ForeverMissed
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His Life

my dad

October 3, 2014

Just want to say some thing about my amazing dad . He worked so hard to take care of us .but his life was cut when he had to have a bleed in his brain clipped after that my dad was never the same againe he looked like our dad and he sounded like our dad but he was never the same and we had to change rolls it was our turn to take care of him and thats just what we did .my dad was like a cat with 9 lives every thing that could go wrong with him did go wrong i lost count of the time there said he was not going to make it but my dad was a fighter and he always prooved them wrong untill my mum passed away that was one of the hardest days of my life she daid on the 30th january 2014 we decided not to tell dad as he had been left with short term memory loss so we decided maybe it was for the best to no tell him but that night dad was taken in hospital we had not told him about mum but he new she had gone and from that day on my dad gave up fighting after being in hospital a few days the doctors said is kidneys were giving up and he only had 2 weeks to live my brave dad stopped fighting  he came to live with me he needed 24 care so me and my family took care of my dad he ones asked me if he was dieing i had to lie and say no but he new he told me all the time he loved me and i should not have to do the things i did for him but he was my dad and i loved him when things got two bad and dad could not drink i had to let him go in hospital .he went into a coma and i was at the side of is bed till he took his last breath befor he went he looked at me smilled and just  went .what keeps me going and helps me cope is that i know my mum came to get my dad and he was happy to be with the woman that he had always loved so thats a bit about my amazing dad who i miss so much
love you dad.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx