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This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, Wesley James Tatum, who was born on August 28, 1992 and passed away on August 28, 1992. We will cherish him forever.

July 4, 2011
July 4, 2011
Hello my Dearest Lad. I am so very sorry I have not been here for a while, but you will know the problems with Lara. Please be a big brother to her, look after her, I don't know where she is, except she is with a bad man. LOVE YOU SO MUCH FOR ALWAYS, MUM. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
July 2, 2011
July 2, 2011
Baby Wesley, welcome to a new month! You and your mummy are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay close to your mum, and comfort her heart, Sweetie...
June 3, 2011
June 3, 2011
Sweet little Wesley, I hope you are enjoying a beautiful Spring in Heaven. The seasons pass but memories of you are forever...
Mum, send the necessary info to my email and this memorial will be turned over to your care with my love...
June 3, 2011
June 3, 2011
Hi Baby Wesley Im sorry I have been gone, I wanted to leave love for you on your beautiful memorial, I also want to thank your mummy and Sue, (ssbj) for all the love and kindness left for me and charlie, I move Monday still not ready I will visit whe
June 3, 2011
June 3, 2011
Hi baby Wesley, it's me again, I tried to take my old picture off and put an older one that looked bit better, but now I can't take my old one off, Hi Sweet Annamarie and Sweet Sue perhaps you can remove that hidious picture of me! Baby Wesley would
June 3, 2011
June 3, 2011
I love you baby Wesley, Annamarie & of course Sue, my special Angel, and Earth Angels, All my love to you All, and thanks for caring about my little Angel Ryan, I love you Guys
May 8, 2011
May 8, 2011
Hello, my Sweet Lad. How are you to day? Whatever you are doing, be happy. All my love forever, Mummy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
May 7, 2011
May 7, 2011
Annamarie, Hi :) -
Just wanted to wish you a beautiful and peaceful Mother's Day. I hope you and your family are doing okay. God bless you...
May 7, 2011
May 7, 2011
Hi Wesley Sweetheart,
Stopping by to give you a big hug and kiss your dear little head. Love and smiles :)...
April 24, 2011
April 24, 2011
Wesley, I wish you an Easter that's sweet as candy and happy as Heaven. Keep watch over your mummy and your love will give her strength...
April 24, 2011
April 24, 2011
HAPPY EASTER, my Dearest Lad. I hope you like what I put in your cabinet. Sorry I have not been here. This computer has been out of action more than in action this year. I have e-mails to answer. BE HAPPY. All my love Mummy. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
April 14, 2011
April 14, 2011
Hello my Dearest son. Sorry I have not left a candle for a while. This computer has been away. I don't know what I did to it! You know I think of you all the time. My love to you forever and say "Hello" to Ryan. Love you, Mummy. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
April 13, 2011
April 13, 2011
Sweet Baby Angel, thinking of you and Mommy with so much love in my ♥....Liberty
April 10, 2011
April 10, 2011
Wee Wesley, is Spring so wonderful in Heaven? I hope Spring will bring renewed strength and a fresh new chapter for your mum. It's been a harsh winter for her, and she so deserves some inner peace. Mum, I'm transferring this site to you soon! Love, S
April 5, 2011
April 5, 2011
LEAVING LOVE FOR BABY WESLEY AND MY LOVELY FRIEND ANNAMARIE, I AM SORRY I HAVEN'T BEEN ON HERE FOR A WHILE I HAVE BEEN SO BUSY TRYING TO GET THIS BIG MOVE TOGETHER VERY STRESSFUL, WANTED TO VISIT FOR A WHILE, GOD BLESS YOU BOTH ALWAYS
March 20, 2011
March 20, 2011
Hello Wes. Sorry I have not left a candle for a few days. Problems with the computer again. You will already know about Lara and Alysha. Be happy. All my love Mummy. xxxxxxxxxx
March 17, 2011
March 17, 2011
Hello Wesley. It should be a big day where you are. It is your Great Granddad's Birthday. Born on St. Patrick's Day and of Irish background. Be happy. All my love Mummy. xxxxxxxxxxxxx
March 16, 2011
March 16, 2011
