Flora!!
''We don big sotey we don d die.....'' Death is not based on age but yours has really shocked me. As we grow older and change schools, move away from Cameroon, we loss touch with childhood friends we grew up with. we still find out about them and like to know everyone is doing well wherever they are...Not this, not cancer , not death. it was Bakhita now you Flora, young beautiful Tiko sisters with young families.
Fenafe oh!! Ashyiah boh, this must be very hard.
I was is Cameroon in December saw Yvete and asked about all of you .Little did I even know you were unwell.
RIP sis, Tabotsi Abangage just called me, and I went on Google and found this site, sad, sad, sad. I cant believe it indeed, the questions have not stopped filling my thoughts. Masonjo and Njanja are in close communication with Divine and MarieClaire...but how could I miss it??
I have seen your lovely photos of you and your beautiful young family. Its really very sad, my deepest condolence to hubby and sons. This is just so very sad.
Ashyia everyone. Mami, Papa(your Tribute broke my hear), Theo, Jon, Yvonne, Yvete, Fenafe, Divine MarieClaire, Stephen above all grandma. How painful for a grandmother??
May the fond memories which I read in the tributes above linger in the hearts of your loved ones.
RIP SIS

Life is certainly a gift we must treasure and be grateful for every single day. This is the reminder, news of your passing gave me. I remember your "full of life and joy " attitude back in SAC and again, it reminds me of what we left here on earth should strive to become. We know you are in a better place. Rest in Peace.

Flora you shall be greatly missed by many even by those who did not know you personally, but just hearing about you. We shall celebrate your life not your death because you were loved and cherries by many. We believe the Good Lord loves you most. Rest in Perfect Peace and we all believe you are in a better place with the Lord.

Flora

Flora,
je ne te connaissais qu'a travers le temoignage vivant de ton epoux sur ta magnifique personnalité. mon ami Alain m'a dit a quel point tu avais transformé sa vie, son existence...il etait vraiment heureux avec toi. De la ou tu te trouves aujourdhui,si jamais tu as encore le moyen d'interferer meme spirituellement avec notre monde, aide ta famille, (car elle demeurera la tienne) à ne pas trop ressentir ce fossé que tu as laissé, fortifie les par ton amour invisible afin qu'ils aient à nouveau gout a la vie...stp

Flora, to me you were always the life of the household even at the tender age of 4. It is befitting that your name was Lemola as so eloquently defined by dad. I will never forget that day in Bota, when you implored uncle Bime to call you “Sister Flo”. This was vintage Flora at her best. It felt good to recall the name “Sister Flo” in our last conversation and to hear you acknowledge that name over 30 years later.
In parting you have left us with tremendous food for thought. Your bubbly personality, your constant jokes, uncanny ability to break tension in the family setting and your abundant smiles warmed all our hearts. You showed us unparalleled strength in managing adversity. Your deep faith in the Lord was inspiring, your decision to celebrate life with no regrets is instructive and, your last dance to us broke me into tears. I am not sure why you had to leave us so soon but I dare not question God’s wisdom of calling you home this early. I speculate that God loved you just as much as we all did, for that reason I will dry up my tears and pray that you are in heaven watching over us.
Sister Flo, we thank you for the last dance and please keep smiling on your family here on earth
Amen.

Flo, my baby sister.
When we were kids, I couldn't seem to avoid walking into one of your endless repertoire of clever tricks that erupted in laughter.
Oh, how I wish this was simply one of your clever tricks.
In life you showed us how to accept the hand God dealt us, follow our hearts and find joy in each other.
In death you are showing us the power of unity.
Your kindred spirit lives on in your sons, Glenn and Rolls.
We all miss you dearly and will do our best to carry on your exemplary good wishes, knowing that you are in a happy place where you will watch over and guide us from the ranks of the Angels in heaven.
I love you and will miss you until we meet again.

Adieu belle soeur ce gout a la vie que tu avais donne a mon frere seul ton ange viendra combler ce vide que tu laisses aupres de lui.j implore le ciel de t accueillir pres de Jesus. Reposes en paix a jamais dans nos memoires .miss you sweetie

OMG!!!That is what I screamed when I learnt of your passing.Flo...your ever glowing smile and ever friendly nature made you unique.Your signature laughter is what I will remember of you till we meet again.As you go on,prepare a place for us and know I will forever be praying for you.
Rest in peace my dear sister till we meet again.

Growing up as your little brother, I always secretly admired your FREEWILL. You were always so strong and always stood by what you believed in. I was fortunate to have you as one of my older sisters. Sadly you left us all and I never even had a chance to see your face again. It hurts me deeply inside to know I'm one sister less in the world but I know you are in a better place. I will remain strong and continue to follow your steps till the end. I love you BIG SIS.

I have been short of words from the day I learned of your passing. I have not been able to put in words what your existence taught me because it will be too much to write. Flora you taught me to be courageous as a little boy and ever since I have approached life with that same courage that you once showed me. Today you exit our world into a more supreme existence and it is only fair that I muster the courage to accept that I cannot hear your voice no more on phone but I know you will always talk to me every time I fall short of courage. I wil be there to listen to your voice every time you talk to me. On that Friday morning on my way to work, I found myself stuck in a mysterious traffic on same route I use everyday to work. So uncomfortable being on traffic and almost running late to work, I took an alternate route only to still find myself in traffic. Disappointed, I called my job and took the day off and by the time I got back home that morning, I got the phone call of your passing. You did not want my grief of your loss to mess up my day at work because you know how hard it would have been for me to drive back home . So you saved me the pain and discomfort of getting to work. Your care and love manifests in so many ways and I know you will always be a big sister wherever you are. I miss you dearly ... Till we meet again....

