February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
You will never be forgotten . My memories are of our luncheons and your wonderful advice. To will never be forgotten. Madolyn
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved Mother and Wife, Joan Moyer, 80, born on February 14, 1934 and passed away on July 28, 2014. We will remember her forever.
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February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
Joan's spirit lives on in the Moyer family which includes Ginny's parents, Alan and Linda. We feel her presence, and Bob's, at every family celebration.
Linda and Alan
Linda and Alan
July 28, 2022
July 28, 2022
We cared deeply for Joan and Bob and shared many good times, laughs and more with them both, as many of you no doubt also did.
We also want to share, our firm hope and expectation is to share many more times with them both in the near future, where they and we will be young and healthy and happy, enjoying paradise restored to this earth.
As the bible promises at …. Psalms 37:29 __
“ The righteous will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it.”
And Jesus confirmed this hope at… John 5:28 __
“Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out … and be resurrected....”
This is what Jeanette and I, and millions of other Jehovah's Witnesses worldwide look forward to; seeing our dear departed loved ones restored to life in paradise restored to this earth.
With assured love & faith in God's promise,
Art & Jeanette Durham
Jordanville, NY
www.jw.org
We also want to share, our firm hope and expectation is to share many more times with them both in the near future, where they and we will be young and healthy and happy, enjoying paradise restored to this earth.
As the bible promises at …. Psalms 37:29 __
“ The righteous will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it.”
And Jesus confirmed this hope at… John 5:28 __
“Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out … and be resurrected....”
This is what Jeanette and I, and millions of other Jehovah's Witnesses worldwide look forward to; seeing our dear departed loved ones restored to life in paradise restored to this earth.
With assured love & faith in God's promise,
Art & Jeanette Durham
Jordanville, NY
www.jw.org
July 28, 2022
July 28, 2022
It is hard to believe another year has passed . I still miss our lunches at the Yellow Deli, and your advice , always putting a positive spin on things. I remember and follow alot of that advice still today at 88. You are missed and remembered. Madolyn Palmer
February 14, 2022
February 14, 2022
I will always remember her smile and her wonderful advice.
Lunches with her were a bright spot in my day. She is missed every day.
Madolyn
Lunches with her were a bright spot in my day. She is missed every day.
Madolyn
February 14, 2022
February 14, 2022
I think of Joan often with love and admiration. I see her in our mutual grandsons and wish she were here to share them with me. Her love lives on in Matthew and Luke.
July 29, 2021
July 29, 2021
are missed so much
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
I was truly blessed to have such a great mom. I miss you. I love you.
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
We wish Joan could be here to share in the joy of her two fine grandsons, Matthew and Luke. She would be so proud. Alan
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
I am remembering Joan today. She is my grandsons' other Grandma, and I would like Joan to know that our grandsons are doing well, growing tall, and are on their way to becoming fine young men. I also want to share with Joan, and with the others who miss her, that 13 year old Matthew, her oldest grandson, included Joan in the wishes he wrote for me on my Mother's Day card in May and on the card he made for my birthday, which was yesterday. In May, Matthew wrote: "I think you are the best grandmother in the world, along with Grandma Joan." On my birthday card Matthew wrote: "Thank you for putting in the effort for tying for 'best grandma ever' with Grandma Joan".
I proudly share the role of Matthew and Luke's grandmother with Joan. I just wish she were here and we could enjoy our grandsons together.
I proudly share the role of Matthew and Luke's grandmother with Joan. I just wish she were here and we could enjoy our grandsons together.
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
I can't believe it's been six years since Joan passed. I miss her warmth, her smile, her laugh, her graceful attentiveness, her compassion. She was a blessing to everyone who knew her. I know she is still with us in spirit but I wish she were here in person too so we could do another Moyer Happy Hour with her and Bob. Thanks for the memories, Joan.
July 28, 2020
July 28, 2020
Here it is another year gone by, but memory of you is still strong in this 86 year old. These days I only remember the beautiful things in my past. My husband , my children and grandchildren, and special friends like you. Rest in peace .
July 28, 2019
July 28, 2019
Remembering Joan brings so much joy to my heart. Her smile will stay with me . So many wonderful memories . Joan you are and will be always missed. madolyn palmer
February 14, 2019
February 14, 2019
Will always cherish her friendship, and the memories of our lunches together . Madolyn
July 28, 2018
July 28, 2018
I will always remember Joan and my years working with her on the Bd of Education. Our Lunches with Joan Betty and the girls.
