paul was born at royal tunbridge wells on may 28th 1956,an is the younger brother to jill an louise, an have an elder brother chris, was bought up in maidstone, then he moved to ashford an that,s when i meet him,he loved the outdoors an had a job as a builder,which he loved,he felt that he wasn,t getting to where he wanted to be, so he an a friend named peter stone got together an started there own bisiness,(stone & sons)which got of to a very good start.after around 5yrs they parted an paul went on his own for a while, then aaron started with his dad,that lasted 5yrs an then the business stared to go down, that lasted till he got cancer,infact he was doing what he loved best right up to when he had his operation to removed from his kidney,which was still working with this mass of cancer around it.after you came home that,s when i saw the smile from your face,an the worring came on your face, i could tell when you was thinking about it.our holiday in cornwall wasn,t the enjoyable as it use to be, i had to take that photo which i don,t like,but it,s the last ever photo i,ve got,an i always kiss it goodnight.it would be better if i could kiss you in person,but i,m not going to kiss you till i meet you at those pearley gates....

when i first met paul i was working at factory, an it was in the dinner hour that we first saw each other, he was playing table tennis,an i was walking passed him an he missed the ball lol. it was near xmas an i was a little drunk,so they put me upstairs, me an a few friends started talking about him an his mates, one of his mates came over an spoke to me an told me that when he first saw me he wanted to go out with me, i already knew he was 2yrs younger than me, but was a number.we arrange to meet at a pub called the swan pub, he says that i did,t turn up an ive been saying that he didn,t, after xmas when i got back to work,we had a laugh about it,an again made arrangments to meet up, an this time he did,an went to the pictures a watch a film. it happened to be a horror film, he didn,t know that i don,t like horror movies,we use to go to folkstone to a disco called stones, he didn,t like it cause i love dancing an he could,nt,so the boys use to come an dance with me. one sat down at stones we went to the beach an pauls friends went for a dip in the sea without any clothes on, one lost his watch an the other lost his pants. when i got told that paul loved me i was over the moon,i,d been waiting for a few weeks for him to say it, so when paul,s friends took us on a pub crawl,to cut a long story short, that pub crawl led me to being pregnant with kelly, so on april 19th we got married, in october 5th i held my baby girl after having 3 days of labour,i always knew i was having a girl,  two years later i held my baby son named aaron with him i had 8hrs of sheer agony an had a massive briuse on the top of my leg. now how the time flys both have grown up an with thier partners, it,s so nice to see them grown into adults, the only thing i would change is for you to see your grandchildren, an how they are growing, i never dreamed that you would be taken so early,an leaving me alone.the only thing left is for you to come an get me an help me through those pearly gates, an then we can hold hands again. i miss you so,so much,i,m tired of playing the happy person,when i,m not, i just want to be with you one more time,but it looks like i,m gonna have to wait......