January 2, 2012
January 2, 2012
HappyBirthday Dear Friend....You are so missed...always in my Heart
Hold your glass high and toast Billy.
Love You
Fran
Hold your glass high and toast Billy.
Love You
Fran
This memorial website was created in the memory of our loved one, William J. Finn who was born on January 2, 1942 and passed away on January 31, 2011. We will remember him forever.
Please share your stories, uplooad pictures, comment on pictures and leave a tribute to remember him here. Bill was loved by many and will be missed by all, but mostly, me, Perry-Nicholas Isch, his partner in love and life.
In lieu of flowers, consider making a donation to "The Point Foundation" thepointfoundation.org an educational charity. Bill's passion was teaching and would have wanted any money you would spend on flowers to go to a foundation like this in his honor. Thank you
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January 2, 2012
January 2, 2012
What's to say except miss you miss you miss you
January 2, 2012
January 2, 2012
I am sure Bill is celebrating big today in heaven. He loved parties and people. Nothing would stop him from having a good time.
Happy Birthday Bill.
Happy Birthday Bill.
January 2, 2012
January 2, 2012
Happy Birthday Billy. thinking of you today. today would have marked your 70th young birthday which you wouldn't want anyone to acknowledge ( but we all would). It seems almost sureal that a year has passed. you are thought of each and every day. Many reflected and mentioned your absence at the annual New years party in Lauderdale. You are remembered with much love, RIP my love.
December 25, 2011
December 25, 2011
My first Christmas without you.. to say its difficult would be an understatement. I remember our first Christmas and all our other firsts. You made my life complete and filled it with love and I know I did the same for you. My heart aches everyday your not with me. I enjoyed Chuck's birthday and spend Christmas eve with Bruce and Karen. You were missed and remembered by all. Love you
November 24, 2011
November 24, 2011
Thinking of you today and reflecting how thankful I am to have shrared our lives together. Missing you
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Hey my handsome Billy,
Another holiday without talking to you. You're in my thoughts and prayers always.
Love you
Fran
Another holiday without talking to you. You're in my thoughts and prayers always.
Love you
Fran
November 21, 2011
November 21, 2011
Isn't it amazing how many people can be affected by one person. With a twinkle in his eye, a keen wit and a knowing smile he had a way of making everyone around him smile. He taught me so much about life and how to live it and I will forever carry some of those ideas with me. Thank you, Bill, for being my guide for a short time. You will be missed very much.
October 2, 2011
October 2, 2011
244 days since you were taken from me. I sit today and think about how full my life was with you, how much you completed me, and how very lucky I am to have had the life with you that i did. I love you and miss you terribly.
June 5, 2011
June 5, 2011
Dear Perry,
There is not a day that goes by that we don't think about our beloved friend, Bill. He is truly missed by everyone. . . .Pelican Bay will never be the same again without our "Mayor". Perry, may you find peace and comfort.
There is not a day that goes by that we don't think about our beloved friend, Bill. He is truly missed by everyone. . . .Pelican Bay will never be the same again without our "Mayor". Perry, may you find peace and comfort.
April 3, 2011
April 3, 2011
we were two outsiders when we met in High School but somehow you managed to be true to yourself then and throughout all the years. I was slower to reach that point and it helped that you knew I would. Peace to you and Perry.
March 4, 2011
March 4, 2011
Perry
Peace Be With You My Friend
Peace Be With You My Friend
March 3, 2011
March 3, 2011
Dear Perry,
We look down the canal and we miss Bill all over again. He was the "Mayor of Pelican Bay".
We wish you strength and peace as you go forward.
It is with difficulty we say goodbye but even though he wouldn't like it we will say "Bill,God bless, God speed, and we love you".
Love,
Laurie and Fred
We look down the canal and we miss Bill all over again. He was the "Mayor of Pelican Bay".
We wish you strength and peace as you go forward.
It is with difficulty we say goodbye but even though he wouldn't like it we will say "Bill,God bless, God speed, and we love you".
Love,
Laurie and Fred
March 1, 2011
March 1, 2011
My friend, my neighbor, you were the first to welcome me to the block with a cake and open invitation for coffee. You also opened your home to me many times after I moved and I will always be greatful for our short 10 year friendship. The coffee is ready, I will miss you Bill
February 24, 2011
February 24, 2011
Bill was my closest and dearest cousin. We phoned each other often and had many good laughs together. I will miss him terribly.