Her smile instantly made you feel better. Her advice was always worth listening to. A real friend and soooo missed. Madolyn
Her smile instantly made you feel better. Her advice was always worth listening to. A real friend and soooo missed. Madolyn
February 14, 2017
February 14, 2017
I was so unbelievably blessed to have Joan for a mother-in-law. I could not have asked for a kinder, more loving one. She took such joy in her grandchildren, in our times together, and in catching up. Her handwritten cards and notes (often with a newspaper clipping enclosed) were evidence of how much we were always in her mind and heart, even though we were far away. I miss her so much. Happy Birthday, Joan, and I hope it's a wonderful celebration up there in heaven with your Valentine Bob. Love, Ginny
February 14, 2017
February 14, 2017
The years I worked with Joan on the school board, made us wonderful lunch friends. Her smile is firmly planted in my memory, and her words of wisdom. Joan you are so missed.
February 14, 2017
February 14, 2017
They are together now and all seems right with the world. You are both so missed.
February 14, 2017
February 14, 2017
Joan lived a life of Love.
It is no coincidence that her birthday is the day we celebrate Love.
It is no coincidence that her birthday is the day we celebrate Love.
July 28, 2016
July 28, 2016
I will always cherish the friendship of Joan, during her tenure on the Board of Education, and after our annual lunch Susan, Betty Joan and myself. Her smile lit up the room. Her wisdom gave guidance to me, and her friendship was so cherished. She is missed. Madolyn
February 14, 2016
February 14, 2016
The smile and the friendship will never be forgotten.
July 28, 2015
July 28, 2015
We think of Joan often and remember her joyful and loving spirit which lives on in the lives of her children and grandchildren.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you on this day.
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you on this day.
July 28, 2015
July 28, 2015
Thinking of you and your family today.
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
Today was a special day for Joan, and one I could never forget.
No, I didn't have to look iup the date. It was broadcast so frequently by restaurants and florists everywhere.
We always tried to make it ours alone. Joan liked special dinners while I liked weekends at a B&B where she could shop to here hearts content even if it probably would be returned...
No, I didn't have to look iup the date. It was broadcast so frequently by restaurants and florists everywhere.
We always tried to make it ours alone. Joan liked special dinners while I liked weekends at a B&B where she could shop to here hearts content even if it probably would be returned...
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
To day is my wonderful husbands birthday also, and I miss him all these five years. Losing Joan who never forgot to remember me on this hard but beautiful day. I am so blessed that she called me friend and offered her friendship to me. Miss both of you today. madolyn
February 14, 2015
February 14, 2015
A Valentine life of love. It all makes sense! On a day devoted to love, remember your mom, wife and friend with the same. Be joyful she was born, for look at all the happiness she brought to life. Your friend, Helen
November 29, 2014
November 29, 2014
Joan set the example for all of us. Her grace, warmth and beauty were obvious and natural. A truly great person that is missed by family, friends and the community. Our deepest sympathy to the Moyer family. Joe and Donna Sutaris
November 27, 2014
November 27, 2014
Joan Moyer was a "class act." Her grace and charm, her quiet work ethic, her warm smile when greeting, and her sincere interest in others as they talked, all helped to make her a wonderful role model. Her dedication to education, and girls, was evident in her work with AAUW and especially the creation of Career Week at OHS. For those who were fortunate enough to meet and worked with her, she was an inspiration who will be greatly missed.
November 27, 2014
November 27, 2014
Joan & Bob were among those too rare a couple that we are occasionally blessed with having in our lives. Joan was an especially kind, gracious and caring person. We wish we could have spent more time with her to get to know her and share more with her than we did.
It seems that limited time is a harsh reality in all our lives… not enough time to enjoy the good that we wish we could.
Which re-enforces our trust and hope in Jesus’ promise in the Lord’s Prayer that; through His Kingdom, Jesus will soon right all wrongs, restore life to our lost loved ones via resurrection to paradise on earth… when He has “God’s Will done on Earth as it is in Heaven…”
(Matthew 6:9 and John 5:28)
We look forward to that paradise and greeting Joan as well as other resurrected dear ones when we will have the time and circumstance to enjoy healthy, peaceful eternal life.
Our prayers, comfort, support, thanks and promised hope go out to all her family and friends on our untimely loss.
