March 30, 2023
March 30, 2023
My lovely father in which I am well pleased. Your birthday just past and we Your children will always remember you and wish you well. I love you very much daddy. My irreplaceable.
This memorial website was created in memory of our father, grand father, husband, brother, uncle, educator,anthropologist, PA PAUL MZEKA, 81, born on March 29, 1934 and passed away on June 14, 2015. He has left a legacy and memories that will always be in our hearts!
We love you Pa!
Program:
USA:
Wake Keeping On Saturday 20th at 0800PM in Green belt, MD
Venue: 6301 Ivy Lane ,Ste 100 Green belt MD 20770
Contact:
Esther Mzeka 240-5658904
Ruth Nyang Wirlen 972-876-6022
Funeral Program in Caneroon
Wednesday, June 24 to Thursday, June 25, 2015
· Prayers at family compound behind St Michael’s College (Former NACAST) Nkwen, Bamenda from 6-8p
Friday, June 26
· 6pm - Holy Mass at family compound followed by light refreshment.
Saturday, June 27
· 8h00: - Removal of mortal remains from the Bamenda Regional Hospital
Mortuary
· 9h00: - Laying in state at family compound behind St Michael’s College
(Former NACAST) Nkwen, Bamenda
· 11h00: - Funeral Mass at All Saints Catholic Church Bayelle, Nkwen
Bamenda
Mass also taking place at same time in Wicklow, Ireland by his beloved friend father Len.
· 13h00:- Burial at the All Saints Catholic Mission Cemetery Bayelle and
reception at the catholic Mission Hall.
Sunday, June 28-Thursday July 2
· Traditional funeral rites at the Baba Family Compound in Bamfem Kumbo-Nso to mark the end of the mourning period.
Contact:
Edward Mzeka: 237-670-017-976
Gladys Mzeka 237 661874574
Gilbert Mzeka+237662492801
Collins Fai: 237 6770 41761
Rose Nyang ; 237 677023766
Fai Wo Baba 237 6787 75992
William Suilabayu:
Tributes
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January 29, 2022
January 29, 2022
It has been a long time since you left us behind. I hope u have found peace in your resting place. I remember when u called my name in the hospital. When I saw you in such a condition I felt like God was punishing me but after years I learned what happened. I miss u veryyyyy much. I love u. Great Grandma Anastacia, Uncle Valentine, Aunty Erica, and Uncle Kevin. Love Mapri
March 29, 2020
March 29, 2020
Happy birthday daddy. I know you will enjoy your day with the angels in heaven. Today is also my birthday as you know. Please continue to watch over us. Love you
June 15, 2019
June 15, 2019
Gone but not forgotten. Continue to rest in peace Dad.
March 29, 2018
March 29, 2018
Happy birthday Daddy. Have a good one with the angels
June 14, 2017
June 14, 2017
Continue to Rest In Peace Dad
June 14, 2017
June 14, 2017
Two years gone by Daddy. I pray you continue to find peace with The Lord. Miss you so much.
March 29, 2017
March 29, 2017
Happy Birthday Dad. Continue to rest eternally with the Lord.
June 14, 2016
June 14, 2016
Daddy its been a whole year but it all seems like yesterday. I can still feel your presence,i can still hear you. I will forever miss you daddy. Rest in peace
June 14, 2016
June 14, 2016
Daddy its been a whole year but it all seems like yesterday. I can still feel your presence,i can still hear you. I will forever miss you daddy. Rest in peace
March 29, 2016
March 29, 2016
Happy birthday daddy. Missing you today. You know we shared same birthday but i know you are celebrating with the angels and mom, Erica ,Valentine and Kevin. Miss you. Shuka
June 27, 2015
June 27, 2015
Our dear father, friend and iconic mentor, may you find solace in the land of no return where you will be in the company of the angels and saints for ever and ever. We wish you a safe journey as you are going to meet our mother and our brothers Vally and Kevin who had gone forward to prepare a place for you. May you rest in peace until we meet again.
