My Chica Chericola
Back in 1995/96 the internet was starting to take off like wild fire. There was a small little company called AOL that brought an entire world of people as close as a click away. Well, a few clicks, a lot of static & binging beeping noises, & one loud announcment of WELCOME, YOU'VE GOT MAIL away. I quickly discovered there were chat rooms for every hobby & interest you can imagine. I, of course, ended up in a room called "Center Ice". Amongst all of the silliness that scrolled by in this chat room, I noticed there were a few people who actually knew a thing or 2 about hockey. I was immediately drawn to one in particular. She changed her name a few times but finally settled on one that really fit her bright personality. And so began the friendship of CheriCola2 & HezPens68. We chatted for hours and hours, days and days, weeks and weeks via Instant Messaging. One day one of the kids (I believe it was Krista) messaged me from their own account & said "my Mom wants to know if it's ok if she calls you". I said yes, numbers were exchanged, and so began the high phone bills! We talked for hours and hours over the course of days and days - weeks & weeks Hockey playoffs, life journies, hockey playoffs, our kids, hockey playoffs, life journies - you name it, we discussed it. We eventually made plans to meet up. Kerri rented a big SUV and drove the kids to CT & NY. She dropped down into PA & I drove north from Pittsburgh & we met in the middle. We were going to spend the weekend at an amusement park, but after we got settled into the hotel we discovered the amusement park had closed down. So glad we were using the internet for what it was intended for - socializing! - certainly not information gathering or trip planning. No Matter - we settled in with our cups of hot tea & spent the entire weekend talking about everything under the sun. I had never before - and have never again - bonded with someone like I did with Kerri. We kept the kids entertained, reveled in each other's company, & shared many laughs & tears that weekend. And so began the many weekend trips back & forth across the OH turnpike to/from PA/MI. I have so many memories that I will cherish forever. Our tattoo session together, our trips to people watch at Cedar Point & the mall, incline rides in Pittsburgh, etc. Kerri was beside me through so many things, good & bad. She helped me through my Grandma's brain tumor diagnosis by sharing stories from when she had previously been sick. She said she would play "Space Invaders" in her mind & shoot missles at the bad cells. Her stories & her support helped me through a very tough time. Over the years life eventually took me away from PIttsburgh & our visits ceased, but we never lost our bond. More time than we both would like would eventually come between phone calls. But as soon as we started talking I could hear her voice liven up, & in my mind I could see the twinkle in her eyes & feel the warmth of her smile. I will never have another friend like Kerri. She was one of a kind & perfect for me. I'll always be able to hear her voice in my head, I'll always be able to see her smile in my mind, I'll always cheer for the Red Wings, I'll always hear her AOL "theme song" playing, I will always cherish our memories, & I will always love her. I miss you, my Chica Cheri Cola. ~ Hez ~