in the 1950's!  Bert designed and installed Weather-O-Meters (accelerated materials testing device) and Walter remembered buying one while working for Dupont.  Great memories!

Main Line Health HomeCare & Hospice

February 9, 2020
As our father's health declined and he needed more care than I could provide, his doctor Lisa Jones signed him up for hospice care. Dad had a special place in his heart for Dr. Jones, since she seemed to care so much for him. I think she requested the very best for our father, since all dozen or so hospice workers that came to our house were really great. Joyce Crego, the main nurse and one of eight or so nurses that came over a period of four months, was very competent and made a difficult job as pleasant as possible. Dave Small, the aide, was incredibly nice to my father, and kept him shaved and clean. As my father said, cleaner than he had every been. Dad really liked his twice weekly bath, although he had trouble remembering Dave's name and would call him Herb. Lynn Wetherbee came to sing and play the harp. That was quite special. Julie Prey, the chaplain, was a very reassuring presence. Dad enjoyed asking her questions, and Julie enjoyed answering them, or not, depending on the question. She wouldn't tell him how much she made for talking to him. Dana Rummery,  an art therapist,  tried getting Dad interested in sculpture but when that failed she asked him about his life and typed up his answers. Katie Ward, a 24 year old social worker , came every few weeks. Dad asked her her age, and she said "guess". His eyes had failed him at this point, but going by her voice he guessed 23.  Helping someone die isn't easy but  Main Line Hospice  made it the best it could be. Thank you very much-David

Letter to the medical students benefiting from Walter's donation

February 6, 2020
Walter and Eileen decided over 40 years ago to donate their bodies for medical training and research. This letter was written by 2 of Walter's granddaughters and his step-granddaughter, a first year medical student who wore Tyvek gear when working in the lab.

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Dear Medical Student(s),
We'd like to tell you a few things about our grandfather, whose body you are studying to further your medical education. We hope what we say here makes your learning experience both positive and meaningful.
Our grandfather signed up to donate his body to science back in 1976. He carried a card with him in his wallet for almost 45 years indicating that his body should be used for research purposes after his death. In case you have any concerns that he (or we) felt conflicted about your use of his body, you have no cause for worry. He thought that you, doing what you're doing there in medical school, was a worthy cause. We agree.
For those of us who knew him, this choice made perfect sense. Our grandfather was excited by science above just about anything else. He got a PhD in physics and worked as a chemist for his career, then got seriously interested in computers. Maybe you're going to put on some personal protective gear before you do any work on his body. If you do, that gear is very likely made out of Tyvek and you might be interested to know that he was on the team of inventors who created Tvyek. When they first developed it they had no idea of all the things it would eventually get used for. Shortly before he died we learned (and told him) that it's often used for protective gear in medical school labs. He got a kick out of that. We hope you do, too. 
More broadly, our grandfather delighted in trying to unravel the mysteries of the world: physical, chemical, biological, technical, and social. His excitement and humor as he explored something new made it fun to answer his questions or investigate alongside him, and also fun to argue with him. 
Our fondest wish is that you learn from his body with unbridled curiosity. He would be entirely supportive of you having questions and poking around to find answers. We hope his body is a chance for you to learn for yourself all kinds of memorable and exciting things about how we humans are put together.
One last thing you might find interesting: 
When he turned 100, our grandfather decided he just wasn't going to eat anything he didn't like ever again. Until our grandmother died, which happened when our grandfather was 99, she managed to cajole him into eating vegetables pretty regularly and occasionally succeeded at curtailing his less healthy eating habits. But no more. Starting about 3.5 years before his death, he switched to a diet that consisted of nothing but Milky Way bars, lemon hard candies, and store-bought chocolate milk - the kind that comes pre-mixed in gallon containers. Plus a vitamin pill. About eight months later, he dropped the lemon candies and ate only Milky Way bars and chocolate milk. He was advised this was not healthy eating but he didn't really care. It made him happy. And who knows? After all, how many nutrition studies feature people his age subsisting on chocolate milk and candy? 
We wish you the best in your studies and in your future profession. May you be friendly doctors who feel genuine curiosity about your patients - both as people and as bodies. May you enjoy investigating the mysteries of their health and may you invite them to join you in that exploration. In short, may you be as happy in a life dedicated to scientific practice as this man who donated his body to you.

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