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Monica Lynn Wilder
  • 49 years old
  • Date of birth: Oct 10, 1962
  • Date of passing: Feb 23, 2012
Let the memory of Monica be with us forever

Monica Lynn Wilder, 49, a resident of Butner, left us to be with Jesus, Thursday, February 23, 2012.

A native of Tionesta, Pennsylvania , the daughter of the late Garold L. “Gary” Williams.  She was a member of First Baptist Church in Butner and was employed with the State of North Carolina, Best Shared Services.

Funeral Services will be conducted at 7:00 PM, Saturday, February 25, 2012 at First Baptist Church in Butner by Rev. Jimmy Walker.

Surviving are her husband, Alan Wilder of the home, her mother, Karen M. Williams of Warren, PA., two daughters, Rachel Maynor of Roseboro, Samantha Brady, of the home, two brothers, Shane Byers of Bradford, PA, Dennis Williams (Katie) of Brookfield, Mass. and one granddaughter, Airianna Maynor.

Cut flowers or potted plants accepted or memorials may be made to Duke Hospice, 4321 Medical Park Drive, Suite 101, Durham, North Carolina 27704

Visitation will be held from 6:00 - 7:00 PM, Saturday, February 25, 2012, prior to the funeral services at First Baptist Church in Butner and other times at the home.

Memorial Tributes
This tribute was added by Ginny Kammer on 23rd February 2016

"Monica is always in my heart - I see things that remind me of her.  We would lunch at Subway frequently.  I miss her friendship.  I hope her children and family are well and thriving.  Ginny Kammer"

This tribute was added by karen williams on 23rd February 2016

"Monica, It has been 4 years since you left us to be with your Lord and I can't say that it has gotten any easier, ours hearts are still hurting from missing you. Love always Mom"

This tribute was added by karen williams on 25th February 2015

"Its been 3 years since I have looked upon your face I miss you so much, know that you are always in my thoughts and prayers. A mothers heartache is never really gone  Love and Miss You  Mom"

This tribute was added by Ginny Kammer on 10th October 2013

"The year has gone quickly -  I remember Monica frequently .  
I hope her children are doing well.  Ginny"

This tribute was added by Vonya Puckett on 10th October 2013

"I think of her often and miss her a lot.  I can hear her laugh even now...  Happy Birthday Monica!"

This tribute was added by Ginny Kammer on 25th February 2013

"I remember Monica Frequently ...  We ate lunch at Sub-way on Tuesday's...  Miss her   Ginny"

This tribute was added by Ka'Tina Downing on 25th February 2013

"You're gone, but never will be forgotten.  I miss you so much.
~Ka'Tina"

This tribute was added by Ginny Kammer on 10th October 2012

"On this anniversary of Monica's birth I celebrate her life.  My memories of her are strong.  I miss her and her family at work miss her. Ginny Kammer"

This tribute was added by Marie Jones on 2nd March 2012

"Allen and family so sorry for your loss.May God comfort you at this time.Praying for you.
Doug and Marie"

This tribute was added by Linda Vorek on 1st March 2012

"My name is Linnda Kmetz Vorek. I live in Pittsburgh,Pa. I was so sorry to her of the passing of Monica,I never got to meet her,but she was my cousin. Her father Garold was my uncle,his sister Marilyn was my mother.My thoughts and prays are with you and your family. God Bless all of you!"

This tribute was added by angela dunn on 29th February 2012

"May God continue to bless the family. Monica was so positive and inspiring in her time of illness which was a blessing to me. Family stay strong and encouraged. God Bless!!

~Angela~"

This tribute was added by Ann Wilkins on 27th February 2012

"I have and always admire Monica's determination and positive attitude.  I am so very sorry for your loss. Monica will always be an inspiration to us all!!"

This tribute was added by Norma and Jim Depto on 25th February 2012

""Karen and Family ,

Our deepest thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very sad
time . Please know you are in our  thoughts. All our love.
Norma and Jim Depto""

This tribute was added by Vicky ONeal on 25th February 2012

"Aunt Karen, Shane, Denny and families
Chris, Lisa, Shelly, Buck and I are saddened by your loss and you are all in our thoughts....we will keep all of you in our hearts and our prayers...Godspeed Monica...our newest angel in heaven"

This tribute was added by Teresa Browning on 25th February 2012

"Wilder Family,
Our hearts go out to you during this time,we pray you will always feel Monica's presence and love for you all.
God Bless
Frank and Teresa Browning"

This tribute was added by Carole Weber on 25th February 2012

"My heart is so very heavy and I wish I could be there with all of you.    I admire Monica so much for her courage and strength she had throughout her illness.  God will honor her for being so faithful to him.  May God's love and peace be your comfort now like he was for Monica.  Please know I am here for you and will always be.  My love and prayers are with you.   I love you Monica."