Tume Christopher and Family
Tume Christopher and Family
June 26, 2015
June 26, 2015
I gat to know Pa as a friend of my late Dad, and had the opportunity to eat some of the best honey thanks to him. Growing up and reading some of his works, I can proudly say I am happy to have met and known Pa. Your legacy through your work will continue to change the world for generations to come. Fare thee well Pa Mzeka. May Your Soul Rest In Paradise.
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
In His Kingdom, His Mighty Kingdom a lion sleeps with the Lord
Almost two weeks today Daddy since I last saw you
My heart cries every minute that I think of you
June 14 2015 you left this life and your family
to serve God. This day will never be forgotten just as you
will never be forgotten. You are in our heart,
our minds, our thoughts and our prayers, my mentor, my guardian my Daddy......
Your Baby
Kumla
Almost two weeks today Daddy since I last saw you
My heart cries every minute that I think of you
June 14 2015 you left this life and your family
to serve God. This day will never be forgotten just as you
will never be forgotten. You are in our heart,
our minds, our thoughts and our prayers, my mentor, my guardian my Daddy......
Your Baby
Kumla
June 25, 2015
June 25, 2015
Pa I did not know you physically but I HEARD and LEARNT about your works. Your works which has contributed emmersely to the preserving of theNso Culture in the particular and the environment in general. May your gentle soul rest in peace. Amen.
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
A hero to behold. Papa, may your soul rest in perfect peace. Your splendid work with reforestation will live for many generations to come. God bless the family. love Nagella
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
I enjoyed his gentle and soft way of speeking ,The first day i met him i could still recount the softwords he told me about being a successful person.His death came like a shock ,i could not come to terms but all i can say is Rest in peace in the lord Dad and may the lord give strength and courage to those you have left behind.
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Tears streamed down my face when I heard you were gone
As tears raced down my face, I cling on to the last picture I took with you
You always had a smile on your face and all I can think of is the last time I saw that smile, hoping I could see it one last time
My love will follow you wherever you go.
Oh how I loved you so
now and forever
Although I feel sorrow and hate,
I can't fight fate.
Because I know your in a happier and peaceful place
You told me to always work hard and I promise grand dad, I will make you proud
I never wanted you to die.
I cherish every moment we spent together.
It's time to wipe away the tears.
I want you to know,I will never let you go.
I know you loved me too and my heart will always be with you.
Now it's time to say goodbye my love
Adieu grandpa, until we meet again
Your granddaughter, Allyn Achah
As tears raced down my face, I cling on to the last picture I took with you
You always had a smile on your face and all I can think of is the last time I saw that smile, hoping I could see it one last time
My love will follow you wherever you go.
Oh how I loved you so
now and forever
Although I feel sorrow and hate,
I can't fight fate.
Because I know your in a happier and peaceful place
You told me to always work hard and I promise grand dad, I will make you proud
I never wanted you to die.
I cherish every moment we spent together.
It's time to wipe away the tears.
I want you to know,I will never let you go.
I know you loved me too and my heart will always be with you.
Now it's time to say goodbye my love
Adieu grandpa, until we meet again
Your granddaughter, Allyn Achah
June 19, 2015
June 19, 2015
Dear Pa Mzeka, thanks for the enormous contribution you have made to the basis of the Nso culture as an anthropologist. One of our publications:"The Core Culture of Nso" amongst others, forms the basis of my African Philosophical studies. R.I.P.
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
Dear Papa, it really was a big shock. We love you but God loves you more. You were a dad to us all from when we were kids running into the house causing chaos and making noise. Thanks for being a role model and always encouraging us. We will miss you. Rest in peace and keep watching over us until we meet again. Love you Ju
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
TRIBUTE TO GRANDPA
The sudden death of grandpa has brought me the understanding of what Paul says in Philippians 1:21 that “for me to live is Christ and to die is gain.
