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01/05/1943 - 04/06/2021
Thiru. W. B. Deenadhayalan Avl was a Retd. AC of the TN Commercial Taxes Department.

He was a son of late Thiru. W. V. Balakrishna Mudaliar and Thirumathi Krishnaveni Ammal, the loving husband of late Thirumathi Jayalakshmi Ammal. He was a friendly philosopher to those close to him and a helping-minded Good Samaritan to many. He was a loving, kind and dear father to his children and loving grandfather to his grandchildren.  

During the last chapter of his life, he was quite moved by spiritual teachers Sri Amma and Sri Bhagavan and their teachings of Oneness.

We thank you for your prayers for his moksha.
A request those hearts that wishes to offer him a garland: in lieu of flowers, kindly donate food or other help to someone in need living near you. Alternatively, donate to a charity or trust that serves those affected by Coronavirus. 

Sincerely,
His family and friends

திரு. வா. பா. தீனதயாளன் அவர்கள், தமிழ்நாடு வணிகவரி துறையில் அசிஸ். கமிஷ்னராக பணியாற்றி ஓய்வுபெற்றவர்.

அவரின் தந்தை காஞ்சீவரத்தை சேர்ந்த தெய்வதிரு. வா. வி. பாலகிருஷ்ண முதலியார், தாயார் காலம் சென்றதெய்வதிருமதி கிருஷ்ணவேணி அம்மாள் ஆவர். அவரின அன்பு மனைவி தெய்வதிருமதி ஜெயலக்ஷ்மி அம்மாள். சிலர் அன்னாரை அவர்களின் தத்துவ-நண்பராக கருதினர். பலர் அவரின் சேவை மனபான்மையை மெச்சினர். அவரின் பிள்ளைகளுக்கு அவர் ஒரு அளவுக்கு அதிகமான அன்புமிக்க கருணை உள்ளம் கொண்ட தந்தை.

வாழ்க்கையின் கடைசி அத்தியாயத்தில், அவர் ஶ்ரீ அம்மாபகவானின் போதனகளால் ஈர்க்கப்பட்டு மிகுந்த ஈடுபாடும் பக்தியும் கொண்டிருந்தார்.

அன்னாரின் மோக்‌ஷத்திர்க்காக நீங்கள் செய்யும் பிரார்த்தனைகளுக்கு எங்களின் பணிவு கலந்த ஆத்மார்தமான நன்றிகள்.

அவருக்கு மாலை மரியாதை செய்ய விரும்பும் உள்ளங்களுக்கு ஒரு வேண்டுகோள்: என் கடன் பணி செய்து கிடப்பதே என்பது போல வாழ்ந்த அன்னாருக்கு மிகவும் பிடித்தமானதை செய்து அன்னாரை மகிழ்விக்க ஒரு கோரிக்கை: மாலை செலவுக்கு பதில், உங்கள் அருகில் உள்ள முகம் தெரியாத ஏழை எளியவர்ககு அன்ன தானமாகவோ அல்லது வேறு விதமாகவோ உதவிட வேண்டி கேட்டுக்கொள்கிறோம்! மிக்க நன்றிகள்!

இப்படிக்கு,

அன்னாரின் உறவுகளும் மற்றும் நண்பர்களும்!
Posted by sudha sai on June 19, 2021
Thanks for giving us the opportunity to participate  via zoom.He was a gem of a person who was very down to earth, soft-spoken,helping and kind person.He was very fond of Mama and never missed visiting him often.He is really a role model to everyone,only his body has left us but his good deeds will stay forever. With heavy heart Sai & Sudha.
Posted by Chakrapani Athimoolam on June 19, 2021
உத்திரகிரியை நாளன்று என் கணவில் WBD அவர்கள் தோன்றியது, எங்களுக்குள் இருந்த பரஸ்பர அன்பின் புரிதலே ஆகும். அவரது குடும்பத்திலே யாவரும் அவர் மீது கொண்ட அன்பு, பாசம் மிகவும் அசாத்யமானதாகும். அவரது இழப்பு மிகுந்த துயரம் மிகுந்ததாகும்.
நமது குடும்பத்திற்கு அவரது உதவி, குறிப்பாக Ogami கல்யாணம் குறித்த சம்பந்த பேச்சு வார்த்தை மற்றும் கல்யாண வேலைகளிலும் அவரது உதவி மிக மிக மேலானதாகும். அதன் நிமித்தம் நாம் அனைவருமே அவரது ஆத்ம சாந்திக்காக பிரார்த்தனை செய்ய கடமைப் பட்டவர்களாவோம்.
Posted by Ponnivalavan P on June 18, 2021
Thiru Dheenadhayalan was a great man. a wonderful intellect, a great soul of matchless courage, one of the great men of the earth -- and finally simple man and great human being.i had a few opportunities to interact with him on a special occasions.Thank you for all you did for our family and you’ll forever live on in our memories.
Posted by Sivakumar Krishnaprasad on June 14, 2021
Veera ! I have met your dad couple of times at your Purasaiwakkam residence.The last I spoke to him was when your mom passed away, he was quite composed in answering me that his wife is back with him as your son. Always full of joy and happiness. Will remember him always that way.