Art & Jeanette Durham
It seems that limited time is a harsh reality in all our lives… not enough time to enjoy the good that we wish we could.
Which re-enforces our trust and hope in Jesus’ promise in the Lord’s Prayer that; through His Kingdom, Jesus will soon right all wrongs, restore life to our lost loved ones via resurrection to paradise on earth… when He has “God’s Will done on Earth as it is in Heaven…”
(Matthew 6:9 and John 5:28)
We look forward to that paradise and greeting Joan as well as other resurrected dear ones when we will have the time and circumstance to enjoy healthy, peaceful eternal life.
Our prayers, comfort, support, thanks and promised hope go out to all her family and friends on our untimely loss.
Art & Jeanette Durham
November 27, 2014
November 27, 2014
I met Joan in the 70's when I joined AAUW. There I found Joan to be a warm, welcoming and gracious woman. Our paths crossed many times over the years at community functions, church religious classes and as committee members and I marveled at how Joan remained the same warm and gracious person that I first knew. I was especially pleased that at a church function several years ago Joan related that daughter-in-law Ginny, a talented author, was engaged in writing a book about Mary, the mother of Jesus, and asked if anyone would like to share Mary experiences with Ginny for possible inclusion in her book. What a wonderful surprise to see my entry included in Ginny's book. I will have the wonderful memory of Joan each time I pick up my copy of Mary and Me. Joan was truly a lovely Christian woman, loved by her family and all who were fortunate to have been touched by her. My deepest condolences to Bob and the beautiful Moyer family.
November 26, 2014
November 26, 2014
Dear Joan, It is difficult to contemplate the coming weekend as we return to Oneonta for the first time since your passing. However, thoughts of the part you played in our lives warms us; the teachers in our schools who told how wonderful our big sister was; the visits to Saint Rose where we found again how popular and well thought of you were; marriage to Bob and the birth of Terri, Kathy, and Scott created the emergence of an extraordinary wife and mother. While we are saddened by our loss, we know that our mother, father, brother Jerry and your many friends and relatives who have passed on are elated to greet you again. God bless and rest in peace.
November 26, 2014
November 26, 2014
Bob, Kathy and I came to know Joan through the many bank affairs and trips taken together. What great fun we had. I had the pleasure of working with her on the Y board and found her to be most sincere and dedicated in improving the services they provided. Please know that we keep her in our thoughts and prayers. Fred & Kathy
November 24, 2014
November 24, 2014
I am so sad to hear of the passing of Joan. I met her as we were in the same golf league in Jupiter, Florida. We would play together often and she was always sweet, calm, and a pleasure to be around. We shared a laugh together as we both wore at times, identical capri pants!
She will be missed.
She will be missed.
November 24, 2014
November 24, 2014
Today was a sad day for me. I called you, Bob, to get your new address and found out Joan had died four months ago. I am so sorry. We met so many years ago, saw each other only occasionally for we lived so far away from each other, but one had only to meet Joan once to know one had a friend. I will miss her. She was such a special person and will never be forgotten.
November 23, 2014
November 23, 2014
The start of our friendship with the Moyer family began in the early 70’s when their son, Scott, and our son, David, started as cub scouts. She welcomed us to the area so pleasantly. Joan always had a smile and very quietly both Bob and Joan have made the lives of many people significantly better through all their contributions in the community. Joan was always gracious, friendly, giving, and positive. She will be missed by all. Jack and Katie Kotz
November 21, 2014
November 21, 2014
The photos all show that Joan was a caring, warm and happy person. It is always how she greeted others, whether it be at the Cooperstown Farmer's Market, or at an important board meeting. I miss her and know she is still keeping her warmth around her loving family, and especially you, Bob. I am so sorry I am away for the Celebration of her life. May we all continue to celebrate her life by having more Grace in ours.
November 21, 2014
November 21, 2014
Alan and I wish that we could attend Joan's memorial and pay tribute, in person, to a very beautiful lady. We are blessed to have had Joan in our lives; she is the mother of our son-in-law, Scott, and the Moyer grandmother of the grandsons we share, Matthew and Luke.
We will think of her with our love and our gratitude on November 29.
We will think of her with our love and our gratitude on November 29.