O grandpa, I miss you so much. The Emptiness of the space you have left in my live is so deep it will be difficult to fill you left without saying goodbye for this reason I peer longingly into light and darkness hoping for a last glimpse so that even as you rest in peace, I may also find peace.But also I do not see you, so we console ourselves that because you lie in the bossom for the Lord, I shall see you again. Granddad you were a wonderful living experience to me your grandchild, you were a grandfather, a mentor, a councilor and a pillar of support.
Grand daughter
Yisah Mzeka
The sudden death of grandpa has brought me the understanding of what Paul says in Philippians 1:21 that “for me to live is Christ and to die is gain.
O grandpa, I miss you so much. The Emptiness of the space you have left in my live is so deep it will be difficult to fill you left without saying goodbye for this reason I peer longingly into light and darkness hoping for a last glimpse so that even as you rest in peace, I may also find peace.But also I do not see you, so we console ourselves that because you lie in the bossom for the Lord, I shall see you again. Granddad you were a wonderful living experience to me your grandchild, you were a grandfather, a mentor, a councilor and a pillar of support.
Grand daughter
Yisah Mzeka
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
A Tribute To Grandpa
Grandpa
Ever since the day I was born.
You have nurtured me with love and kindness.
You have been someone I can believe in,
And someone I can depend upon.
In this world I am just staring to understand.
And it's important to me that you know
How grateful that I am,
For all that you give to me,
For all that you teach me,
And for the strength I will always have,
Because of you, grandpa.
Grand Daughter
Matang Joedine Mzeka
Grandpa
Ever since the day I was born.
You have nurtured me with love and kindness.
You have been someone I can believe in,
And someone I can depend upon.
In this world I am just staring to understand.
And it's important to me that you know
How grateful that I am,
For all that you give to me,
For all that you teach me,
And for the strength I will always have,
Because of you, grandpa.
Grand Daughter
Matang Joedine Mzeka
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
A Tribute to my late husband
loves longing takes me across the river
over the mountains and along the shore
you are here because i will it so
and because love knows no boundary
your body is gone but your love
lives here within my heart
my days grow shorter and my nights
seem darker now
i am sad at times because you are gone
happier still to have had you in my life for so long
your love is here and my breath is your breath
and will remain so until i can no longer inhale
goodbye my love
until we meet again...
Wife
Mzeka Esther Siri
loves longing takes me across the river
over the mountains and along the shore
you are here because i will it so
and because love knows no boundary
your body is gone but your love
lives here within my heart
my days grow shorter and my nights
seem darker now
i am sad at times because you are gone
happier still to have had you in my life for so long
your love is here and my breath is your breath
and will remain so until i can no longer inhale
goodbye my love
until we meet again...
Wife
Mzeka Esther Siri
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
TRIBUTE TO DAD
Mr. Mzeka N. Paul was a God fearing honourable man. Daddy was a loving husband, father and grandfather. Daddy was a trusted and confident friend. His transition has brought pain that cannot be described, but we know that he has gone to be with the Lord. And may his soul rest in peace forever!
Your Daughter
Kinyuy Eveline
Mr. Mzeka N. Paul was a God fearing honourable man. Daddy was a loving husband, father and grandfather. Daddy was a trusted and confident friend. His transition has brought pain that cannot be described, but we know that he has gone to be with the Lord. And may his soul rest in peace forever!
Your Daughter
Kinyuy Eveline
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
MY BELOVED DADDY
You are one very good person in my life. You gave me joy and taught me that the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. You instigated in me the words of Proverbs 14:2 "to be honest and show that I have reverence for the Lord". Now you are gone! I loved you then Daddy, I love you now and I will always love you. Nobody can ever take your place in my heart and memories of you will always linger in my heart. I miss you Daddy and I will always miss you. Words alone are not enough to express my heart. We may make our plans, but God has the last word…Proverbs 16:1. May your Soul through the mercy of God rest in perfect peace. Amen
Your Daughter
Gillian Mzeka
You are one very good person in my life. You gave me joy and taught me that the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom. You instigated in me the words of Proverbs 14:2 "to be honest and show that I have reverence for the Lord". Now you are gone! I loved you then Daddy, I love you now and I will always love you. Nobody can ever take your place in my heart and memories of you will always linger in my heart. I miss you Daddy and I will always miss you. Words alone are not enough to express my heart. We may make our plans, but God has the last word…Proverbs 16:1. May your Soul through the mercy of God rest in perfect peace. Amen
Your Daughter
Gillian Mzeka
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
TRIBUTE TO GRAND PA
Many people’s time with their grandparents are limited. But I thank God that he blessed me with 5 years of knowing and loving my Grandpa. I am grateful that in that time I have been able to piece a story of him and will be able to tell others in great detail about my grandpa.