Hello Wesley. Have a happy day. I will be thinking of you. All my love forever, Mummy. xxxxxx
March 16, 2011
March 16, 2011
Good morning Wesley. How are you to day? Be happy. All my love Mummy. xxxxxx
March 14, 2011
March 14, 2011
Good morning, sweet son of mine. How are you to day?
I am so overwhelmed by Cindy. Please join with Charlie and Ryan, to give her the strength to make a memorial for sweet Ryan. I know you will already be mates with him.
What a beautiful heart SSBJ has, to do this for you.  She has shown more kindness and understanding to me, than my own Mother did. All my love Mummy. xxxxxx
March 13, 2011
March 13, 2011
Hello Wesley. How are you to day? I hope it is a Happy day for you. All my love Mummy. xxxxxx
March 12, 2011
March 12, 2011
oh baby Wesley you are such a beautiful Baby Angel in Heaven I know the angels hold you and take care of you and you play with the other angel babies and wait for your Mummies to come home to heaven to be with you again ever so patiently sweet child in heaven I will always hold you close in my heart,Your Mum loves you so much and I love your Mum she is a very beautiful heart a angel on earth~
March 12, 2011
March 12, 2011
oh sweet Annamarie, I am so touched by our Earth Angel SSBJ, what a beautiful heart to make this site for Baby Wesley I love you SSBJ, and I miss visiting your beautiful angel Rissa, I know your Daughter is so proud of you. You help so many of us in pain always so giving and considerate I will always remember the day you found me on Thgsvg I was staring at charlie your love stopped my tears
March 12, 2011
March 12, 2011
I love you Baby Wesley I am just so overwhelmed with love from all the Kind and loving hearts I met on the other site, SSBJ is our Angel she had you here even before I had Charlie here, SSBJ you touch my heart so deeply you are very special Earth Angel and I love Annamarie thank you so much for all you have done, from my heart to both you angel MUM'S
March 10, 2011
March 10, 2011
Hello Sweetheart. I am so sorry I have not left you a message for a couple of days, we all have a 'flu virus again. We have not been doing much of anything. To day is Alysha's Birthday. I know you wish her a Happy Day. God Bless. All my love Mummy. xxxxxxxxxxx
March 7, 2011
March 7, 2011
♥Wesley♥Precious Angel, you and your Mummy touched my heart, Rest In Gods loving Arms. sweet Baby Angel...with all my love
March 6, 2011
March 6, 2011
Hello Wesley. Sorry I have not left you a message for a couple of days, things are so hectic. You know I think of you every day. All my love forever, Mummy. xxxxxxxxxxx
March 6, 2011
March 6, 2011
Sweet Baby Angel I know you will be with your Mum in Heaven one day, you are a very special angel baby in my heart always, and I send love to your mummy, love xoxoxo cindy
March 4, 2011
March 4, 2011
Hello Wesley, it is late afternoon here and to day is your Granddad's birthday. I expect you are together. Wish him a Happy Birthday from me please. Be Happy. All my love Mum. xxxxxx
March 3, 2011
March 3, 2011
Hello Sweet Baby Wesley, I am so happy to see your most beautiful face here, and it's so nice to visit you you and see you. I am so happy you are here with us and your Mummy must be happy when she comes we can all look at your beautiful baby boy self, xoxoxoxo I love You Baby Boy Wesley
March 3, 2011
March 3, 2011
Hello Wesley. I hope to day is good for you. Big problems with Lara, again. I will see you to-morrow. Be Happy. All my love Mummy. xxxxxx
March 2, 2011
March 2, 2011
Good morning my Darling son. How are you to day? I am so happy to see you on here. It is such a wonderful thing our Earth Angel did for us. Love you forever, Mummy. xxxxxx
February 28, 2011
February 28, 2011
for sweet baby Wesley, and your loving Mum, I am so glad to visit you and your beautiful pictures of you I love how beautiful you look I will visit you more now that I have found you Charlie is here too, so I am so happy to visit you
February 28, 2011
February 28, 2011
♥Wesley, sweet Baby Angel, sending all my love to you and your Mommy♥
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, MY SWEET LAD XX.

