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Born on January 2, 1931 in London, Camberwell, United Kingdom
Passed away on October 17, 2012 in Hastings, United Kingdom
This memorial website was created in memory of our loved one, PATRICK SECULAR, 81 years old, born on January 2, 1931, and passed away on October 17, 2012. We will remember him forever.
Another very difficult year very fed up being on my own ................... living on memories so sad most of the time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Cannot believe it’s been 10 years Dad … just know not a day goes by that I don’t miss you … Thank goodness we had some great times as they are my sanity .. I giggle when I think of your one liners .. of course bittersweet now as I long to hear more . ♥️ Love you so much Dad .. hope you know how much ♥️
Another year and a very hard one for everyone life is so strange without you even after 9 years Love xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
What a year do no think you would have liked this past year,been very hard on the whule world So sad today lots of problems everywhere love you forwcwe xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Don’t suppose you know you were my hero .... a wonderful family man, sometimes complicated but that mellowed as the years went by ...I love you so much and I now know I will never get over you ... Will forever have a heart that’s broken .... missing everything about you ....
Has been another difficult ye ar awful things happening in the familly wish you were with us to help cope with all the difficult times. Love you for ever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
This time of year is so hard , I just can’t look forward to Christmas without you... you were the glue that made us come together... now it’s too painful for us to celebrate anything together!!! We did all meet up for Mummy’s birthday, it was nice to all be together....and nice for mummy to have her 3 kids together..and jade and Billy.. as always they love there nanny to bits just as they do you... Dad I love you so much and will never ever get over you not being here anymore ..... I promise to do my best to help mummy as much as I can.... it’s not been a great year and I get very fearful of mummy being poorly again....
Dad you would have been 87 today.., wish you was still here fixing things and letting us ‘bend your ears’ when we needed advice! There’s always such a lot I want to say to you but I’d go on forever.. love you everyday , and miss you more than words can say.. come and visit me soon, I’d love to feel you nearby, big kisses to the best dad in the world ever!!!! My hero ❤️ Your baby girl Trish no 3 ❤️❤️ Love you love you .. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Another year can`t believe how quickly the time goes, still missing you as if it was yesterday.Wish you were here still. love for ever xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dad, it’s been 5 years!!! Cannot believe it’s been that long... still can’t believe I’m never gonna see you again. So much has happened in the time you’ve been gone... So many things that I wouldn’t even know where to begin . So many times I’ve wanted your advice, it’s so hard to get my head around the loss I feel...I don’t think you realised how much you were and still are Loved.... We’ve made a little corner in our garden a memorial to you... I know you’d love it! It helps me so much, I go there when the overwhelming sadness grabs me and won’t go... Anyway dad, remember I will love you forever, you truly are my hero, men aren’t made like you anymore, I’m lucky , I had the best dad and I have the best Mum, she really is my rock, god knows where I’d be without Mummy, perhaps I love her too much ...if that’s possible, because after losing you, it’s completely unthinkable to lose my mum or anyone close, Love you my hero.. you are in my heart and soul and always will be. ❤️
Message from Shirley....your eldest daughter). A special day is 2nd Jan for a very special person.My heart is heavy but my memories are strong they feel me with joy and hope to remember what a truly wonderful dad you are.Love you dad more than words can say . Shirley xx xx xx
Dad it was your birthday yesterday ..I sat talking to you in my room. I miss you so much..and still find Christmas/ birthdays so hard without you. We try our best to take care of mummy , .and like to think you'd be happy with us. Dad come and visit ...you will see your memory garden just for you .. it's a place for me to go so I feel you near! I carry on with my life some days with a heavy heart some days not so heavy... but always think of you..not a day goes by without me thinking of all the fun we used to have as a fAmily... life is so cruel... I feel we had more memory making to do ..but now I try to do as much as I can making memories with Mummy and the rest of our family! One thing is we are all grateful for having such a talented wonderful dad...they really don't make men like you anymore...Steve tries his best and does really well...I know you'd be proud of him and all he has done for mummy!!! He gives everything a go and succeeds at things he would never attempted before. I will try to write here more...I hope you know that I love you so much my heart hurts ...you were an amazing dad and I am proud of your achievements in life!! We will make sure your name lives on always. Love you , miss you , you are in my heart forever Trish , no 3 child
Another year another birthday,this year has been slightly better able to remeber happy says without too much crying.Danced to dancing All Around the World for you on New Years Eve,miss you xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Another year of missing you and of trying to cope without you if you are listening it would be good hear your comments of the events ! this year send me a message xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Dad..god can't believe it's been 2 years since u fell asleep.i know u didn't want to leave us..its left us all devastated. .The pain never goes away... You were without doubt the best dad ever.. I wish u would come to me in a dream..just so I cd see your handsome face and talk to you.
So many happy memories such a long difficult year,cant see for the tears that still keep flowing miss you so much xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Today is 1st december Dad, Miss you so much....Dreading Christmas ..such a big personality to be missing..Just thinking of the day fills me with dread...! Still taking it hour by hour...some better than others...So glad we was with you when you fell asleep..., Your cuddles, kisses, smell, humour and just you being you are badly missed by us all..Love you xxxxxxx
MY husband for 57 years, we met when I was 16,engaged the following year on17th March 1954 (St.Patricks Day).We married on the 18th June 1955, 3 weeks after my 18th Birthday.We had a pretty good marriage with the usual ups and downs.I will miss his energy and his funny sayings,mostly a sort of cockney London humour
This is my Dad......Not always Perfect....very Blunt....Very Funny......Adored his Family....Married to my Gorgeous Mum for 57 years.... Dear dad, I could write about you forever...how do i condense 49 years into a few letters? I Miss you so much..Thank you for EVERYTHING.....I will Love you Forever..Trish xxxxxx
Another very difficult year very fed up being on my own ................... living on memories so sad most of the time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Cannot believe it’s been 10 years Dad … just know not a day goes by that I don’t miss you … Thank goodness we had some great times as they are my sanity .. I giggle when I think of your one liners .. of course bittersweet now as I long to hear more . ♥️ Love you so much Dad .. hope you know how much ♥️