I could never forget the 5 years my Granddad stayed with us. Even now I can picture my Granddads amusing smile and hear him calling “mine”. I remember the way his mind would compete with the computer and consistently win. 5 years in my life may not be a big chunk but to have spent it with a great man like my Grandfather makes it so.
Grand Son
Bongram Dencel
Many people’s time with their grandparents are limited. But I thank God that he blessed me with 5 years of knowing and loving my Grandpa. I am grateful that in that time I have been able to piece a story of him and will be able to tell others in great detail about my grandpa.
I could never forget the 5 years my Granddad stayed with us. Even now I can picture my Granddads amusing smile and hear him calling “mine”. I remember the way his mind would compete with the computer and consistently win. 5 years in my life may not be a big chunk but to have spent it with a great man like my Grandfather makes it so.
Grand Son
Bongram Dencel
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
My dearest Grandfather,
I am so grateful that God almighty gave me such a wonderful grandfather. I am blessed to have such wonderful memories of you, and I want to thank God for bring you into my life. For you are the only grandparent I had left, It is very difficult to see you leave us. Thank you so much for all you have done for me and my family, and I promise to make you proud. I will miss you dearly.
Love you Grandpa.
Rosette
I am so grateful that God almighty gave me such a wonderful grandfather. I am blessed to have such wonderful memories of you, and I want to thank God for bring you into my life. For you are the only grandparent I had left, It is very difficult to see you leave us. Thank you so much for all you have done for me and my family, and I promise to make you proud. I will miss you dearly.
Love you Grandpa.
Rosette
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
TRIBUTE TO MY BELOVED FATHER
Death where is your sting? You who take a man, you are that which men fear, but you are inevitable. When the cold hands of death snatched you (Papa) from my hands in the morning of June 14th 2015 at the hospital, it was like the fall of an Iroko tree. First there was confusion, then denial, reflection and finally acceptance.
I accepted when I remembered what a psalmist said “what man is he that liveth and shall not see death?” (Psalm 89v48)
It is easy to think of others having to keep this appointment with death, but difficult for us to remember that we too must keep same appointment. Death is appointed for all and the question of its occurrence is merely a matter of time. Adieu, papa adieu. I love you but God loves you more. You worked hard and your achievements are profound. Your departure is a great loss. May the almighty God grant you eternal rest. Amen.
Your Son
Gilbert Mzeka
Death where is your sting? You who take a man, you are that which men fear, but you are inevitable. When the cold hands of death snatched you (Papa) from my hands in the morning of June 14th 2015 at the hospital, it was like the fall of an Iroko tree. First there was confusion, then denial, reflection and finally acceptance.
I accepted when I remembered what a psalmist said “what man is he that liveth and shall not see death?” (Psalm 89v48)
It is easy to think of others having to keep this appointment with death, but difficult for us to remember that we too must keep same appointment. Death is appointed for all and the question of its occurrence is merely a matter of time. Adieu, papa adieu. I love you but God loves you more. You worked hard and your achievements are profound. Your departure is a great loss. May the almighty God grant you eternal rest. Amen.
Your Son
Gilbert Mzeka
June 18, 2015
June 18, 2015
"Daddy,
The teacher, the environmentalist and most of all an African Hero. Firm yet kind hearted. You were a source of my inspiration. Though our lives were plagued with so many trials and tribulations you tried to make the best of every situation. The memories you let behind are enormous and we will forever miss you.
