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This memorial website was dedicated in the memory of my son William F. Umstadter II.
He was 39 years old, born on January 10, 1982 and unexpectedly passed away on April 19, 2021.

Son of Abbey S. Hunter and the Late William F Umstadter Sr. 
Brother to Tristan S. Umstadter,  Amanda L. Johnson and the Late Sarra Anne Umstadter.
Maternal Grandmother, the Late Roslyn Baum.   Paternal Grandparents, the Late George and Anne Umstadter. 
Billy was the proud father of Allison Taylor Umstadter, he would be so proud of the young woman she has become. Allison is very much like her dad, with ocean blue eyes and a beautiful, kind soul. This is truly sad as Billy will miss many life milestones Allison will eventually reach and she will not have her Dad to be there for her. Graduating high school, getting married, having children.
Billy has two nieces and adored them both. Harlee and Harper Baker. Billy used to go for long walks with them while visiting in Tennessee with his sister, Amanda. According to Amanda, he taught them how to throw rocks at houses lol. Billy and his brother Tristan were close. They would often ride their dirt bike, quad, snow mobiles on our property in Johnsonville. They both fought like brothers but loved each other always. Billy and Amanda had a special big brother, little sister bond. Some things they did together I never wanted to know about. Amanda knows exactly what I am referring to. Last time Billy and Amanda were together was in the mountains of Georgia riding their mountain bikes together the day of her wedding when she married Brandon, days before Billy passed away. Every day together truly is a blessing never to be taken for granted. Amanda and Billy had many fond memories together while he was visiting her in Tennessee, I will leave it at that. Billy had a wild side, but was true to himself and his family and friends.

Billy resided in Schaghticoke most of his life and attended Hoosic Valley Central School from kindergarten until he graduated Class of 2000.
Billy worked for Quality Retail System 2004-2020, then he pursued a career with Global Foundries in 2017 until 2020.
Billy moved to Chapel Hill North Carolina to pursue employment at Cree Wolfspeed in Durham North Carolina in 2020-2021.

Sadly, Billy passed away suddenly April 19th, 2021. Life has forever changed for his family and friends with his loss.

There is not a day that goes by that Billy is not missed by friends and family.  I will never let his beautiful light fade. His humor, his laugh, his loyalty to friends and family will always be remembered.
 
Let his memory bring joy to our hearts always and forever. 


