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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, William Wickline (Bill) of Port Townsend, Washington.  Bill passed away suddenly on February 20, 2016, due to complications from cancer.  He was 75.  

A celebration of Bill’s life will be held at 2 p.m. on March 5, 2016, at the Fort Worden Chapel, 200 Battery Way, Port Townsend, Washington.  A potluck reception will follow. 



Donations

In lieu of flowers, please consider making a donation in Bill's memory to the Centrum Scholarship Fund.  For 43 years, Centrum has created communities of artists and learners of all ages who connect through direct and shared artistic experiences.  Thoughtful memorial gifts, or gifts in honor of a loved one, make it possible for Centrum to continue supporting vital arts and education programs in Port Townsend.  

To make a donation, please visit www.centrum.org and click on the "Donate" tab.  In the Centrum Secure Gift Giving form you can specify that the donation be allocated to the Scholarship Fund and that the gift is being made in memory or honor of Bill. 

After you have made a contribution, a tax receipt will be sent to you.  Centrum will not specify the amount of your donation unless you request it.  Memorial and tribute donations to Centrum are fully tax-deductible.


February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
Sending our Love and Prayers for your family as they/we remember YOU, "Papa Bill!"
We miss your smile and presence! Enjoy Heaven with all its: "We can only imagine" Glory, and with all who have gone before You and those who have joined you recently!
May 5, 2022
Happy Blessed Birthday Bill!
Enjoy the "Bliss of Heaven!"
You and Dan will have alot to talk about ...!
Miss YOU BOTH beyond words to express!
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
Sending our Love and Prayers to Pattie and Family in remembering "Papa Bill" and remembering "All" that he was, that he worked, that he gave and most of all of all that he shared with an "unending memory" to cherish. Upholding YOUR Family to God in our Prayers for a brighter future ahead...! 
February 20, 2021
February 20, 2021
William, the "Quiet One" lives on in our hearts and thoughts.
Now hiding so much we would like to know...?
Thank you Bill for letting us ponder!

From Dan, Brother-In-Law
May 5, 2020
"The quiet man who walked beside us would have been 80 years today.
His memory lives on in ours and remains unforgetable---in every way!"

Love and prayers are sent your way.



February 20, 2020
February 20, 2020

REMEMBERING BILL "OUR HEARTFELT MEMORIES ARE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY" LOVE AND PRAYERS ARE SENT YOUR WAY! GOD BLESS!

"BILL IS HARD TO FORGET, NOT FOR WHAT HE SAID, BUT FOR WHAT HE DID!
HIS HANDS SPOKE LOUDER THAN HIS WORDS"  DAN and SELMA
May 5, 2019
May 5, 2019
To Patti, Family, Grandchildren and Friends!
Remembering:
Bill our "Silent" and "Dependable Friend"
whose "Friendship" shall never end "Here
and "Forever!"
"When tears fall and nights are long,
Just remember the "Love and Memories"
of our "Loved Ones" are forever strong!"
LOVE and PRAYERS are sent your Way!
God Bless!
Dan & Selma
February 20, 2019
February 20, 2019
Our memory of Bill has not faded! We think quite often of him.
He was prematurely from all of us, but then who can question
the wisdom of God.
Our thoughts and prayers are sent your way.
Love and Prayers,
Dan and Selma Kolke
February 20, 2019
February 20, 2019
Feb. 20, 2019
Dear Cousin Patti and Family,
You are in my thoughts and prayers on the third anniversary of your husband Bill being in Heaven. I pray all your wonderful memories of him will bring you joy and peace.
Love Always,
Norma Dean
May 5, 2018
While Bill is "Enjoying the Glory of Heaven,"
we remember and reminisce with You on
Bill's 78th Birthday!!
Our heartfelt Thoughts and Prayers are with Patricia,
her family, and friends.
May our Loving Lord be with YOU ALL! 
And hold You All close to His Heart!
And may the Lord surround you with
His EVERLASTING LOVE!
God Blessing to YOU!
Love YOU ALL!
May 5, 2017
Bill was one of the finest men I have ever known. He as earned my highest praise and respect as a husband, father and grandfather. And of course, as a craftsman and as a chef. His precious memories remain with us always! We keep his "Loved Ones" in our hearts and prayers!
March 17, 2016
March 17, 2016
Bill was a gentle soul and in his own quiet way, made all those around him feel comfortable and at ease. I know he will be missed and we send out good thoughts and prayers to you Patti.
March 9, 2016
March 9, 2016
My thoughts about Bill, the first time I met him and the last time I saw him.
The first time was when we both were in the Inglewood Active 20-30 club.
It was made up of young professionals. We used to meet weekly. The president would
Randomly pick one of the members and he had to introduce all the attendees. You would
Get fined $ for every one you missed.
On one of our meetings, there were two Bills! We could not tell a Bill from a Kurt.
It was like “which one is Bill and which one is Kurt?” The club was enriched with quite
A few $’s.
The last time I saw Bill was when the Wicklines and the Cordovas toured the South
We were packed in a flex ford. Bill was driving and Kurt was navigating. Kurt's GPS was more
Like a compass. Patti was in the extreme end of the Flex and you could see she was worried
That we might be lost. She said “Bill do you know where you are going?”
And Bill’s response was “No but were sure are making good time!”
March 6, 2016
March 6, 2016
Bill was a dear person, a fitting match with Patti, also a dear person.I will miss him and was fortunate to see him (bring me a bottle of wine!) a few weeks ago, when he looked well and felt well.
All best wishes to Patti, the girls and Brent.
Love, Celia
March 5, 2016
March 5, 2016
George Carlin once said “I’m always relieved when someone is delivering a eulogy and I realize I’m listening to it.” I guess that principle also applies when you yourself are delivering a eulogy, so the good news is we’ve all got that going for us.

