Memorial Services
- Visitation 瞻仰 9:00AM - 10:00AM
- Service 缅怀 10:00AM - 11:00AM
- Cemetery 安葬 11:00AM - 12:00PM
- Saturday, April 27, 2019
9902 Braddock Road
Fairfax, VA 22032
Tributes
Leave a tributeTime flies. It has already been a year that you left us. You will always be remembered for your kindness, enthusiasm, and support that you gave to your friends and colleagues. We will always miss you.
—- J. E. Lin
你的微笑,乐观,睿智, 豁达永远不忘。我们在一起的那么多欢乐时光:George Mason,庆祝香港回归,bush garden坐过山车(你脸都坐白了),吃饺子,蒸馒头包子.......永远伴随。
曲云尧,胡江云
我很幸運能夠有你這位朋友,你有很多很多優點,你為人樂觀、幽默、博學、友善、容易滿足、關心家人和朋友。你像一個太陽一樣,有你在人群裡所有人都很開心,不會有冷場。
有時候我彷佛覺得你還在世上,我開車的時候,我就感覺到你在我旁邊聊天。吃越南麵的時候,我也感覺到你在一起吃。
今天跟你道別了,希望你在天上活得開心。
Dr Zhao gave me a strong impression when he set up a committee across our four physics major classes and led the effort to plead our department adding electronics classes to our curriculum. I was part of the committee. He was brave, smart, confident, and he knew how to organize. He took a great personal risk helping us to achieve the goal. Eventually the electronics classes were added to our curriculum which benefited all our students in our physics major. He has great courage!
His class Electrophysics 87 has sent a wreath here. Now I will deliver eulogy on behalf of Dr Zhao’s class.
We, Dr. Zhao’s undergraduate classmates, Electrophysics 87’ of Electronic Engineering Department of Tsinghua University, were sad to hear that our dearest pal passed away after bravely fighting the cancer for the past decade. We always remember his unbridled laughter, humor stories, and most unforgettable of all - the delicious Ramen soups he cooked after 10pm at the university dorm, which made everyone jealous.
He was the General Secretary of our class for three years. Our class president recalled that Dr Zhao was always optimistic and friendly. He led us to win the 1st university level championship for our class; this was a big deal at that time, and such honor was featured on CCTV’s prime time. We were so proud of our collective achievement, and honored to have him as our leader.
He is a considerate husband and caring father. When we called him late nights, he always said that he needed to go to the study room; he’d lower his voice to ensure that our conversations would not be loud to disturb his family.
We believe that he is taking a journey full of love and sunshine.
We will miss you, our friend and brother! We wish the best for the family of Dr. Zhao.
Twenty seven years ago when we graduated from Tsinghua, we had said that the friendship we built during the 5 years at college would last forever. With this, let me relay our grievance on behalf of our whole class:
无比怀念,昔日同窗心系校园多趣事;
万分悲伤,今朝学友魂归天堂少知音
“永远的朋友” 清华大学电物7班全体同学,
Rest in Peace!