Adieu Daddy
Your daughter
Shuka"
The teacher, the environmentalist and most of all an African Hero. Firm yet kind hearted. You were a source of my inspiration. Though our lives were plagued with so many trials and tribulations you tried to make the best of every situation. The memories you let behind are enormous and we will forever miss you.
Adieu Daddy
Your daughter
Shuka"
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
You were the best dad any child could ever ask for. No matter what was going on you stood tall. You taught us how to stay strong and fight for what we want.You have left a vacuum in our hearts that can never be filed. Your legacy is unmatched and I was proud to be called your daughter.
You were my dad, my teacher and my hero. As you rest with the lord know that you are a treasure that will never be devalued.
Love you dad.!Rest in peace!
Your daughter
Adeline
You were my dad, my teacher and my hero. As you rest with the lord know that you are a treasure that will never be devalued.
Love you dad.!Rest in peace!
Your daughter
Adeline
June 17, 2015
June 17, 2015
Pa you were more than just an uncle.. you were a dad to me... always cheering me on and telling me to reach for my dreams! To say you will be missed is an understatement. You gave your all and your best... never holding back. You were always there for the entire family... a rock and a pillar. We mourn but we know all is not lost.. We will see you again.
Rest in peace Pa.. We will never say goodbye.. we hold unto the memories and cherish what you have imparted in us.
Love you Pa.
Ruth
Rest in peace Pa.. We will never say goodbye.. we hold unto the memories and cherish what you have imparted in us.
Love you Pa.
Ruth
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March 30, 2023
March 30, 2023
My lovely father in which I am well pleased. Your birthday just past and we Your children will always remember you and wish you well. I love you very much daddy. My irreplaceable.
January 29, 2022
January 29, 2022
It has been a long time since you left us behind. I hope u have found peace in your resting place. I remember when u called my name in the hospital. When I saw you in such a condition I felt like God was punishing me but after years I learned what happened. I miss u veryyyyy much. I love u. Great Grandma Anastacia, Uncle Valentine, Aunty Erica, and Uncle Kevin. Love Mapri
March 29, 2020
March 29, 2020
Happy birthday daddy. I know you will enjoy your day with the angels in heaven. Today is also my birthday as you know. Please continue to watch over us. Love you
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June 25, 2015
by Divine Verbe
Your friend, Father Len of Wicklow, Ireland is devastated when I gave him the news just before Sunday mass on June 14th. He made several attempts to contact you on your phone on Friday June 12th just to say hi and to give you news of his own illness. Little did he know, this will happen.
He is handicapped by illness but will summon all his strength to say mass for you on Saturday 27th at exactly the same time you'll be laid to rest.
My family shall be in attendance to say good bye, till we meet again. We called you Baa Kiven but later changed to Baa Nsobe for obvious reasons.
My regards to Kevin, Sister Erica and Victor. Of course, Mami Erica.
ill miss you
June 19, 2015
by allyn achah
Tears streamed down my face when I heard you were gone
As tears raced down my face, I cling on to the last picture I took with you
As tears raced down my face, I cling on to the last picture I took with you
You always had a smile on your face and all I can think of is the last time I saw that smile, hoping I could see it one last time
My love will follow you wherever you go.
Oh how I loved you so
now and forever
Although I feel sorrow and hate,
I can't fight fate.
Although I feel sorrow and hate,
I can't fight fate.
Because I know your in a happier and peaceful place
You told me to always work hard and I promise grand dad, I will make you proud
You told me to always work hard and I promise grand dad, I will make you proud
I never wanted you to die.
I cherish every moment we spent together.
It's time to wipe away the tears.
I cherish every moment we spent together.
It's time to wipe away the tears.
I want you to know,I will never let you go.
I know you loved me too and my heart will always be with you.
Now it's time to say goodbye my love
Adieu grandpa, until we meet again
I know you loved me too and my heart will always be with you.
Now it's time to say goodbye my love
Adieu grandpa, until we meet again
Your granddaughter, Allyn Achah