Love you both more than tongue can tell❤️❤️
Dear Friends,
Thank you for visiting and helping us celebrate Allen's life. A life that was so tremendously full of family, friends, laughter, adventure and always LOVE.
Allen was a man who touched so many people, always making that person feel like the most important person at that moment. We hope you will take a moment to share with us your memories about Allen; because whether you knew him as your teacher, friend, co-worker, neighbor or family member we are certain that you have stories to tell! And we hope that you will enjoy the photographs and read the memories that we have shared in the Tributes and Stories sections on this site. You may even want to click on the Gallery button (above) and watch the video of Dad playing his harmonica at 90 years of age! He will be missed but he will be remembered by all of us with smiles and laughter and love.
With warmest thoughts,
Ralph & Denise, Dana & Ann,
Judy & Joe, Patti & Kevin
**Note: The background music can be turned off by clicking on the "sound" button above which may be less distracting as you read or write. And if you're not sure "who is who" in the photos, you may click on the photo to watch the slideshow in a larger version with captions included.
Tributes
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Love Ginger
I miss Mom and Dad incredibly and my one sense of joy is that they are both together now. The world is a better place from their presence and affect they had on those around them. Mom and Dad were not only educators of knowledge and technical skills but they both instilled a sense of urgency to do the right thing and help others,
while smiling and enjoying life along the way.
Oceans of love,
Dana
Erin and I would always spend a week up in Northwood with Grammie and Grampie and we absolutely loved it. Whether it was visiting "Story Land" or just going down to Bow Lake they always made it enjoyable and everlasting memories. Even though I never asked Grampie directly I have a deeper connection with him because he was also a veteran. I could not have more respect and admiration for him from his desire to serve his country and fight for our freedom. While this is a tribute to Grampie, it is very rare that you ever mention Grampie without Grammie. That just proves what a loving husband, father, and grandfather he was. I have so many fond memories, and you will be deeply missed. While I am sad that you have left us, I know you are up there watching over my family with Grammie right by your side.
Love,
J
This was the beginning of a wonderful friendship! Allen, with a beard, welcomed me to the shop. The wooden floors, hooks of shop coats, the shop benches, lathes, clamps and the ever present boat, that Mr. Andrews was working on. Of course don't touch the boat!
He said he wasn't going to treat me any more special than any other student but he did. Yes, I was a tomboy but was all girl on the inside. He let me take any tools I wanted (especially from the cute boys) and was extremely patient with me. OK, this girl didn't know much wood working but I was thrilled to learn everything!
Allen, Dorothy and the Andrews family were a huge foundation stone for my life. Allen pushed and expected the bes,t after all "perfect is good enough"! Everyone I met through them, including my future husband, only reinforced my avocation and my vocation.
I can honestly say that every day when working on my home or helping my adult kids with their's, I give kudos to Allen. He was a gentleman, a master craftsman and I'm proud to say my friend.
Fairwinds and following seas Allen.
Love Ginger
I can remember being with Dottie and Allen at Lowell Ave in Watertown, Horseneck beach, Hermit Island and Bradenton. My sister Judy and I took the gang out to Bradenton Beach probably the last time they were all together - Frank and Florris, Dottie and Allen, Dale and Eileen and Avis and Harold. They loved each other and they taught us how to have fun,
Cheers Allen - Give Dottie a smooch for me!
Every morning in Northwood, I would wake early and run down the road to meet Grampie and walk together to the causeway to catch snakes. Occasionally Grammie would join us, and sometimes a brother or cousin would join us as well, but after one or two early morning walks, most of the brothers and cousins failed to see the excitement in our walks and soon retired their post in our walking group. So, in the end, it was Grampie and I, walking to the causeway every morning in search of snakes. While the actual hunt for snakes was invigorating, like I was hunting prehistoric anaconda in the Amazon jungle, it was the time spent with Grampie that I truly enjoyed. I was reliving his boyhood, it seemed, and that was the best feeling I could ever ask for, and one that I would wake early every morning to experience. As life went on and I got older and Grampie got older, our walks became a thing of the past and eventually so did my snake-hunting. But our bond never faded and we found new connections to embrace, even if they had nothing to do with snakes or guns or stealing cars and getting in boyhood brawls. Even when I would spend a few days in Palm Beach, pushing Grampie and Grammie on their wagon train of wheelchairs from store to store in the mall in search of a clock (don't ask me why...), I couldn't help but feel that we were on a grand boyhood adventure again.