My heartfelt sympathy to Perry, Annette and all of Bill's friends.
The picture of Bill as a young man on the beach tugged at my heart, that is so Bill Finn. From the time he was a teenager Bill was always bronze(I was so envious). He loved and lived for the sun.
My heartfelt sympathy to Perry, Annette and all of Bill's friends.
The picture of Bill as a young man on the beach tugged at my heart, that is so Bill Finn. From the time he was a teenager Bill was always bronze(I was so envious). He loved and lived for the sun.
February 21, 2011
February 21, 2011
It is not hard to believe three weeks have passed,Bill, because i miss you every day.....sometimes i forget you are not at home and have to turn my car around.... you have the coffee on someplace new and your table is full of olde friends ..
February 17, 2011
February 17, 2011
Dearest Perry,
I was shocked when Helen called me to tell me the sad news. What I had feared came to pass. I thought Bill could have beat the cancer monster with his powerful personality and me being a cancer survivor I thought my pep talks & support would have helped him with the fight. He's in a better place now.
Much Love
Jimmy
I was shocked when Helen called me to tell me the sad news. What I had feared came to pass. I thought Bill could have beat the cancer monster with his powerful personality and me being a cancer survivor I thought my pep talks & support would have helped him with the fight. He's in a better place now.
Much Love
Jimmy
February 17, 2011
February 17, 2011
Carlos and I have known Bill for nearly 30 years. The memories are all good, and so many laughs. We would visit him at the "rhododendron" house in Florida NY on weekends (up from the City), and had great times eating his wonderful food, esp his turkey and turkey soup made from the leftovers. He was one of the funniest irascible people we've known. Move over, Don Rickles, Bill is/was your match
February 17, 2011
February 17, 2011
Fran Amelio
Dear Perry,
You fulfilled Billy, may the many tributes to Billy comfort you at this time. He will be forever in my heart.
With love and prayers
Fran
Dear Perry,
You fulfilled Billy, may the many tributes to Billy comfort you at this time. He will be forever in my heart.
With love and prayers
Fran
February 13, 2011
February 13, 2011
Perry,
Jay and I was so saddened to learn of Bill's passing. Remeber all the happy times and we all know there were many. What the two of you shared was displayed and well known. Bill will be greatly missed and will not be forgotten. Bill was a true GEM. Perry please know that Bill will always be your soulmate. Know that Jay and I share the sarrow that we all know to well.
Jay and I was so saddened to learn of Bill's passing. Remeber all the happy times and we all know there were many. What the two of you shared was displayed and well known. Bill will be greatly missed and will not be forgotten. Bill was a true GEM. Perry please know that Bill will always be your soulmate. Know that Jay and I share the sarrow that we all know to well.
February 13, 2011
February 13, 2011
We love and dearly miss our adopted nephew, Billy.Always ready with a listening ear,helpful hand, cup of soup and ride to anywhere!His spirit and memory is with us in so many moments and gifts in our home.He lived life his way. Perry, you came into his life and each of you spread your happiness to us.We hold Billy in our hearts forever.
February 13, 2011
February 13, 2011
I am so sorry for your loss perry. He was a fine gentlmen and he always made me laugh. I know you are hurting but you have good and loving friends to help you. Bill was a gentlemen and a great guy. I will miss him too. Sincerely, Ron
February 13, 2011
February 13, 2011
Dear Perry,
Its always so tough on the loved ones left behind. be kind to yourself.Billy was such a character and a wonderful teacher. He will always be remembered.Patty and Paul Huss
Its always so tough on the loved ones left behind. be kind to yourself.Billy was such a character and a wonderful teacher. He will always be remembered.Patty and Paul Huss
February 12, 2011
February 12, 2011
I was saddened to hear about Bill's illness and passing. I taught with Bill for many years at Washingtonville ...his smile and witty remarks always made us laugh....he was a kind hearted man....and well-liked, as attested to by the "family" from WCS that followed him to Florida! My sympathy to you, Perry, and to all of his "Florida Family". Most Sincerely, Jeri
February 12, 2011
February 12, 2011
Perry,
I never got to meet you when I visited Bill in Florida but I know Bill was very happy. Working with Bill in Washingtonville made my job a lot more fun and interesting. I hear bill continued to make life fun and interesting as he was known as the Mayor of Washingtonville South. I am blessed to have known Bill. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
I never got to meet you when I visited Bill in Florida but I know Bill was very happy. Working with Bill in Washingtonville made my job a lot more fun and interesting. I hear bill continued to make life fun and interesting as he was known as the Mayor of Washingtonville South. I am blessed to have known Bill. My prayers and thoughts are with you.
