This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Comfort Tembu-Ndive, 58, born on March 15, 1958 and passed away on October 27, 2016. We will remember her forever.
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Leave a tributeI can't believe it is already three years!!!How time flies. I am no longer in denial, because I can't call you on the phone nor come visit. I can only hold on to fond memories. As silly as this can be... I remember when to worked briefly together in tiko stores. Our nice little lunch breaks with egusi pudding sold by one lady . We used to share and it did not matter how it tasted. We were just happy young girls from saker.So much is going through my head now, but only you can appreciate the jokes. I miss you still and always will. Rest in peace my dear friend and I know God is taking care of you.
Forever missed .
It has already been two years and the vacuum is always there. It is still very hard to believe that you are no more... But the fond memories keeps me going. You were so much fun to be around. Your laughter and craziness are missed. I know you are with the Lord which is a better place. Comfort, continue to rest in perfect peace till we all meet to part no more.
Always love you and thank you for being a true friend and friend for life.
Mammie
Titang Franklin (Son)
From Regina Tembu
Titang Mofor Bridgette (Sister)
RIP mummy, we love you but God loves you more forever in my heart bye
Thank you Thank you and Thank you for touching the lives and giving hope to many sickle cell patients in Cameroon.
Rest in peace
CAMSICO
Mama when I was living without hope you were always there to give me hope.Mama when I was lost and cold you were there to comfort me and mama when the world had rejected me you were there for me but sadly today you are no longer there to guide me and advice me as you have often does.
Mama you meant so much to so many people from different perspectives and they will always remember you as your life positively impacted in their own lives. Mama your eccentricity coupled with a huge sense of gregariousness has made the world a better place for all mankind and this will for ever resonate in the minds of those close to you.
Mama your gentle and impeccable lifestyle and your infectious smile and selfless generosity.will never be forgotten and your legacy will for ever live and generations to come will come to hear about you and will emulate your legacy.
Mama as you have crossed river jodan may your gentle soul find everlasting bliss and solace in the bossom of the Lord and I will for ever remember you till the end of time.
Safe journey mama still we come to meet again. Adieu.
Mama my heart is bleeding with pain and melancholy as your departure is so unprecedented and shocking.
Mama when I was without hope you gave me hope,mama when I was abandoned, you were there for me ,mama when the world had rejected me, you were always there to comfor me .Mama you are the main reason why I'm living today but mama how can I possibly live without you.My life has been completely shattered and rendered hopeless as you are no longer there to give me the reason to live.
Mama you meant so much to so many people from different perspectives and we will for ever remember you as your love and kindness helped to shape the lives of many people. Your eccentricity coupled with your innate sense of gregariousness will for ever lives on
Mam your un timely demise is a poignant reminder of the trancient vanity of life.and we will never forget your gentle and impeccable lifestyle that will continue to resonate with so many people and as you have crossed river jodan, your legacy will for ever live and will be a source of inspiration to so many people and generations to come will learn about you and emulate your legacy.
Safe journey mama still we come to meet again and may your gentle soul find everlasting bliss and solace in the bossom of the Lord.
You touched lives of many who got to know you during your life time. Although you have gone, your memories will remain permanently in our hearts.
My thoughts and prayers goes out to your family you left behind. May our Lord grant them the Grace and Strength to bear this huge loss.
May your gentle Soul rest in everlasting peace! Amen.
It is with great sadness I was able to say my final goodbye to you in the hospice. I will never forget our time together, co ordinating the annual sickle cell children's holiday. I will always cherish the time we spent together. Rest in the arms of the Lord my dear friend
‘The ways we live are the seeds we sow but what matters most is ensuring they bring quality impact’
I am a family friend to late Comfort Tembu-Ndive. My early years in the United Kingdom (UK) and particularly in London, enabled me to establish a family link with Comfort’s family. The role she played in my new found ‘home’ strengthened my understanding of the dynamics in Europe and to embrace life with optimism. I could immediately feel the presence of my away family living with me – ‘living at home away from home.’ Our relationship grew speedily, paving the way for stronger connections that have left everlasting memories.
