I saw a sign "steamers and beer" today and thought of Philip.  We enjoyed many clambakes with Philip.  We all chipped in, my Dad would dig the clams, Kelly and Micheal with special creative recipes.  Philip gave me his secret Sangria recipe.  We would all relax a little when we knew Philip was in charge.   

Miss you bro-in-law.  

Philip, 

Was Blessed to have your friendship!
God Bless!!!

Jaime 

Michael, an ever gracious host, created a warm and inviting girls night dinner for a group of us.  A sparkling table was prepared, beautifully candle lit, decorated with flowers that highlighted Michael's talent and expertise for floral design.  As we were enjoying champagne and a bountiful selection of cheeses, meats, olives and other wonderful appetizers and caught up, Philip arrived with the most beautiful thick steaks from Masa as the main course.  I was very touched by his generousity and support for his lovely wife's evening, and it was so sweet how he made such an effort for all of us to enjoy ourselves with this special treat fresh from his kitchen. We all had a wonderful time listening to music and enjoying the delicious food.

Palmer, your Daddy was a gracious gentleman, and knew how to make friends feel warm and appreciated.  Michael, your husband's adoration for you was as bright as the most starry night.  I will remember this evening with gratitude for the opportunity to experience Philip's cuisine, friendship and generosity.

When I heard the Pats were playing the Bills yesterday, I thought of Philip.   Years ago Philip asked my husband Doug to the home Pats/Bills game.  He wanted his brother-in-law to be the token 'Bills' fan.  I think he even asked him to wear a Bills shirt.   They had a blast at the game, tailgating and cigars...   When I asked Phil what can Doug bring to the game, he asked if I could make Mac and Cheese. That made my day (an accomplished Chef asking for one of my dishes).  












            

I remember cooking my first meal for Philip and my sister Michael.   I had a little anxiety cooking for a well accomplished Chef.  After Philip finished his first plate, he went for seconds.  That made the whole event a success in my eyes.   Over the years I saw Philip do the same at other homes and at other meals.  He was the type that would not automatically take over, but as soon as you asked him for a little help, he rolled up his sleeves and jumped right in.   This is what Philip did with everything and he did it with love and graciousness.
   

This picture was taken at Oak Bluffs Aug 22, 2013.  It was after one of the best cycling days Phil ever had.  We put our bikes on a friend's boat in N. Falmouth and went over to Martha's Vineyard to ride.  We did over 50 miles on the island that day and Phil was really proud and happy as he worked really hard to ride at a very high level.  He was able to stick with the group all day and really earned the respect of everyone.  Phil worked really hard at his cycling and went from "wow, I'm not gonna be able to hang with you guys" to "this is awesome, I can't believe I did that!" in a very short time.

This photo shows Phil getting back onto the launch in Oak Bluffs at the end of our day heading back to the boat moored in the harbor for our ride back home to North Falmouth.  To me this picture shows how proud and happy Phil was that day of what he achieved.

fenway, 2014

thanksgiving at charlesgate 2014

christmas at the copley plaze