Bill was my father-in-law. I first met Bill and Patti 37 years ago when, as a 16-year old dressed up in a lovely light blue tux with a ruffled beige shirt and a huge blue velvet bow tie, I showed up at their house to pick up their pretty 16-year old daughter for a high school formal.

As I’ve reflected these past days on what it is I wanted to share with you here today, my mind just kept coming back to one theme: Bill was a really unique dude. And he was a fantastic father-in-law. 

I’m certain I’ve never met, nor will I ever meet again, a guy like Bill. To some extent, I have to admit this must be due, in part at least, to the fact Bill took on what will be a once-in-a-lifetime role in the screenplay of my life: that of the father-in-law. But Bill was not just any father-in-law; he was the old-fashioned kind of father-in-law that I actually met when I myself was still a child. That dynamic, of course, used to be the norm in our society, but it’s much more rare these days. This is something I’ve never really thought about until this week, but I now realize just how lucky I have been to have had the benefit of four people in my life who have influenced me as parents. 

Bill and Patti (and the entire Wickline brood, for that matter) introduced completely new perspectives and ideas into my life:
- different nuances on right and wrong,
- unique twists on work ethic and stoicism,
- particular (and sometimes peculiar) senses and sensibilities,
- distinctive takes on creativity and personal expression (often verrrry distinctive),
- a whole new set of one-of-a-kind family dynamics,
- new viewpoints on one’s relationship to nature and how to nurture the magic that exists in the world, and
- well, let’s face it, incomparable personality disor..., um, traits (most undiagnosed),

all of which coalesced with the lessons from my own family and the experiences from my life to shape me into the person I am today.

At the end of the day, Bill was his own man, a man with many facets.

He was both an open book and a man who was hard to get to know.
He was a simple man, but incredibly complex.
He came across as subdued, but he also had an impish sense of humor and did not back away from instigating a little tension every now and then.
He was introverted, yet unabashed.
He was incredibly generous, but at the same time about as, let's say, frugal as they come.
He was inherently conservative and yet liberal in the truest sense of the word, strongly standing for liberty and equality, as he understood it.
He was unpredictably creative, creating endlessly, yet he was painstakingly methodical.
He was a hopeless romantic, which may surprise a few, but he also was exceedingly pragmatic, which will surprise no one.
He, somehow, mastered being both remarkably dapper and insipidly dowdy at the same time. 
He, truly, was one-of-a-kind and, yet, an identical twin.

But, let’s face it, this confluence of dichotomies probably describes each and every one of us. We are all walking dialectics, each our own unique individual. Understanding and accepting this about someone is what it means to know that person, to love that person and to learn from that person. The one thing that I will mostly remember about Bill, however, was his gentleness. In 37 years, I never once saw him angry. On this point, I could find no potentially conflicting trait.

So, let me close with a short poem from John Updike:

“And another regrettable thing about death is the ceasing of your own brand of magic, which took a whole life to develop and market -- 
the quips, the witticisms, the slant adjusted to a few, those loved ones nearest the lip of the stage, their soft faces blanched 
in the footlight glow, their laughter close to tears, their tears confused with their diamond earrings, 
their warm pooled breath in and out with your heartbeat, their response and your performance twinned. 
The jokes over the phone. The memories packed in the rapid-access file. The whole act. 
Who will do it again? That's it: no one; imitators and descendants aren't the same.”
March 5, 2016
March 5, 2016
From Fred and Belen Cordova:

Bill was a true friend, loyal, caring and fun to be around. We were blessed to have shared so many good times and memories on our trips to the South Pacific, Mexico and South Carolina and during our numerous visits to Lizzie's. We especially admired his woodworking like Crystal & Ray's awesome dining table, which was just one of many projects.

Bill had a keen sense of humor. One of those instances that cracked us up was when he introduced his twin brother Kurt at church as his “wombmate”.