我的主内弟兄,我的邻居,我的校友,学军离开我们了。在他跟病魔搏斗的最后一年半多时间里,我所看到的学军,不是他由于日益加重水肿的双腿; 也不是几十斤肿瘤引起的腹肿; 更不是一下子苍老了二十岁的脸盘。我所看到的学军,是有一双明亮,和蔼,对与疾病抗争充满信心的眼睛。更可贵的是,一双像婴儿般纯真的眼睛。这就是他。
加拉太书 5:22-23 圣灵所结的果子,就是仁爱、喜乐、和平、忍耐、恩慈、良善、信实、 温柔、节制;这样的事没有律法禁止。 这些圣灵所结的果子在学军身上都有很好的彰显。
仁爱: 对妻子,女儿的爱。当体质越来越弱的他,晚上3点钟要起来吃东西时,他总是担心会影响第二天还要一早上班的太太。当太太出差时,他还记得要把没有气的汽车轮胎修好。常常对我说,太太一个人挑起一家的重担是多不容易。当每次他谈及女儿的时候,从他的声音,眼睛都能深深感到他的父爱。女儿努力,女儿的成就,女儿的懂事,都给他无比的自豪。
喜乐。这个跟恶性肿瘤本来是一个不相容的词,却一直伴随着他。每次跟他一起去马里兰给中医针灸的时候,他都充满了希望,高高兴兴地告诉我,今天的针灸疗程又有进步了。尽管有时侯很痛,有一,二次他都受不了,他都是笑着脸从医疗室走出来。孙阿姨告诉我,她做的菜,他都很喜欢,从来不挑吃。生命倒数的第二天,他还高高兴兴地跟我们一起回到GMU。谢谢炯平,小丹全家安排。
和平和忍耐。从来没有一次听学军跟我抱怨过任何一件事。他经历了化疗的失败,最新基困疗法的失败,中医中药针灸的失测,没怨言。他全身水肿,有时侯呼吸都很难,也没怨言。最后他失去了视力,都没有怨言。每次我问他的情况时,他都说一切很好,很好。从来没有听他说过一句,我为什么这么倒霉。
学军的优点是数不胜数。
跟学军的接触,不是让我感觉到他需要我们帮他的忙,而是让我感觉他在帮我们的忙。他对生活的态度,是我们要学的样板。
海雁,Christine,我为你们有这好的丈夫和父亲感到高兴。我为我有这么好的弟兄感到骄傲。谢谢你们在过去一段时间里,让我有机会从学军身上学到一辈子受益无穷的经验。
郑汉振,黄琼
(藏头诗祭)
赵家俊杰亦英才
学贯中西琢自然
军心儒雅温文静
安居乐业友善亲
息劳不堪悲伤苦
主恩赐恵平安度
怀抱真情悟神遇
中回路转忘忧归
by 長虹
真情系尘缘,仁义留人间。
今春繁花更似锦,伴君天国安。
睿智成经典,善良交口传。
缱绻粉雾牵思念,不舍君去远。
By Jie Yang
Leave a Tribute
Time flies. It has already been a year that you left us. You will always be remembered for your kindness, enthusiasm, and support that you gave to your friends and colleagues. We will always miss you.
—- J. E. Lin
Please be patient.
In remembrance of Dr. Xuejun (Eugene) Zhao from Jeng-Eng Lin
M wife and I are very sorry and shocked to learn that Eugene passed away on April 21 of this year. He was a very nice person with a very passionate heart. I met him when he was a graduate student at George Mason University more than 20 years ago. We worked together for many activities at Mason. He was always very helpful when the fellow students had any need. Moreover we both graduated from Tsinghua University (Eugene was from Beijing and I was from Hsinchu). It is a true loss for both the Tsinghua alumni community and the Mason alumni community. Haiyan, please take care of yourself. I am sure that Eugene is now with the Lord in the paradise
Eulogy
I never imagined that my father’s own funeral would be happening so soon in my life, though I know I’m only one of many who lost a parent to cancer so young.I thought when I had gotten to this point, our family would have regrets: things that my dad never got to experience or things we never got to say to him.
But the only regret I have is not able to be with him in my final moments because he unfortunately passed so suddenly. My dad died in peace and his suffering was not so prolonged as it could’ve been his final days. He passed away on Easter Sunday after being well taken care of for those months following his diagnosis, always meeting a friend for dinner or lunch and never needing to be lonely in his last days. He was lucky to have all of you around him, such devoted friends to my close father, and I am lucky that you were able to be with him when I was not able to. He always carried an careless optimism with him that couldn’t be taken from him even in his hardest moments, when he was in the hospital the first time around or even when he lost his sight or ability to move. He was patient when both my mother and I could be short-tempered, always knew where I could find anything in the house, and approached every situation with a thoughtful meticulousness. He would always be selfless when it came to me, his daughter. Even when we were toasting him the night I found out he passed, I knew he would’ve wanted me to take the fuller cup because he was always been thinking of me.
