- 44 years old
- Date of birth: Jan 31, 1968
- Date of passing: Aug 5, 2012
|Let the memory of Gary be with us forever|
"Gary; We are nearing the 3rd yr since you passed. We all miss you so much. I miss talking to you about all the important or nonimprotant things. I have questions to ask; like how do I fix my mailbox? and how do I recover my chairs? You did those things for me, whenever I asked and/or needed help. Its hard that you are not here to ask anymore. I was at the beach this past weekend and thought of you and how you loved to play in the water! I could go on but today my heart breaks from missing you. Love you brother!"
"Hey Gary! We are missing you lately...... Kerry graduated college, Joshua graduated high school... all events you would have enjoyed attending! Think of you often especially your laughter and joy. Miss you brother!"
"Sure do miss you Gary. Still hard to wrap my head around your passing. You made quite a mark on all of us. RIP"
"Miss you like crazy Gary, especially today. Thinking of you!"
"Today is your birthday and I still miss you daily. I miss your laughter, your sense of humor, your sayings: 'my eye', 'good times' and your voice. I know you are in a better place as this world was tough on your dreams and aspirations. Sending my love!"
"miss u brother."
"Thinking of you today Gary on this second year of your passing. My hopes are that you are enveloped in love from all the relatives who have passed before you. I have a request dear cousin, could you in your own way help ease the pain and undeserved guilt of your loved ones here on earth. We sure miss you Gary<3"
"two years.. and i still don't know what to write.. i know what i feel, but i can't find the words.. forgive me, i guess i'm not good at this.. you were always fun to be around, more than fun really.. you just made every time a special time.. there aren't many people on the planet like that.. the spectrum of people who'se lives you made more enjoyable - even for a little while - is both broad and long.. i look at the thank you letter you sent me - even in your difficult position you were thinking of others - every time i set at my desk.. it saddens me, but also reminds me of how very special you were.. i wish i had done more with you.. i wish i had done more for you.. clearly there were ways i could have been of value.. i didn't even help my own brother.. please forgive me.. make sure you save a big table up there Gar, we'll be coming soon enough.. and you know we won't be quiet, as usual.. to the happy times, my friend, my brother.. or, as so aptly fits" "good times, good times"."
"It's hard to believe its been two years. Gary, we miss you. May God forgive your sins (and ours) and take you into His eternal kingdom where we hope to meet with you again.
Love, your brother, Scott"
"I have been blessed over the years with many wonderful people in my life. On this 2nd anniversary of your passing, you are truly missed each and every day Gary.
"Gary: Thinking of you today, your birthday. As Colleen said, the day you were introduced to us all. I remember looking at the window at salem hospital while mom pointed to the incubator, you were in, after a difficult birth. That joy lasted your whole life. I always enjoyed the times we had from long car rides traveling to you coming to visit and fixing things around the house. I think of you daily and the many things I wish I could say to you! Here's to you, my wonderful brother, may you rest in God's Peace."
"Thinking of you today Gary. Your birthday is the day that marks your entrance into this world. I would like to think that you are in the company of Nana & Grampy and celebrating this special day. Miss you Gary."
"Thinking of you today and everyday Gary. You are truly missed. God Bless."
"Gary's birthday is today. Brother we miss you and offer our prayers to God for your soul. May God cleanse you of your sins and bring you to eternal life,, where we hope to join you once again.
"Today I woke up and my first thought was about you Gary. My second thought was about your family. My heart hurts for your parents and siblings. I feel that you are okay Gary and in the hands of God and all our family members who have passed before you. The depth of loss all of us are left with will take work and prayer to live with. Together we can be successful with memories of you."
"Dear Gary, it's been a year since you left us but not a day has gone by that I didn't think of you and the lives you touched while here. God Bless."
"Gary: Thinking about you this weekend no particular reason why, I just miss you. I still think about you daily and know that my life was blessed by knowing you were in it. I miss talking to you and seeing you on our vacations. Love you, Gary."
"I thought about you alot yesterday and didn't have any words. I think of you every day and miss you. I know you're watching down from Heaven and at peace. Knowing this makes me feel better."
"Happy Birthday Uncle Gary. I miss you so much today and everyday but when the sun was shining through the clouds, I knew it was you looking down on us. I am lucky everyday to have known such an amazing, happy person and even luckier to have an angel like you watching over me. You are the best uncle a girl could ask for. I love you!"
"Today was his birthday. I miss him everyday and today especially. Its aa beautiful starry night in Maryland and I pray he is up in heaven, free from suffering. save a space for me Gary! Love you brother."
"Woke up thinking about you today Gary. Today is the day you were all introduced to us as a positve and loving presence in our lives. My wish for you today is that you are free from suffering and sadness and are in the presence of our Lord and all the beautiful loved ones lost in years past. Rest in peace my cousin, Love Colleen"
"Please say a prayer for Gary's soul in remembrance of his life.Ask God to forgive his sins and to have Mercy on us all."
"I think of Gary always with a smile. His joy to me is an inspiration to create, to love and respect friends and family. A conversation with Gary from his early years to his adult years was filled with joy!"
"I miss Gary tremendously but am very grateful to God for the time we had together. We grew closer over the last 6-7 months while he was in the hospital and we would talk almost daily. He still had the ability to make me laugh as I was trying to comfort him. I pray for his soul and am thankful for the wonderful, happy times we shared."
"Gary I am not sure what to say. We were the same age. I remember so many wonderful things about you. I remember that I looked up to you. I still do. I think what you did in your life is amazing. You were my comforter when I moved to Topsfield...you took me to the mall and we played video games. Before then I felt so alone but you made me feel loved, that was your gift. I love you Gary."
"I always considered Gary, Chris and Marc as the three muskateers. It was great to watch the three of them in the Murphy pool wrestling. Gary, what I do know about you is your kindness was always present; no matter what mood. You often reminded me of Grampy because you always made the best of things and put a positive spin on most everything. You will always be in my heart and prayers."
"Dear Cousin Gary:
I will remember your adventurous spirit. Your inventive ideas on how to make the world a bit better-ie: seat belts for school busses!!
You left a wonderful imprint on this earth for the short time that you were with us. I love you, Cuz. Kim +"
"Gary, I miss you every day. We were all blessed to have had you in our lives. You are now with Gampy & Nana and watching over us all along with them.
Your Cousin - Chris"
"My dear brother, you made us laugh, love and just plain enjoy life when you were with us. It makes us sad you are no longer here, but eternally grateful we got to share so much of your life. Your smile and infectious wit will keep us happy for many years to come. You are truly missed. Love you, Gary!"
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