4th july 2015
Message from Ngah Claudine
 How I miss you dearly.you always told me to stay strong and let go all the sadness,anger all negativity.you kept me going when I was down ,you never gave up and told me to do same.Even in your pain you still made me laugh so hard I forgot all my worries.You were one in a million.A big sister who was there for me and even spoke for me when I coulnt speak for myself.I will remember all the wise words you told me.Thank you.xxx

From Flora's Mother Esther Ngah:

The message you received in your dream before you fell sick was Psalm 112"happy Is the person who honours the Lord,who takes pleasure in.obeying his commands."I love you so much but God loves you best.You taught me how to live a faithful and prayerful life and I promise as your mother to do so.May you be happy in God's Kingdom and may you remember us back home my dearest daughter.Rest in Peace my Child

Flora, you brought light to every space u came in, brought light in the room as u walked in! God gave you to us for a reason you will be forever missed! Speechless that's how u make me feel!
RIP Darling.

Really sad news that Flora , the beloved wife of Alain Nseme has passed away. My heart deep condolences to Alain , their children and the family. RIP Flora

From Bonghan:

Love for one's family knows no bounds. Deep in my heart, I feel an emptiness which nothing can fill. Dear sister you have brought to me a painful reminder that life is the most fragile of gifts God has given us. You were strong in your sick bed but very positive and high spirited. I celebrate your life and pray for your eternal peaceful repose, though I feel like I am dreaming writing a tribute in honour of my own sister. God bless you and your children whom I shall embrace as mine. You will always be in my heart till we meet. ADIEU sister Flora

My dearest little sis, you made me laugh, in difficult times, you brought joy to your family and friends, so much life to share with friends and family, you gave to those who did not have, you did not only bring laughter to your family, but most importantly, you taught us how to forgive and move forward, you showed us the ways of God, Flora you went to a better place and do not ever wonder about your boys, because they are already taken care of. Rest in perfect peace in God's kingdom and be the guardian angel for us all, you will be in my heart forever.

I have four amazing sisters, and deeply saddened we lost you so soon Flora. My memories of you as happy little girl, who rarely got angry when provoked, and always finding a way to smile will never change. Your uplift spirit and positive outlook on life even in the face of an illness as deadly as breast cancer gives us the strength to stay positive. 

Your belief in God and the several lives you have touched only reminds all of us that you are resting in a happy place. I often told all my friends “my only claim to fame is that I had an amazing sister in you Flora” I cannot tell how many strangers stopped me when they realized I was your brother to say positive things about you. When I visited your family in Ireland in May, that trend continued as strangers in the African community and your local friends in Ireland could not stop saying amazing things about you. 

We miss you little sister, and we are deeply saddened loosing you. We still have a lot to enjoy with you little sister as you left two amazing boys Glenn and Rolls with us, and we are extremely grateful for that. 

Your memories will never be forgotten!

From Alain Thierry Nseme (Glenn Nelson & Ray Rolls):

Flora, My Flora-Bella as I called you, Mon Etoile d'Etat, you will be missed forever!
It has been a great pleasure to have known you in my life, but I know you are in a better place right now.

For all these years we spent together and for the 2 treasures you gave me, I will be forever grateful to you my love, my friend and confident.

It's been a long and hard day without you my friend, and I'll tell you all about it when I see you again.

You my beloved wife, that did her best to be a kind and loving wife and mother to our boys, even during the picture of your pains, we miss you so much baby. It is hard to imagine life without you, but we know as caring as you have been you'll still look after us.

The best thing you left behind for us is your example, always smiling and happy, helping us to build a relation with God, how can I ever forget you Flora?

But even with all the challenges and pain you went through these last months, you faced the world with unparalleled trust and faith to God, with hope and optimism, always still there to do your best to bring joy in our hearts and put a smile on our face with your braveness.

Because of the caring and tender wife, mother, daughter, sister and friend you were, you’ll be sorely missed. But greater than the sorrow for your departure my love, is the joy that you brought in our life; your love will continue to guide us!!!
Bye for now Mon Amour, I will always love and miss you...

From Lycette:

My beloved sister though on your sick bed, I was marveled with the faith you had. You encouraged me with the word of God and gave me more reason to continue serving God. You are alive indeed, because your spirit is alive. You never gave up but endured till the end. I know you are with the Lord because of your faith in Him. Heb 11:16.
Rest in peace big sister. I love you

From Aunty Modufe:

It is with a heavy heart that I say goodbye to you and I prayed for you morning and evening but now that you are no more, may you rest well and protect us.

From Flora's maternal Grandma:

Good bye my dear grand daughter. I love you so much and I know you died with a happy heart and with a smile on your face. I pray God cares for you and makes you his servant.
Rest in Peace my Child

From Flora's Father Stephen Ngah:

Flora my daughter,you bear the name Lemola which means "with whom Shall I leave you?"and now you have suddenly left and I ask you,who have you left me with? I could have loved you to stay and and bury me but look now it is the contrary. I will miss you so much as a dad will miss a daughter.You died on a Friday a symbol of Jesus Christ, so I confirm you to be a woman of faith. Go ahead and discover eternity.
Goodbye my dear daughter