I remembered how much he had wanted to see and raise his grandchildren. He had always been so gentle with me as a child: one of my favorite pictures is of him balancing me on his lap as I played with his glasses, and I’m sure he would’ve been unimaginably happy raising my own as a grandfather. I’m so sad he couldn’t do that, never got the chance to, but I know he is resting in peace now after so much suffering from this disease. He was a good-hearted person and we will always remember him in our hearts.
学军安息主怀 by 长虹
因祂活着,我有一天,
会渡生命河,人生苦难,
一一攻克;藉主耶稣,
战胜了死亡,我将看到,
祂荣耀光,见祂活着。
(圣诗节选)
我认识赵学军(EUGENE)一家很多年了,从小孩子4,5 岁起 我们两家就成了朋友。一直以来,我们都很感悟做为一个年轻的移民家庭,我们所面对的种种困境和挑战:感到疑惑困苦时我们深度交谈,适逢喜事时我们相聚举杯;节假日我们两家一起郊游,种菜季节他们总是出现在我家后院,我家门铃不响了,也是学军专程跑来修……他特爱吃我包的饺子,每次赞不绝口,直到吃得心满意足。后因病出门很少了,但曾记得海雁一说MARY包饺子,似乎具有极大的推动力,他欣然会来到我家…我家那后院的韭菜,那香椿树,那梨花,桃花,无花果树,处处都留下了学军悉心栽培的照料……两家都因为孩子上高中搬远了点,仍经常联络不断。
信主以后,我们一直期望学军重生得救,他似乎很少去教会,主内交通也不太多。我常常感叹,期盼着弟兄姐妹们都有灵命的增长,祝福事业与家庭生活健康快乐。
学军病重以来,我们为他和家人一直在恳切地祷告,希望他能真正认识这位又真又活得神,掌管天地万有的神,借着神医治的大能身心灵得自由。自此,一家人得到方方面面,特别是教会主内弟兄姐妹的极大宽慰与照料。
借着大家的爱心与关怀,家人悉心的陪伴和守护,那份恩情与眷爱,如我们那在天上的父无微不至在每日看顾我们,使学军深受感动,每每提起,他都感恩不尽!记得那天我与友人带他一起去吃饭,我看见他眼中噙满了泪水,声音哽咽地说:“一想到大家都随叫随到来看我,帮我,为我祷告,太感动了,我都想哭。”此情此景我深刻领悟到神在借着这苦难使他的灵命在成长:渐渐地他经历了神的大爱!也正如歌中唱到:我知道谁掌管明天,他更有了盼望,更加学会了依靠神!
因圣灵的感动使他再次经历了神,直至他临终,他都告白说,“感恩有你们,我预备好了,虽然就要离开这世界,但我相信有永生,我可以回到主怀中!”
复活节那晚,学军安息主怀中!临终前,他等到了再次握住了太太海雁的手……
学军安息主怀
(藏头诗祭)
赵家俊杰亦英才
学贯中西琢自然
军心儒雅温文静
安居乐业友善亲
息劳不堪悲伤苦
主恩赐恵平安度
怀抱真情悟神遇
中回路转忘忧归
这就是他用他短暂而又年轻的生命,充满善智地诠释出一新生命的讯息,奏响重得自由的凯歌。复活节当日他虽离去,但已得主的信息,就是“因祂活着,我能面对明天,因祂活着,不再惧怕!”何等的安详致远。
我坚信,学军已安息主怀中,他虽离去却孕育了新的生命和新生活的开始他,我们和我们在天上之父,我们有永生,将有一天会再见面,永远在一起,在天国得享其乐,自由自在! EUGENE, 我们永远怀念你!
2019年5月
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