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This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, Richard Bates, 91 years old, born on April 27, 1922, and passed away on September 16, 2013. We will remember him forever.
February 26, 2016
February 26, 2016
Dick was a very special person in my life. He was someone I looked up to, and who reinforced my own technical hunger. And he was a strong example of how to be a person who lived a strong Faith at the same time. He taught me that those do not have to conflict. At times I thought of him as my "second dad", and one who I felt more comfortable being around. At 67 I still carry around presents that he made for me. I can recall two: one was a Morse Code Practice kit that he gave me for Christmas when I was in high school, and the other from the "Vermont Years when he gave me(and Margie) a simple breakfast tray he made. Both were hand made and both were from the heart. I learned to drink Coffee Black from him, and Joined the Navy because of him. I have never regretted it! I miss him so much that I could not even face it for the last 3 years!  Thanks, Dick for being there.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
Dick always seemed happy! He was joyful, I should say. I loved going to visit the Bates's because they were so warm and welcoming. He loved Jesus and it certainly showed in his life. Dick and Mark had a special relationship, and I am so thankful for what a role model Dick was for him. I imagine Dick reunited now with his Mom and Dad, Ed and Mom (Betsy);he's cracking jokes!
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
Dick was a character! Never a dull moment when he was around. He had a unique sense of humor embedded in a spiritual nature that I admired. Jane and I looked for opportunities to visit because it was always an uplifting experience. He will be missed!
October 4, 2013
October 4, 2013
I remember the first time I met Dick when Sara introduced him to me as 'Uncle Dick' and he has been 'Uncle Dick' to me ever since. He was always warm and welcoming to me, even initially as an outsider to the family... just like his sister Betty. I always felt welcome... he cared. There are few I respect as much as I do Dick. I will always miss him and cherish his memory.
October 3, 2013
October 3, 2013
There was always excitement in the air when I knew that our family would be seeing your family...whether at Coolidge State Park or Vermont or Connecticut. Dick always made me feel appreciated and loved. The same feeling that his sister, my Mom, gave to all who visited us--must be a family trait-and a wonderful one to have and pass on.

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February 26, 2016
February 26, 2016
Dick was a very special person in my life. He was someone I looked up to, and who reinforced my own technical hunger. And he was a strong example of how to be a person who lived a strong Faith at the same time. He taught me that those do not have to conflict. At times I thought of him as my "second dad", and one who I felt more comfortable being around. At 67 I still carry around presents that he made for me. I can recall two: one was a Morse Code Practice kit that he gave me for Christmas when I was in high school, and the other from the "Vermont Years when he gave me(and Margie) a simple breakfast tray he made. Both were hand made and both were from the heart. I learned to drink Coffee Black from him, and Joined the Navy because of him. I have never regretted it! I miss him so much that I could not even face it for the last 3 years!  Thanks, Dick for being there.
October 9, 2013
October 9, 2013
Dick always seemed happy! He was joyful, I should say. I loved going to visit the Bates's because they were so warm and welcoming. He loved Jesus and it certainly showed in his life. Dick and Mark had a special relationship, and I am so thankful for what a role model Dick was for him. I imagine Dick reunited now with his Mom and Dad, Ed and Mom (Betsy);he's cracking jokes!
October 6, 2013
October 6, 2013
Dick was a character! Never a dull moment when he was around. He had a unique sense of humor embedded in a spiritual nature that I admired. Jane and I looked for opportunities to visit because it was always an uplifting experience. He will be missed!
Recent stories

"I did the basic jumbo group trunk bay"

September 16, 2023
Dick's retirement announcement

Storyteller Dick

September 16, 2023
We all know Dick could tell a story, even the Navy Personnel Office knew it! Here's a form attached to his (second) 1952 discharge letter. It lists two years at Brown in Physics, leisure activities woodworking and radio, college swimming, and as talent for public entertainment, story telling. Also, President of Hy-Y Club, a social club connected to YMCA for high school students

Streakers

November 9, 2013

One story that Dad loved to retell happened when I was in college. I invited 4 friends to go spelunking in Weybridge Cave. It was Thanksgiving weekend. We were fairly well prepared with skills and equipment. The entrance to the cave involves climbing down 40 feet or so of cliff with freezing cold water splashing over you. We ended up spending a couple hours more than expected in the cave, and by the time we all climbed back out we were fighting off hypothermia, and the first snow of the season was falling with a couple of inches on the ground already.

We had dry blankets in the truck cab, so we all doffed our wet clothes and huddled together for the short drive home. Meanwhile, Dad got worried and recruited our neighbor Walt Sears to go after us. They passed us on the road, turned around and followed us back. When they pulled in behind us, their headlights showed 5 naked guys running out of the truck into the house.

It was a close call with a happy ending, just the kind of story Dad loved to tell.

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