Although you were fondly called ‘Ma Comfort’, but I always called you ‘Sister Comfort’ based on the way you received and treated me like your younger brother from the same womb, as well as many other men and women of Cameroonian origin living in the UK. Whatever relationship we had with you, we can all attest that you were a kind-hearted woman full of compassion and comprehension. Although you had your own sets of goals ‘sister Comfort’, you will be greatly remembered as an inspirational person for the positive contributions you made to many of us that came across you. Those who associated with you within the social context could quickly realize that you were a quiet lover of music, and I remember you playing the famous ‘mudengue’ music by Jacky Kingue over and over and dancing quietly in your living room at the famous "4 Clive House, Union Grove, London, SW8 2RA".
I can see why God would want such a beautiful angel full of charity like you beside Him until eternity, because ‘Good people must die, but death cannot kill their names’. Wherever you are ‘Sister Comfort’, know that I will miss and remember you in many ways.
May your gentle soul Rest In Perfect Peace!!!
Innocent Fowung
Coventry, United Kingdom
RIP Aunty
Mustafa Danpullo
I called you several times. . Thinking you were still in cameroon. I can't forget the last message you sent. "Mammie I am back from cameroon. I am in hospice "
I actually was in denial. Hospice sounded like a place for healing . Unfortunately
It happened not to be. How I wish it was different.
I am glad our meeting was very recent and we had a lot of fun together. Thank you for trusting me and showing so much love. We talked about our good old days in saker. You also saw me off at the Tiko airport in 1975 when i was leaving for the states for the first time.
You were so bubbly and strong despite your visit to the hospital same day. Comfort, I can only believe that God wants you by his side. He wants to take care of you because you deserve the best.
I will certainly miss you and always have fun memories. Your love , kindness, generosity and laughter will remain cherished.
REST in peace my dear sister and friend till we meet to part no more.
Sleep well comfort. . You will always be missed.
Love always Mammie
We will miss you. You were very kind and loving to me. Rest in the Bosom of the Lord. Amen
Mama u have left a wound in my heart u were the only sister I had now u have left me all alone l don't know how am going to continue,yr memories will never leave me am going to miss you
I loved u but God loves u more I give him all the glory
May yr soul rest in perfect peace
It's difficult knowing that you have left us but we are glad knowing that you are now with our Lord, God Almighty. We will miss your motherliness, care, love, selflessness, and infectious smile. I remember all those years in England that you and my late friend and brother, Jackson, were my only immediate family. How I miss all those Christmas and New Year parties that you organized at the famous 4 Clive House for us.
Ayem and I have fun memories of you when you visited us in Anaheim Hills, California, to help us baby sit when Bessem was born. Your baby, Bessem, is now all grown and wishing she saw you just before you left.
Your body may have left us but your legacy lives on!
Good night Aunty!
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I can't believe it is already three years!!!How time flies. I am no longer in denial, because I can't call you on the phone nor come visit. I can only hold on to fond memories. As silly as this can be... I remember when to worked briefly together in tiko stores. Our nice little lunch breaks with egusi pudding sold by one lady . We used to share and it did not matter how it tasted. We were just happy young girls from saker.So much is going through my head now, but only you can appreciate the jokes. I miss you still and always will. Rest in peace my dear friend and I know God is taking care of you.
Forever missed .
Forever in my heart
Mama, Mama, gone too soon, little did I know that seeing last December will be our last together. Gone too soon with such a kind heart full of empathy and sympathy, a heart always ready to help, a heart full of sweet stories that brings light when there is darkness, Mama Forever in my heart. Thinking of all the time you sacrificed for me when I visit your home in London , taking me to markets, shops and places. Driving me round Central London in your most cherished car "tomato baby", what a lesson to learn, you inspire me with your hardworking attitude. "Oh Lord, teach me how short our life is so we may become wise" Ps 90:12. Gone too soon even with such huge plans to save other lifes "Sickle Cell". I know your spirit lives with me, in my house, on my bed where we used to roll share stories and laugh. Gone too soon with plans and ideas yet to materialise, but to God be the the glory for you ran the race, kept the faith, and fought a good fight, and now " I did come from the Father and I came into the world, and now I am leaving the world and going to the Father" Jn 16:28. Rest in the peace of The Lord, Adieu Mama, Forever in my heart.