February 12, 2011
February 12, 2011
What can one say about a man who touched so many lives where ever he went. Bill was one of a kind! I worked with Bill in Wizardville for many years and laugh when I think of all the silly wonderful times we had. Perry, I extend my sympathy to you and all Bill's friends in Washingtonville South. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. He will be greatly missed and always remembered.
February 7, 2011
February 7, 2011
Your tears are my tears
February 7, 2011
February 7, 2011
Mr. Finn was adored by myself and so many others back in Washingtonville Jr. School.....a visit with him was a guaranteed fun time, and always lifted my spirits!! He always knew how to make us feel grown up and that we were being listened to. A unique blend of teacher and friend, he always made me smile and I am so very grateful to have had him in my life as a teenager. Margaret Mirecki Powell
February 7, 2011
February 7, 2011
Although I only spent one evening with Bill, Perry and Erol Bert, I am feeling a deep saddness about his passing. If this man had such an impact after meeting him just once, I cannot imagine the saddness all his friends and family must be experiencing. My heartfelt prayers go out to all who love him.
February 6, 2011
February 6, 2011
....so enjoyed having tea with Bill and Perry after my daily morning walk. They are not only neighbors but one of my good friends. Perry I know your pain, having gone thru the same, upon the loss of,Jim, after 41 years. My deepest sympathy to you. I am here for you should you need a caring shoulder.
'When Someone you love becomes a memory---
the memory becomes a treasure'
'When Someone you love becomes a memory---
the memory becomes a treasure'
February 6, 2011
February 6, 2011
Bill was truly one of life's most unforgettable characters. My thoughts and love go out to Perry and all those in 'Billyville'. He was greatly loved and will be greatly missed.
February 5, 2011
February 5, 2011
Our Presious son Perry, You was the sunshine on a rainy day for Billy. What you two had some never find. Cling to all the memories and know he was a happy man. We are thankful that your love for each other was so special. You are in our thoughts and prayers always. We love you... Hugs Mom and Dad
February 5, 2011
February 5, 2011
Between the numerous car rides, the lazy days just sitting by the pool, or starting everyday with a cup of coffee and whoever drops in. Not a day goes by where I don't think about Bill and laugh at one of his witty sarcastic remarks. I love him for being such a good man to my father, I love him for everything hes ever done for me, and i love him as family, and he will always be in my heart.
February 5, 2011
February 5, 2011
I am so saddened to hear of Mr. Finn's passing. I had him as a teacher in the early 80s in Washingtonville. What a great time we had in his class. He will definitely be fondly remembered by all who were graced by his presence.
February 5, 2011
February 5, 2011
My sister and I both had Mr. Finn and although we were both different we both adored him. I remember being in his class when we watched the Challenger on television go up in space. He was so wonderful and calmed us. And he could quickly make you laugh by sticking a pencil up his nose. But with all of his silliness he was one of the best teachers. Miss you. Amy and Ellen
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
There are teachers who inspire you to think outside the box and those are the ones who excite students to become more interesting people and perhaps later, to become a teacher yourself. I made my most embarrassing mistake as a student of Mr. Finn and he handled it with such a good sense of humor. He was such a great teacher, the kind you always remember.
Tricia Grosso Clancy
Tricia Grosso Clancy
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
I made a promise to you "my Billy" that I will always keep. I know you are in a better place, but that doesn't mean that we are right now. I love you with all my heart and will miss you for the rest of my life. I am so happy that I spent that great day with you at High Tides. Billy has been my bestfriend and my brother. Perry was your soulmate; he is a blessing from above. I love you Perry
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
Dearest Perry,
There are no words to describe what you must be feeling
except we love you and loved Bill for the past 24 years. Please remember we are always here for you.
The Katulak Family
There are no words to describe what you must be feeling
except we love you and loved Bill for the past 24 years. Please remember we are always here for you.
The Katulak Family
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
We are among the lucky who had the the chance to know and love Billy. He held a very special place in my heart, and will be missed.