August 28, 2012

I cannot believe it is 20 years.  How the years have past so swiftly by.  Never a day has gone by where I have not thought about you.
Your baby years are gone.  Your childhood years are gone.  Your teen years are gone.  What are we left with?  A young man.  
I often try and picture what you look like now.  When you were born, you looked so much like Clive.  He is a handsome young man.  He has many problems, but he works so hard to try and fit in, no one really knows, or understands how hard he tries.  The unseen disabilities, if someone looks 'normal', then they must be normal, whatever that is.
Clive can drive a car now, something that they said he would never do.  He loves driving, I hate it!  Earlier to day, Clive and I were talking.  He was telling me all about the things you and he would do to gether, if you had lived.  Taking you out in the car to places was his favourite.  He had you playing rugby with him, all sorts of things.  It makes me sad to think that all those things will never happen.
Then of course, there are Lara and Alysha.  I don't know what is going to happen with Lara,. she is in a bad place.  At least she is here most of the time now, when she is here, I know she is safe.  When she is away, all sorts of things happen, that she can't control, the unseen disabilities again.  I think she will hit rock bottom, then and only then, will she get the help she should have had years ago.  All I can do is wait and hope.
Alysha, she has so many things do deal with also.  God knows what will happen over the next 12 months.  Again, all I can do is wait and hope.  I have given up on prayer.
Anyway, this is your Birthday.  I just thought I would tell you about your family.  We would have talked about things if you were here.
I can't believe 20 years have gone by.  How do you celebrate your Birthday?
This year Uncle Nicky is with you.  It could be a triple celebration.  Uncle Nicky's and Auntie Junitta's Birthday is the 24th Aug.  This will have been the first Birthday they will have had to gether for a while, Auntie Junitta died a few years ago.  I suppose with them being twins, it is more specical.  I still feel very sad about Uncle Nicky, such a good man.
Of course, our little furry creatures have joined you as well.  Bonnie, Jake, Holly and Roxy.  I love animals.  We still have some animals left, but their deaths are so sad.  One does not replace another.  I still wish I had not had to make that choice with Bonnie and Jake, even though I know it was the right thing for them, they could not have stayed like they were.  I hope they are with you.  Little Roxy only went on the 23rd. 
At the moment, the weather is warm and sunny (just like the day you were born).  They say it could rain later.  I don't mind.  I like the changing weather patterns and the seasons.  My favourite is the autumn, all those beautiful colours.
I hope you like what I have put in your cabinate for your Birthday and what about the little cherub Lara bought for me to wear in memory of you?  My neck is now full of necklaces.  I never used wear them.  But now I have the locket with your photo's in, I call it Wesley's locket.  The 'Special Mum' locket Clive bought me for Mother's Day, with photo's of all four, Clive, you, Lara and Alysha in and now the cherub.  What a shame my neck is all scrawny and old (only messing about)!  They are all so lovely.  I never take them off.
I will close now.
HAVE A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY MY DARLING SON.  I really do wish you were here, but you can't be.  So be ever so Happy.  I'll see you one day, then I will know what you look like and I can hold you again.
All my love forever, Mum OXOXOXOXOX. 

WESLEY

July 5, 2011

Good morning Wesley. How are you to day?

I have found another message, which Alysha wrote for you. Both this one and the other one were written quite a while ago. This one was written shortly after she became ill. It shows that even though she was feeling very unwell, she was still thinking about you: " Even though you're gone and passed, The time has gone so fast. I never met or saw you in my life, but I love you and wish you were here, I would sacrifice. You're my brother and I can't wait to meet. I wish I could see what you looked like, but save me a seat :-). I hope you like where you are Wesley, maybe you will meet Elvis Presley :-).

I will come to your grave, I promise I will, as soon as I stop feeling so very ill. I will bring flowers and everything.

See you on the other side Wesley :-). Love, your little sister Alysha :-). P.S. Tell everyone I said Hi. Wish you were here :-(.  Can't wait till I meet you. You are in a better place. I love you. I miss you <3 <3 <3 <3 <3 ,3".

I hope you like what your little sister wrote, as I say, she wrote them a long time ago. I have put them in your cabinet. Be happy. All my love Mum. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx 

AN ANGEL ABOVE.

July 4, 2011

Hello Wes.

I found this, which is something Alysha wrote for you and I thought I would add it on here:    " A brother, is the love I cannot cover, I think about you every day and night, but I know your spirit and soul are shinning bright. Even though we never met, doesn't mean I don't love you. We will meet one day. I just wish we all had time together. I love you with all my heart big bro. See you one day."

 Your little sister does try so hard, she has had so much to deal with.  We all think of you, every day.  You know you are always in my heart. Love you now and always, your old Mum. xxxxxxxxxxxx

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