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传承妈妈的薪火

November 25, 2020
女婿胡维彬写于妈妈七周年忌日
看了哥嫂的怀念文章,我内心难以平静。      妈妈的母爱如海深。记得我们结婚不久,为了买学校集资房,当她听说我们还差了两千元购房款拿不到房子,她急匆匆地赶回彭思老家,因为老家旧房子长时间没人打理青苔满地,她一不小心滑倒摔折了手臂骨。而这事她从没有提起过。而这些是后来由建平说出来才知道真相的。她本来只有那一丁点抚恤金,靠精打细算节衣缩食勤俭攒点存款……每每想起,心中无限感激。我是个不善言辞不会表达感情的人,今天也借机把内心话说出来。
       怀念妈妈的自强不息。常常听建平讲起妈妈年轻时,在爹爹教书微薄收入不足时,总去山上捡柴火、种菜地,从不甘人后。后来在一起生活也更加亲身感受到她老人家勤劳节俭自强不息的传统美德。
妈妈的乐观幽默也很难忘。妈妈年轻抚养一大家子,哥嫂留她在美国晚年享福,她因为语言不通只能天天呆在家里看录像。她回国讲述道:哥说,就当是“坐牢”吧。妈妈说:呵呵,坐牢还坐到美国来着?我们听了,无不佩服妈妈的幽默达观。
         还有很多很多值得怀念。
哲人说:人生不如意事十有八九。缅怀妈妈就要薪火相传,继承她老人家的优良品质,好好工作、乐观生活、感恩亲人。
December 15, 2013

Pick up phone, dial your numnber
There is no body answer

Mom, I knew you are gone
to somewhere that can not take my call

I still want to try
To hope there is a mirale

Tear in my eyes, pain is real
Life goes on, but won't be the same as before

Love is around, thought is deep
Mom, you will alway in my heart

悼念婆婆

November 26, 2013

婆婆走了,享年81岁。最近几年她的健康每况愈下,六个月前中风倒床,没能恢复。 从我们接到她病情恶化的消息,到她老人家离去,仅仅一两天。

婆婆是一个刚毅的人,作为一个母亲,她深得孩子们的爱戴,我听说公公常年工作在外, 她一个人在家扛起了养儿育女的重任。

我跟婆婆一直沒有长住一起,直到我的大女儿出生,她万里迢迢到波士頓來照頋我生孩子,我们上班时照頋孙女。美囯的住宅区很安静,她常常站在卧室里的窗边往外晀望,我下班后她告诉我她一整天就看見几輛车,沒有看見人.  我知道她很想念她在中囯的渲閙的市区生活和近在尺地的女儿们。我非常感謝她。我们也有很多愉快的时候, 带她去了纽約和华盛頓游览。

四年以后, 当我们的儿子出生时,她以七十高龄再度到波士頓來照頋孙子,我非常感謝她。

毎当女儿和儿子翻看照片,女儿还能忆起很多跟奶奶在一起的时光。

今天我用这段文字来表达对婆婆的感情。婆婆您一定要走好,子女们都会在梦中去看望您的。

孙儿姜美强的纪念文

November 26, 2013

When I was little, I remember squirming around as grandma put me in the stroller. I wonder today how she dealt with me, running and jumping, and not complain once. Grandma will have a special place in my heart. She raised me with care when my parents were busy. She taught me the fundamentals of chinese. Because of her, I learned how to speak Chinese before I learned how to speak English. Seeing her slowly get weaker and weaker broke my heart. When she passed away, I was prepared, and I knew that it was what she wanted. She was free. I wasn't sad that she died, but because our family had lost such a dear member. She will live on forever, in a way.
 
 
 

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