November 21, 2014
November 21, 2014
Written by Barb Waters:
"I have known Joan since she was a roommate of my sister, Joan, at St. Rose. We became good friends in 1964, when Moyers moved to Oneonta shortly after we did.. We were in Welcome hagon, AAUW, a bridge group of 8. Through AAUW we enjoyed starting consumer classes for Head Start parents. we joined the AAUW evening Book Group then formed the morning group.Through this group we took many enjoyable trips together to Albany, Canajoharie, Utica, NYC and MA. We worked on several church committees together. We served on an ESC committee because of her leadership and dedication to it.
After several surgeries Joan arranged with Joe to come to our house to check on me She was always thinking of what she could do for others. This led to Isabelle Niles, Connie Wood and Joan joining me for lunch during their lunch time to make sure I had what I needed.
We continued lunch get- togethers for well over 20 years, Our last was at Bella Michaels a little more than a week before she left us. How little did we know there wouldn't be another lunch date as we were planning it. It broke my heart to learn I wouldn't be able to talk with her again. She was the dearest friend I could ever have and I miss her so much.
I am grateful I was able to consider Joan my friend for so many wonderful years.
Love to the family, Barb Waters"
"I have known Joan since she was a roommate of my sister, Joan, at St. Rose. We became good friends in 1964, when Moyers moved to Oneonta shortly after we did.. We were in Welcome hagon, AAUW, a bridge group of 8. Through AAUW we enjoyed starting consumer classes for Head Start parents. we joined the AAUW evening Book Group then formed the morning group.Through this group we took many enjoyable trips together to Albany, Canajoharie, Utica, NYC and MA. We worked on several church committees together. We served on an ESC committee because of her leadership and dedication to it.
After several surgeries Joan arranged with Joe to come to our house to check on me She was always thinking of what she could do for others. This led to Isabelle Niles, Connie Wood and Joan joining me for lunch during their lunch time to make sure I had what I needed.
We continued lunch get- togethers for well over 20 years, Our last was at Bella Michaels a little more than a week before she left us. How little did we know there wouldn't be another lunch date as we were planning it. It broke my heart to learn I wouldn't be able to talk with her again. She was the dearest friend I could ever have and I miss her so much.
I am grateful I was able to consider Joan my friend for so many wonderful years.
Love to the family, Barb Waters"
November 21, 2014
November 21, 2014
It is difficult to pay a tribute to Joan in words. She moved with such quiet, generous, grace. While we touched many times in the community, I knew her best as we served together on the Oneonta School Board. In that capacity, I admired the way she thoughtfully considered each issue and always voed with integrety.
I consider it a great priviledge to have called Joan Moyer a friend in this life and hope I can associate with her in the life beyound this earth.
Suzanne Hollist
I consider it a great priviledge to have called Joan Moyer a friend in this life and hope I can associate with her in the life beyound this earth.
Suzanne Hollist
November 20, 2014
November 20, 2014
In my mind's memory, there is a sunrise hike - up a mountain side - while your family vacationed together. The ever energetic Kathy was rallying the fam to join her. Who did? Her mom! I remember the picture of the triumphant mountain toppers as the sun warmed their smiling faces. Having traveled the world with Kathy, I feel I know Joan through Her. Smart, vibrant, enthusiastic, curious, always ready to go! My heart is with you all as this lovely woman lives forever in your hearts and memories.
November 20, 2014
November 20, 2014
Yesterday, November 19th was our 54th wedding anniversary. As I read and re-read these tributes to Joan, I realize how fortunate I was to be chosen to walk with her on her journey. She changed many people's lives as she moved quitely through life while leaving a touch of herself for all to share.
November 19, 2014
November 19, 2014
Joan was always warm and welcoming. Joan's smile, intelligence, and charm made it a pleasure to serve with her on the ESC board. Such a lovely lady in every way.
November 19, 2014
November 19, 2014
Joan was a wonderful person in so many ways. In many years of working with on various charitable activities, not once did Joan criticize others. Never was there a bad mood or bad day. Joan was always positive and able to see the best in all situations. She knew how to work and to inspire others. We were lucky to have had Joan in our lives. Erna and Tom Morgan
October 7, 2014
October 7, 2014
Joan was a lovely, good person. She was a joy to know these many years, and I always enjoyed time spent with her at our 'Conversations on Health' meetings. . She was truly style and grace personified. I will miss her smiling face, and will never forget her.
