We are family
First I am sorry for the lost of your father. He sounded like he was a wonderful dad and really lovable person.
Second, This may not be the most appropratied spot to contact you but I am not sure even how I found you. I just was "goggle-ing around". I have just become my family genenogist, I came into some photographic of my grandmother's Opal Henson, who's mother was Mary "Carrie" Hargrove, daughter of Rufus and Harriett. Some photos have writing other it's a matching game.
After looking at your father"s online photo, I have many pictuces of your family in this suitcase of photos. Mary "Carrie" Hargrove Henson and your grandma Lucy were sisters.