We will miss you, dear friend, but you hold them pearly gates open for us and maybe we can all squeeze through.
March 5, 2016
March 5, 2016
Your quote on this page is so perfect: "We will forever remember Bill's gentle nature, warm smile, impish sense of humor and generous spirit."
Every time I tried to put my feelings into words -- those are the characteristics that come to mind. And so much more - special family time shared, projects, and laughs. Our love and support is with you at this time. With a heavy heart - Janet & Senya
March 4, 2016
March 4, 2016
Although I did not know Bill well, my good friend, Crystal would tell me all about him. He seemed to always be working on some project in his woodshop. I remember when I first saw the dining table he built for Ray and Crystal. I was speechless. What talent and on such a grand scale. He was an amazing man. I only wish I could have talked with him more. God bless you, Crystal and your family. My prayers are with you all.
March 4, 2016
March 4, 2016
I met Bill and Patti 20 years ago when we moved to Port Townsend. They welcomed us immediately like we were family. If you define true gentleman you would start by saying, "like Bill Wickline".
March 2, 2016
March 2, 2016
Dear Papa Bill!
It has been a rare privilege to share our grandfather's partnership. I am saddened that you have handed your part of grandfather's-ship to me so suddenly. I have genuinely enjoyed your quiet manner and keen perception, with an occasional injection of humor. With my deepest respect for your memories you have left for us!

PRECIOUS MEMORIES!
Precious memories, unseen angels, Sent from somewhere to my soul; How they linger, ever near me, And the sacred past unfold. Precious FATHER, precious loved ones, Fly across the lonely years; And old home scenes of our childhood, In fond memory appears;--In the stillness of the midnight, Echoes from the past I hear; Old time singing, gladness bring, From that lovely land somewhere.--
Precious Memories, how they linger, How they ever flood my soul. In the stillness of the midnight, Precious, sacred scenes unfold. Precious sacred scenes unfold.

Enjoy the blissfulness of being for ever with the Lord -- where we shall meet you again and together spend Eternity with Jesus Christ, our Lord!
We are yours always, Dan & Selma Kolke
March 1, 2016
March 1, 2016
The time I knew you was too brief. Also having a twin brother, we had more to talk about then most. I always enjoyed hearing the stories about you and the vacations with the Ashbrooks. I will remember your wit with the valentines presents to your wife (sponge bouquet, tortilla chip bouquet). I will remember your visit with Patti and the Kolke clan to my lab and the afternoon we all spent at the beach while Brent created his sand masterpiece. We had more memories to make but God had another plan and I, among many, will miss you. I suspect that Bill Ashbrook was part of your welcoming party in Heaven and greeted you with a big grin and a warm hug. We shall meet again...
February 28, 2016
February 28, 2016
My beloved Uncle Bill. My heart is heavy knowing that I will never see you again here on Earth. Our family gatherings will never be the same without you. You have left a big hole. You always made me feel special and that I mattered. I was one of the lucky ones to be the recipient of one of your nick names. You named me "KJ" at a very early age, and I loved it. I will never forget you making all the arrangements with one of your friends to do my laser surgery. You drove me to his office and stayed with me the entire time to make sure everything went well. That was an act of kindness and generosity I will never forget. I am also truly grateful to you for being so loving and kind to my mom by encouraging and welcoming her to travel with you and Aunt Patti after my dad died. That always meant so much to me. You were a kind, loving and gentle man. With the knowledge that you loved our Lord Jesus, I have the comfort of knowing I will see you again in Heaven. Thank you for being a wonderful uncle. I will miss you until I see you again. I love you! KJ

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February 20, 2023
February 20, 2023
Sending our Love and Prayers for your family as they/we remember YOU, "Papa Bill!"
We miss your smile and presence! Enjoy Heaven with all its: "We can only imagine" Glory, and with all who have gone before You and those who have joined you recently!
May 5, 2022
Happy Blessed Birthday Bill!
Enjoy the "Bliss of Heaven!"
You and Dan will have alot to talk about ...!
Miss YOU BOTH beyond words to express!
May 5, 2021
May 5, 2021
Sending our Love and Prayers to Pattie and Family in remembering "Papa Bill" and remembering "All" that he was, that he worked, that he gave and most of all of all that he shared with an "unending memory" to cherish. Upholding YOUR Family to God in our Prayers for a brighter future ahead...! 
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February 20, 2018

Our thoughts and Prayers are with
Patty and Family as they remember Bill:
husband, father, and grandfather.
Our prayer is:
"Lord put Your Loving Arms 
around them and hold them close
to YOU! And surround them with Your
Love and Grace!"

We, too, join in remembering Bill 
as a wonderful, gracious man and friend!

Dan's thought:
"I miss the silent "Man"
lost in thought
He never revealed!"

God Bless!
Love and Prayers

italy nights

March 3, 2016

When papa bill and grammie took me to italy there was a night were i could not sleep because papa was snoring so loud. he woke up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, so i thought i would finally get some peace and quiet but then he started peeing really loud. after that was over i was hoping it would take him a while to fall asleep and start snoring again. well, it didn't. he began snoring almost immediately and i couldnt get any sleep.
Love you papa bill, sheshe 

Goodbye to our good friend, Bill

March 1, 2016

We met Bill and Patti at a Christmas party in a home across the street from Lizzie's in 1985.  We connected immediately, and soon became their "Inn Sitters" for when they wanted a break, It did not take long for us to became good friends. 

Whether doing projects around Lizzie's, making scones or prescribing glasses, Bill was able to do anything.  What fun times we had in Port Townsend with Bill and Patti.  He will be greatly missed.

We send love and hugs to the whole family.

Bill and Phyllis 

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