September 30, 2014
September 30, 2014
Joan and I were friends and served several organizations together. She was a warm and caring friend and always a "lady". She and Bob are people I deeply respect. The were a great team. She always helped raise funds for worthy organizations. She is the one person I have never heard an ill word about. She was loved by everyone who had met her. She will be deeply missed and it is a loss for the community.
August 30, 2014
August 30, 2014
I have such warm memories of Joan, my father Bernard's cousin, growing up in West Stockbridge. We enjoyed Thanksgiving with all the cousins at Tom and Mary's home, which later became my father's home until he moved to AZ. This is a beautiful memorial. I am so glad to have found it. I will share it with the rest of the Fallon family. My dad passed on March 3, 2013.
August 27, 2014
August 27, 2014
The Negrini family lived next to Joan's in West Stockbridge. There was always so much love and friendship between us. We are deeply saddened by your loss, and will surely offer prayers for Joan as we treasure the memories of Joan, her parents, siblings and family. Bless you all.
August 19, 2014
August 19, 2014
One of my most memorable summers was in Cooperstown with the Moyer's during my college years. Bob and Joan were so welcoming and kind that I felt like they adopted me. They worried about me as my own parents would during the week I decided to take a solo bike trip through Vermont! They were such gracious hosts and I loved their ritual of cocktail hour. There was always a delicious meal and good conversation. Joan was such a wonderful mom, beautiful lady, and so classy.
August 18, 2014
August 18, 2014
I worked with Joan in many capacities both at the school district and the college. She was a friend we lunched at least twice a year, and enjoyed our family stories. Her smile could light up a room, and she always had a positive word for every situation. I lost my husband and they had the same birthday, She never forgot. She will be missed....
August 13, 2014
August 13, 2014
With my deepest sympathy to you and your family. I played golf with Joan in Florida and always found her to be a beautiful person inside and out, always gracious, kind and thoughtful. Her passing will be deeply felt by many.
Margaret McCarthy
Margaret McCarthy
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February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
You will never be forgotten . My memories are of our luncheons and your wonderful advice. To will never be forgotten. Madolyn
February 14, 2023
February 14, 2023
Joan's spirit lives on in the Moyer family which includes Ginny's parents, Alan and Linda. We feel her presence, and Bob's, at every family celebration.
Linda and Alan
Linda and Alan
July 28, 2022
July 28, 2022
We cared deeply for Joan and Bob and shared many good times, laughs and more with them both, as many of you no doubt also did.
We also want to share, our firm hope and expectation is to share many more times with them both in the near future, where they and we will be young and healthy and happy, enjoying paradise restored to this earth.
As the bible promises at …. Psalms 37:29 __
“ The righteous will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it.”
And Jesus confirmed this hope at… John 5:28 __
“Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out … and be resurrected....”
This is what Jeanette and I, and millions of other Jehovah's Witnesses worldwide look forward to; seeing our dear departed loved ones restored to life in paradise restored to this earth.
With assured love & faith in God's promise,
Art & Jeanette Durham
Jordanville, NY
www.jw.org
We also want to share, our firm hope and expectation is to share many more times with them both in the near future, where they and we will be young and healthy and happy, enjoying paradise restored to this earth.
As the bible promises at …. Psalms 37:29 __
“ The righteous will possess the earth, And they will live forever on it.”
And Jesus confirmed this hope at… John 5:28 __
“Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out … and be resurrected....”
This is what Jeanette and I, and millions of other Jehovah's Witnesses worldwide look forward to; seeing our dear departed loved ones restored to life in paradise restored to this earth.
With assured love & faith in God's promise,
Art & Jeanette Durham
Jordanville, NY
www.jw.org
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Mom on the Basque Coast
Flowers for Mom (and dad)
Mom and Dad’s Memorial
Visiting the Moyer Pool
View from the Moyer Pool, Hartwick College
Joan & Luke
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February 14
I just wanted to remember the wonderful time we spent together , Joan was a friend, and also a School Board Member that I respected and enjoyed very much. We had lunch together many times and talked about family and Oneonta in general. Her smile was a joy to enjoy. Madolyn Palmer
July 30, 2019
I hope you don't mind, but I enjoy reading your letters it brings Joan close for a moment. Her memory makes me smile, and I feel her and hear her laughter and see her smile. So many wonderful memories.
