This memorial website was created in memory of our beloved mother, Laura Dorritie, 67, born on January 16, 1948 and passed away on January 18, 2015.
Laura is survived by her daughter Megan and her son Adam, who are carried through this time by the grace and love of their spouses Ephrem and Jenni; her grandsons Ben and Evan; and her sisters Judy and Annie.
Mom touched the lives of many people. We hope this site will allow those of you who shared in her life to share in remembering how she lived. We welcome all memories of this wonderful woman who was so instrumental in shaping our lives and, we hope, to some small extent, in shaping yours. Please feel free to leave a story, a message and/or pictures. We truly treasure anything you have to offer.
We intend to host a commemoration of Mom's life at a time and place yet to be determined.
Rest peacefully Mom. We love you.
Adam and Megan
Tributes
Leave a tributeTo this day, I still could not comprehend the news of your sudden passing. At times, I almost felt that I heard your flip-flopping down the hallway to the copier, your quiet singing of whatever melodies you were in the mood for, or you would just drop in my cube and said “let’s talk”… also remembering our celebrating your birthday Taco Tuesday lunch (rare for you) and you drank Margarita (rare for you) and we had your favorite Lemon Meringue Pie on Thursday in consideration that you were not supposed to work on Friday …….
When I knew you so many years ago, I would never have realized how connected we would be, knew you best after we moved to Lake Forest. Your loyalty to SimSci was unparalleled and it reflected in your passion and quality of work and the respect from people worked with you around the globe. I was not a fan at the beginning but I became a convert after we worked closely together and knew you as a friend. You certainly set me straight and kept me on my toes on many occasions. Well, in turn, you also came into my way of thinking; as you often said, you finance people; we compromised and agreed to disagree. For the ups & downs throughout the many years we remained with the SimSci group, you were one of the constant, our corner stone and the glue. Now we have a void …..
You were the one excel with words, not me …. Now I am just speechless …. No, No, No, No, No. I forgot your exact explanation why “No” to be repeated so many times, remembered only that we sat at Karen’s cube and it did not mean NO for 5 times. Maybe I’ll remember eventually. I heard Tobias said No, No, No the other day. I chuckled and was in tears, thinking that this is your legacy to all of us. You would always be remembered, always …..
You would be greatly missed – your wealth of knowledge, your random wisdom, your quirky sense of humor, your life lesson, your brutal honesty, your fearless outspokenness, your motherly advice, your compassion, the coffee break, the kitchen chat, the long & odd hours online “green” bubble, your singing, and even your mini lecture, your argumentativeness, your sarcasm, your prediction of doom on everything ……
Some of your famous words
It is what it is
This is how it is going to be/work
I am old; I am entitled to say things
WhatSoEver, WhatEver
Don’t get me wrong
Just kidding
Kiddo
It is a joke……
I feel blessed that our paths had crossed for the last 21 years. We shared joy, laughter, fun, happiness, sadness, sorrow, tears, good times, bad times, dance, comradeship, friendship …. You will forever have a place in my heart, right next to Michele ….
Your little Missy, Amy
I met Laura almost 11 year ago in her little apartment in Yorba Linda. Like any first time meeting of your future in-laws, I was a bit nervous about meeting her. Once there, she went out of her way to make me feel at ease. I think in the end, she was probably more nervous about meeting me than I was to meet her. Ever since that first meeting, we had a really good relationship. She would often joke that she likes me (and vice versa) more than her kids.
I was so interested to see how she would be with the boys when they were born. As you’d expect, she was a natural. I especially loved seeing her with the boys this past year as they are old enough now to interact with adults. She was so patient with the boys and they loved when “Grandma Laura” would come over, and not just because she’d bring half of Toys R Us with her every other visit.
When I think about Laura’s passing, it does make me quite upset. I’m upset that I won’t be able to spend holidays and birthdays with her. I’m upset that she won’t be able to see the boys grow. I’m upset that my boys won’t have their grandmother 20 minutes away and the fact that at some point we’ll have to explain to them that she’s gone. I’m upset that the woman I love more than anything in this world is in so much pain. But most of all I’m upset that this woman, who has had a very tough life, but who seemingly, was enjoying this latest chapter, isn’t going to experience that joy anymore.
If Laura was here, I’m sure she’d say something like “don’t worry about me kiddo”. I’ll do my best to do that, by keeping her memory alive for our family.
My fondest memory of her is when I was pregnant with my first child, she would always talk to my pregnant belly. And so when I brought my newborn to the office, I saw that my son had that instant connection with her because her voice was very familiar to him. Laura, thank you for being part of my life. Thank you for all the talks that we’ve shared where I picked up a lot of life lessons. I will miss you saying how “perfect” my kids are. Love you forever and you have a special place in my heart.
Laura, thank you so much for every email you wrote to me. Miss you very much.
And my best wishes to Megan, Adam and her family in the difficult time.
Thoughts from China
XiaoYan
I thank you for always being by my side career wise and personally.
Thank you for the laughs, the cries, the dances… the list goes on and on of how much I will miss you and everything I am so thankful for you.
I’ll always carry your advice with me and I’ll never forget the hugs we shared.
Thinking of you in this difficult time Megan, Adam and family.
Love,
Diane
Funny Story~
I was sharing an office with Laura when I first met her and one morning when I walked in, she was talking on the phone in a really cute voice, "cooing and babbling," to a little baby girl. I said, "Laura, I didn't know you had a granddaughter." She was replied back with, "I don't, I have a grand kitty named Sophie and my daughter makes me talk to her on the phone!" I fell off my chair from laughing so hard. It was that moment I couldn't wait to meet Megan and looking forward to our friendship building.
Laura~ I love you always & forever and thank you so much for being in my life. If it wasn't for you, I would probably be miserable and behind bars. Thank you for guiding me to happiness. My cup is full because of you!
I just want to remember those so good moments laughing together when I had the great chance to meet her face to face in Lake Forest or during the SimSci events in California …
I miss her ...
Thoughts from France
Jeremy
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Just Say "Thank You"
I received several pearls of wisdom from Laura as her niece and as her assistant for 5 years. The one that I use all the time is a simple one. Just say thank you. She said it to herself when I would compliment her hair (which was always on point) or if she looked particulalry lovely in a color. She would say, "Just say thank you Laura." I was guilty of not being able to take a compliment too, so she would stop me in the middle of a qualification and say, just say Thank You.
Thank YOU Laura for getting me my current job 8 years ago when my family needed it most. Thank YOU Laura for your love and support. Thank YOU Laura for teaching me so much in the 5 years I was blessed to work with you.
You are so missed and loved.