November 19, 2021
November 19, 2021
This holiday I miss you more than ever. You always loved my turkey, potatoes and gravy with all the fixings. My favorite time with my children. 
It still seems so unreal that you are gone. The realization of no return texts or calls is surreal. It feels like a bad dream I cannot wake up from. I love you with all my heart Billy and I will never have a day or moment I don't think about you. The ill fated life you were dealt and bad decisions you made affected me deeply. You had the biggest heart of all my kids. You always thought of me no matter what. This holiday and for the rest of my life will never be the same. MY firstborn and my true love you will always be. I will always love you until my last breath and beyond
October 7, 2021
October 7, 2021
Always on my mind, your always missed each second of every day.
How do I do this without you Billy.
I hope you are in a much better place because I am lost without you. 
I love you so much my beautiful boy
September 5, 2021
September 5, 2021
I am going to miss your call today wishing me a happy birthday
September 3, 2021
September 3, 2021
Billy Boy, wish I could hear your voice again, have you blast into the house and demand tacos for dinner. Just to have you come out of your bedroom and be the beautiful grumpy kid that you could be. That would give me joy. I would give my life to have one more day with you, just to talk like we should have always , not like it used to be when we would argue because we were so much alike, hot heads, take no names and just go for the jugular.
I miss you more every day Billy. The songs I have here on this website are totally you. Our relationship together in this lifetime I will treasure until my last breath my beautiful son.
August 20, 2021
August 20, 2021
Billy Boy I miss you so so much. My heart aches without you.
Where ever your next life journey brings you, I hope you are happy and with family surrounding you
August 13, 2021
August 13, 2021
Tomorrow you will be missed so much Billy. You were to be the best man for your brother Tristan at his wedding. You would be here with me probably driving me crazy but I would give anything for that again. I missed you my boy so so much.
July 13, 2021
July 13, 2021
I miss you so much. My heart aches to hear your voice. 
July 2, 2021
July 2, 2021
I miss you so much. More everyday. I bought a cover for your car and it came to me that when I cover this car,
I am hiding what you loved which was your freedom to drive, and covering part of you and it became so real for me.
 You hung with wrong drinking crowd, until you left that behind you eventually gained your license back. Sometimes you have to break ties with people that hold you back and unfortunately the one person you grew up with turned out to be the biggest piece of shit in this world. 
We are left with such feeling anger and despair knowing you died alone and with no one to help you. I am plagued with nightmares of you calling for me to help you. What do I do with this Billy.
We will never have closure therefore this will always be an open wound.
We will never have the answers.  You always got so mad because I always had to know you were safe. You had such a big beautiful heart. 
I pray you are with grandma Ros, and Sarra and Grandma and Grandpa Umstadter, they loved you so much. I know you no longer struggle with your demons. I pray you are in a better place. I love you with all my heart and soul.
June 27, 2021
June 27, 2021
I love you so much, your passing has left me in such a bad place Billy how am I supposed to live without you. 
Everyday that goes by that I don't hear from you, every minute knowing I will never see you again just leaves such an empty feeling in my heart. I would have given my life for yours.
We are lost souls Billy. Give us some peace please.
I love you Billy Boy
June 20, 2021
June 20, 2021
I miss you so much Billy. Happy Father's Day in Heaven.
I am filled with regret. Wishing things could have been better for you.
I love you so much, until we meet again my sweet son
June 5, 2021
June 5, 2021
Every day is harder to live without you.
I am trying to be strong for Tristan and Amanda. I pray you are with me pushing me to be strong. I am lost without you.
The song Blurry reminds me of our relationship and the arguments we used to have when I knew you were not on the right path. I wish I did more, I wish I pushed a little harder to help you. I did what I did because I loved you so much and wanted only the best for you., I wanted you to be better for Allison and mostly for yourself
It is me who is stuck. It is me who hurts because you are gone. 
How am I supposed to live without you Billy.
My only prayer is that Sarra was with you when you were set free and brought you to Heaven to watch over you.
May 29, 2021
May 29, 2021
My son,
It doesn't seem possible that I will never see you again. The days grow shorter and the nights are longer thinking about you. I am not sure what was going on in your mind during the last few days you were here on this earth. but I will blame myself every day for
not picking up on it or calling you even just to hear you yell at me for caring.
I ask God why you and not me?  It feels like purgatory for me for the rest of my life suffering the loss of you. I pray there is a Heaven. I pray we see each other again. 
May 23, 2021
May 23, 2021
I miss you so much every moment of every day bill.You are not only my brother but truly my best friend.My heart and soul are torn without you here,and i feel like a part of my soul left with you.I miss our daily texts and conversations,we could talk about anything.Right now life seems impossible without you but i know you want me to be stronger than ever before so that i can look out for mom,amanda and allison...and i will! I will live for you each day and carry on the memories that we have.You were such a great man and one of the hardest workers i know.God needed a warrior in heaven and had a much bigger plan for you so i know we will be together again.I just wish it wasn't your time yet.You are with dad,grandma,sarra and all our loved ones we have lost.You are with me every single day giving me the strength i need to take on this world.Until we meet again i love you dearly bill!!
May 16, 2021
May 16, 2021
How am I to live without you Billy. I miss you more each day. I will always love you and keep your memory alive  This doesn't seem possible that I will never see my beautiful blue eyed son ever again.
May 9, 2021
May 9, 2021
Missing you my son so much on Mother's Day.
This day will never be the same for me.
May 4, 2021
May 4, 2021
I'm So very sorry for your los my condolences and deepest sympathies are with you Abbey and your family.
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April 14
April 14
I miss you so much Billy. It is almost three years since I lost you. They all lied, it does not get any easier. Obviously, they never lost a child. They can't even imagine losing a child. I love you my beautiful boy.
March 1
March 1
Thinking about you as always. Wish you were here to talk to. I feel so alone without you Billy.
January 10
January 10
Happy heavenly birthday Billy. It has been really hard this year. Holidays just are not enjoyable. I barely get through it. Then, your birthday. I miss you so much. You are on my mind all the time. I love you.
His Life