This tribute was added by Deb Genter on 25th February 2012

"I'm so sorry to read of Monica's passing, her father was a cousin of mine and I haven't seen her for many years , but my prayers go out to her family, to young, to soon."

This tribute was added by Ellen Holt on 24th February 2012

"Deepest Sympathy to Monica's family.  God's blessing to the family for strength during this time of loss of Monica.  Rest in Peace Monica.
Ellen."

This tribute was added by denise mudryk on 24th February 2012

"Karen and family, You have my deepest sympathy... life is truly not fair. My thoughts and prayers are with with you all. Take comfort in each other. Rest In Peace Monica.
Denise Hillard Mudryk"

This tribute was added by Dawn McQueen on 24th February 2012

"You all have my heartfelt sympathy.  Cherish all those wonderful memories as they cannot be taken from us.  I will truely miss Monica........especially her laugh. God Bless
Dawn"

This tribute was added by Vonya Puckett on 24th February 2012

"Allen and family,
My heart aches for your loss.  Just hold close your memories and each other at this time.  We will all miss her beautiful spirit and infectious laugh.  She was a true friend."

This tribute was added by Kristen Cox on 24th February 2012

"Monica will be missed. Her family is in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time."

This tribute was added by Denise Wright on 24th February 2012

"May the peace that comes from the memories of love shared, comfort you now and in the days ahead. I pray that God will give you strength and courage in your time of bereavement.
Denise"

This tribute was added by Janice and Charlie Rogers on 24th February 2012

"Praying for you and your family during this time of loss."

This tribute was added by jennifer carll on 24th February 2012

"Karen and family, You have our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Wes and Raffaela Catlin
Tim, Jennifer, Logan and Zachary Carll"

This tribute was added by Amy Tyndall on 24th February 2012

"To all the Family,

Please accept my condolences for your loss.  Monica was a great person and a wonderful co-worker.  She will be truly missed by all.  All of the family will be in my thoughts and prayers. - Amy"

This tribute was added by LaJunda Davis on 24th February 2012

"To Monica's Family

Please know that you all are in my thoughts and prayers. Monica was a very caring and loving person and a wonderful friend. She will truly be missed.

LaJunda"

This tribute was added by Ka'Tina Downing on 24th February 2012

"My heart is heavy from a loss of a mother, daughter, sister, wife, and a dear friend.  She was a very strong determined person, and never gave up on anything; she had a heart of gold.  Monica will truly be missed, and will forever be in my heart.  Your family will be in my thoughts, and prayers.
~Ka’Tina"

This tribute was added by sheila cole on 24th February 2012

"Allen and family (my dear friends, family and next door neighbor. I am truly saddened by your loss of your lovely wife Monica. I have prayers going out for you all in hopes of the Lord getting you all thru this aweful time in your life. If i can be of any assistance i am just nex door, and tou can call me anytime. God Bless and i will keep u in my thoughts.Love you all, Sheila Bullock cole"

This tribute was added by Shakeyia Hazell on 23rd February 2012

"To Monica's Family: Monica had a warm spirt and heart, but GOD has called his Angel home no more suffering. She will be missed by all. She was so excited about becoming a Wife and was so proud of her Daughters and even more excited about her grandbaby. Please continue to be successful and make your mom proud.
Shakeyia"

This tribute was added by Jan Prevo on 23rd February 2012

"Alan, Rachel, Samantha, and family,

Please know that you are all are in my thoughts and prayers. Monica was a beautiful person with a lot of love to give to everyone. We will all miss her."

This tribute was added by Jennifer Kistler on 23rd February 2012

"Alan, Rachel and Samantha, Karen.  Extended Family,

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, nor touched, but felt in the heart.
I will forever remember our friendship and will hold on to the sound of her contagious laughter.
Your family is in my prayers.  Jennifer"

This tribute was added by Ginny Kammer on 23rd February 2012

"To Alan and Karen, Rachel and Samantha,

My heart goes out to you at this time of loss.  I remember Monica as beign strong and confident,  I remember her good spirit and friendship.  I will miss her.  
Ginny"


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