I learned many invaluable life lessons from Grampie that I will carry with me until the end of my life and hopefully pass on to my children and others, but I can't say that Grampie taught me how to be a man as much as, say, my father did. Instead, Grampie taught me how to be a boy, and how to hold on to the imagination, sense of adventure, insatiable curiosity, and unconditional joy of boyhood throughout my adult life. Anyone that knows me well knows that these values have not waned in the slightest.
As Grampie neared the end of his life over the past few years, I made it a point to still see him periodically and spend quality time together, whether it was by spending a few days in Florida with him and Grammie, or stopping by to see him in Melrose more recently, because I knew that when he was gone, I would regret not having made time to see him and because I wanted to keep our magic bond intact right up until the end of his life. I know there are probably many people who saw something unique in Grampie's eyes when he saw them in the past few years and I believe every one of them; even in Grampie's increasing state of dementia, I'm sure there were many of us in whom he recognized something beyond just our name or our relationship to him - a special bond, connection, ethic, etc. - and we probably each saw in his eyes an awareness of the unique association. For me personally, I like to think, and do firmly believe, that the look I saw in his eyes, that brief moment of subtly excited familiarity, was him remembering reliving some parts of his boyhood with me when I was a boy, hunting snakes at the causeway on our summer morning walks in Northwood.
Rest in Peace, Grampie! Love you always, Paul.
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JOE AND BARB
When I was first got married I took my Dad's night school class at Watertown High. I'd have dinner at my parents' house and during dinner Dad would lay out the most efficient plan for that night's project. The strategy sessions were crucial since the minute Dad walked into the shop he was met by 15 novice woodworkers all vying for his attention and all of whom were one slip away from losing a finger, or ten! My purpose for taking the class was to fill my home with furniture, which I did, but I gained a whole lot more. I got to see my Dad from a brand new perspective and I was so proud. And it's funny how lessons he taught in wood shop translate to every aspect of life; especially his constant admonition to Always measure twice, because you only cut once.
In addition to 'moving,' Dad was constantly singing. When we were growing up he would wake us up with a far-too-cheery "Birdie with a Yellow Bill" song that as teenagers we learned to love to hate (especially on Saturday mornings.) As Dad liked say, "When Allen gets up, EVERYBODY gets up!") And when we were young he would tuck us into bed singing "Now the Sun is in the West," a song that his Dad used to sing to him. But Dad also loved silly ditties (often with slightly naughty lyrics!) And two of his favorite songs were "Mares Eat Oats" and "Elmer's Tune!" As Dad declined over the past year it became increasingly difficult to hold a conversation with him. But, amazingly, if I just began to sing one of his favorite songs, he would suddenly chime in-often helping me with lyrics that I had forgotten!
People have kindly offered condolences for Dad's passing, but the honest truth is that Dad is now exactly where he wanted to be...with Mom. His 92 years were well spent and he has left us with so many stories, lessons and fond memories that will be passed along on for ages.
Allen, may you rest in peace, together, now with Dottie by your side. We find peace in knowing the you are together once again. Love, Denise
Something Grampie would always stay that has stuck with me as my mantra is "a job worth doing is worth doing well." As a kid, I absolutely hated that, my mom would use it to make me wash the dishes better and clean my room thoroughly. But, as I've grown older, I've embraced the mindset he taught to his daughter, and that they both taught me. Now, whenever I feel ready to give up and leave a project as "good enough," his voice reminds me that "a job worth doing, is worth doing well."
Grampie, thank you for showing me how to embrace every day with a smile and a song, thank you for raising such a strong woman that I get to call my Mom and role model, and thank you for the impact you have had on everyone who knew you. I'll be thinking of you often. <3
I can't talk about Maine because as he said what happens in Maine stays in Maine. He said this well before it became Las Vegas's mantra.
When my mother passed I went to stay with him for awhile. I was asking him about WWII and his service. He said he was assigned to a ship called the Santa Rosa. I looked it up on google and said no Dad that was a cruise ship. He said Yup and I had a state room. I found a picture and showed him and he said yes It was a converted cruise ship. They painted is grey and added guns. We spent all day talking about his war experiences and that ship. Some of the stories he told me I swear were replicated on the TV show McHales Navy.
You will certainly be missed and am so glad had you to guide me through life.
Love Ralph
from that 5'x20' shed. I've got pictures of it so I can try to replicate it sometime when I have my own cabin in the woods. Grampies shed is childhood for us King boys.
