I have known Ron since we were about 14 years old. We had one of those friendships you would describe as life-long. He was in our wedding, we life guarded together and were just really good friends. We got into all the usual trouble and then some but then like others who have written on this post, we sort of lost touch although whenever I was in LA I would see Ron. We consistently for many years had New Year’s eve celebrations at the Wissel’s home. We usually went to the grocery store, purchased very expensive ingredients, cooked as a group. Sounds terrific, only downside was that we often drank so much that we could not really enjoy the meal. To be young(relatively). Ron was the spark and refused to let such an evening go by without making it fun. We all loved Ron in our own ways.
Someone mentioned that you could always count on Ron to slide into home plate, scrape knees etc. I saw that first hand. Before big events in Glyndon such as weddings (ours), birthdays, graduations we would always rally the guys ( and I think a couple of young women played as well) to play tackle football. No pads, jerseys, protective gear of any kind and we paid the price. I remember Ron diving to tackle someone who was already in the end zone and I think he hurt his knees so badly that it kept him out of Vietnam.
Someone also mentioned Los Vegas. I saw that first hand as well. I was attending a science conference and Ron drove over from LA. I was rooming with another good friend, Ed, from grad school and that friend was out of the room when Ron showed up with a young woman who was so beautiful she made Rachel Welsh look homely. His “date” was very tired and wanted to take a nap. Ron came up with the idea( and his date went along with it) to write a note and place it on the bed next to his date. It read. “ She is clean, she is paid for, have a good time”. Ron and I then went to lunch. Ron’s date told us later that Ed arrived, read the note but just sat on the edge of the bed not knowing what to do. We all obviously got a good laugh out of that one. That was Ron!
I will miss my friend but value our life-long friendship.
Peter