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A comfortable friend

January 23, 2019

When talking about Jamie, one thing that everyone can agree on is that he was kind and warm to everyone. High school was a brutal time for everyone. I had a hard time making friends - I was a strange and awkward girl who no one really understood and who wasn’t close with a lot of people. When I joined band class, I was one of several people who were enamoured by Jamie right away. His skills as a drummer far surpassed his confidence. I hope he knew how good he was. He was cute, which didn’t hurt of course. Every time I’d shyly smile and wave at him, he would smile back and ask how I was doing. A few called me “Carlybear”, and he was one of them. I’d never say that we were really good friends, but he was one of few who made me feel important.

He didn’t have an unkind word to say about anyone. Last year, our last conversation ended with him telling me that I was always a good friend who he felt comfortable with. I never responded - one of several moments I will come to regret. It’s a good lesson that no matter how busy life gets, always make time to tell those who mean a lot to you that they are important. 

Jamie, thank you for always being so darn nice. 

 

January 23, 2019

My niece Julie became friends with Jamie at the Grande prairie college and he instantly became a part of our family, even living with us for a while.  We had a ton of fun together, but I will always remember him for the sweet kind soul he was.  You will never be forgotten Jamie. You touched everyone you met.  I am so sad.  Delaine (Ninny

Nothing you would take, everything you gave...

January 23, 2019

One time when I visited Jamie Presslee in the hospital, he was so sorry that he had lost his voice and sad that I'd come to see him but that he couldn't hold a conversation... that guy, of course he was worried about me not having someone to talk to...

It reminded me of this Pearl Jam song, which Eddie Vedder had written about his best friend, Joey Ramone, who was dying of cancer. Eddie said when he first found out and upon visiting Joey that he didn't know what words to use, and Johnny replied "stay with me, let's just breathe."

So we sat together and just breathed. It's now one of the most meaningful moments of my life.

I don't think Jamie like Pearl Jam too much, but these lyrics describe him so perfectly.

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Just Breathe - Pearl Jam

Yes I understand that every life must end, uh-huh
As we sit alone, I know someday we must go, uh-huh
Oh I'm a lucky man to count on both hands the ones I love
Some folks just have one, yeah others they've got none
Stay with me...
Let's just breathe...

Practiced are my sins, never gonna let me win, uh-huh
Under everything, just another human being, uh-huh
Yeah I don't wanna hurt, there's so much in this world to make me bleed
Stay with me
You're all I see...

Did I say that I need you?
Did I say that I want you?
Oh, if I didn't I'm a fool you see
No one knows this more than me

As I come clean...
I wonder everyday, as I look upon your face, uh-huh
Everything you gave
And nothing you would take, oh no

Nothing you would take
Everything you gave...

Did I say that I need you?
Oh, did I say that I want you?
Oh, if I didn't I'm a fool you see
No one knows this more than me
And I come clean, ah...

Nothing you would take
Everything you gave
Hold me 'til I die
Meet you on the other side..

January 18, 2019

Jamie, you held a special place in my heart as you shared the same Birthday as my daughter, Becky.  I first met you and your Mom in the Prince George hospital and our families became friends and shared many a visit and dinners together.  I never knew you as an adult, but all the outpouring of love you received from your friends and family showed me that you grew up to be such a caring, compassionate, loyal and loving person.  Your Mom was so very proud of you and now your Dad will be able to tell you how much he missed you and will take over from your Mom in looking out for you.  Your short life here on earth, made such an impact on so many people.  You were indeed blessed.  Rest in peace Jamie. Love-Doreen, Elysia & Becky 

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