Billy's Life

May 5, 2021
Billy attended Hoosic Valley Central School from kindergarten until he graduated Class of 2000.
I still remember blue jeans with suspenders, docksiders, green and navy blue rugby shirt on Billy's first day of school. He waved than got on the bus. That's when I realized I had to allow my son to enter big world and my protection wouldn't always be enough. 
In 2004, Billy became the proud father of Allison Taylor Umstadter. He loved Allison so very much. I see Billy in Allison, her  beautiful sky blue eyes. Billy and Allison  had one thing is common and that is the ability to burp the loudest and longest. Sounds gross but that was Billy's trademark. Well and flatulence that would clear a room, I knew just by the grin on his face what was coming.
He resided in Schaghticoke most of his life.   Until he moved to Malta NY in 2017.
In Billy's late teens he worked for Richie's Pizza in Schaghticoke. He then worked at Quality Retail System in Schaghticoke,  in 2018 he worked  Global Foundries in Malta NY.  Billy studied for his EMT in 2019-2020 Billy received his NYS certificate as an EMT through Global Foundries,   I was so proud of him.
In 2020 he took a position at Cree Wolfspeed in Durham North Carolina. 

In 2017 Billy lost his dad to cancer and was at his side until the Bill Sr. passed away July 29th, 2017.  This truly was the saddest time for Billy.

Billy was a go getter, he helped his dad's elderly friends cut wood, mow lawns, yard work,  bring groceries when they were too sick to do on their own. He was always there for friends to help with anything they needed. That was my son, a kind, caring loving person, old soul.

Billy was a dreamer,  he dreamed of owning a  blue Corvette. When he was 10, he wanted to be a truck driver which he acheived and worked for R.J Valenti  trucking company.

Billy was very close to his brother Tristan and his sister Amanda.
Billy and Tristan were inseparable buddies from time Tristan could walk up until Billy's passing.  Billy was in New York for his birth day in January 2021 when he was with his cousin Jimmy were at Peddler's,  Billy threw a potato bomb in the parking lot of Peddler's scaring the bajesus out of his cousin Jimmy.  We laugh when we think of the prankster Billy was. He always would  laugh while I  was angry at him. I would give anything for that again Billy. To hear your laugh again. To see that smirk on your face. Priceless.
Billy attended his sister Amanda's wedding on
April 15th 2021, doing what he loved most which was riding his mountain bike down a the Rocky Mountains in Georgia with Amanda and her spouse Brandon.
This was the last time we saw  Billy.
He had a beautiful smile and ocean blue eyes.   He was happiest  riding his mountain bike, ATV, Croc Rocket  anything fast and on wheels, that is the thrill Billy had  in life.
We miss you Billy more than you will ever know, This is a sad tragic loss.  

I pray you are in a good place with your sister Sarra Anne,  Grandma Ros and your Dad.  Until we see each other again, I will miss you each and every day.  My first born, my sweet boy❤️Billy Boy  ❤️I love you always
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May 4, 2021
When I was 19, I gave birth to a beautiful son William Frederick Umstadter II.
It was love at first sight.  I promised to protect you from the evil in this world as long as I was alive. You were inquisitive and curious and loved fast machines no matter what they were.
I thought I lost you when you crashed your motorcycle. Something changed in you that day and you lost that grin that was ear to ear.  You became another person I hardly knew but all I wanted was to protect you from the shit in this world. 
You always wanted to help others but where were they when you needed help. 
The pain I feel without you hurts my heart. I have all the guilt of why couldn't I protect you, why couldn't I see what was going on in your head. Why didn't I try a little harder to reach out to you. You were always angry at me, I think it was because you knew I was right and I would always have your back my son. There is never a moment I don't have you on my mind. There isn't a day I don't cry over you.  You were a lost  kind and caring soul in a bad world. 
I will love you forever. 
Our lives will never be the same without you. I lost my firstborn son,  Allison lost her dad, Amanda and Tristan lost their brother, Tristan lost  his best man at his wedding. Tristan and Billy  were buddy's for life and all that was lost on April 19th 2021.  I pray you are in Heaven with your sister Sarra Anne.  I hope your spirit is free and happy.   No regrets no anger just a free spirit now Billy.   I hope you are in that Blue Corvette in Heaven.
I will always love you Billy.
I wish I could have saved you

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