Don't tell Mom, but there's a bandsaw in here that you can cut steel with. You can take the tarp off the tablesaw outside and rip plywood all day. You better chop some firewood, how else are we going to survive the winter here? Lets trap skunks cause it's fun! There's hard lessons to be learned too, like if you touch 'Ol Beauty, well Mom is gonna kick your ass. You don't play with guns without Grampie around. Or pack anthills with the fireworks Grampie gave you, definitely don't do that without Grampie or ever tell Mom that. Or shoot bottlerockets down at the beach at the non-locals :). Worms, if boiled in old tin cans just right, taste delicious. Pro-tip for anyone who didn't have Grampie around growing up - they don't. Don't ever admit it, just say yes.
I always hear from my friends and now family "how did you learn to do that?" Well, I learned a lot from my dad. I learned a lot from Grampie too. I learned most from both, they probably won't admit it but they learned a lot from each other. What I learned the most from from Grampie was - don't be afraid. Let's try it out and have some fun, wreck a lot of prototypes, we've got the shop so lets play around. Try it once, then do it better. The shop is your playground to try things and mess up, then try it again.
If I take nothing else from Grampie, it's to have a shop for our kids to play around and mess up in, smell the burnt oil of experience and learn from it. I'd say you were the best Grampie, but you ARE the best, you made us all better. A real one of the Great Generation, and we can hope be as good as you were. Love you, Grampie.
What I loved most about my Dad was his love for my Mom, his children and their spouses, grandchildren and great grandchildren. So many times I would ask Joe how he learned how to do some project and his response would be “your Dad taught me”. Grampie made toy boxes for Adam, Andrew and Brian. After the boys stopped filling it with their toys, I used it as their “memory” box filling it with their art work, birthday letters, report cards, favorite “things”. Now that Adam and Lauren are expecting our first Grandchild, we brought Adam’s toy box down from the attic so we can ship it to them in Colorado. The toy box is pretty banged up. This happened after Grampie taught Adam how to use a hammer! As Grampie always said, “only perfect is good enough.” Adam now makes beautiful furniture. I remember Grampie gave Andrew a Mohawk haircut. I was horrified. When I asked whose brilliant idea this was. Andrew and Grampie pointed at each other and smiled! As a child, Brian always had Grammie and Grampie on speed dial so he could call them and tell them about any scrapes and bangs he had. Sometimes it was tough having a nurse for a Mom and he needed their comforting words to make everything better. As youngsters, the boys would venture over to Grammie and Grampie’s house in Northwood, first stopping at Grampie’s garden to snack on his tomatoes and snap peas. The woodshop became a magical place where the boys “helped” Grampie with his projects. Every visit ended with chocolate chip cookies from Grammie.
It is difficult to write about my Dad without mention of my Mom. Life was always “Mom and Dad”, “Dottie and Allen” and “Grammie and Grampie”. The last two years were bittersweet. While we cherished our time with Dad, we knew that their love story would be complete when they were together again.
THE ESKIMO LEGEND
“PERHAPS THEY ARE NOT STARS BUT RATHER OPENINGS IN HEAVEN WHERE THE LOVE OF OUR LOST ONES POURS THROUGH AND SHINES DOWN UPON US TO LET US KNOW THEY ARE HAPPY”
I have to believe that this is true. On the night that my Dad passed, there were no stars in the sky, but there was a jet, far away, silently crossing the deep blue sky. I just thought “Way to go Dad! Safe travels until you meet up with Mom”. So, when you look up into the bright starry night, say hi to my parents.
When asked, my Mom would always say “Daddy and I are just fine” and indeed you are.
As my Dad would always say right up until the end of his life…“Love you more than tongue can tell”
Yes Dad, and I love you and Mom more than tongue can tell.
Gentle hugs and kisses coming to you from me,
Judy
I had made the mistake one day of borrowing one of his extension cables to help with yardwork and then returning it in a less than ideal state tangled up on the floor. The next morning when I had walked over to most likely steal some snap peas from his garden, he came over to me and said:
"Brian, you'll never believe what I found in my shop last night. Someone left a big heap of spaghetti on the floor"
Me being the ever so gullible, slightly overweight, and always hungry child that I was, ran over to the workshop to find out what kind of magic spaghetti wizard had left this gift. To my absolute dismay though, when I got there I realized he was talking about his red extension cable I had left disheveled the day before. Suddenly my mind went from thinking where I could find some cheese to go with all this spaghetti to, "oh man, I'm in trouble".
