Fair Candles
The first candle represents our grief. The pain of losing you is intense. It reminds us of the depth of our love for you.
The second candle represents our courage...To confront our sorrow, to comfort each other, to change our lives.
The third candle we light in your memory...For the times we laughed, the times we cried, the times we were angry with each other, the silly things you did, the caring and joy you gave us.
This fourth candle we light for our love. We light this candle that your light will always shine as we enter this sad time and share this day of remembrance with family and friends. We cherish the special place in our hearts that will always be reserved for you.
We thank you for the gift your loving brought to each of us.

When I come to the end of my journey
And I travel my last weary mile,
Just forget if you can, that I ever frowned
And remember only the smile.

Forget unkind words I have spoken;
Remember some good I have done.
Forget that I ever had heartache
And remember I've had loads of fun.

Forget that I've stumbled and blundered
And sometimes fell by the way.
Remember I have fought some hard battles
And won, ere the close of the day.

Then forget to grieve for my going;
I would not have you sad for a day,
But in summer just gather some flowers
And remember the place where I lay.

And come in the shade of evening
When the sun paints the sky in the west;
Stand for a few moments beside me
And remember only my best.