Take care my friend , I pray for his atma to attain Satgati .

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Posted by sudha sai on June 19, 2021
Thanks for giving us the opportunity to participate  via zoom.He was a gem of a person who was very down to earth, soft-spoken,helping and kind person.He was very fond of Mama and never missed visiting him often.He is really a role model to everyone,only his body has left us but his good deeds will stay forever. With heavy heart Sai & Sudha.
Posted by Chakrapani Athimoolam on June 19, 2021
உத்திரகிரியை நாளன்று என் கணவில் WBD அவர்கள் தோன்றியது, எங்களுக்குள் இருந்த பரஸ்பர அன்பின் புரிதலே ஆகும். அவரது குடும்பத்திலே யாவரும் அவர் மீது கொண்ட அன்பு, பாசம் மிகவும் அசாத்யமானதாகும். அவரது இழப்பு மிகுந்த துயரம் மிகுந்ததாகும்.
நமது குடும்பத்திற்கு அவரது உதவி, குறிப்பாக Ogami கல்யாணம் குறித்த சம்பந்த பேச்சு வார்த்தை மற்றும் கல்யாண வேலைகளிலும் அவரது உதவி மிக மிக மேலானதாகும். அதன் நிமித்தம் நாம் அனைவருமே அவரது ஆத்ம சாந்திக்காக பிரார்த்தனை செய்ய கடமைப் பட்டவர்களாவோம்.
Posted by Ponnivalavan P on June 18, 2021
Thiru Dheenadhayalan was a great man. a wonderful intellect, a great soul of matchless courage, one of the great men of the earth -- and finally simple man and great human being.i had a few opportunities to interact with him on a special occasions.Thank you for all you did for our family and you’ll forever live on in our memories.
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Shared by n t Shekar on June 18, 2021
HI ALL, 
My Father in law w.B.DEENADHAYALAN, was an incredible man. 
At the out set we should say we are Blessed to have this incredible person residing with us for over an year + during this pandemic. We get to each other than any time before. 
He is a Very self righteous person, who had always refused earlier, on many occassions, to stay with us, but succumed to our request finally during the pandemic. It was a life time opportunity, which we rever always and remember till our remaining life time. 
His daily routine in the morning is to go upstairs with the daily newspaper and food for birds. He will fill also fresh water for birds. In the last week, when he was not well he could not perform his above routine and he expressed his concern about that.
His another routine is listening and performing spiritual sadhana thru zoom - which he rarely misses it.
He loved more his Grand children especially Yagnesh being the only Grandson of his only Son, Srivatsan and Sai Prashanth.  He may have been annoyed of Sai of his continued refusal for the marriage for one reason or other. But, I am sure he changed his opinion, when observed as how Sai expanded to the core, when he fell ill, and how he took care of him, even in my absence, till his demise. I observed this rare quality of him when my mother fell ill and again now.
As for Srivatsan, he loved next to his son. They shared a mutual love and respect for each other. He respected his responsibility, earnest and endeavors from his early childhood days.
To me he is more a friend than a FIL, we always traveled together be it his own or son's house, marriage functions, death ceremonies, temples, etc etc he loved travel.  He will get ready at Short notice. He used to make hand signals sitting next during driving.  Initially it distracted me - and would not synchronize, as, when I require to over take, his perspective would be a stop signal. But, dearly felt his absence on one occassion when involved with a road rage incident. 
While there have been many major support he has extended to family, I would  like to recollect few very major issues he's  resolved for us:-
A. To my astounding belief, he involved voluntarily, in a major discussion with 4 shop owners together, who were demanding money for vacating, from my premises. He spoke with them steadily for almost 60 - 90 minutes and finally concluded upon a reasonable final term with them.
B. I joined with SHASUN PHARMA CO.,  upon his reference and there upon had put it 28 years of continuous stretch of service and retired as an AGM. A small spark became raging fire later.
C.  Nevertheless, I remember in gratitude that few occassions expanded to support directly or indirectly, whenever there is a pit fall, on my health and my brother's (who is no more). 
D.  Learnt, as how could one be useful to the needy from him - but never could match the generosity of him, put together by the entire family,  exceptionally, now being following by Veera and Usha ji.
E. Through him had travelled  to visit important temples and deities from Kasi to Rameswaram. Again it is a privilege him
D.  He is an ardent Devotee of Sri  Bhagavan. His unrelent faith towards them has saved him on may occasion on his health issues. His prayers had been a shield to the family always earlier and Blessings now, thereafter. 
There is always a vacuum of his absence in the family, especially in Sai 's or Srivatsan marriage andj Yagnesh's news of entering college and not the least our Shastipurth (60th Marriage anniversary) to raise in less than 3 months.
The loss is irreparable.  The grief faced especially by Vedhaji, Veeraji and his (WBD) brother Logaselveni, who lived with him for long, of his sudden demise, has been very unbearable - may they too have pease and solace. 
We will all remember him always with great memories we shared.
(The above tribute is from heart any mistakes or hurts, if any, may please be ignored)
N.T.Shekar-Son-in-Law.