Even though I had walked into his mecca of masculinity and defiled it, he did not lose his temper. He walked over to the extension cord, and took his time showing me how to properly wrap it up and where to put it away. Bear in mind, the only thing I hated more than yardwork as a kid was cleaning up my tools after the yardwork was done. To me, the only thing on my mind after chores was "how fast can I finish this up so I can go back to watching Nickelodeon or playing with my cousins". He didn't try and sugar-coat the task by making it fun or threaten to punish me if I didn't do it correctly again, but simply told me that it was my duty to do this correct. He taught me that a man must always take care of his tools, and that if I was going to borrow something from someone else, at the very least I can put it away exactly how I found it.
To this day I still loathe putting away my tools after finishing a task, but I always make sure that they are properly stored and put away in their respective space. I am sure as you read through these stories, my grandfather's workshop will be mentioned many times. If not, the next time you are talking to one of Allen Andrews family members or friends, ask them about his shed in Northwood and I guarantee you will leave with a story and a different life-lesson he taught there.
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Love you both more than tongue can tell❤️❤️
Love Ginger
I was a teacher in several of the elementary schools & knew both Dottie & Allen . Fantastic people . Remembered Allen's family when they had the Ice cream Shop on Franklin St. Also,Mrs. Andrews did some catering for teacher luncheons at Hosmer School in the 50's & 60's. Watertown was a great place to live & work. So many wonderful people--especially Allen & Dottie. May they be resting in PEACE with each other now. Mary Keenan
"Devoted husband, loving father, caring son, endearing grandfather, exceptional teacher, jack of all trades, man of integrity, good neighbor, hardworking businessman, storyteller, hunter, Mason, devout Christian...these are just a few important things that come to my mind when thinking about Allen... The Man, The Myth, The Legend.
Allen, may you rest in peace, together, now with Dottie by your side. We find peace in knowing the you are together once again.
Love, Denise
For as long as I can remember, Dad never stopped moving. He was only happy when he was building, fixing or tinkering with something or other. This worked perfectly for Mom who, with a wave of her hand could declare that the house needed an addition, rooms needed to be wallpapered, cabinets or furniture needed to be built ...and BAM...Dad would make it happen. Broken things would disappear to Dad's workshop and come back better than new. Toy boxes were in production within moments of an announcement that a new grand baby was to be born...and if the baby was a girl...BAM...a dollhouse, too! When Dad came to visit our homes he inevitably ended up with tools in hand. There was always a door knob to be tightened...a broken something-or-other to be repaired and a plea for "Dad could you just take a look at this?" You never actually knew 'when' he was getting all these projects done because he was just always in motion - never hurried...just constant, and usually with a grandchild or two "helping." He was a natural born educator who would teach you how to do something but then let you do it on your own. He happily shared his knowledge and his tools...but you better know exactly where that tool belonged in the shop because there was 'a place for everything, and everything must be in its place! Tools were sacred to Dad - he cautioned us that a dull tool is a dangerous tool, so keep them sharp. Always use the tool that is meant for the job, and know how a tool works and what it is called. I can still hear Dad carrying on about 'calling a spade, a spade"...not a hoe..not a pitchfork...and if you asked him for a screwdriver, you better know which type to ask for.
When I was first got married I took my Dad's night school class at Watertown High. I'd have dinner at my parents' house and during dinner Dad would lay out the most efficient plan for that night's project. The strategy sessions were crucial since the minute Dad walked into the shop he was met by 15 novice woodworkers all vying for his attention and all of whom were one slip away from losing a finger, or ten! My purpose for taking the class was to fill my home with furniture, which I did, but I gained a whole lot more. I got to see my Dad from a brand new perspective and I was so proud. And it's funny how lessons he taught in wood shop translate to every aspect of life; especially his constant admonition to Always measure twice, because you only cut once.
In addition to 'moving,' Dad was constantly singing. When we were growing up he would wake us up with a far-too-cheery "Birdie with a Yellow Bill" song that as teenagers we learned to love to hate (especially on Saturday mornings. As Dad liked say, "When Allen gets up, EVERYBODY gets up!") And when we were young he would tuck us into bed singing "Now the Sun is in the West," a song that his Dad used to sing to him. But Dad also loved silly ditties (often with slightly naughty lyrics!) And two of his favorite songs were "Mares Eat Oats" and "Elmer's Tune!" As Dad declined over the past year it became increasingly difficult to hold a conversation with him. But, amazingly, if I just began to sing one of his favorite songs, he would suddenly chime in-often helping me with lyrics I had forgotten.
People have kindly offered condolences for Dad's passing, but the honest truth is that Dad is now exactly where he wanted to be...with Mom. His 92 years were well spent and he has left us with so many stories, lessons and fond memories that will be passed along on for ages.