Madolyn Palmer
Madolyn Palmer
Remembering Mom: 5 years
July 28, 2019
by Kathy Dragon
2019 has been the first year since Mom passed that the Moyer Family hasn’t been planning/executing a memorial service; moving/donating generations of life possessions out of a properties (house, apartment, condo); or navigating hospital care. Without that weight of responsibilities I think we’ve all allowed ourselves a bit of breathing room and with that comes both sadness and joy.
This spring I returned to lead a trip in the Basque region of Spain, a trip similar to the one Mom and Dad joined me 20 years ago. One day on my current trip we changed plans a bit and traveled to the fishing village of Lekeitio for lunch and something felt incredibly familiar. I sat at a cafe and opened my google photos to find pictures I took of mom and dad in the same exact place I was with the fishing boats in the forefront and the Basilica in the background. It was an unreal experience. I thought of them so often and wore the Basque Cross necklace my mom purchased on the trip.
Last summer involved cleaning out (close) to the last bits of family “stuff” and preparing the Cooperstown condo to sell or rent as none of us are able to manage a remote property, especially in the Upstate NY winter. We were incredibly fortunate to create a situation where we rent out the Condo for 3 years and are able to return for the month of July each year as well as keep a small room and several shelves in the garage with boxes of Moyer “things” that we still need to go through.
Terri was able to join Scott, Ginny, Matthew and Luke for the first week and I had a few days with the California Moyer’s and then spent the remainder of the month (unplanned) in Cooperstown. Yesterday Shaw and I visited Oneonta. Showing him where i grew up, and more importantly where my parents made their home, was special. We drove on the back roads Dad loved to explore from Cooperstown to our former house on Balford Drive. We went down Main Street to see the beautiful old Wilber Bank building, drove to Hartwick to visit if the Moyer Pool and then to SUCO, Oneonta High School, Bugbee before bringing a pot of colorful flowers to the grave for mom (and dad). Sitting on a bench, looking out over the “City of the Hills” mom and dad loved, I cried and smiled.
I’ve gone through the “All about Mom” bin this month. Reading journal entries and letters. Looking back on albums of her high school and college years and her wedding album. Her life was so rich and full. As Scott said in his eulogy “Mom was a person who saw something that looked fun and said, I’ll give it a try. She taught me that life is about enjoying our time together, the joy of the opportunities we’re given, and about wonders that we find around every corner.“
I still look for her face in the clouds. I feel her grace in butterflies that cross my path and in so many small things each day.
This spring I returned to lead a trip in the Basque region of Spain, a trip similar to the one Mom and Dad joined me 20 years ago. One day on my current trip we changed plans a bit and traveled to the fishing village of Lekeitio for lunch and something felt incredibly familiar. I sat at a cafe and opened my google photos to find pictures I took of mom and dad in the same exact place I was with the fishing boats in the forefront and the Basilica in the background. It was an unreal experience. I thought of them so often and wore the Basque Cross necklace my mom purchased on the trip.
Last summer involved cleaning out (close) to the last bits of family “stuff” and preparing the Cooperstown condo to sell or rent as none of us are able to manage a remote property, especially in the Upstate NY winter. We were incredibly fortunate to create a situation where we rent out the Condo for 3 years and are able to return for the month of July each year as well as keep a small room and several shelves in the garage with boxes of Moyer “things” that we still need to go through.
Terri was able to join Scott, Ginny, Matthew and Luke for the first week and I had a few days with the California Moyer’s and then spent the remainder of the month (unplanned) in Cooperstown. Yesterday Shaw and I visited Oneonta. Showing him where i grew up, and more importantly where my parents made their home, was special. We drove on the back roads Dad loved to explore from Cooperstown to our former house on Balford Drive. We went down Main Street to see the beautiful old Wilber Bank building, drove to Hartwick to visit if the Moyer Pool and then to SUCO, Oneonta High School, Bugbee before bringing a pot of colorful flowers to the grave for mom (and dad). Sitting on a bench, looking out over the “City of the Hills” mom and dad loved, I cried and smiled.
I’ve gone through the “All about Mom” bin this month. Reading journal entries and letters. Looking back on albums of her high school and college years and her wedding album. Her life was so rich and full. As Scott said in his eulogy “Mom was a person who saw something that looked fun and said, I’ll give it a try. She taught me that life is about enjoying our time together, the joy of the opportunities we’re given, and about wonders that we find around every corner.“
I still look for her face in the clouds. I feel her grace in butterflies that cross my path and in so many small things each day.