Little sister.         8/2/2014
(I started this on 6/1/2014.im not a poem writer at all.  But Zelda wrote them like nobody else..i wrote n rewrote n rewrote. Over n over. Til i FINALLY ended up with this. I pray youll all enjoy.)
Zelda. My lil sister n best friend.  
"I feel so empty deep inside,
Since God called you away.
Nothing couldve prepared us 
For that dreadful final day.
The memories that we have of you, 
That you left for us to treasure,
We share them every chance we get,
&we share em with such pleasure.
We love u & we miss u, its true. 
But Lil sister please try n understand, 
At times, we still feel blue.
The one thing we hold dear to is knowing we'll see u again. 
Youve been so much more than my lil sister . youve been my 1 true friend.
Losing u has been so rough, 
But dont u worry lil sister, 
For the kids ill try n act strong, confident, and tough.
I love u and, oh, how i miss u, 
And, At times i feel so alone. 
I know that all of us truly wish,
That HEAVEN had a phone..
None of 'em really understand
Our bond we shared so true.
But lil sister dont you fret. 
Somehow, we'll all get through.
- until we see you again, my lil sister, my 1 true friend. Know that I                     WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU.
   forever n always
    Your Sister,  your friend.   
            Trisha Anne..
                          

zelda was #6 of 8 kids to our parents Robert Toth sr. & LaNore Toth . Im #5, shes my lil sister n best friend. Yes, there were times she was a lil brat growing up, but we were still the closest of all our siblings, she was daughter, sister, wife to Bill LaVallee.  niece, sister, best friend to arlene webster and me of course, lol. mostly a mom n gramma...her kids are, melissa jo, mandie anne, bret william, luke,  angie, casey n logan. Her grandkids are, marissa, victor, stella, paul, novella, jeffery, brianna, Gabriel,  Angel,  ariana, Isabel and corbin. She loved her family so much, they were her world, she fought that darn cancer for years,  she was tuff and stubborn too lol, thats just zelda. She was a good mom n gramma n wife. N the best sister i could ever ask for, we raised our kids together , she even raised mine for a while until i got my life back together. Her kids were mine n my kids were hers, grandkids too. Zelda and i had a special bond, i lost a huge part of me when she passed away. Of course everyone did. But this is my story, they can write theirs too. Zelda was a very strong woman, she was a dedicated worker, when she could still work. She would snap at me whenever i didnt speak up for myself if someone had wronged me, lol, n when i would sut n rock , lol, she would wack my shoulder n tell me to knock it off cause im making her sea sick, lol, we had too meny good times to write in this. I loved our road trips, our arts n crafts, painting t shirts, helping her in her yard at their old house, she loved her rose bushes, she was so proud of them. Zelda is a special unique person. I miss her terribly, i still cry alot, i get lonely, then i hear her tell me to knock it off, lol. I miss playing cards with her n bill too. N playing scratcher tickets and especially going to bingo with zelda n monica. I miss my lil sister , my only true real friend ive ever had in my life.