Our deepest sympathies to you Perry.
Cindy & Karl Meyer
Our deepest sympathies to you Perry.
Cindy & Karl Meyer
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
I was very saddened to hear of Mr Finns passing. He was my English teacher back in the 80's in Washingtonville. I will forever be grateful for his kindness. I was the new girl in school, rather shy and nervous. Mr Finn was able to put a smile on my face and allowed me to learn in a nurturing environment. RIP, to one of my favorite teachers.
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
I met Bill at a Winter Weekend in the Catskills. The weekend was dismal but my partner and I made a life long friend! A kind man with sage advice and a happy laugh it is hard to think that he is gone -too soon, too soon. Bill - be with the angels now and watch over Perry and Annette. Thank you for being my friend.
February 4, 2011
February 4, 2011
Dear Perry;
There are no words that can express how we feel,
but may you find comfort in knowing that we truly care
and share in your sorrow.
There are no words that can express how we feel,
but may you find comfort in knowing that we truly care
and share in your sorrow.
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January 2
January 2
every passing year only reminds me how very much i miss you. its been a rollercoaster of a ride. im most at peace when i stop and remember how much you loved me and how much in return i loved you. my life forever changed the day i met you. i miss you you and will always love you Bill. rest in peace love.
January 3, 2023
January 3, 2023
Hi Bill,
Gosh more than a decade. I remember meeting you at the Concord all those years ago, and the visits to your house and yours to ours and then our visits to Florida. I think of you now and then and smile at these memories but it's bittersweet as you were taken too soon, too soon! Rest in peace Bill.
Gosh more than a decade. I remember meeting you at the Concord all those years ago, and the visits to your house and yours to ours and then our visits to Florida. I think of you now and then and smile at these memories but it's bittersweet as you were taken too soon, too soon! Rest in peace Bill.
January 31, 2022
January 31, 2022
I don't know how 11 years has whisked by but i do know that for every trip around the sun there has not been a day that i don't hold you in my heart. as the days turn to months those month accumulate into years i become ever more grateful of our time together and after. I was blessed to have you in my life and share mine with you in who would have never thought to be your final ones. You lifted me up when others tried to knock me down you gave love unconditionally and you showed me a side of you that few rarely see, the softer, humble, and vulnerable side of a man that i love. I used to think how unfair it was that the world lost a man with so much light and energy to give and realize these days, you are never lost my love.... you have been guiding me and with me all this time. Today i again mourn the tragedy and devastation of what it holds. I know the pain of having your beating heart ripped from your chest and the feeling of utter loneliness even while surrounded by people. The years following your passing i thought the best way i could honor you and take the love you filled me with was to live my best life , be the best man i could be, find the opportunities to do something for someone without recognition, to give the world a little bit of what you were. I feel at times i have fallen short of that goal but am forever reminded that falling down doesn't mean staying there it is the chance to get up, to rise, and try again. You will always be loved and forever Missed.
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January 2, 2017
Dear Bill,
Happy Birthday in Heaven,
The great thing I will always remember about you is that whenever I stayed st your home by myself or with my family for the Daytona Races you always had the coffee on no matter the time or day. The laughter, fun, good and best frienship will never be forgotten.
Rest in Peace!
Stylin, you were a class act
October 11, 2011
I remember the day you saw the Jag and asked me if you thought it was ok to get. I recall telling you that you worked your whole life for something that nice and you absolutely deserved it. Shortly after getting "jag 1" you convinced me to trade in my caddy for "Jag 2". It was so much fun to have a matched set, i remember you sending the christmas email about "santa's claws" you were so clever. Well, you would have been proud as i did what you instructed me to do and sell the jags. I wound up with a wonderful sedan that has great lines i know you would approve of, super gas mileage and is very comfortable. I know you would approve. I often find myself making decisions based on the input that you provided for me. You enriched my life beyond words and i miss that so much. I feel your influence in many of my decisions. Im so grateful of the time we had but honestly everyday, wish there was more. im a better man today because of you. I will always Love you and i miss you terribly.
You're all around me..
March 20, 2011
Bill, part of my cleaning today brought me to these rare pictures of you. Your life was as full as any could have been. I thought i would share them for your former students and freinds to continue to enjoy and remember how you were "Larger Than Life" Im in awe that 7 weeks tomorrow have passed and i miss you terribly each and everyday. Love you always p.